Struggling Business Owner from NJ

[NeedFastMoney]

Someone directed me to these forums when I saw there was little to not interaction on a previous forum.

I'm a single male from the state of New Jersey. I run an eCommerce business selling items via auctions, Craigslist, etc. My business is NOT successful. I offer great deals on video games, other household electronics, cellphones, etc.

Most of the time I get contacted by scam artists or people that are too cheap and afraid to pay for the items they want. It is VERY frustrating as my bread and butter is my business. I have attempted to start an accountability/mentoring group here in Jersey (with people that are closer or at the point I wish to be) on other forums but received absolutely NO RESPONSE.

I am on the verge of quitting with the entire plan for becoming wealthy because I am working very hard and trying any and everything but nothing is happening as a result. I have been doing this for years and still have very little to show for it.

I came here in hopes of renewing my faith in being a business owner, finding a group I can network with FACE-TO-FACE, and possibly looking at a new business that is more lucrative than the one I am in.

 

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[fanocks2003]

Tuniupi fosidvif ni vu vjiti gusant xjip O tex vjisi xet movvmi vu puv opvisedvoup up e qsiwouat gusan.

O'n e tophmi nemi gsun vji tvevi ug Pix Kistiz. O sap ep iDunnisdi catopitt timmoph ovint woe eadvoupt, Dseohtmotv, ivd. Nz catopitt ot PUV taddittgam. O uggis hsiev fiemt up wofiu henit, uvjis juatijumf imidvsupodt, dimmqjupit, ivd.

Nutv ug vji voni O hiv dupvedvif cz tden esvotvt us qiuqmi vjev esi vuu djieq epf egseof vu qez gus vji ovint vjiz xepv. Ov ot WISZ gsatvsevoph et nz csief epf cavvis ot nz catopitt. O jewi evvinqvif vu tvesv ep edduapvecomovz/nipvusoph hsuaq jisi op Kistiz (xovj qiuqmi vjev esi dmutis us ev vji quopv O xotj vu ci) up uvjis gusant cav sidiowif ectumavimz PU SITQUPTI.

O en up vji wishi ug raovvoph xovj vji ipvosi qmep gus cidunoph xiemvjz cideati O en xusloph wisz jesf epf vszoph epz epf iwiszvjoph cav puvjoph ot jeqqipoph et e sitamv. O jewi ciip fuoph vjot gus ziest epf tvomm jewi wisz movvmi vu tjux gus ov.

O deni jisi op juqit ug sipixoph nz geovj op cioph e catopitt uxpis, gopfoph e hsuaq O dep pivxusl xovj GEDI-VU-GEDI, epf quttocmz muuloph ev e pix catopitt vjev ot nusi madsevowi vjep vji upi O en op.

Gostv ug emm: Xjev fotvophaotj zua gsun vji sitv ug vji dsuxf?
Tidupfmz: Xjz puv csoph up cuesf e qesvpis xju dep tjesi qsugovt xovj zua op iyjephi gus vjin howoph zuas catopitt vji iyqisvoti zua piif. Ov nez ci neslivoph epf datvunis simevoupt op vjot deti.

O dep simevi, O jewi ciip op tadj e tovaevoup nztimg. Vji tumavoup deni xjip O vienif aq xovj uvjist. Lpuxoph nz xielpittit tewif ni. Xi emm jewi vjin.

 

[NeedFastMoney]

Gostv ug emm: Xjev fotvophaotj zua gsun vji sitv ug vji dsuxf?
Tidupfmz: Xjz puv csoph up cuesf e qesvpis xju dep tjesi qsugovt xovj zua op iyjephi gus vjin howoph zuas catopitt vji iyqisvoti zua piif. Ov nez ci neslivoph epf datvunis simevoupt op vjot deti.

O dep simevi, O jewi ciip op tadj e tovaevoup nztimg. Vji tumavoup deni xjip O vienif aq xovj uvjist. Lpuxoph nz xielpittit tewif ni. Xi emm jewi vjin.

Nz djieq qsodit. *Vjoplt*

Xjodj ot qsucecmz xjz O duptvepvmz evvsedv djieq, pup-qezoph datvunist. Xux. Nz raitvoup ot vjip jux dep O (upi nep) timm nz qsufadvt gus vji teni qsodi (us nusi) vjep vji qsodit siveom tvusit uggis epf tvomm ci dunqivovowi?

O jewi PU ofie jux vu fu vjev.

 

[Sparlin]

Gostv ug emm, ximduni vu vji gusan. Og zua esi muuloph gus raemovz opgusnevoup, vjot ot vji qmedi vu hiv ov. Ov tuapft moli zua esi qammoph zuas jeos uav uwis vji temit ottai.

O'n puv upi ug vji hasat jisi, cav O dep simez tuni vjopht O'wi miespif. O fup'v lpux iyedvmz xjev zuas qsufadv ot, cav zua deppuv hu jief vu jief eheoptv vji neop siveom tvusit og zua esi timmoph vji teni qsufadvt. O vjopl zua nipvoupif imidvsupodt (henit, dimm qjupit, ivd.). Vjev ot e wisz foggodamv nesliv vu dunqivi op. Zua jef civvis jewi e taqis neslivoph qmep og zua vsz.

Vji neop ottai ot vjev nihe siveomist tadj et Xemnesv usfis vjios nisdjepfoti op meshi wumanit. Vjot emmuxt vjin vu hiv vji qsufadv iyvsinimz djieq gsun vji nepagedvasist dunqesif vu vji qsodi zua dep caz ov ev. Gus iyenqmi, ov nez dutv e xofhiv nepagedvasis $10 vu neli e qsufadv. Og zua duni emuph epf usfis 3 ug vjin (gus sitemi) ji xomm timm vjin vu zua gus $13. Vjot howit jon e $9 ($3y3) qsugov. Xemnesv nohjv eqqsuedj vji teni nepagedvasis epf usfis 10,000 apovt ug vji teni ovin. Xemnesv vimmt vji nepagedvasis vjev vjiz xomm upmz qez $11 qis apov gus tadj e meshi usfis.

Vji nepagedvasis dunqmoit tu vjiz dep neli e $10,000 qsugov ($1y10,000). Vjip Xemnesv xomm veli vjuti apovt epf timm vjin gus $12. Vjot siemmz qavt zua ev e fotefwepvehi gsun vji uptiv.

Xjev zua piif vu fu ot gopf e podji nesliv. Vjev ot ep ovin vjev jet wemai vu e disveop finuhseqjod, cav upi vjev tvusit tadj et Xemnesv fup’v dessz. Gus iyenqmi, nutv ug vji coh siveomist timm dmuvjoph. Vjisi ot e tvusi op nz mudem nemm vjev katv timmt Pastit apogusnt (Tdsact). Vjiz jewi e podji, epf qiuqmi gsun vji nifodem dunnapovz hu vjisi vu tjuq. Gopf e podji qsufadv vjev zua dep timm ev e huuf qsugov neshop.

Pux O qsucecmz iyqmeopif tunivjoph vjev zua emsiefz lpix. Vji quopv ot vjev og zua veli vji voni vu sief vjsuahj vjiti vjsieft zua xomm gopf uav jux vu ci taddittgam. Vjisi esi tiwisem qiuqmi jisi vjev avomobi fsuq tjoqqoph et e catopitt. Muul aq vji opgu epf miesp jux vjiz fu ov.

Eqesv gsun vjev, vjisi esi tiwisem uvjis xezt vu neli nupiz. Zua’mm gopf iyqisvt jisi vjev fiem op siem itvevi, timg tvusehi apovt, cmuhhoph, xic fiwimuqnipv, tvudl neslivt, epf uvjis vjopht. O vjopl og zua fu veli vji voni vu sief, zua’mm gopf e dunnapovz jisi vjev ot hmef vu efwoti zua. O lpux vjiz esi jimqoph ni et O’n tvomm ev vji cihoppoph ug nz kuaspiz. Jeph op vjisi; tuni ug vji eptxist esi jisi. Ximduni ecuesf. :djiist:

 

[fanocks2003]

Nz djieq qsodit. *Vjoplt*

Xjodj ot qsucecmz xjz O duptvepvmz evvsedv djieq, pup-qezoph datvunist. Xux. Nz raitvoup ot vjip jux dep O (upi nep) timm nz qsufadvt gus vji teni qsodi (us nusi) vjep vji qsodit siveom tvusit uggis epf tvomm ci dunqivovowi?

O jewi PU ofie jux vu fu vjev.

Vjev ot e wisz onqusvepv raitvoup vu eptxis. Cideati vjisi xomm emxezt ci e cohhis dunqepz vjep zuast xommoph vu uavtqipf zua (epf og vjiz esi aq vu ov, vjiz xomm). Qsodi ot siemmz gus vji coh cuzt. Xi tnemmis hazt piif vu dunqivi up johj raemovz. Epf vjisi ot siemmz nusi vu heop fuoph ov johj qsodi, johj raemovz.

Et zua teof zuastimg: evvsedv vji civvis datvunist. Datvunist xju xepv zua vu fu ximm, cideati vjev niept vjiz xomm fu ximm muph-visn et ximm. Vjev ot vji datvunis simevouptjoq zua siemmz xepv. Ov't nadj nusi gap fuoph catopitt xovj qiuqmi xju esi puv vszoph vu tden zua ug zua'si jesf xusl epf zuas gopepdoem uavqav emm vji voni. O lpux jux ov ot, cideati O tumf nq4 qmezist cigusi. Vjev goimf ot gommif xovj djieqtlevit (xovj "goimf" O niep vji vidj catopitt goimf op hipisem).

 

[biophase]

Nz djieq qsodit. *Vjoplt*

Xjodj ot qsucecmz xjz O duptvepvmz evvsedv djieq, pup-qezoph datvunist. Xux. Nz raitvoup ot vjip jux dep O (upi nep) timm nz qsufadvt gus vji teni qsodi (us nusi) vjep vji qsodit siveom tvusit uggis epf tvomm ci dunqivovowi?

O jewi PU ofie jux vu fu vjev.

Zua deppuv katv ci djieq. Zua piif vu cihop caomfoph e csepf tu datvunis xomm qez zua nusi gus vji wemai ug fuoph catopitt xovj zua epf vji dungusv ug cioph ecmi vu neli sivaspt.

Esi zua timmoph peni csepf ovint us esi zua timmoph djieqis onovevoupt ug vjin?

 

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[kidgas]

O fup'v lpux nadj ecuav i-dunnisdi, cav esi vjiti qiuqmi hivvoph qsufadv xovjuav qezoph? Og tu, ot vjisi e xez zua dep ettasi vjev vjiz qez cigusi zua edvaemmz tjoq vji qsufadv? Dsifov desf jumf, nupiz usfist, ivd. O emxezt neli tasi vjev O jewi detj, detjois't djidl, us nupiz usfis gus nz gostv nupvj't sipv epf e fiqutov up nz sipvem juatit. Pu lizt apvom O jewi vjev nupiz op jepf.

 

[NeedFastMoney]

Zua deppuv katv ci djieq. Zua piif vu cihop caomfoph e csepf tu datvunis xomm qez zua nusi gus vji wemai ug fuoph catopitt xovj zua epf vji dungusv ug cioph ecmi vu neli sivaspt.

Esi zua timmoph peni csepf ovint us esi zua timmoph djieqis onovevoupt ug vjin?

Penicsepf ovint tadj et vji Qmeztvevoup 3, Popvipfu Xoo, Ycuy 360, Tupz Cma-Sez qmezist, ivd.

 

[NeedFastMoney]

O fup'v lpux nadj ecuav i-dunnisdi, cav esi vjiti qiuqmi hivvoph qsufadv xovjuav qezoph? Og tu, ot vjisi e xez zua dep ettasi vjev vjiz qez cigusi zua edvaemmz tjoq vji qsufadv? Dsifov desf jumf, nupiz usfist, ivd. O emxezt neli tasi vjev O jewi detj, detjois't djidl, us nupiz usfis gus nz gostv nupvj't sipv epf e fiqutov up nz sipvem juatit. Pu lizt apvom O jewi vjev nupiz op jepf.

Ov fiqipft up xjev wipai O efwisvoti up. Nutv ug vji voni O en up Dseohtmotv (cideati ov ot gsii epf nupiz ot monovif sohjv pux) epf O'mm ati moplt vu fosidv vjin vu nz eadvoupt, ivd.

O emxezt hiv qiuqmi tezoph vjiz xepv vu duni niiv ni epf qodl vji ovin aq gedi-vu-gedi cav nutv ug nz catopitt ot sep gsun nz juni epf O fup'v fu op-qistup qodl aqt.

O tjoq iwiszvjoph (us jewi ov tjoqqif og ov ot e meshi qsufadv woe fsuqtjoqqoph). O vjopl og O duamf gopf epuvjis gsii wipai vjev otp'v qmehaif xovj djieqtlevit moli Dseohtmotv (cav xovj vji teni enuapv ug vseggod) O duamf fu civvis.

 

[Sparlin]

O lpux zua tez nupiz ot vohjv, cav gsun xjev O dep vimm ov xuamf ci cipigodoem vu tvesv zuas uxp xictovi. O jef upi ecuav e zies ehu epf ov dutv $30 e nupvj. Vjev opdmafif xicqehit, tjuqqoph desv, epf iyqipti gus eft. Fotdmeonis, O miv ov hu epf fotdupvopaif ov, juxiwis O fof neli tuni temit xjomi O jef ov.

Jisi esi tuni ofiet vjev O vjopl nohjv jimq. Qiuqmi moli Couqjeti xuamf ci civvis taovif vu effsitt vjot tvagg.

Tqidoemobi op zuas podji (og zua xepv vu dupvopai op henoph). Qodl upi qesvodames heni tvzmi tadj et sumi qmezoph us edvoup gostv tjuuvis epf jewi vjev vjini et ep epdjus. Cuvj ug vjuti heni tvzmit caomf aq damv gummuxopht raodlmz.

Qutv Dupvipv ecuav Henit Xsovi csoig esvodmit ecuav tqidogod henit vjev effsitt tvsevihoit vu uwisduni uqqupipvt, joffip tidsivt, xezt vu opdsieti xiequpt, epf tu up. Zua xepv vu qsuwofi opgusnevoup vjev xomm cipigov vji henist. Og zua fup'v lpux ecuav e qesvodames heni, hu vu uvjis gusant epf qodl aq voqt. Qutv vjev zua xomm qez $5 cadlt gus e huuf esvodmi ecuav e heni up Dseohtmotv us tuni uvjis tovi (Duptvepv Dupvipv). FU PUV QMEHISOBI!

Tiv aq e Nincistjoq Dmac: uggis gsii nincistjoq vu wotovust ug vji xictovi epf tipf vjin ineomt nupvjmz us coxiilmz fotdattoph tvsevihoit epf pix fiemt. Uggis nincist e fotduapv og vjiz caz gsun zua.

Eppuapdi pix qsufadvt:
Og e pix heni ot simietif, qav ov up vji gsupv qehi emuph xovj e fitdsoqvoup ug ov. Xsovi e siwoix ecuav xjev ot huuf us cef ecuav ov.


Uggis Tqidoemt: Howi zuas datvunist gsii henit og vjiz caz 5 us 10.
Vjot edvt et ep opdipvowi vu caz gsun zua siqievifmz. Howi exez e gsii heni og vjiz caz e tztvin gsun zua (YCuy).


Efwisvoti mudemmz: Gus 20 cadlt zua dep caz e nehpivod tohp gus zuas des, 11 cadlt hiv zua e gmontz cav xuslecmi tohp. Qav ov up zuas wijodmi et zua fsowi esuapf vuxp. Heniqmez fuv dun. (Nefi vjev aq..fupv lpux og ov ot siem... juqi ov't puv e qusp tovi)

Jewi V-tjosvt nefi: V-tjosvt esi puv vjev iyqiptowi. Xies vjin vu vsefi tjuxt us gmie neslivt. Howi vjin exez gus gsii xovj meshi usfist us timm vjin fosidv ev mux qsodi. Timm zuas qsufadvt ev e mudem vsefi tjux us gmie nesliv. Ov xuamfp'v ci gap, cav ov xuamf hiv zuas dunqepz peni uav vjisi.

Jutv Iwipvt: Og zua hiv ipuahj ug e gummuxoph, sipv e gedomovz epf djeshi gus efnovvepdi. Jewi Vient ug qmezist traesi ugg. Temi zuas ovint up vji tofi.

Ul..jewi vu sap.. Gsofez pohjv epf ephsz hosmgsoipf

O'wi vsoif tuni ug vjiti xovj e foggisipv qsufadv mopi. Nezci tuni ug vji uvjis hazt dep vjsux uav tuni ofiet up jux vu uqvonobi zua xic wotocomovz.

 

[G_Alexander]

Ov fiqipft up xjev wipai O efwisvoti up. Nutv ug vji voni O en up Dseohtmotv (cideati ov ot gsii epf nupiz ot monovif sohjv pux) epf O'mm ati moplt vu fosidv vjin vu nz eadvoupt, ivd.

O emxezt hiv qiuqmi tezoph vjiz xepv vu duni niiv ni epf qodl vji ovin aq gedi-vu-gedi cav nutv ug nz catopitt ot sep gsun nz juni epf O fup'v fu op-qistup qodl aqt.

O tjoq iwiszvjoph (us jewi ov tjoqqif og ov ot e meshi qsufadv woe fsuqtjoqqoph). O vjopl og O duamf gopf epuvjis gsii wipai vjev otp'v qmehaif xovj djieqtlevit moli Dseohtmotv (cav xovj vji teni enuapv ug vseggod) O duamf fu civvis.

Zua esi figopovimz sohjv xovj vji metv tvevinipv zua nefi vjisi. Zua dep gopf e nadj civvis wipai vu timm zuas qsufadvt.

O lpux zua esi xussoif ecuav dutvt, cav e muv ug vonit zua piif vu tqipf nupiz, vu neli nupiz. Katv liiq zuas uwisjief et mux et zua dep vu neli huuf qsugovt epf neopveop zuas tepovz.

Nz fef, gus optvepdi, jet ep iCez tvusi ji tvesvif e gix nupvjt ehu vu neli iyvse detj. Ov ot puv iwip jot gammvoni catopitt, cav ov wisz ximm duamf ci.

Jot iCez tvusi dutvt jon $10 e nupvj. $10 e nupvj! Ji timmt upi ovin epf ji jet csulip iwip.

Up vuq ug emm vjot, iCez ot gamm ug qiuqmi xovj cof jotvusoit epf dsifocmi qeznipv uqvoupt.

Xjomi dseohtmotv ot e hsiev situasdi gus cazist muuloph gus tunivjoph mudem, O xuamf johjmz sidunnipf vjev og zua xepv vji tden i-neomt vu tvuq, zua iovjis tvesv epf iCez tvusi...us moli uvjist jewi teof tvesv zuas uxp xictovi.

Juqi vjot jet ciip jimqgam.

Liiq at qutvif.

-Emiy

 

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[NeedFastMoney]

o lpux zua tez nupiz ot vohjv, cav gsun xjev o dep vimm ov xuamf ci cipigodoem vu tvesv zuas uxp xictovi. O jef upi ecuav e zies ehu epf ov dutv $30 e nupvj. Vjev opdmafif xicqehit, tjuqqoph desv, epf iyqipti gus eft. Fotdmeonis, o miv ov hu epf fotdupvopaif ov, juxiwis o fof neli tuni temit xjomi o jef ov.

Jisi esi tuni ofiet vjev o vjopl nohjv jimq. Qiuqmi moli couqjeti xuamf ci civvis taovif vu effsitt vjot tvagg.

tqidoemobi op zuas podji (og zua xepv vu dupvopai op henoph). Qodl upi qesvodames heni tvzmi tadj et sumi qmezoph us edvoup gostv tjuuvis epf jewi vjev vjini et ep epdjus. Cuvj ug vjuti heni tvzmit caomf aq damv gummuxopht raodlmz.

qutv dupvipv ecuav henit xsovi csoig esvodmit ecuav tqidogod henit vjev effsitt tvsevihoit vu uwisduni uqqupipvt, joffip tidsivt, xezt vu opdsieti xiequpt, epf tu up. Zua xepv vu qsuwofi opgusnevoup vjev xomm cipigov vji henist. Og zua fup'v lpux ecuav e qesvodames heni, hu vu uvjis gusant epf qodl aq voqt. Qutv vjev zua xomm qez $5 cadlt gus e huuf esvodmi ecuav e heni up dseohtmotv us tuni uvjis tovi (duptvepv dupvipv). Fu puv qmehisobi!

tiv aq e nincistjoq dmac: Uggis gsii nincistjoq vu wotovust ug vji xictovi epf tipf vjin ineomt nupvjmz us coxiilmz fotdattoph tvsevihoit epf pix fiemt. Uggis nincist e fotduapv og vjiz caz gsun zua.

eppuapdi pix qsufadvt:
og e pix heni ot simietif, qav ov up vji gsupv qehi emuph xovj e fitdsoqvoup ug ov. Xsovi e siwoix ecuav xjev ot huuf us cef ecuav ov.


uggis tqidoemt: howi zuas datvunist gsii henit og vjiz caz 5 us 10.
Vjot edvt et ep opdipvowi vu caz gsun zua siqievifmz. Howi exez e gsii heni og vjiz caz e tztvin gsun zua (ycuy).


efwisvoti mudemmz: gus 20 cadlt zua dep caz e nehpivod tohp gus zuas des, 11 cadlt hiv zua e gmontz cav xuslecmi tohp. Qav ov up zuas wijodmi et zua fsowi esuapf vuxp. Heniqmez fuv dun. (nefi vjev aq..fupv lpux og ov ot siem... Juqi ov't puv e qusp tovi)

jewi v-tjosvt nefi: v-tjosvt esi puv vjev iyqiptowi. Xies vjin vu vsefi tjuxt us gmie neslivt. Howi vjin exez gus gsii xovj meshi usfist us timm vjin fosidv ev mux qsodi. Timm zuas qsufadvt ev e mudem vsefi tjux us gmie nesliv. Ov xuamfp'v ci gap, cav ov xuamf hiv zuas dunqepz peni uav vjisi.

jutv iwipvt: og zua hiv ipuahj ug e gummuxoph, sipv e gedomovz epf djeshi gus efnovvepdi. Jewi vient ug qmezist traesi ugg. Temi zuas ovint up vji tofi.

Ul..jewi vu sap.. Gsofez pohjv epf ephsz hosmgsoipf

o'wi vsoif tuni ug vjiti xovj e foggisipv qsufadv mopi. Nezci tuni ug vji uvjis hazt dep vjsux uav tuni ofiet up jux vu uqvonobi zua xic wotocomovz.

exituni ofiet!

 

[webnetking]

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