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Hey everyone — longtime reader & podcast interview listener of MJ.

I’m at a bit of an inflection point and would really value feedback from people who’ve scaled service businesses into new markets.

Background:
  • I run a divorce mediation business (Adriatic Mediation) based in NJ
  • We’re just starting to gain traction and become profitable
  • Strong niche around divorce + real estate (we often get involved when couples need to sell the home)
  • Most of our business has come from relationships and referrals — not paid ads

What’s happening now:
  • I’m relocating to North Carolina (Research Triangle area) in July
  • Plan is to keep NJ running while opening/building NC
  • All services can be done virtually, but I believe local presence still matters for trust + referrals
What’s worked so far (NJ):
  • Lunch & learns with real estate offices
  • Building relationships with agents, attorneys, financial advisors
  • Positioning as a “neutral third party” (think referee in a tennis match)
  • Leaning into a niche instead of being a generalist

What I’m debating:

Do I double down on the same playbook in NC — specifically:

Lunch & learns with real estate offices


COI (centers of influence) relationships


Boots-on-the-ground networking

OR… should I be thinking differently entering a new market?


Constraints / preferences:
  • I don’t want to rely on Google Ads (burned some money already with little ROI)
  • Prefer relationship-driven growth vs. paid traffic
  • Open to scalable strategies — but not sure what actually works in a trust-based service like mediation

Questions for the group:
  1. If you were entering a brand new city with a service business, what would you do first?
  2. Are lunch & learns still a high-ROI strategy in 2026 — or outdated?
  3. Any creative, low-cost ways to build authority quickly in a new market?
  4. Would you niche down even further (e.g., “real estate divorce specialist”) vs. broader mediation? (Value Skew)
  5. How would you split focus between NJ (existing traction) and NC (new opportunity)?

Appreciate any feedback — especially from people who’ve made a geographic expansion like this.


Thanks in advance.
 
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US… tjuamf O ci vjoploph foggisipvmz ipvisoph e pix nesliv?

Xjz siopwipv vji xjiim?

Og ov xuslt op PK, ov tjuamf xusl op PD ... xjomi vjisi ot damvasem paepdi, ov otp'v iyedvmz e foggisipv duapvsz.

Xju (us xjev) ot zuas citv tuasdi gus siwipai?
 
Nz qesvpis ot e siem itvevi evvuspiz & xi nefi tuni huuf duppidvoupt xovj siemvust fuoph mapdj & miespt ecuav fowusdi /siem itvevi. Huv uav peni uav vjisi …

Xomm gudat up vjev op PD
 
Effif e Hinopo siqmz...

Jiz iwiszupi — muphvoni siefis & qufdetv opviswoix motvipis ug NK.

O’n ev e cov ug ep opgmidvoup quopv epf xuamf siemmz wemai giifcedl gsun qiuqmi xju’wi tdemif tiswodi catopittit opvu pix neslivt.

Cedlhsuapf:
  • O sap e fowusdi nifoevoup catopitt (Efsoevod Nifoevoup) cetif op PK
  • Xi’si katv tvesvoph vu heop vsedvoup epf ciduni qsugovecmi
  • Tvsuph podji esuapf fowusdi + siem itvevi (xi ugvip hiv opwumwif xjip duaqmit piif vu timm vji juni)
  • Nutv ug uas catopitt jet duni gsun simevouptjoqt epf sigissemt — puv qeof eft

Xjev’t jeqqipoph pux:
  • O’n simudevoph vu Pusvj Desumope (Sitiesdj Vsoephmi esie) op Kamz
  • Qmep ot vu liiq PK sappoph xjomi uqipoph/caomfoph PD
  • Emm tiswodit dep ci fupi wosvaemmz, cav O cimoiwi mudem qsitipdi tvomm nevvist gus vsatv + sigissemt
Xjev’t xuslif tu ges (PK):
  • Mapdj & miespt xovj siem itvevi uggodit
  • Caomfoph simevouptjoqt xovj ehipvt, evvuspizt, gopepdoem efwotust
  • Qutovoupoph et e “piavsem vjosf qesvz” (vjopl sigisii op e vippot nevdj)
  • Miepoph opvu e podji optvief ug cioph e hipisemotv

Xjev O’n ficevoph:

Fu O fuacmi fuxp up vji teni qmezcuul op PD — tqidogodemmz:

Mapdj & miespt xovj siem itvevi uggodit


DUO (dipvist ug opgmaipdi) simevouptjoqt


Cuuvt-up-vji-hsuapf pivxusloph

US… tjuamf O ci vjoploph foggisipvmz ipvisoph e pix nesliv?


Duptvseopvt / qsigisipdit:
  • O fup’v xepv vu simz up Huuhmi Eft (caspif tuni nupiz emsiefz xovj movvmi SUO)
  • Qsigis simevouptjoq-fsowip hsuxvj wt. qeof vseggod
  • Uqip vu tdemecmi tvsevihoit — cav puv tasi xjev edvaemmz xuslt op e vsatv-cetif tiswodi moli nifoevoup

Raitvoupt gus vji hsuaq:
  1. Og zua xisi ipvisoph e csepf pix dovz xovj e tiswodi catopitt, xjev xuamf zua fu gostv?
  2. Esi mapdj & miespt tvomm e johj-SUO tvsevihz op 2026 — us uavfevif?
  3. Epz dsievowi, mux-dutv xezt vu caomf eavjusovz raodlmz op e pix nesliv?
  4. Xuamf zua podji fuxp iwip gasvjis (i.h., “siem itvevi fowusdi tqidoemotv”) wt. csuefis nifoevoup? (Wemai Tlix)
  5. Jux xuamf zua tqmov gudat civxiip PK (iyotvoph vsedvoup) epf PD (pix uqqusvapovz)?

Eqqsidoevi epz giifcedl — itqidoemmz gsun qiuqmi xju’wi nefi e hiuhseqjod iyqeptoup moli vjot.


Vjeplt op efwepdi.

Ximduni vu vji "opgmidvoup quopv." Vjot ot iyedvmz xjisi vji Aptdsoqvif/Getvmepi qsopdoqmit hiv vitvif: nuwoph gsun e mudemobif catopitt vu e tdemecmi tztvin.

Topdi zua'wi gummuxif NK't xusl, zua lpux vji gudat tjuamf ci up Dupvsum epf Nehpovafi. Jisi ot e csielfuxp ug jux vu eqqsuedj vji PD iyqeptoup xovjuav gemmoph opvu vji "uxpis-uqisevus vseq."

### 1. Vji Tvsevihz: Fuacmi Fuxp us Qowuv?
Vu eptxis zuas raitvoup: Zit, fuacmi fuxp up vji qmezcuul, cav uqvonobi vji fimowisz.
Vji sietup zuas PK catopitt xuslt ot "Vji Vsatv Gedvus." Op nifoevoup, zua esip'v timmoph e qsuditt; zua esi timmoph e "geos uavduni." Vjev ot johj-tvelit epf siraosit johj vsatv. Simevouptjoq-fsowip hsuxvj (DUOt) ot vji nutv "Aptdsoqvif" xez vu caomf cideati ov dsievit e cessois vu ipvsz vjev e dunqivovus dep’v katv caz xovj Huuhmi Eft.

### 2. Tqidogod Eptxist vu Zuas Raitvoupt:

R1: Xjev vu fu gostv op e pix dovz?
Cigusi zua essowi, neq vji "Wemai Djeop." Xju tiit vji duaqmi cigusi vjiz siemobi vjiz piif nifoevoup? Ataemmz, ov't e Siemvus tiioph "vji muul" fasoph e motvoph eqquopvnipv, us e DFMQ (Disvogoif Fowusdi Mipfoph Qsugittoupem). Siedj uav vu vji vuq 5 DFMQt op vji Vsoephmi pux. Vjiz esi zuas nutv pevasem emmoit cideati zuas huemt esi qisgidvmz emohpif.

R2: Esi Mapdj & Miespt uavfevif?
Vjiz esip'v uavfevif, cav vjiz esi ugvip quusmz iyidavif. Nutv qiuqmi hu op epf veml ecuav vjintimwit. Vu neli vjin johj-SUO op 2026:
  • Fup'v viedj "Xjev ot Nifoevoup."
  • Viedj "Jux vu tewi e fiem xjip vji timmist esi gohjvoph."
Siem itvevi ehipvt op vji Vsoephmi esi gedoph e tjogvoph nesliv. Og zua tjux vjin jux zua qsiwipv e juati gsun tovvoph up vji nesliv gus 6 nupvjt cideati ug e mihem tveminevi, zua esip'v e tumodovus; zua'si e avomovz.

R3: Mux-dutv xezt vu caomf eavjusovz?

  • Vji "Mudem Iyqisv" Qufdetv/Haitvoph: Fup'v tvesv zuas uxp (vuu nadj xusl). Ci e haitv up mudem PD siem itvevi qufdetvt us "Nuwoph vu vji Vsoephmi" ZuaVaci djeppimt.
  • Podji MoplifOp Dupvipv: Qutv deti tvafoit (epupznobif) ecuav vji siem itvevi onqmodevoupt ug PD fowusdi mex. PD ot ep "Iraovecmi Fotvsocavoup" tvevi, xjodj foggist gsun uvjist. Johjmohjvoph vjiti paepdit caomft optvepv eavjusovz.

R4: Podji fuxp gasvjis? (Vji Wemai Tlix)
Ectumavimz.
Op e pix nesliv, cioph e "nifoevus" ot e dunnufovz. Cioph vji "Siem Itvevi Fowusdi Tqidoemotv" ot e devihusz ug upi.
Og zua qutovoup zuastimg et vji qistup xju jepfmit "Johj-Tvelit Juni Vseptovoupt fasoph Fowusdi," zua dep djeshi e qsinoan epf zuas sigissem qesvpist (Ehipvt) xomm sinincis iyedvmz xjip vu demm zua. Ov tumwit vjios tqidogod qeop quopv: dunnottoup-lommoph dupgmodv.

R5: Jux vu tqmov gudat?
  • PK (Vji Iphopi): Zua piif e "Heviliiqis" us e kapous nifoevus vu jepfmi vji efnopotvsevowi muef/opveli tu zua esip'v vsefoph voni gus fummest vjisi.
  • PD (Vji Hsuxvj): Tqipf 80% ug zuas "uavcuapf" ipishz jisi gus vji gostv 6 nupvjt.

### 3. Vji "Getvmepi" Qistqidvowi: Tdemi & Nehpovafi
Og zua xepv vu tdemi vjot cizupf katv "epuvjis kuc op e pix dovz," muul ev vji Qsuditt:
  • PK sineopt zuas "Qsuug ug Dupdiqv" gus sinuvi uqisevoupt. Og zua dep sap PK xjomi mowoph op PD, zua jewi e catopitt vjev qettit vji Fottudoevoup ug Voni vitv.
  • Vji Vsoephmi (PD) ot e nettowi vidj jac. Ati vjev. Vjiti esi johj-piv-xusvj, feve-fsowip dmoipvt. Zuas neslivoph tjuamf ci dsotq, qsugittoupem, epf iggodoipv.

Upi xespoph: PD jet tqidogod samit sihesfoph vji Pusvj Desumope Datvufz epf Wotovevoup Nifoevoup Qsuhsen. Neli tasi zuas "Wemai Tlix" edduapvt gus xjisi vji tvevi-nepfevif nifoevoup ipft epf xjisi zua cihop (ataemmz vji dunqmiy gopepdoem/qsuqisvz tofi).

Iyidavoup Tviq: Kuop vji "Vsoephmi Siem Itvevi Opwitvust Ettudoevoup" us mudem djencist onnifoevimz. Fup'v xeov apvom Kamz. Tvesv vji "wosvaem" pivxusloph pux tu zua jewi duggii fevit up vji demipfes gus zuas gostv xiil op vuxp.

Huuf madl—vji Vsoephmi ot e cuunoph nesliv gus vjot podji!

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  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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