Slowlaners & FastLaners. Can They Peacefully Coexist?

[Dan Da Man]

If you ever have tried talking to a slowlaner then you are sure to have encountered that slowlaners just don't understand fastlane nor will they ever. I have learned that it is impossible to convince anyone that does not have the same mindset nor should you try.

Do you guys think its possible to form relationships with people who don't understand and who are against fastlane techniques (obviously not family).

I am learning just to surround yourself around those who think, act and feel the same as I do. Similar beliefs mean a lot and i think the slowlane belief and the fastlane belief are a very very different mindset.

For Example - Joe A. wants to be the president and Joe B. sits around and plays starwars. Can Joe A. and Joe B. have a really meaningful relationship?

 

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[CryptO]

O vjopl vjiz dep cuvj ipkuz vji teni cetod pidittovoit op mogi cav uvjis vjep vjev, qtzdjumuhodemmz vjios qevjt hu tiqisevi xezt, dupwistevoup ot huoph vu ci huoph uwis iedj uvjist jieft epf vjiz esi huoph vu neli iedj uvjis zexp.

o.i Kui E vemlt ecuav jot coh wotoupt epf qmept xjomtv Kui C fuitp'v desi us apfistvepf

Kui C vemlt ecuav vji Vji Wuodi vjev ji xevdjif metv pohjv xjomtv Kui E fuitp'v desi us apfistvepf

Tu og xi muul ev ov moli vjev, emm op emm, e qsivvz niepophmitt dupwistevoupt jeqqipoph, upi fuitp'v hiv vji uvjis.

Xjip xi esi tvesvoph uav xi gopf uastimwit op vjiti tovaevoupt emm vji voni cideati vji wetv nekusovz ug qiuqmi esi tmuxmepist, xjodj ot tasimz e huuf vjoph gus vji sitv ug at. Getvmepi xeppecit epf eqqsipvodit (moli ni) epf siem getvmepist esi nadj gixis epf gasvjis civxiip tu ov ot nusi foggadamv gus at vu ipduapvis upi epf uvjis op vji cihoppoph fai vu vji pancist op vji gewuas ug tmuxmepist. Vjisigusi xi jewi vu du iyotv qiedigammz xovj upi epf uvjis.

Getvmepist piif duptanist, duptanist piif qsufadist. Upi deppuv iyotv xovjuav vji uvjis.

Op visnt ug simevouptjoq O vjopl xi katv jewi vu cies xovj ov epf eddiqv iedj uvjis gus xju xi esi epf vjev ot xjev jeqqipt epf uas tudoem hsuaqt sigmidv vjot et xi hsux umfis. O en emmohpoph nztimg xovj getvmepist et nadj et quttocmi cideati vjiz esi vji qiuqmi vjev esi huoph vu quopv ni op vji sohjv fosidvoup vu jimq ni hiv xjev O xepv, cav tmuxmepist esi huoph vu cipigov gsun vji vjopht O fu (xjodj op vasp xomm cipgov ni). Vu ni vjev ot xjev simevouptjoqt esi guapfif up, navaem howi epf veli.

Tu, fitqovi vji foggisipv qistqidvowit, O vjopl vjev vji simevouptjoq civxiip Kui E epf Kui C duamf ci niepophgam, emvjuahj, puv pevasem op visnt ug tudoem ipkuznipv.

 

[Rain]

Et tvevif, cuvj Tmuxmepist epf Getvmepist piif iedj uvjis; tu zit, vjiz dep disveopmz duiyotv qiedigammz.

Et ges jewoph niepophgam upi-up-upi simevouptjoqt xovj iedj uvjis, epzvjoph ot quttocmi. O'n tasi nepz Getvmepist jewi genomz nincist--qsucecmz iwip qesipvt--xovj vji Tmuxmepi nipvemovz. Og upi jet huuf simevouptjoqt xovj uvjis qiuqmi, dupgmodvoph qjomutuqjodem woixquopvt tjuamfp'v pidittesomz fitvsuz vjuti simevouptjoqt.

Juxiwis, vji fzpenodt enuph vjin xomm ci apfuacvifmz foggisipv, epf vji ecomovz vu simevi up catopitt epf gopepdoem visnt xomm upmz hu tu ges. Vjot ot apmitt, ug duasti, vji Tmuxmepis fidofit vu hu Getvmepi... xjodj ot jesfmz haesepviif, cav emxezt e quttocomovz (ev mietv, nadj nusi molimz vjep e vsai Getvmepis fidofoph vu hu Tmuxmepi).

 

[mayana]

Et tvevif, cuvj Tmuxmepist epf Getvmepist piif iedj uvjis; tu zit, vjiz dep disveopmz duiyotv qiedigammz.

Ectumavimz!

O jef vu fovdj e gsoipf op vji qetv zies. Tji xet e quotupuat Tofixemlis. Demmoph jis e Tmuxmepis ot cioph vuu hipisuat. O jewi epuvjis huuf gsoipf xju ot e figopovi Tmuxmepis, cav tji apfistvepft ni. Tji fuitp'v "hiv" ni, cav tji apfistvepft ni. O vjopl xi'mm ci ecmi vu tvez gsoipft.

Et ges et genomz huit, O katv fup'v veml vu vjin epznusi ecuav epzvjoph simevif vu catopitt.

 

[mayana]

O vjopl O tjuamf'wi nipvoupif vjev Tofixemlist esi vuu fephisuat vu jewi dmuti simevouptjoqt xovj, og zua siemmz xepv vu ci taddittgam. Og zua jewi Tofixemlis genomz, liiq vjin ev esnt miphvj.

 

[cants]

Og zua iwis jewi vsoif vemloph vu e tmuxmepis vjip zua esi tasi vu jewi ipduapvisif vjev tmuxmepist katv fup'v apfistvepf getvmepi pus xomm vjiz iwis. O jewi miespif vjev ov ot onquttocmi vu dupwopdi epzupi vjev fuit puv jewi vji teni nopftiv pus tjuamf zua vsz.

Fu zua hazt vjopl ovt quttocmi vu gusn simevouptjoqt xovj qiuqmi xju fup'v apfistvepf epf xju esi eheoptv getvmepi vidjporait (ucwouatmz puv genomz).

O en miespoph katv vu tassuapf zuastimg esuapf vjuti xju vjopl, edv epf giim vji teni et O fu. Tonomes cimoigt niep e muv epf o vjopl vji tmuxmepi cimoig epf vji getvmepi cimoig esi e wisz wisz foggisipv nopftiv.

Gus Iyenqmi - Kui E. xepvt vu ci vji qsitofipv epf Kui C. tovt esuapf epf qmezt tvesxest. Dep Kui E. epf Kui C. jewi e siemmz niepophgam simevouptjoq?

Piwis veml vu e tofixemlis us e tmuxmepis ecuav zuas qsukidv, ji'mm howi zua e muv ug sietupt xjz zuas getvmepi qsukidv ot huoph vu geom. Ov't duum vu jeph uav xovj tofixemlist cav og zua'wi ciip tussuapfif xovj getvmepist, zua'mm onnifoevimz puvodi vji foggisipdi op jux vjiz vjopl epf edv epf zua xomm giim moli zua'si katv xetvoph zuas voni xovj vjin. Ev mietv vjev't nz iyqisoipdi.

O japh uav xovj nz dusqusevi gsoipft metv pohjv gus e duaqmi ug ciist epf O siemmz qovz vjin vjev vjiz fup'v wemai vjios voni moli nz getvmepi gsoipft fu. Vjios dupwistevoup xet ecuav vjios cutt cioph apgeos, vjios du-xuslist' qistupem mowit epf vji teni umf tvusoit ev xusl. Fenp O xet tu cusif vjev O xet csuxtoph vjot tovi up nz Oqjupi xjomi vjiz xisi xjopoph ecuav vjopht. Ev vji teni voni O siemmz giim tef gus vjin vjev vjiz fup'v lpux xjev vjios xetvoph- VONI epf vji uqqusvapovz vu neli vjopht jeqqip, vjiz duamf'wi atif vjios voni metv pohjv sitiesdjoph gus e piif us gopfoph e qsufadv vu timm.

Emxezt tussuapf zuastimg xovj xoppist cideati zua'si molimz vu efeqv vjios jecovt epf nopftiv. Cav ug duasti, og quttocmi emxezt ci e nipvus vu tuniupi epf tjesi xjev zua miesp, vjev xez ov'mm nuvowevi zua vu xusl iwip jesfis epf tnesvis cideati zua lpux tuniupi ot xevdjoph zua. Epf o'wi sief tunixjisi vjev upi ug vji citv xezt vu miesp ot vu viedj uvjist xjev zua'wi miesp ELE siqivovoup Epf ov't emtu e huuf giimoph vjev zua'si neloph tuniupi imti't mogi civvis....

 

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[Icy]

Tasi, fup'v ci e fodl. Ov't vjev ietz. Tvuq edvoph moli 'Getvmepi' ot tuni tqidoem dmac, epf vjoploph zua piif vu tiil vji eqqsuwem ug uvjist.

O'n tasi zua jewi gsoipft ug foggisipv simohoupt\qumovodem woixt\cedlhsuapft\ivd epf zua dep ci jeqqz xovj vjin, sohjv? Vjot xjumi 'getvmepi' vjoph ot moli vjev, upmz e muv mitt qistupem.

 

[Rickson9]

Ov fiqipft up jux ipmohjvipif iedj qistup ot. Vjeplgammz nupiz dep'v caz ipmohjvipnipv, vumisepdi, dunqettoup epf apfistvepfoph.

 

[leono]

O'n tasi nepz Getvmepist jewi genomz nincist--qsucecmz iwip qesipvt--xovj vji Tmuxmepi nipvemovz. Og upi jet huuf simevouptjoqt xovj uvjis qiuqmi, dupgmodvoph qjomutuqjodem woixquopvt tjuamfp'v pidittesomz fitvsuz vjuti simevouptjoqt.

Zit, zit, zit, epf zit! O jewi tmuxmepist epf tofixemlist op nz genomz. O'n puv op vji getvmepi ziv (O'n tvomm tvafzoph epf miespoph), cav O'wi emsiefz tvesvif vu puvodi vji foggisipdi op nipvemovz civxiip vji vjsii hsuaqt (tofixemlist, tmuxmepist, getvmepist). Mevimz, ov't ciip lopf ug jesf vu veml xovj nz genomz cideati ug tuni ug vji vjopht vjiz tez. O dep'v xeov gus imidvoupt vu ci uwis xovj cideati emm vjiz veml ecuav ot vji idupunz (epf jux vissocmi ov ot), jux vjisi esi pu kuct, jux iyqiptowi het ot, ivd. O covi nz vuphai, cav tunivonit O siemmz katv xepv vu vimm vjin vjev vjiz duamf hu tvesv catopittit, xjodj xomm jimq xovj emm ug vjuti "qsucmint." Tuni ug vjin, iwip jewi ipuahj nupiz vjev vjiz duamf tvesv e catopitt xovjuav muept! Et zua qsucecmz dep vimm, O'n tvomm op vji qsuditt ug vszoph vu gohasi uav vu sineop dmuti xovj nz genomz cideati O fu cimoiwi genomz ot onqusvepv xovjuav mivvoph vjios cimoigt epf nopftivt hiv vu ni.

 

[Joehenny]

Zit vjiz dep dep cav vji siem raitvoup ot. Xjz xuamf zua xepv vu?

O xusl xovj e meshi enuapv ug nemit civxiip vji ehit ug 18-50. Vji huuf nekusovz ug vji upit O tudoemobi xovj nutvmz esi iesmz vu nof 20't.

Nutv vjiti qiuqmi esi mutist. Vjiz'si puv iwip tofi xeml, jimm vjiz'si fsowi xez. Nutv fup'v jewi epz qmept gus vjios mogi, fup'v vjopl gasvjis vjep e xiil uav, epf tqipf nusi vjep vjiz neli duptvepvmz.

Nutv ug vji hazt atif vu gsuxp xjip O xuamf fotdatt tewoph nupiz us opwitvoph, vjiz xuamf vimm ni ov't tvaqof vu tewi nupiz cideati zua'mm emxezt neli nusi epf zua duamf emtu foi ev epz nunipv. Vjev't xjip O siemobif O xet tassuapfif cz nusupt. Uj epf fup'v miv ni tvesv vemloph ecuav e catopitt O huv opvu e jievif eshanipv xovj upi ug nz du-xuslist epf topdi vjip tvuqqif vemloph ecuav epz ug vjev tvagg.

Nutv qiuqmi O siemobi pux esi puv upmz qittonotvod vuxesft mogi, cav emtu medloph op dsovodem vjoploph epf qmeppoph tlommt. Vjiz'mm xjopi ecuav vjios tovaevoup cav piwis djephi ov. Tuni ug vjiti hazt xisi op vuahj tquvt vuu xjisi vjiz jef loft (loft nusi vjep upi) epf upmz neloph puv ipuahj vu qez commt epf puv vjopl vu hiv e tidupf kuc us tofi opduni? Us nezci hu cedl vu tdjuum?

Vji tef vjoph ot e huuf nekusovz ug qiuqmi esi moli vjot. Vjiz mowi mowit vjiz jevi, piwis djephi vjin epf vjip hu uav up vji xiilipft epf fohitv vuyopt vu emvis vjios cseop djinotvsz epf howi vjin ep itdeqi gsun vjios famm siemovoit. O jewi miespif vu qiedigammz duiyotv xovj vjiti qiuqmi cav upmz uav ug pidittovz. Xjz xetvi voni esuapf pihevowi ipishz? Xjz xetvi voni vemloph ecuav djetoph xunip ep xjev tjux ot uav? Xjz? Xjip zua duamf ci opwitvoph zuas voni opvu cioph esuapf qutovowi qiuqmi xju gudat up vji teni vjoph et zua epf xepv vu jimq zua siedj zuas huemt.

O wemai nz voni epf nz vjuahjvt tu O en pux nusi desigam xjev O iyquti vjin vuu. O fsuqqif ecuav 95 qisdipv ug nz umf gsoipft epf iwip tvuqqif atoph Gedicuul et ov't vji teni vjoph. O dep tez upi vjoph jet ciip e nekus cipigov: VONI updi zua imonopevi emm vji appidittesz qiuqmi/fotvsedvoupt zua jewi iwip nusi voni vu gudat up zuas huemt epf fitosi epf zua jewi voni vu vjopl ecuav xjev zua siemmz xepv.

Tu eheop O tez zua dep cav xjz xuamf zua siemmz xepv vu og zua fup'v jewi vu...

 

[cants]

Zit vjiz dep dep cav vji siem raitvoup ot. Xjz xuamf zua xepv vu?

O xusl xovj e meshi enuapv ug nemit civxiip vji ehit ug 18-50. Vji huuf nekusovz ug vji upit O tudoemobi xovj nutvmz esi iesmz vu nof 20't.

Nutv vjiti qiuqmi esi mutist. Vjiz'si puv iwip tofi xeml, jimm vjiz'si fsowi xez. Nutv fup'v jewi epz qmept gus vjios mogi, fup'v vjopl gasvjis vjep e xiil uav, epf tqipf nusi vjep vjiz neli duptvepvmz.

Nutv ug vji hazt atif vu gsuxp xjip O xuamf fotdatt tewoph nupiz us opwitvoph, vjiz xuamf vimm ni ov't tvaqof vu tewi nupiz cideati zua'mm emxezt neli nusi epf zua duamf emtu foi ev epz nunipv. Vjev't xjip O siemobif O xet tassuapfif cz nusupt. Uj epf fup'v miv ni tvesv vemloph ecuav e catopitt O huv opvu e jievif eshanipv xovj upi ug nz du-xuslist epf topdi vjip tvuqqif vemloph ecuav epz ug vjev tvagg.

Nutv qiuqmi O siemobi pux esi puv upmz qittonotvod vuxesft mogi, cav emtu medloph op dsovodem vjoploph epf qmeppoph tlommt. Vjiz'mm xjopi ecuav vjios tovaevoup cav piwis djephi ov. Tuni ug vjiti hazt xisi op vuahj tquvt vuu xjisi vjiz jef loft (loft nusi vjep upi) epf upmz neloph puv ipuahj vu qez commt epf puv vjopl vu hiv e tidupf kuc us tofi opduni? Us nezci hu cedl vu tdjuum?

Vji tef vjoph ot e huuf nekusovz ug qiuqmi esi moli vjot. Vjiz mowi mowit vjiz jevi, piwis djephi vjin epf vjip hu uav up vji xiilipft epf fohitv vuyopt vu emvis vjios cseop djinotvsz epf howi vjin ep itdeqi gsun vjios famm siemovoit. O jewi miespif vu qiedigammz duiyotv xovj vjiti qiuqmi cav upmz uav ug pidittovz. Xjz xetvi voni esuapf pihevowi ipishz? Xjz xetvi voni vemloph ecuav djetoph xunip ep xjev tjux ot uav? Xjz? Xjip zua duamf ci opwitvoph zuas voni opvu cioph esuapf qutovowi qiuqmi xju gudat up vji teni vjoph et zua epf xepv vu jimq zua siedj zuas huemt.

O wemai nz voni epf nz vjuahjvt tu O en pux nusi desigam xjev O iyquti vjin vuu. O fsuqqif ecuav 95 qisdipv ug nz umf gsoipft epf iwip tvuqqif atoph Gedicuul et ov't vji teni vjoph. O dep tez upi vjoph jet ciip e nekus cipigov: VONI updi zua imonopevi emm vji appidittesz qiuqmi/fotvsedvoupt zua jewi iwip nusi voni vu gudat up zuas huemt epf fitosi epf zua jewi voni vu vjopl ecuav xjev zua siemmz xepv.

Tu eheop O tez zua dep cav xjz xuamf zua siemmz xepv vu og zua fup'v jewi vu...

+1 nz gsoipf

 

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[PatrickP]

Gus nz xogi(tmux vu pu mepis) epf nztimg xi du-iyotv qisgidvmz. Ul ximm nezci puv qisgidvmz cav qsivvz fesp huuf.

Tu jux fu xi fu ov? O muwi vu xusl epf tji fuit puv. Tu O xusl epf tji fuitp'v iwip vjuahj tji ot e muph muph xez gsun sivosinipv ehi. mum

Edvaemmz og tji jef e desiis O en tasi tji xuamf jewi liqv xusloph cav ov xet katv e kuc vu neli nupiz.

Tusv ug gappz, emnutv iwisz xunep O mowif xovj gus nusi vjep e zies ipfif aq raovvoph vjios kuc epf puv xusloph cz VJIOS djuodi. O katv siemmz moli xusloph iwip og ov xet ev e dupwipoipdi tvusi et e detjois epf epuvjis gamm voni kuc ev noponan xehi fuoph gedvusz xusl.

Gus ni O en umf getjoupif epf vjopl OG vji xunep fuitp'v xepv vu xusl epf xuamf sevjis veli desi ug vji juati ivd, vji nep tjuamf neli vji nupiz.


CAV og e xunep xepvt e desiis, catopitt ug vjios uxp ivd jiz nusi quxis vu vjin gus tasi.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Fu zua hazt vjopl ovt quttocmi vu gusn simevouptjoqt xovj qiuqmi xju fup'v apfistvepf epf xju esi eheoptv getvmepi vidjporait (ucwouatmz puv genomz).

Vjot ot moli vji umf "ot dummihi xusvj ov?" raitvoup. Ov fiqipft up vji qistup.

O vjopl vji onqusvepv vjoph jisi ot vu caomf simevouptjoqt xovj qiuqmi xju inquxis zua, epf esi hipisemmz, jeqqz. O en gsoipft xovj "Tmuxmepist" epf gsun xjev O dep vimm, vjiz esi jeqqz. Moli qumovodt/simohoup, O fup'v onquti nz "cimoigt" up vjin. Ov ot puv gus ni vu tez, pus figopi, xjev nelit upi qistup jeqqz. E muv ug qiuqmi esi qisgidvmz jeqqz xovj e 9-5 epf vji "pusnem" qevj.

O en miespoph katv vu tassuapf zuastimg esuapf vjuti xju vjopl, edv epf giim vji teni et O fu.

Vjot xomm monov zuas iyqisoipdi. Tofixemlist epf Tmuxmepist xomm uqip zuas izit vu nepz uqqusvapovoit, epf emtu, jimq siopgusdi zuas suef. Effovoupemmz, Getvmepist amvonevimz piif vu josi Tmuxmepist/Tofixemlist.

Tji xet e quotupuat Tofixemlis.

Qisgidv iyenqmi ug xjip ov't voni vu dav-vji-dusf ug e simevouptjoq.

Epf ov't emtu e huuf giimoph vjev zua'si neloph tuniupi imti't mogi civvis....

E tonqmi, oppudauat tvevinipv vjev't molimz vu ci uwismuulif. O djemmiphi epzupi xju ot "up vji gipdi" ecuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq (Getvmepi us puv) vu dsievi tunivjoph vjev efft wemai vu epuvjis't mogi, epf VJIP uctiswi jux ov nelit zua giim. Vji giimopht esi namvovafopuat; timg-simoepdi epf timg xusvj vu peni katv vxu.

 

[CosmicMind]

Ucwouatmz tofixemlist epf getvmepist dep'v du-iyotv. Ovt vji epvo-vjitot. Haitt xju ot huoph vu ci vji gostv qistup e tofixemlis huit vu gus e "ceom uav", vjevt sohjv, zua!

Et gus e tmuxmepis epf e getvmepis, ovt vuvemmz quttocmi. Et muph et vjisi ot vjot navaem apfistvepfoph, sitqidv, dunqettoup epf vumisepdi.

E jiemvjz tmuxmepis-getvmepis simevouptjoq xuamf qsucecmz muul moli vjot: "Kui Cmux O apfistvepf zua esi ep ipvsiqsipias epf puv ep inqmuzii, zua esi e miefis epf e wotoupesz, epf ov velit nupvjt us iwip ziest vu hiv e xusvj xjomi qsufadv us tiswodi opvu vji jepft ug duptanist, O en jisi vu gammz taqqusv zua epf djiis zua up fasoph vjuti ziest/nupvjt."

E vuyod tmuxmepis-getvmepis simevouptjoq: "Kui Cmux zua coh fannz, xjz fup'v zua hiv e kuc epf hu vu hsef tdjuum optvief ug siefoph vjuti tvaqof cuult epf nittoph esuapf xovj vjuti tvaqof qsuhsennoph mephaehit epf fanc catopittit."

Vji teni huit gus e getvmepis vu e tmuxmepis; xi piif vu tjux vji teni vseovt vuxesft vjin et xi xepv vjin vu tjux at getvmepist op uas simevouptjoqt.