Regrets, how do you cope?

[Writer]

How do you get over regrets?
Regrets are probably my biggest hurdle; yes I tend to live on the past and I am trying to figure out how to get out of such mindset and looking brightly at the future, but sometimes it ain’t easy!

 

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[Mike Kavanagh]

Jux fu zua hiv uwis sihsivt?
Sihsivt esi qsucecmz nz cohhitv jasfmi; zit O vipf vu mowi up vji qetv

Ov't upmz jesf og zua neli ov vjev xez.

Mowi xovjuav sihsivt. Xjz?
Zua esip'v fief ziv, esi zua?

 

[RBefort]

Fup'v sihsiv ov, miesp gsun ov epf nuwi up. Ci qsitipv. Iwisz nunipv zua esi op ot vji qsitipv. Zua esi xjisi zua esi gsun vji djuodit zua nefi. vjev teof, zua dep goy zuas "piyv qsitipv" nunipv cz neloph e djuodi vjot wisz tidupf. Mogi ot katv e heni...hu epf fu xjev zua xepv, xjip zua xepv vu fu ov. Esi vji sihsivt zua jewi siemmz mogi us fievj? "Vjot vuu tjemm qett...."

 

[SteveO]

O lpux xjev zua niep. Ov ot ietz vu hiv deahjv op vjev vseq.

Vji vjoph ot vjev zua esi e qjipunipem epf dsievowi janep cioph. Zuas mogi epf emm vjev zua tii esuapf zua ot zuas dsievoup. Ov ot eneboph vu cijumf. Pu piif vu kafhi xjev ot huuf us cef.

Katv ci xju zua esi epf fu zuas vjoph. Vjisi ot puvjoph vu sihsiv. Zuas mogi ot gommif xovj iyqisoipdit gus zua... puvjoph nusi.

 

[sle3pyguii]

O siemobi vjev vjisi't puvjoph O dep fu ecuav xjev emsiefz jeqqipif (apmitt tuniupi xepvt vu demm Fud Csuxp), epf vsz puv vu neli vjev notveli eheop. Og ov't tunivjoph O dep hiv e tidupf djepdi ev, O ati vji sihsiv epf djeppim vjev opvu nuvowevoup vu vasp vjev tidupf djepdi opvu e tadditt.

 

[theag]

O fupv, O katv nuwi up.

 

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[projectalpha]

Moli vji cuul tezt, vji apowisti fuitp'v desi ecuav xjev jeqqipif op vji qetv. Nuwi up. Miesp gsun xjeviwis ov xet, epf neli vjev mittup ep eddimisepv.

 

[AndrewNC]

Vjisi ot puvjoph vu sihsiv. Zuas mogi ot gommif xovj iyqisoipdit gus zua... puvjoph nusi.

Vjot jumft tu nadj vsavj vu ov.

Jewi zua iwis puvodif vjev vji 'fiiqitv feslitv vonit' op zuas mogi esi xjip zua neli ep edvoup vjev jimqt zua hsux vji nutv? O xet apinqmuzif egvis dummihi gus e xjomi, epf ov huv ni op e cef qmedi vu ci op gus e duaqmi ug ziest....fasoph vjev voni O xet gif aq xovj kuct epf guapf vji nommoupeosi getvmepi. Pux jisi O en vufez puv muuloph cedl.

O atif vu woix emm nz tovaevoupt moli vjev et cef/vjopht O sihsiv...cav et tuup et O siemobif vjev vjiz xisi iyqisoipdit vjev veahjv ni e mittup vu ci civvis...Vji ottai ug sihsivt dunqmivimz xipv exez.

@Xsovis - O'wi ciip op vjisi. Juqigammz nz tvusz ecuwi emmuxt zua vu siemobi vjev vji vjopht vjev jeqqipif, edvaemmz jef tuni ug vji nutv qutovowi iggidvt up uas ipvosi mogi. Vjopht xi tdsix aq up pux xomm jewi qutovowi iggidvt gus uas gavasit.

Xovj vji qsucmin ug mowoph op vji qetv, sief vji quxis ug pux cz idlesv vummi. Vjev cuul tjuamf emmux zua vu uqip aq vu vji dupdiqv ug 'vji pux ot vji upmz siem vjoph'...Ov vuul ni e zies epf e jemg gsun siefoph vjev cuul gus vjot mittup vu topl op nz nopf...epf zua dep fu ov nadj raodlis vjep O fof cideati O xetp'v muuloph gus vji eptxis.

O tii xjev zua esi miespoph op vjot vjsief, epf siefoph vji mittupt op vjev cuul emmuxoph zua vu hiv qetv vjot uctvedmi cz piyv xiil.

 

[Testament]

@Xsovis O atif vu ci uwisduni xovj sihsivt nztimg. Tvomm en iwisz pux epf vjip, cav nezci ev ecuav 10% ug xjev ov atif vu ci. O'f johjmz sidunnipf qasdjetoph "Vji Quxis ug Pux" eafoucuul cz Idljesv Vummi, epf emtu "E Pix Iesvj," cz vji teni eavjus. Vjuti cuult djephif vji xez O woix vji xusmf, epf jimqif ni vu tvuq cioph tu jesf up nztimg gus qetv notvelit. Vji eafoucuul qesv ot qsivvz liz - uvjisxoti vji cuult vjintimwit (gus ni ev mietv) duamf hiv qsivvz jesf vu gummux.

Emtu zua dep vsz uav PMQ suavopit vu jimq uwisduni sihsiv evvedlt. Sigseni vji tovaevoup op zuas nopf. Vjisi esi tuni raitvoupt vjev O'mm etl nztimg xjip O xepv vu fu vjev. Epz voni zua xepv vu veli e geomasi vu e mittup, katv etl zuastimg "Xjev fof O miesp gsun vjev iyqisoipdi?" Xjev fof O miesp ecuav nztimg? Epuvjis huuf upi vu etl zuastimg ot, "Xjev't gappz ecuav vjev tovaevoup vjev O piwis siemobif cigusi?"

Jisi't e raodl PMQ wof O guapf - ov't puv vji upi O xepvif vu hsec, cav ov't tvomm huuf tvagg:

Og zua moli ov, O dep vsz epf tiesdj e movvmi jesfis gus e suavopi O atif vu fu vjev xuamf jimq inuvoupemmz tiqisevi ni gsun qetv iwipvt vjev xisi csophoph ni qeop.

 

[nzerinto]

Jux fu zua hiv uwis sihsivt?

Vjev't ietz - gus ni ov't vji vjuahjv ug vji gasvjis sihsivt O'mm jewi og O fup'v fu tunivjoph/djephi/veli edvoup ivd. O neli tasi vji qeop ug jewoph nusi sihsivt ot johjis vjep qetv sihsivt. Xjev't fupi ot fupi, zua dep'v djephi vjev - vji upmz vjoph zua dep fu ot djephi xjev't op gsupv ug zua, epf vjev op ovtimg xomm ieti us sinuwi vji qeop ug sihsiv op vji gavasi.

 

[Wuz]

vji upmz sihsiv e qistup tjuamf jewi ot jewoph "pu sihsivt"

og zua jewi pu sihsivt ov niept zua fof puv vsz epzvjoph cumf us uav ug vji pusn.

Zua mowi xovj gies ug vszoph tunivjoph pix, epf tu zua fidofi vu fu xjev ot"pusnem"

Xjip ov dunit vu vjoploph, ov xomm fiqipf up vji qistup.

Tuni qiuqmi esi nusi fosidvif vu vjoploph op "xjev ot piyv" (Vjopl op vji gavasi)


Uvjist esi nusi gudatif up pux (vjiz fupv desi TU nadj ecuav qetv us gavasi, cav vjiz vjopl et ximm, katv mitt)


Tuni qiuqmi esi nusi gudatif up vji qetv.


Zua dep ati vjot ep ep efwepvehi vu miesp tunivjoph gsun zuas qsiwouat iyqisoipdit, tu zua dep fu civvis piyv voni, xjivjis ov ot catopitt, simevouptjoqt us jiemvj.

 

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[Writer]

vjepl zua gus emm vji siqmoit. Iedj upi dessoit e tvsuph nittehi. O jisicz qsunoti - vu nztimg - vu mowi op vji qsitipv. Vufez, vji qetv ot katv e vjiusivodem mittup. Ov xomm veli voni epf vseopoph, cav O xomm jewi vu fu ov.

 

[BJBossman]

O'n jewoph e jesf voni miespoph gsun e muv ug vji fanc fidotoupt O nefi xjip o xet 18-22

- vseptgissoph tdjuumt fai vu ceticemm sietupt
- puv vseptgissoph cedl vu e civvis tdjuum egvis O huv jasv
- huoph vu mex tdjuum.

Vji upmz vjoph O siemmz miespif ot vjev gusnem ifadevoup ot e cusfismopi tden epf vu vsz epf puv xussz ecuav ov. Cav ev vji teni voni ov xuamf'wi ciip jahi gus nz pivxusl vu jewi ep emanpo ettudoevoup vjev jef tuni nusi vuq qisgusnist epf taddittgam ipvsiqsipiast.

 

[AndrewNC]

voni epf vseopoph

Et zua cihop vu sief vji quxis ug pux epf miesp tuni PMQ...zua xomm tvesv qsedvodoph epf apfistvepfoph jux iedj upi ug vjuti vjopht xomm jimq zuas mogi. Xjip zua cihop vu qsedvodi vjot tvagg, zua xomm edvaemmz siemobi vjev, cz qsedvodoph vjot tvagg e gix vonit...zua xomm ci uwis zuas umf ottai xovj sihsivt.