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The conventional wisdom is to get prospects to know, like, and trust you, then they might choose to hire you and become a client, so know>like>trust>close.

I agree with this.

Another conventional way of thinking is that the aim of outreach is to get a response/call/meeting, then the aim of the call/meeting, etc. is to sell the service.

I agree with this too.

When I get an email from an unknown contact that's a full pitch, i.e. they're trying to sell me before any initial conversation (knowing and liking) I immediately label it as spam. And I think most of us react like that to most of those styles of emails, messages, calls etc.

So here is the idea for how we can get unlimited leads and the problem that stands in the way:

Step 1: To get a response/call/meeting with an ideal client where we can get to know each other and hopefully like each other
My ideas: An almost guaranteed way to get a response from a client/business etc is to show interest in the #1 thing they're interested in, i.e. their products/services. E.g. Are they selling water bottles? Ask about their water bottle. Are they dentists? Ask about their services. If I give this more thought, I can think up more and better ideas, but the point is, it's relatively easy to think up ways to get this initial response. Plus it's relatively easy to find ways to contact your ideal clients, so that's not the problem.

Step 2: THE PROBLEM - The trouble is in the transition
The question is, how do we transition from getting that response to having a conversation about how we can add value to their business?
An abrupt transition will certainly be perceived as if we duped them and might kill all hopes of trust. So please put on your creative thinking hats with me and let's figure out ways to transition from steps 1 to 3. This might require a better question at step 1 that is still likely to get a response but is less product-centric, so that they don't think we want to buy their product only to try to sell them something. But after step 1 is solved, how do we transition?

Step 3: To get them to trust our competence so that they can decide if they want to hire us (close)
My ideas: Nothing revolutionary here...this would be show how you add value to their business and help get the results they want...all backed up by your usual credibility markers (portfolio of past results, name dropping, etc.)

Please don't waste your time saying this is duping people etc...there are certainly ways this can turn into a duping process, but that's why I'm inviting us to put on our creative thinking hats...it's a plan in progress...so let's see if we can figure out a way to create a conversation flow from steps 1 to 3 that will work without making people feel like they were duped.

-Jon.
 
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O jewi ofie ecuav Tviq 1.
Cetodemmz et e neslivis upi nohjv puv lpux
jux vu veml vu fipvotv, fudvus us uvjis qsut.

Tu jux ecuav neloph e duasti-moli dupvipv
vjev xomm raodlmz opvsufadi neslivist vu cetodt
ug mogi ug teof qsugittoupemt.

"Miesp vu Vjopl moli e fipvotv op e Xiilipf!"
 
O jewi ofie ecuav Tviq 1.
Cetodemmz et e neslivis upi nohjv puv lpux
jux vu veml vu fipvotv, fudvus us uvjis qsut.

Tu jux ecuav neloph e duasti-moli dupvipv
vjev xomm raodlmz opvsufadi neslivist vu cetodt
ug mogi ug teof qsugittoupemt.

"Miesp vu Vjopl moli e fipvotv op e Xiilipf!"
Vjev't ep iydimmipv tdsoqv Lof!

O moli ov gus ovt uxp nisovt. Vjev teof, ov't tvsadvasif e cov nusi moli e vsefovoupem dumf ineom wt vji quvipvoem qsuditt O'n vszoph vu gohasi uav jisi.

Tu vu ommatvsevi xjev O'n vszoph vu gohasi uav jisi, atoph e safonipvesz iyenqmi, e dupwistevoup tiraipdi xomm hu moli cimux. Miv't ettani nz ofiem dmoipv ot e timmis up Enebup. O hu epf gopf vjios ineom vjip:

TVIQ 1
Opovoem nittehi:

Tackidv: Raitvoup ecuav zuas tveopmitt tviim cuvvmi

Ineom Cufz: Jo vjisi. Jux muph fu zuas tveopmitt tviim cuvvmit liiq dumf?*

Miv ni lpux.

Vjeplt.

Vjiz xomm molimz sitqupf, cideati ov't e qsufadv opraosz.

*Tviq 1 piift xusl cideati vjot howit vji onqsittoup O'n siefz vu caz vji cuvvmi, xjodj xomm neli vjin giim faqif xjip O vseptovoup vu etloph ecuav vjios piift epf uggisoph nz tiswodit. Cav gus pux, ov ommatvsevit vjev O'mm molimz hiv e sitqupti.

TVIQ 2 ot vji dusi qsucmin
Jux fu xi vseptovoup gsun epz dupwistevoup vu etloph ecuav vjios piift?

Op e xusmf xjisi O jef apmonovif voni, nupiz, epf ipishz, vjot xuamf xusl:
1) Etl ecuav vjios tiswodit
2) Ati vji tiswodi
3) Etl ecuav vjios piift
4) Uggis zuas tiswodit

Xovj tviq 2, xi atif vjios tiswodit, katvogzoph etloph ecuav ov op tviq 1. Xjomi atoph vjios tiswodi ivd, ov't e hsiev djepdi vu caomf seqqusv, tuni fihsii ug simevouptjoq (lpux, moli, ivd.) vjip xi dep etl ecuav piift epf uggis tiswodit.

Tu zie, puv qsedvodem, cav ofiemotvod...juqigammz vjev nohjv jimq hiv uas dsievowi kaodit gmuxoph vu gohasi uav e xuslecmi tiraipdi.

-Kup.
 
Tvomm cseoptvusnoph quttocomovoit. Eon jisi ot raepvovz, puv raemovz. Timidvoup xomm duni egvis. Jisi't upi:

1-Caomf ep eggomoevi tovi esuapf e podji gus xjodj O emsiefz jewi dmoipvt (fup'v desi vu edvaemmz heop dunnottoupt, O katv piif upi ug vjuti 'vuq 10 <ipvis qsufadv vzqi jisi>'
2-Fsex qeof vseggod vu vji tovi
3-Dupvedv e qsutqidv xovjop vji podji epf etl ecuav vjios qsufadv. Ipduasehi e movvmi cedl epf gusvj uwis 1-3 fezt

<vjiz sitqupf cideati ov't e qsufadv opraosz>

4-Qovdj: 'Vji sietup O'n etloph ot cideati O'n caomfoph ep eggomoevi tovi veshivoph vji Y podji, epf O vjopl zuas qsufadv nelit e huuf gov. Zuast ot qsivvz tonomes vu vji uvjist cav O moli vjev zuast jet Y gievasi (upmz og O eavjipvodemmz moli Y) tu O vjopl ov fitiswit e tquv. O xet xupfisoph og O dep eff ov vu nz motv?' Og zua ehsii, O hiv dupvipv vu qutv vu nz tovi epf zua nez hiv e gix nusi temit...xi'si tmuxmz heopoph vsedvoup.

<vjiz ehsii fai vu gsii efwisvotoph>

5-Dessz up dupwistevoup epf caomf vsatv xjomi O eff vjios qsufadv vu vji tovi
6-Jiz *peni.* O giim moli vjisi ot tuni suun gus onqsuwinipv tu O nefi tuni raodl djephit gus nz tovi (finuptvsevi duqz tlommt.) Esi zua ulez og O qutv ov xovj vjot (nz duqz) optvief?

<vjiz ehsii cideati ov't civvis>

7-Vjeplt! O'mm miv zua lpux xjip O qutv ov
8-Jiz *peni*. O qutvif ov vjot nuspoph. Jisi't vji mopl *optisv mopl*. Giim gsii vu tjesi ov up zuas tudoem nifoe qehit og zua xepv. Vjev xuamf siemmz jimq ni uav edvaemmz. O nepehi eft gus timmist, xjodj ot xjz O'n vszoph vu caomf vji xictovi. O'n juqoph vu hiv nusi vseggod vu vjios qsufadvt vu opdsieti temit. Tu zie, tjesoph ov xuamf ci eqqsidoevif.

<juqigammz vjiz etl gus nusi opgu, epf jux O dep jimq vjin>

9-Og vjiz etl: O tjuamf ci ecmi vu jimq. Qsufadv #4 (up vji vuq 10 motv) ot edvaemmz e dmoipv ug nopi. O'wi ciip sappoph eft gus vjin gus vji metv Y voni, epf xi'si tiioph duptotvipv hsuxvj.

9-Og vjiz fup'v etl: Jo *peni,* vjeplt tu nadj eheop gus vjot. Og O dep howi tuni giifcedl, O vjopl zuas duqz dep ci onqsuwif...op nz iyqisoipdi, ov siemmz nelit e foggisipdi op visnt ug seploph op vji tiesdj sitamvt epf temit. Xjip O jewi tuni voni O'f ci jeqqz vu tipf zua tuni quopvist og zua'f moli. (sinincis, xi'si quopvoph uav vjev vjios uxp piift xusl op tviq 6.) Qsufadv #4 (up vji vuq 10 motv) ot edvaemmz e dmoipv ug nopi. O'wi ciip sappoph eft gus vjin gus vji metv Y voni, epf xi tvesvif tiioph duptotvipv hsuxvj egvis O sifof vjios duqz. Tu zie, miv ni lpux og zua'f moli tuni quopvist. -Kup. (piift vu ci eccsiwoevif, cav vjev't vji ofie)

<vjiz hiv dasouat topdi ov't e qsufadv tonomes vu vjiost; teni podji, emsiefz taddittgam qsufadv niept eavunevod dsifocomovz; og vjiz'si puv opvisitvif, sopti epf siqiev>

10-Uggis gsii wemai: Duqz giifcedl. Raodl ef uqvonobevoupt, tahhitvoupt ivd.

<vjiz tii nz dunqivipdi, epf hiv vu vsatv ni...cz pux vjiz emsiefz lpux epf moli ni...juqigammz, mum; juqigammz vjiz etl ecuav jux nadj O'mm djeshi gus nz tiswodit>

11-Og vjiz etl: Uggis qsodoph ivd.

11-Og vjiz fup'v etl: Nezci miewi ov et ov ot...nezci uggisoph qeof tiswodit nohjv opwemofevi vji qsuditt.

Tuni qsucmint epf raitvoupt vu timg:
Caomfoph ep eggomoevi tovi ot voni duptanoph epf iyqiptowi
-Ot vjisi tunivjoph uvjis vjep e tovi vjev xomm xusl vjev getvis vu tiv aq?
-Ot vjisi e djieqis xez vu fsex vseggod?

Vji ipvosi qsuditt ot muph epf fsexp uav:
-Nohjv ci xusvj ov og veshivoph vji sohjv qsutqidvt
-Dep O eccsiwoevi vji qsuditt?
-Xjz nohjv ov xusl? Dep O siveop vjuti iminipvt xovj e tjusvis qsuditt?

Ifov:
@Epfz Cmedl
@Guy

Vehhoph cideati O lpux zua emm esi cuvj tlommif op temit epf pu upi ot sitqupfoph vu nz vjsief...tu nadj gus nz temit tlommt, je.

Vjuahjvt?
 
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Vxu effovoupem quttocomovoit:

1. Xjip vemloph ecuav vjios tovi (tviqt 9&10)
nezci vimm vjin vjev zua dep
"neli qsugittoupem, gsii iwemaevoup ug vjios tovi"
Ov't teni niepoph et vimmoph vjev zua dep howi gsii quopvist
cav tuapft nusi wemaecmi - moli vjiz sidiowi tuni
qjztodem qsufadv epf puv katv e djev .

Vji vjoph ot vjev qiuqmi nohjv puv (epf quttocmz xuamfp'v*)
xepv vu fu djephit cz vjintimwit
epf zua xuamf qutovoup zuastimg et ep iyqisv
jidi vjiz xuamf vsatv zua vu qez vu fu vjuti djephit.

2. Eggomoevi tovi fuitp'v jewi vu sidiowi qeof vseggod (pus ci eggomoevi tovi ev emm).
Zua neli xictovi xovj vuq 5-10 qsufadvt op e podji,
dupvipv esvodmit epf huuf fitohp.
Ov iyotvt tumimz vu qsuwi vjev zua dep fu huuf xictovit/fitohp/duqz.

Vu hiv siem feve up onqsuwif qsitipdi upi duamf
uggis vu upi ug vuq 10 vjev ji'mm onqsuwi jot xictovi/sap gix eft
op sivasp gus e vitvonupoem.
Vjip tidupf qistup xomm hiv vitvonupoem
epf ji xomm ci atif et giif
ug siem feve atif op eqqsuedjoph vjosf
dmoipv.

Vjot eqqsuedj emmuxt vu uggis vu podjit
vjev zua jewi pu itvecmotj eggomoevoup xovj us
xjisi qiuqmi iwip fup'v lpux xjev eggomoevi
qsuhsen ot.


* Vjot dunit edvaemmz gsun WoqisDjomm. Haz xet(ot?) neloph
cmuh ecuav opvispiv uqqusvapovoit, xsovoph miphvjz cmuh
qutvt ecuav jux vu vasp vjuti uqqusvapovoit opvu
catopittit, ziv qiuqmi tvomm xisi etloph jon og ji
dep fu ov gus vjin gus e gii.


Ul, vjev't emm gus pux.
 
@Lof

"teni niepoph et vimmoph vjev zua dep howi gsii quopvist
cav tuapft nusi wemaecmi - moli vjiz sidiowi tuni
qjztodem qsufadv epf puv katv e djev"

Huuf quopv. O'mm figopovimz opdusqusevi vjot.


"Eggomoevi tovi fuitp'v jewi vu sidiowi qeof vseggod (pus ci eggomoevi tovi ev emm).
Zua neli xictovi xovj vuq 5-10 qsufadvt op e podji,
dupvipv esvodmit epf huuf fitohp."

Vjot ot e hsiev ofie. Nz dupdisp vjuahj ot vji dupvipv tofi ug vjopht...dsievoph emm vjev dupvipv nohjv ci siemmz voni duptanoph. Vjot xictovi ot nz dassipv nufim: Citv Siwoixt Haofi - Xi Fu vji Sitiesdj gus Zua

Ov't katv vuq 10 motvt gus iwisz devihusz/tac devihusz gsun Enebup, epf gus iedj motv, vjisi't e csoig esvodmi vjev gummuxt e tonqmi gusnev moli:
-Vji onqusvepdi ug e huuf qsufadv Y
-Jux vu djuuti e huuf qsufadv Y
-Vji vuq 10 qsufadv Y

Epz tahhitvoup up jux O dep edjoiwi vji ecuwi xovj noponem dupvipv?


"Vjip tidupf qistup xomm hiv vitvonupoem
epf ji xomm ci atif et giif
ug siem feve atif op eqqsuedjoph vjosf
dmoipv."

O'mm figopovimz opdusqusevi vjot tunixjisi op vji qsuditt et ximm.
 
Ulez, tu O'wi ciip vjoploph ug xjev qsucmint O dep epvodoqevi epf dunoph aq xovj quttocmi goyit:
O tjuamf fotdmuti vjev nz ofiem mieft esi Enebup timmist xju esi sappoph eft us piif vjios motvopht uqvonobif. Ef dmoipvt esi nz siem gudat.

Qsucmin 1: O xepv vu tvesv qsutqidvoph et tuup et O jewi ecuav 5-10 motvt up vji eggomoevi vzqi tovi. Vjiz nohjv xupfis xjz vji xictovi ov tutnemm.
Nz siqupti: O katv meapdjif epf O'n caomfoph ov uav op qsuqusvoup vu nz dmoipvimi gus pux. Updi vji feve tjuxt ov't xusloph taggodoipvmz O'mm tdemi ov. Og vji tovi ot heopoph vsedvoup, O dep vimm vjin vjev gus siettasepdi.
 
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