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Hi

As a quick introduction. I am a german student, who likes doing new things. I wanted to become an entrepreneur, since I turned 18. I am studying because I want to gain some expertise for a backup plan. But nowadays I feel drilled enough and ready to start my own business.
Oke let's be honest. My biggest problem is that I'm a very anxious person. I really struggle with social interactions. But I know that I have to face my fears. Soo now I am here.
Don't get me wrong. I do all the necesarry things, but it feels twice as hard, because I am so afraid what other people can think of me. Do you know what I mean?

A few years ago when I was in school, I got bullied, because I was shy. I didn't know how to talk to others, because everytime back then, they laughed at me for what I said. Luckily the leader of my bullies changed the school, so the rest of the "gang" left me alone. I got some friends and learned the basic ways of talking. Till now I continued improving on my shyness. Today I feel great about the process, but I think that it might not be enough to resist the hard discussions in businesses.
My goal is to be free of my inner demons and fix the wounds they gave me as a kid. I don't want revenge, but I will show them that they have made of me what they themselves can only dream of.
Since my first day in university, I tried to learn new skills and continued talking to others. I worked in different jobs which helped me to socialize with other people. I practiced in habits and in discipline.
After I read the millionaire fastlane a few weeks ago, I got something like a vision. I am ready to start! And I will rock it!

I have an business idea which could help many students. It's a SaaS. I am currently in the process of setting up a company. Hopefully I can tell you more in a few months.

I would be happy if some people with similar problems had a few tips on how to get rid of fear.
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
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  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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