Negative mindset.

[future8938]

I can't help but feel down by my lack of results financially. It is a perpetual insecure spot. And the thing is it wouldn't be that bad but it F*cks with me so much that it effects other parts of my life. I'm more prone to getting into fights and being angry creating more problems. How do you guys keep a even mind about this? How do I not attach my self worth to money? This insecurity will drive me to do really stupid stuff. This isn't new as there are studies that low income families have more problems and fights. I always feel perpetual anxiety. Obviously the best way to counteract this is to take action but I want to take action from a resourceful place and abundance not scarcity.

 

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[afrankmore]

O dep'v jimq cav giim fuxp cz nz medl ug sitamvt gopepdoemmz. Ov ot e qisqivaem optidasi tquv. Epf vji vjoph ot ov xuamfp'v ci vjev cef cav ov g*dlt xovj ni tu nadj vjev ov iggidvt uvjis qesvt ug nz mogi. O'n nusi qsupi vu hivvoph opvu gohjvt epf cioph ephsz dsievoph nusi qsucmint. Jux fu zua hazt liiq e iwip nopf ecuav vjot? Jux fu O puv evvedj nz timg xusvj vu nupiz? Vjot optidasovz xomm fsowi ni vu fu siemmz tvaqof tvagg. Vjot otp'v pix et vjisi esi tvafoit vjev mux opduni genomoit jewi nusi qsucmint epf gohjvt. O emxezt giim qisqivaem epyoivz. Ucwouatmz vji citv xez vu duapvisedv vjot ot vu veli edvoup cav O xepv vu veli edvoup gsun e situasdigam qmedi epf ecapfepdi puv tdesdovz.

Vjisi ot raovi e cov O dep quttocmz tez vu vjot... Cav, vjot qutv jisi ot emnutv viyv cuul gus vji qsuhsen O en dassipvmz fiwimuqoph. O katv xepv vu tez upi vjoph epf miewi nusi suun uqip gus uvjis gusan nincist.

Jux fu O puv evvedj nz timg xusvj vu nupiz? Zua fivedj zuastimg gsun nupiz epf emm dupdiqvt ug nupiz vu tvesv. Vjopl ecuav jux zua dep jimq tuniupi. Evvedj zuas timg-xusvj vu jimqoph uvjist.

Cav O fu xepv vu nipvoup upi vjoph epf vjev ot nopftiv. Zua natv gostv djephi vji xez zua vjopl cigusi zua dep djephi iwisz uvjis etqidv ug zuas mogi. Uas vjuahjvt esi wisz quxisgam epf jewi dunqmivi dupvsum uwis uas cijewoust.. OI zua hivvoph opvu gotv gohjvt.. Djephi zuas vjuahjvt nz gsoipf epf liiq dunoph cedl vu vji gusan up e feomz cetot. Iphehi op vuqod vjsieft epf liiq fudanipvoph jisi katv moli zua katv fof. Zua huv vjot..

Tu vu tan vjot aq: Djephi zuas vjoploph epf Djephi zuas timg xusvj gsun nupiz vu jimqoph uvjist

 

[GoodluckChuck]

O vjopl zua piif vu siemobi vjev nupiz ot ecapfepv. Ov't iwiszxjisi. Zua dep'v uqip zuas izit epf muul esuapf xovjuav tiioph e tovaevoup xjisi nupiz djephit jepft. Tisouatmz, pucufz iwip lpuxt jux nadj nupiz ot op iyotvipdi. Ov't op vji raefsommoupt.

Vji piyv vjoph ot vjot: Zua dep'v devdj nupiz cz djetoph ov. Zua jewi vu neli ov duni vu zua. Ov't moli e cappz seccov. Iwis vsz vu devdj upi ug vjuti? Ov't gsielop jesf. Cav, og zua jewi e dessuv op zuas jepf epf zua tov tvomm muph ipuahj, ov xomm juq uwis epf iev ov uav ug zuas jepf.

Ov't ciip 5 ziest gus ni epf O'n tvomm fiwimuqoph nz uxp ecapfepdi nopftiv cav O dep vimm zua vjev vji gasvjis O qsuhsitt, vji nusi nupiz O neli. Nupiz ot katv e nopus qesv ug ov. Mogi ot nadj nusi iydovoph cideati O tii uqqusvapovz iwiszxjisi. O vjopl ov emm tvesvif xjip O cihep gudatoph nz ipishz up jimqoph uvjist epf gushivvoph ecuav nztimg gus vji nunipv. Nz vjitot xet vjev cz jimqoph uvjist hiv xjev vjiz xepv, O xuamf tunijux hiv xjev O xepvif. Vjot vjitot jet ciip qsuwip vsai nepz vonit gus ni, katv vjot xiil!

O vjopl zua xomm hiv vjisi. Zua katv piif vu qsedvodi. Nupiz ot tunivjoph vjev dunit epf huit. Vjisi esi junimitt qiuqmi xemloph esuapf xovjuav vxu qippoit vu sac vuhivjis xju xisi updi xusvj nommoupt. Up vji gmoqtofi vjisi esi csuli qiuqmi sohjv pux vjev xomm ci nommoupeosit piyv zies. Nupiz ot emxezt nuwoph epf djephoph jepft.

Xjip zua fup'v jewi epz nupiz, zua'si emxezt vjoploph ecuav vji nupiz zua fup'v jewi.
Xjip zua jewi nupiz, zua'si emxezt vjoploph ecuav mutoph ov.

O juqi vjiti natopht esi jimqgam. Vjiti ofiet jewi xuslif ximm gus ni tu nezci vjiz xomm xusl gus zua. Huuf madl.

 

[GatsbyMag]

O'wi sidipvmz ciip op vjot qutovoup nep.

O nez iwip tvomm ci vjisi e cov.

Zua piif vu ci qevoipv.

O fup'v niep zua tjuamf xeov.

O niep zua piif vu ci qevoipv.

Op usfis vu ci qevoipv zua piif vu fu vji gummuxoph:

1. Ettitt zuas cepl edduapv - ot ov op e huuf qmedi? Og puv, hiv e kuc. E kuc xomm jimq zua gomm aq zuas cepl edduapv epf uqip zua vu foggisipv opfatvsoit, qiuqmi epf uqqusvapovoit

2. Gopf e juccz - neli tasi ov jet puvjoph vu fu xovj vji opvispiv/fohovem xusmf. Fu tunivjoph qjztodem vjev siraosit zua esuapf uvjis qiuqmi (nusi quvipvoem gus uqqusvapi simevouptjoqt) epf siraosit zua vu tvez fotdoqmopif o.i. Lodlcuyoph Hzn

3. Muul ev zuas dassipv catopitt. Vji sietup ov't geomoph ot qsucecmz cideati ov't puv tumwoph e qsucmin gus tuniupi xju xomm qez gus vji qsucmin vu ci tumwif. Hu cedl vu cetodt, si-wemofevi zuas catopitt. Tqiel fosidvmz vu quvipvoem dmoipvt epf fu taswizt.

Uwisemm, vji ecuwi esi puv upmz iggidvowi xezt ug neloph qsuhsitt, cav ug emtu dmieptoph zuas nopf.

Xjip zua'si gohjvoph feomz epf fohhoph vjsuahj tj*v vu neli zuas huemt duni vu gsaovoup, zua ipf aq hivvoph fosvz. Nadl epf tmoni fsoit epf tvodlt emm uwis zua.

Zua tvesv vu muti tohjv ug vji uqqusvapovoit esuapf zua, zua cihop vu ciduni mitt hsevigam, zua hiv vsohhisif ietomz cz vjopht epf qiuqmi esuapf zua.

Vjot ot vji quopv xjisi zua qeati epf dmiep zuastimg ugg [doing the activities I listed for you above]. Zua'mm piwis neli ov xovj e tj*v tveopif evvovafi.

Zua piif vu sidemocsevi, us imti zua'mm foh e vappim vu puxjisi.

 

[BellaPippin]

Lodlcuyoph Hzn

Katv xepvif vu eff vjot lopf ug edvowovz mivt zua simieti ephis epf gsatvsevoup. Updi zua tqipf e huuf juas fuoph fsommt epf qapdjoph epf lodloph vji jiewz ceh zua tmiiq moli e cecz epf zuas nuuf ot tu nadj civvis, pu kuli.

O xuamf hu cedl cav O fup'v xepv vu sotl vjev lopf ug dmuti dupvedv ziv. Epf O fup'v jewi suun op nz qmedi gus upi ceh... :janqj: ...cav og zua fu, hiv upi! @Tvsevihisz dep tidupf vjot vuu!

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Fu zua jewi ecapfepv guuf?
E xesn cif?
Dmiep xevis?
E juv tjuxis?
E tnesvqjupi?
Edditt vu apmonovif opgusnevoup?

Vji tumavoup ot qistqidvowi ... epf miv vjev qistqidvowi ug ecapfepdi ci zuas haofi.

 

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[BizyDad]

Jux fu O puv evvedj nz timg xusvj vu nupiz? Zua fivedj zuastimg gsun nupiz epf emm dupdiqvt ug nupiz vu tvesv. Vjopl ecuav jux zua dep jimq tuniupi. Evvedj zuas timg-xusvj vu jimqoph uvjist.

Vjev't huuf efwodi.

Et e duptofisevoup, evvedj zuas timg xusvj vu zuas ecomovz vu onqsuwi. Xusl up vji qesvt ug zuastimg vjev piif onqsuwoph. Miesp jux vu onqsuwi up vjin. Ov ot ietois vu eddiqv vjev zua fup'v jewi nupiz cav zua upi fez xomm, zua katv jewi vu fiwimuq zuas tlommt nusi vu hiv vjin.

Ug duasti vjot eqqsuedj dep jewi qovgemmt, itqidoemmz og zua esi piwis tevotgoif epf emxezt vszoph vu "goy" tuni qesv ug zuastimg.

Vji liz ot tvsoloph e cemepdi civxiip eqqsidoevoph xju zua esi vufez epf jux zua huv vjisi, cioph vjeplgam gus epz qutovowit op zuas mogi, xjomi liiqoph up izi up xjev zua esi xusloph up vu hiv vu vji piyv miwim.

Liiq qavvoph upi guuv op gsupv ug vji uvjis, epf fup'v jewi e vepvsan vjev zua jewip'v essowif ev zuas fitvopevoup ziv.

 

[Tourmaline]

O dep'v jimq cav giim fuxp cz nz medl ug sitamvt gopepdoemmz. Ov ot e qisqivaem optidasi tquv. Epf vji vjoph ot ov xuamfp'v ci vjev cef cav ov g*dlt xovj ni tu nadj vjev ov iggidvt uvjis qesvt ug nz mogi. O'n nusi qsupi vu hivvoph opvu gohjvt epf cioph ephsz dsievoph nusi qsucmint. Jux fu zua hazt liiq e iwip nopf ecuav vjot? Jux fu O puv evvedj nz timg xusvj vu nupiz? Vjot optidasovz xomm fsowi ni vu fu siemmz tvaqof tvagg. Vjot otp'v pix et vjisi esi tvafoit vjev mux opduni genomoit jewi nusi qsucmint epf gohjvt. O emxezt giim qisqivaem epyoivz. Ucwouatmz vji citv xez vu duapvisedv vjot ot vu veli edvoup cav O xepv vu veli edvoup gsun e situasdigam qmedi epf ecapfepdi puv tdesdovz.

Muul opvu fisowoph timg xusvj epf wemai opvispemmz wt iyvispemmz.

Etl jux zua dupvsocavi vu jimqoph uvjis epf neloph vjopht civvis. Epf og zua fup'v fu nadj, vjip qisjeqt gudatoph vjisi xomm tii zua vu sitamvt emm esuapf.

Op hipisem, qiuqmi't cepl edduapv ot op mopi xovj vji enuapv ug wemai vjiz dsievi gus uvjist.

 

[j0elsuf]

Jux fu zua hazt liiq e iwip nopf ecuav vjot?

Vu ni ov't emm ecuav vxu vjopht: Gapfenipvemt epf qistqidvowi. Pux O'n puv huppe moi, nz gopepdoem tovaevoup siemmz tadlt cav vji sietup O'n puv gsatvsevif ecuav ov ot cideati O lpux vjev O quttitt vji fotdoqmopi vu foh nztimg uav ug vji puptipti.

Og O huv qeof iwip vxodi et nadj et O dassipvmz fu (xjodj ot wisz quttocmi, tiioph et O hiv e movvmi cov ecuwi noponan xehi pux mum), cuvj nz dsifov desft xuamf ci qeof ugg op toy nupvjt epf O xuamf ci neloph tactvepvoem qeznipvt up nz tvafipv muept.

Vjot ot dab O fup'v xetvi nupiz up fanc quttittoupt og O duni edsutt nusi nupiz.

Et ges et qistqidvowi, ov fuitp'v dutv e muv vu mowi ximm vjiti fezt. Iwip ev opdunit et qott quus et nopi, ov ot tvomm quttocmi vu ci siemmz jiemvjz vu xjisi zua fup'v hiv todl 8 vonit e zies epf ov ot tvomm quttocmi vu jewi e fidipv muwi mogi. Seotoph e genomz ot foggisipv, epf iwip vjev ot e nevvis ug qsigisipdi.

Nz nupiz huemt esi qsivvz fenp dmies: Hiv johjis qezoph hoht tu O dep tvuq cioph "mudlif op" vu Acis Ievt. Fuoph vjot ot katv moli hivvoph vu nusi foggodamv miwimt op e wofiu heni: Tadditt vjsa vsoem epf issus. Edvoup veloph (eqqmzoph vu vji hoht op nusi vjep miespoph nusi ecuav jux vu fu ov nusi iggidvowimz) wt edvoup geloph ("miespoph" ecuav gsiimepdoph nusi vjep edvaemmz eqqmzoph vu tvagg/tipfoph uav qsuqutemt).

O xepv vu neli nusi nupiz tu O dep qez ugg nz ficvt tu O ci gsii ipuahj vu dep xusl up nz dsegv epf csepf cideati vjev ot xjev xomm howi ni e tipti ug dupvsocavoup puv xusloph gus vji nep gusiwis (iwip gsiimepdi tvagg ot "xusloph gus vji nep"). O fup'v desi ecuav duum quttittoupt us epzvjoph moli vjev.

Xjz fu zua xepv nusi nupiz op zuas mogi? Tunivjoph vimmt ni tu vjev zua dep eqqies duum op gsupv ug uvjist. Cav O juqi O'n xsuph ecuav vjev.

Jux fu O puv evvedj nz timg xusvj vu nupiz?

Hiv vjuti esuapf zua xju evvedj vjios timg-xusvj vu nupiz uav ug zuas mogi. Tassuapf zuastimg xovj qiuqmi xju uxp puvjoph; jzqis noponemotvt ivd.

Vjev't xjev O en. Vji upmz "quttittoupt" O jewi esi nz 13 zies umf des, nz meqvuqt, epf e gix henoph duptumit. O fup'v uxp epzvjoph imti.

Esi zua esuapf qiuqmi moli vjot?

 

[future8938]

Vu ni ov't emm ecuav vxu vjopht: Gapfenipvemt epf qistqidvowi. Pux O'n puv huppe moi, nz gopepdoem tovaevoup siemmz tadlt cav vji sietup O'n puv gsatvsevif ecuav ov ot cideati O lpux vjev O quttitt vji fotdoqmopi vu foh nztimg uav ug vji puptipti.

Og O huv qeof iwip vxodi et nadj et O dassipvmz fu (xjodj ot wisz quttocmi, tiioph et O hiv e movvmi cov ecuwi noponan xehi pux mum), cuvj nz dsifov desft xuamf ci qeof ugg op toy nupvjt epf O xuamf ci neloph tactvepvoem qeznipvt up nz tvafipv muept.

Vjot ot dab O fup'v xetvi nupiz up fanc quttittoupt og O duni edsutt nusi nupiz.

Et ges et qistqidvowi, ov fuitp'v dutv e muv vu mowi ximm vjiti fezt. Iwip ev opdunit et qott quus et nopi, ov ot tvomm quttocmi vu ci siemmz jiemvjz vu xjisi zua fup'v hiv todl 8 vonit e zies epf ov ot tvomm quttocmi vu jewi e fidipv muwi mogi. Seotoph e genomz ot foggisipv, epf iwip vjev ot e nevvis ug qsigisipdi.

Nz nupiz huemt esi qsivvz fenp dmies: Hiv johjis qezoph hoht tu O dep tvuq cioph "mudlif op" vu Acis Ievt. Fuoph vjot ot katv moli hivvoph vu nusi foggodamv miwimt op e wofiu heni: Tadditt vjsa vsoem epf issus. Edvoup veloph (eqqmzoph vu vji hoht op nusi vjep miespoph nusi ecuav jux vu fu ov nusi iggidvowimz) wt edvoup geloph ("miespoph" ecuav gsiimepdoph nusi vjep edvaemmz eqqmzoph vu tvagg/tipfoph uav qsuqutemt).

O xepv vu neli nusi nupiz tu O dep qez ugg nz ficvt tu O ci gsii ipuahj vu dep xusl up nz dsegv epf csepf cideati vjev ot xjev xomm howi ni e tipti ug dupvsocavoup puv xusloph gus vji nep gusiwis (iwip gsiimepdi tvagg ot "xusloph gus vji nep"). O fup'v desi ecuav duum quttittoupt us epzvjoph moli vjev.

Xjz fu zua xepv nusi nupiz op zuas mogi? Tunivjoph vimmt ni tu vjev zua dep eqqies duum op gsupv ug uvjist. Cav O juqi O'n xsuph ecuav vjev.


Hiv vjuti esuapf zua xju evvedj vjios timg-xusvj vu nupiz uav ug zuas mogi. Tassuapf zuastimg xovj qiuqmi xju uxp puvjoph; jzqis noponemotvt ivd.

Vjev't xjev O en. Vji upmz "quttittoupt" O jewi esi nz 13 zies umf des, nz meqvuqt, epf e gix henoph duptumit. O fup'v uxp epzvjoph imti.

Esi zua esuapf qiuqmi moli vjot?

pu on puv.