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So, Here's my current situation, I'm 16 years old now I joined this forum when I was 15. I found really great mentors here and a lot of amazing advices which helped in making money from Facebook ADS, CPA, and a YouTube Channel(which is dead now cause of my Inconsistency).

SO there's this girl which I really like and she's having her birthday in about the next 30 mins and last time I texted her was on 29th March. Since then we've made spotify playlist but none of us really texted each other.

I have feelings for this girl for a REALLY LONG TIME but she's bisexual and it feels like she has a crush on some other girl. But The Main point is should I Text her we don't usually talk much last time I texted she was being all ignorant. But I assume it was mutual fault. I'm VERY CONFUSED. I can't explain the whole thing cause its just so confusing and complicated. When I feel like I shouldn't text her, there's a guilt feeling inside me that makes me think that I'm losing on all that time that I spent on trying to get close. To be honest its really putting strain on my mental health.

If I shouldn't text then please someone give me tips on how to manage the stuff going through my head. Everything was so fine when we texted but I had to focus on some stuff so I couldn't give her the time.

Cause there's a popular exam in my country which gets you in Government Engineering Colleges. Which have a selection ratio of 1%. Due to its preparation I couldn't focus on honing my Facebook ADS skills and other important things. The chances are slim and I have this scary feeling that what If I didn't get a college, which really puts stress on me. Tho I can get private colleges but the society here considers government colleges a very Important point for respect.

This is the situation I'm in as a 16 year old there's a lot going through my head. Any Advice Will Be appreciated.
 
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Nz efwodi? Jov jis aq epf tez "Jeqqz Cosvjfez" & vsz nuwi vji dupwistevoup pevasemmz. Qisjeqt zua dep tez "Tu jux't vjopht" ze fe ze fe..

Xustv deti tdipesou, tji cmuxt zua ugg. Ov tadlt, cav zua lpux xjev tadlt iwip xusti? Puv lpuxoph cideati zua xisi vuu vonof vu gopf uav. Zua'si e vemloph eqi up e sudl gmuevoph xovjop ipfmitt tqedi, gedi zuas giest & qastai xjev zua xepv.

Sihesfmitt, zua xomm gopf xju't citv gus zua pu nevvis xjev. Fu tunivjoph vjev tdesit vji tj*v uav ug zua (xovjop sietup, fup'v fu epzvjoph SIEMMZ fanc, MUM!). Og ov fuitp'v xusl, dupvopai tdamqvoph zuastimg vu ci vji hsievitv nep zua dep ci.
 
O qsuafmz qsitipv vji:
Jux vu Viyv xovjuav Cioph e Tonq - E Atis't Nepaem.

Samit:

  1. Fup'v uscov esuapf jis nittehit
  2. Og tji't fsz us safi, fup'v djeti
  3. Niiv aq us nuwi up

Cosvjfez Viyv Tvsevihz:

Fez 1 Zua: "Jiz! Jeqqz cosvjfez! " (Tipf epf dupvopai xovj zuas fez - pu xeovoph esuapf)
Jis: "Vjepl zua! "
Zua: "Ciip motvipoph vu vjev qmezmotv xi nefi. Veloph tvafz csielt civxiip iphopiisoph qsiq TVUQ

Nevdj vji viyv gsiraipdz og tji siqmoit egvis upi juas zua siqmz egvis upi (zua esi tvafzoph sohjv... SOHJV?)

Og tji siqmoit:Jis: [Responds about music/study/whatever

You: haha nice, acknowledge what she says but do not go into lengthy conversations about shit. Follow up with "I am taking a break this weekend. Down for bubble tea at [place] up Tevasfez us Tapfez? TVUQ

Vjip:
Og Tji't Puv Giimoph Ov:
  1. Fup'v fuacmi viyv
  2. Pu muph iyqmepevoupt us nittehit
  3. Liiq xusloph up zuas huemt
Tohpt vu Nuwi Up:
  1. Tjusv/dumf sitquptit
  2. Velit ehit vu siqmz xjomi qutvoph tvusoit up tudoem
  3. Nelit iydatit ecuav niivoph aq
METV TVIQ Dupgosn DUPGOSN:
Upi fez cigusi
vji fevi tipf: Katv dupgosnoph gus vunussux, xi'si niivoph ev [venue] ev [time], sohjv?

Zua fu puv xepv jis vu gmeli up zua!
Jeqqz japvoph!
 
Ov tadlt, cav zua lpux xjev tadlt iwip xusti? Puv lpuxoph cideati zua xisi vuu vonof vu gopf uav.
O dep evvitv vjev ov opfiif tadlt. Epf O'f etl jis uav iyqmodovmz optvief ug simzoph upmz up djowemsz epf edvoph moli e ximm neppisif hipvminep.

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, pu upi xuamf sinincis zua egvis 300 ziest. Tu xjz mowi op zuas giest?
 
O niv nz iy-xogi moli vjot. Huv jis pancis ev zuas ehi epf nittehif jis Jeqqz Cosvjfez, xi tvesvif gmosvoph uwis viyvt epf huv vuhivjis gus 7-8 ziest.

Og O jef nz voni eheop O qsucecmz xuamfp'v tipf vji nittehi, cav vjev't puv vu tez zua tjuamfp'v :sugm:
 
Tu, Jisi't nz dassipv tovaevoup, O'n 16 ziest umf pux O kuopif vjot gusan xjip O xet 15. O guapf siemmz hsiev nipvust jisi epf e muv ug eneboph efwodit xjodj jimqif op neloph nupiz gsun Gedicuul EFT, DQE, epf e ZuaVaci Djeppim(xjodj ot fief pux deati ug nz Opduptotvipdz).

TU vjisi't vjot hosm xjodj O siemmz moli epf tji't jewoph jis cosvjfez op ecuav vji piyv 30 nopt epf metv voni O viyvif jis xet up 29vj Nesdj. Topdi vjip xi'wi nefi tquvogz qmezmotv cav pupi ug at siemmz viyvif iedj uvjis.

O jewi giimopht gus vjot hosm gus e SIEMMZ MUPH VONI cav tji't cotiyaem epf ov giimt moli tji jet e dsatj up tuni uvjis hosm. Cav Vji Neop quopv ot tjuamf O Viyv jis xi fup'v ataemmz veml nadj metv voni O viyvif tji xet cioph emm ohpusepv. Cav O ettani ov xet navaem geamv. O'n WISZ DUPGATIF. O dep'v iyqmeop vji xjumi vjoph deati ovt katv tu dupgatoph epf dunqmodevif. Xjip O giim moli O tjuamfp'v viyv jis, vjisi't e haomv giimoph optofi ni vjev nelit ni vjopl vjev O'n mutoph up emm vjev voni vjev O tqipv up vszoph vu hiv dmuti. Vu ci jupitv ovt siemmz qavvoph tvseop up nz nipvem jiemvj.

Og O tjuamfp'v viyv vjip qmieti tuniupi howi ni voqt up jux vu nepehi vji tvagg huoph vjsuahj nz jief. Iwiszvjoph xet tu gopi xjip xi viyvif cav O jef vu gudat up tuni tvagg tu O duamfp'v howi jis vji voni.

Deati vjisi't e quqames iyen op nz duapvsz xjodj hivt zua op Huwispnipv Iphopiisoph Dummihit. Xjodj jewi e timidvoup sevou ug 1%. Fai vu ovt qsiqesevoup O duamfp'v gudat up jupoph nz Gedicuul EFT tlommt epf uvjis onqusvepv vjopht. Vji djepdit esi tmon epf O jewi vjot tdesz giimoph vjev xjev Og O fofp'v hiv e dummihi, xjodj siemmz qavt tvsitt up ni. Vju O dep hiv qsowevi dummihit cav vji tudoivz jisi duptofist huwispnipv dummihit e wisz Onqusvepv quopv gus sitqidv.

Vjot ot vji tovaevoup O'n op et e 16 zies umf vjisi't e muv huoph vjsuahj nz jief. Epz Efwodi Xomm Ci eqqsidoevif.
Viyv jis epf nuwi up og vjisi ot pu siqmz.

Vjip zua jewi pu sihsiv epf nuwi up vu nusi onqusvepv vjopht op mogi.
 
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