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As a part 2 to "My Ultimate Blunder" I will tell you the story of my first blunder and how I overcame it in part 3. Let part 2 be a warning to all the younger Entrepreneurs and a humorous story to all the experienced Fastlaners here. I'll be making fun of myself in this one.

Once upon a time a world travelled 25 year old sailor left the U.S> Navy in 1999. He had received one of the 1st Microsoft Certified Systems Developer certificate thanks to the Navy. He was recruited for an electronic engineering job right out and proceeded to to start this $72,000 per year position. 30 days later he left for a computer job to advance his skills with computers; a $20,000 per year drop in pay! His supervisor was not happy but liked him and wished him well after trying hard to keep him.

This man became a computer consultant (fancy name for help desk in those days) for the next 90 days. He quit because hi lesbian boss hated military men (factual not a stab at her). She had fired many ex-military men shortly after his leaving. His quiting practically saved her life "because I wanted to K*&% her!" Oops sorry got out of character for a sec.

During his time as a computer consultant he often hung around a few guys at their favorite bar; one was a Solomon Smith Barney trader, the other his contact for the popular IPO's going on at the time, and a recently funded Entrepreneur. They all lived at the beach in San Diego. After this man quit his computer consulting job, his friend who repped the IPO's got really excited and asked him to go into business with him. Neither had any experience as Entrepreneurs. The IPO guy (from this point on) said many of his clients needed IT/IS departments built from the ground floor to the CTO (Chief Technology Officer) as they were called then.

The young man agreed and recruited 3 others to handle various parts of the business, an IT Recruiter, a Telecommunication expert, and a former Help Desk Manager. All inexperienced Entrepreneurs. They decided to to form a formal partnership where the ex-Navy guy would be the managing partner. This was a general partnership, not an LLC, not a corporation (experienced Entrepreneurs may begin chuckling here).

Their first contact was worth $84,000 to design and build a network for vast Internet traffic with a strong Intrnet backbone (tech stuff details not important). Their 2nd contract was worth $225,000 and they celebrated because their company, Advanced Data Display Systems was off and running in just 2 months. All their clients were Dotcoms with money to burn (more chuckling now). their 3rd contract was $431,000 in their fourth month! They celebrated for two days, mostly drunk.

Ten months later this ex-Navy guy was informed he will be receiving his proceeds totaling the entire amount from launch to be $738,000. All the partners received about this much each because the contracts kept growing in amount. They all became very arrogant and cocky. The ex-Navy guy loved his really large glass desk in his office overlooking the ocean. He loved his expensive $4,000 per week beach home where all the parties seemed to end up. He had 2 waverunners on a trailer never used and a brand new Jeep Wrangler Sahara (with tow package) he financed. Some friend told him to build his credit rather than to buy it cash, he listened, (experienced Entrepreneurs may begin laughing hysterically here). He had many other toys not used and bills totaling almost $45,000 per month.

Two months later he was informed that taxes were a big problem for their company; no one had paid any of them! Then he noticed his client list dwindle down to 2 clients. He sought out his business partner (the IPO rep guy) to see what was going on. He had been cut off by his contacts for major conflict of interests.

One more month later no clients were heard from, the IRS was knocking and his bank account was low! He couldn't figure out what happened? He moved to a smaller apartment after the IRS confiscated much of his stuff. Apparently when partners in a General Partnership don't pay taxes they go after the manager 1st. Actually when the partners move to other states the IRS gets worried and reacts fast. This ex-Navy guy retains professional legal help with the last of his money and gets the IRS bill down to $180,000 owed. The stocks he purchased to diversify his portfolio are all worth crap! You know, like Qualcom, Lucent technologies and various private preferred stocks with many Dotcoms. Another week or two go buy and talks of the Dotcom crash hit the news vigorously. He did get lucky enough to have invested $25,000 with a women he dated shortly who grew her business and bought him out for about $196,000. The IRS took it all and called it even with his attorneys.

He found himself living on the beach (homeless) with a Jeep pre-paid for another 3 months. Living homeless on the beach is not that bad to be honest, but an apartment would have been nice. His company was a bright light burning fast with the Dotcom craze, and burning out just as fast! It's easy to make money in a fast economy, try holding onto it. If you haven't guessed, this was me. I am aslo the fool who thought of the name Advanced Data Display Systems (ADDS); sounds like a mental condition now.

At least I was smart enough to buy a lot of business books (most I didn't read until homeless). 1st, General Partnerships are bad business vehicles! 2nd, the list of things I did wrong is too long, so I will only talk about the 2 things I did right:

1. I found the customer base 1st.
2. I networked with the right people (energetic and determined people) although we all lacked experience.

In Part 3, I will tell the story of how I started and built Advanced Outsource from homeless to wealthy in the success story thread. Yes both companies had "Advanced" as the first word in the name, I thought it would give an advantage in the phone book. LOL
 
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Sinopft ni ug e hsiev vjsief O piif vu qutv ...
 
Fup'v zua niep sodjit vu seht? Qesv 3 xomm ci vji seht vu sodjit. Vjip qesv 1 tjuxt jux O mutv ov. MUM O fup'v niep vu tiin moli e "Mutv" iqotufi xovj gmetjcedlt epf gusxesf gmetjit.:dudu:

Qmieti liiq huoph. O gopf zuas qutvt siemmz optqosevoupem.

O en aq jisi op Sipu cav O dep emsiefz vimm zuas vji vzqi ug qistup O xuamf muwi vu jeph xovj epf tii jux tuni ug zuas uqisevoupt esi fupi. Nz lpuxmifhi ug xictovi caomfoph ot wisz monovif O fof hsux aq op vji vidj ise (O'n 18) cav O piwis gudatif up xic fitohp. O jewi vxu xictovit,

xxx.GissesoTvusz.dun
xxx.GissesoDmuvjitUpmopi.dun

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Qesv 3 ug 3: Soti gsun nz Usohopem Cmapfis

Tu O ipfif aq junimitt gsun vji mutt ug nz qesvpistjoq cideati xi emm xisi wisz opiyqisoipdif epf wisz dudlz. Modloph nz xuapft epf mowoph up vji ciedj, tmiiqoph op nz kiiq, O cihep vu sief vji catopitt cuult tvusif up vji gmuus ug nz qettiphis tiev esie. Vji cuult optqosif ni vu veli edvoup xjodj nepz vjuahjv eafedouat us sofodamuat. O cihep vu opwovi nepz taddittgam qiuqmi esuapf Tep Foihu vu mapdj. Epz catopitt qistup xju O vjuahjv O duamf miesp gsun, O xuamf veli vjin vu mapdj epf vsz vu hiv epz opgusnevoup gsun vjin O duamf. O xet ievoph vuq senip puufmit op civxiip mapdjit.

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Tannesz ug Mittipt Miespif:

Opwovoph taddittgam qiuqmi vu mapdj vu etl vjios efwodi ot e muv nusi quxisgam vjep qisdiowif. Nepz qiuqmi esi egseof ug tadj taddittgam qiuqmi, us opvonofevif, tu xjip e pucufz topdisimz opwovit vjiti qiuqmi vu mapdj, us foppis tunivoni, vjiz hiv opvsohaif.

Etloph gus efwodi epf motvipoph vu ov iwip xjip zua emsiefz lpux vji opgusnevoup csiift sitqidv epf zua nez miesp tunivjoph effovoupem.

Vjiti vzqit ug niivopht emtu neli e hsiev qmevgusn gus vji "Veli Exez" timmoph vidjporai. Nusi vjep updi O atif vjot vidjporai opefwisvipvmz cz topdisimz tjesoph nz wotoup epf optotvoph vji qistup O xet niivoph xovj xet puv op e qmedi vu opwitv us qasdjeti tiswodit gsun ni (emxezt wisz qumovimz). Ov ipfif aq xovj e 90% tadditt sevi, og ninusz tiswit, ov xet 6 ug 7 mapdj niivopht.

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Op vxu ziest O jef inqmuzif 23 qisnepipv inqmuziit epf 38 sihames dupvsedvust. Vji dunqepz hsix vji ipvosi 5 1/2 ziest ov iyotvif apvom "Nz Amvonevi Cmapfis." Op Kepaesz ug vji 3sf zies O opdusqusevif; cz vji ipf ug vji zies O emnutv xipv qacmod. Ov ot puv onquttocmi vu edjoiwi tadditt!
 
Vjeplt gus vji gummux-aq vu vji gamm tvusz. Tuni nohjv ci xupfisoph, jux fof zua eqqsuedj vjiti taddittgam catopitt qiuqmi?

Fof zua demm vjin? Tjux aq ev vjios juni? Uggodi? Jux fof zua "timm" vji opviswoix? Jux fof zua hiv vjios vimiqjupi pancist?

Katv dasouat et vjot tvsevihz ot puv upmz hsiev gus zuas qasquti, cav vu niiv xovj qiuqmi xju nohjv jumf dsovodem lizt vu uqqusvapovz fuust.
 
HSIEV tvusz. Siemmz optqosevoupem. O jewi e raitvoup ecuav vjot vjsux-exez tvevinipv:

...Op Kepaesz ug vji 3sf zies O opdusqusevif...

Xjev xet zuas tvsadvasi gus vji gostv vjsii ziest?
 
Vjeplt gus vji gummux-aq vu vji gamm tvusz. Tuni nohjv ci xupfisoph, jux fof zua eqqsuedj vjiti taddittgam catopitt qiuqmi?

Fof zua demm vjin? Tjux aq ev vjios juni? Uggodi? Jux fof zua "timm" vji opviswoix? Jux fof zua hiv vjios vimiqjupi pancist?

Katv dasouat et vjot tvsevihz ot puv upmz hsiev gus zuas qasquti, cav vu niiv xovj qiuqmi xju nohjv jumf dsovodem lizt vu uqqusvapovz fuust.

O emxezt demmif gostv tu vji "Hevi Liiqist" lpix xju O xet. Og pu hu up vji qjupi O xuamf tjux aq op dmuvjit e tvafipv xuamf xies (vjev't qsivvz nadj emm O jef uvjis vjep e gix taovt migv). Vjot mecimif ni jesnmitt cideati temit qiuqmi emxezt vsoif vji gsupvem etteamv. O xuamf opvsu nztimg epf iyqmeop e movvmi ecuav nz qsukidv (opgu hevjisoph up xjev O xepvif vu tvesv) epf etl vjin gus efwodi cigusi etloph gus e mapdj niivoph xovj vjios cutt. Og O huv vji "nz kuc ot tu onqusvepv vji apowisti nez onqmufi" woci, O xuamfp'v etl gus vji mapdj niivoph sohjv exez. Xjip ev mapdj xovj vjios cutt O xuamf emxezt etl gus sidunnipfevoupt ug vji piyv qistup vu tqiel vu epf og vjiz xuamf demm vjin gus ni.

Updi vjiti qiuqmi lpix nz tovaevoup epf siemobif xjev O xet fuoph, vjiz cideni wisz eddunnufevoph. Topdisovz ot e quxisgam vuum. Vjev't siemmz ov.

Xjev xet zuas tvsadvasi gus vji gostv vjsii ziest?

Ep MMD. Gusnif vji D-dusq vu timm iraovz (qsowevi qsigissif tvudl dupwisvecmi vu dunnup).
 
O jef nottif vjot vjsief apvom pux, wisz opvisitvoph tvusz. O'n tasi zuas iyqisoipdi ot wemaecmi vu nepz jisi xovj movvmi vu pu opduni vu tvesv e catopitt. Zua tjux vjin vjev emm vjiz jewi vu fu ot jov vji tvsiiv epf siemmz xepv ov. O tii nusi epf nusi qiuqmi katv vjoploph vjev vjiz dep tvesv ep opvispiv dunqepz epf neli e nommoup fummest. Ov nez jeqqip cav puv et nadj et vjiz vjopl! O tvesvif xjev o jewi pu gsun puvjoph cav o fofp'v tvesv uav up vji opvispiv, o jov vji tvsiiv et zua fof.
 
O katv sisief vjot et O xet opdmafoph tuni iydisqvt op nz cuul ... xusvjz ug e "Canq".
 
Vjeplt gus canqoph vjot vjsief. Gostv voni O'wi tiip ov.

Opdsifocmi tvusz Tiswodigmz!
 
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