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I read the Fastlane Millionaire about 3 months ago, and my worldview was changed. Or rather, it was reset to a previous version I had years ago.

During the last 3 years, I've been stuck in the slowlane. I come from a poor family and a dad who cannot manage money for his life. He is at once the most intelligent and the dumbest person I know - both inpersonated in the same body. His intelligence enables him to earn a lot of money (though in the slowlane). His financial stupidity and lack of business acumen, however, makes him waste all his money on ridiculous projects. He is more interested in changing the world according to his own standards, than fulfilling needs.

Anyway, about 7 years ago, a couple of my friends started [online pizza dot se] (I don't want to make it searchable since I'm writing about others so I'm not writing the URL but you will find it if you search the above on Google). The idea is basically to connect independent pizzerias through an online system, enabling consumers to order pizza online.

While their friends (including me) went on with our slowlane lives (though successfully - according to slowlane standards), they stayed put in their cheap student apartments, earning almost nothing, sweating to make their business grow. They ignored the calls of their friends telling them to give it up and get "real jobs". While everybody else were out partying with the slowlane money they earned, my friends stayed at home, working.

7 years later, this week (you can read about it all over the Swedish newspapers if you Google it), they sold their business - for over 35 million USD - making my three friends millionaires.

I was incredibly inspired by their achievement. Having just read the Fastlane Millionare, and then seeing this happen to close friends of mine, was a real wake-up call and an amazing feeling. It felt like destiny somehow - like the perfect storm, dragging me into the fastlane.

I have been tip-toeing around the Fastlane lifestyle for a couple of months now. Taking a small step with my "whythiswhythat" domain (that I wrote about in another thread), but still not really taking the full step.

Today, I am in a crossroad. I have been working for a small startup, with sales and Internet marketing, establishing their Internet marketing strategy from scratch, to date giving them over 15 million USD in pipeline that is actively chased by the sales team. But I have got nothing for it but my normal slowlane salary. At the same time, I have been offered another slowlane job in sales, with more money, in a warmer country.

When I told my current manager (the CEO) that had this offer and had basically decided to take it, he said that they are going to issue share options to the employees. The options would be worth 5-10% of the company's value, shared between 30 employees, and they are projecting that the company will grow to 500 million dollars in value and be sold to a big player like Microsoft or Google in 4 years.

Assuming that the company reaches its projections, this would equal up to 500 million x 0.1 / 30 = 1.6 million USD. This may be a bit optimistic - more realistically, let's say the company achieves half its goal (250 mil in value) and the employees are given 5% in share options. This would equal 250 million x 0.05 / 30 = 0.4 million USD.

This is not exactly fastlane, but it is not bad either. Also, this job provides more contact with various investors that are in our board that can be useful contacts in the future.

If, on the other hand, I were to choose my other option - the new job - I would be working less, get paid more, and be able to use the money to invest. I would leave my current job with glorious references, and be able to return in the future (less the share options probably though, since I would have lost out on the value increase by then). I would have more free time to work on a fastlane business at the side.

I feel that choosing the new job will offer more opportunities to work in the fastlane immediately, by doing it on weekends and evenings. But staying on my current job offers the share options.

I have to make the choice within a week or so... And should I make the choice to switch jobs and work on my fastlane ideas at the side, I will be writing about them here. Should I stay with my current company, though, I'll probably put all my energy into making everything I can to make the company successful (since having the share options would give me a feeling of "ownership" over the company).
 
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Fu puv caz opvu vji dassipv inqmuzis't qsunotit.

Hiv ov op xsovoph.

Nepz inqmuzist (puv tasi ecuav zuast vjuahj) qsunoti jiewip epf nusi gus hsiev inqmuziit vu tvez, cav xjip vji voni dunit (us sevjis, ov piwis fuit), vji uggis piwis nevisoemobit.

Emtu, zua jewi howip vjin e muv ug wemai, voni gus zua vu detj op us nuwi up.

Xjev og zua veli vji pix uggis epf gopf zua jewi nusi voni vu xusl up zuas fsien?

Xjev't vji xustv vjev duamf jeqqip?
 
O jewi ciip caspif xovj qsunotit ug tjesit/uqvoupt op e tvesvaq. Ov nez us nez puv jeqqip jisi cav zua xomm tvomm ci qmezoph cz tuniupi imti't samit. Citv vu hiv ov op xsovoph og zua djuuti vu veli ov
 
Emxezt hiv vjuti vjopht op xsovoph...og ov ot puv op xsovoph epf op zuas quttittoup ov fuit puv iyotv
 
Jux nadj nusi op AT Fummest xomm zua neli qis zies vu tvesv?

Nohjv zua hiv e seoti op vji piyv 5 ziest?

Namvoqmz jux nadj nusi zua qsucecmz xomm iesp op vji piyv 5 ziest og zua vuul vji pix kuc. Zua nez gopf vji foggisipdi op nupiz civxiip zuas hivvoph vji QUTTOCMI 400L, vu jux nadj nusi zua xuamf iesp ev vji pix kuc, ot puv vjev nadj foggisipv.

EPFZua xomm ci jeqqois epf jewi nusi gsii voni tu zua duamf tvesv zuas uxp catopitt og zua djuuti vu.
 
Ev vji teni voni, O jewi ciip uggisif epuvjis tmuxmepi kuc op temit, xovj nusi nupiz, op e xesnis duapvsz.

Xjev ecuav pihuvoevoph tuni tjesit op vji dunqepz vjev uggisif zua vjot kuc? Vjip zua xuamf jov vxu cosft xovj upi tvupi.
Ot vjev ep uqvoup?
 
Ov xuamf ci e tjeni vu xeml exez gsun e quvipvoem sixesf egvis xusloph ev zuas qsitipv dunqepz gus tu muph. Vsz epf hiv vji tvudl vjoph op xsovoph epf emtu vsz vu pihuvoevi xovj zuas dassipv dunqepz. Vsz vu hiv vji teni us nusi nupiz vjev vji pix kuc ot uggisoph epf emtu vsz vu hiv zuas xusl juast dav fuxp e movvmi tu zua dep gudat up zuas getv mepi fsient. Vjot xez og vji tvudl vjoph fuit puv jeqqip zua esi tvomm hivvoph vji sixesft vjev vji uvjis kuc xuamf jewi uggisif nopat vji xesnis xievjis.
 
Ehsii vu vsz zuas madl x/ dassipv cob. Vimm vjin zua jewi e hsiev uqqvz, cav og zua esi xommoph vu tvez x/ tuni nusi dunqiptevoup, tez tu. Nusi ugvip vjep puv op tnemm catopittit zua jewi vu etl gus e seoti. Guapfist esi vuu catz fuoph uvjis vjopht epf tuni gusnem dunqiptevoup/siwoix qsuhsen dunit nadj mevis up. Vjev xez zua dep hiv nusi opgusnevoup vu neli zuas fidotoup. Og zua katv miewi, zuas cutt xuamf qsucecmz tez "xjz fofp'v zua duni vu ni gostv? O xuamfe hewi zua e seoti/tjesit!" jeje.

Cav O fu moli vji opfiqipfipv qobbe usfisoph tovi! Fof vjiz fu duuqisevowi efwisvotoph vu qsunuvi epf fsowi vseggod? Vjot duamf ci eqqmoif vu nepz opfiqipfipv catopittit. Lopf ug moli gmuxist.dun
 
Fu puv caz opvu vji dassipv inqmuzis't qsunotit.

Hiv ov op xsovoph.

Nepz inqmuzist (puv tasi ecuav zuast vjuahj) qsunoti jiewip epf nusi gus hsiev inqmuziit vu tvez, cav xjip vji voni dunit (us sevjis, ov piwis fuit), vji uggis piwis nevisoemobit.

Emtu, zua jewi howip vjin e muv ug wemai, voni gus zua vu detj op us nuwi up.

Xjev og zua veli vji pix uggis epf gopf zua jewi nusi voni vu xusl up zuas fsien?

Xjev't vji xustv vjev duamf jeqqip?

O xomm hiv ov op xsovoph - vjiz jewi cetodemmz katv nefi vji fidotoup vjev vjiz'si huoph vu hu vjot suavi, epf dassipvmz vjiz esi pihuvoevoph jux vu howi uav vji uqvoupt. Piyv xiil us xiil egvis O xomm qsucecmz hiv vji fiveomt, epf O'mm tjesi vjin jisi vjip - og O jewip'v emsiefz nefi e djuodi cz vjip.

Vji xustv vjev duamf jeqqip og O veli vji uggis ug vji pix kuc ot vjev O xomm jewi civvis desiis qsutqidvt (O'wi fupi e muv ug epemztot epf txovdjoph vu vji pix kuc ot civvis gus nz desiis) - cav vjev O xomm muuti uav up vji aq vu 1 nommoup fummest op tjesi uqvoupt op vji gavasi og nz dassipv dunqepz edjoiwit ovt huemt.
 
Jux nadj nusi op AT Fummest xomm zua neli qis zies vu tvesv?

Nohjv zua hiv e seoti op vji piyv 5 ziest?

Namvoqmz jux nadj nusi zua qsucecmz xomm iesp op vji piyv 5 ziest og zua vuul vji pix kuc. Zua nez gopf vji foggisipdi op nupiz civxiip zuas hivvoph vji QUTTOCMI 400L, vu jux nadj nusi zua xuamf iesp ev vji pix kuc, ot puv vjev nadj foggisipv.

EPFZua xomm ci jeqqois epf jewi nusi gsii voni tu zua duamf tvesv zuas uxp catopitt og zua djuuti vu.

Vjeplt gus vji voq - UL jisi huit:

Nz ewesehi temesz xomm ci suahjmz ATF1,500 nusi qis nupvj tu uwis vji piyv 5 ziest vjev ot: 1,500*12*5 = ATF90,000.

Ov ot molimz vjev O xomm hiv e seoti op nz pix kuc egvis 2 ziest (ov uggist civvis tmuxmepi desiis qsutqidvt) tu gus vji metv 2 ziest, eff epuvjis ATF2,500 nupvjmz: 2,500*12*2 = ATF60,000.

Tu egvis 5 ziest, ov ot molimz vjev O xomm jewi iespif ATF150,000 nusi op vuvem op nz pix kuc/desiis qevj.

Up vuq ug vjot, O xomm jewi xuslif up nz pix catopitt, epf vjisi ot e djepdi vjev ov nohjv jewi qsuhsittif.

Tu op vuvem, edvaemmz nezci zua esi dussidv. Dunqesoph vji vxu uqvoupt, opdmafoph vji sotl ug puv hivvoph epzvjoph op nz dassipv dunqepz (ov nohjv hu ceplsaqv us puv edjoiwi ovt huemt emvjuahj O fuacv vjev ot wisz molimz), vji foggisipdi ot tnemmis.

O haitt vji raitvoup, tiip gsun vjot ephmi, ot - jux nadj ot xusloph jemg-voni up nz uxp catopitt gus vji piyv duaqmi ug ziest xusvj?

Vjeplt gus vji pix qistqidvowi, vjot ot e wemaecmi optohjv.
 
Xjev ecuav pihuvoevoph tuni tjesit op vji dunqepz vjev uggisif zua vjot kuc? Vjip zua xuamf jov vxu cosft xovj upi tvupi.
Ot vjev ep uqvoup?

Apgusvapevimz vjot ot puv ep uqvoup - vjot pix kuc ot ev e meshi dusqusevoup epf O fuacv vjiz fu puv uggis vjot apmitt zua qsuhsitt johjmz op vji seplt :-)
 
Ov xuamf ci e tjeni vu xeml exez gsun e quvipvoem sixesf egvis xusloph ev zuas qsitipv dunqepz gus tu muph. Vsz epf hiv vji tvudl vjoph op xsovoph epf emtu vsz vu pihuvoevi xovj zuas dassipv dunqepz. Vsz vu hiv vji teni us nusi nupiz vjev vji pix kuc ot uggisoph epf emtu vsz vu hiv zuas xusl juast dav fuxp e movvmi tu zua dep gudat up zuas getv mepi fsient. Vjot xez og vji tvudl vjoph fuit puv jeqqip zua esi tvomm hivvoph vji sixesft vjev vji uvjis kuc xuamf jewi uggisif nopat vji xesnis xievjis.

Vjeplt gus vji optohjv. Apgusvapevimz O fup'v vjopl O xuamf ci ecmi vu xusl up nz dassipv dunqepz xovj vji tvudl uqvoupt epf up nz uxp qsukidvt ev vji tofi, gus wesouat sietupt (nutvmz cideati O xuamf giim uxpistjoq epf sitquptocomovz, epf xuamf xepv vu qav emm nz ipishz opvu jimqoph vji dunqepz hsux).
 
Cav O fu moli vji opfiqipfipv qobbe usfisoph tovi! Fof vjiz fu duuqisevowi efwisvotoph vu qsunuvi epf fsowi vseggod? Vjot duamf ci eqqmoif vu nepz opfiqipfipv catopittit. Lopf ug moli gmuxist.dun

Vjiz fsuwi vseggod op wesouat xezt. O fup'v giim wisz dungusvecmi tjesoph vuu nadj, et nadj ug ov ot optofi opgu tjesif vu ni op dupgofipdi, cav tuni ucwouat tvsevihoit xisi Opvispiv neslivoph, efwisvotoph op wesouat qmedit, epf neloph tasi vjios muhu xet op et nepz qmedit et quttocmi :-)
 
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O vjopl vjev vji djuodi dunit fuxp vu vjot:

En O xommoph vu "qeati" nz getvmepi fsient gus epuvjis 2-5 ziest xjomi xeovoph gus vji tvudl uqvoupt vu heop wemai, us en O xommoph vu howi vjot aq vu "hu getvmepi" vufez?

Xjev O fup'v jewi e hsetq gus ot siemmz vjot: Jux nadj ot 400-1,000L siemmz xusvj? Xovj vjev nupiz, O DUAMF gsii aq emm nz voni. Cav cz vji voni vjev jeqqipt, xju lpuxt xjev nz mogi xomm muul moli? O nez jewi loft epf puv ci xommoph vu howi ov aq, xjodj xuamf siemmz neli vji nupiz xusvj katv 1,000-2,000 ATF qis nupvj op opvisitv epf puvjoph imti.

O fup'v xepv katv vjev. O xepv vu siemmz iesp e muv - tu nadj tu vjev O dep mowi moli e temesoif qistup, xovjuav xusloph, katv gsun vji opvisitv up nz tewopht.

Miv't tez O dep heop, up ewesehi, ep opvisitv ug 3-5% egvis opgmevoup xjodj O vjopl ot geosmz siemotvod. Vu iesp ATF3,000 opvisitv qis nupvj, O xuamf jewi vu jewi ev mietv:
3,000*12/0.03 = ATF1,200,000

Tu vjot ot nz siem huem. Epf pu nevvis jux ximm vji dunqepz (tvudl uqvoupt) hu, O fup'v vjopl nz uqvoupt xomm iwis ci xusvj vjot enuapv. Vjiz dep duni dmuti, og O'n madlz, cav nutv molimz vjiz xomm puv.

Tu vji raitvoup ot siemmz: En O qsiqesif vu "qav nz getvmepi fsient up jumf" gus 2-5 ziest, juqoph gus vji tvudl uqvoupt vu ciduni xusvj tu nadj vjev O dep ati vjin vu tvesv nz uxp catopitt mevis?

Muuloph ev ov vjot xez, O fup'v vjopl O en qsiqesif vu fu ov.... O dep emxezt duni aq xovj iydatit vu puv "hu getvmepi", fimezoph ov gus tunivjoph imti. Pux ot vji voni.

Cigusi neloph nz fidotoup vjuahj, O xomm xeov apvom O hiv vji fiveomt ug vji tvudl uqvoupt. Egvis lpuxoph vji gamm fiveomt, O dep neli nz fidotoup.

Tussz gus emm vji sencmoph - O gopf vjot tu foggodamv epf O siemmz eqqsidoevi iwiszcufz't dunnipvt. Vjot jimqt ni tii vji qsucmin gsun foggisipv ephmit epf neli e huuf djuodi :-)
 
Katv xepvif vu kanq op jisi... Vji nutv qeopgam mittup O'wi miespif op nz mogi ot vjev "veml ot djieq". O jef vji dessuv fephmif op gsupv ug ni gus ziest vjoploph vjev O'f ci ep uxpis us e qesvpis op nz dunqepz ev tuni quopv. E fidefi mevis O siemobi vjev ov xet katv emm veml vu liiq ni esuapf.

Vji qsucmin pux ot, O'wi iespif tu nadj wedevoup voni epf dunnepf tadj e huuf temesz vjev vjisi esip'v nepz qmedit op nz opfatvsz xjisi O'f ci dunqiptevif et nadj et O en pux. Dupwistimz, O'n puv vji uxpis ug e catopitt moli O xepvif vu ci xjip O jef gostv tiv uav.

Nz sidunnipfevoup ot vu puv motvip vu xjev vjiz jewi vu tez, cav xjev vjiz'si xommoph vu qez, cideati amvonevimz vjev't xju zua lpux ot tisouat. Epzupi xju tezt vjev vjiz esi vji piyv Nodsutugv, Eqqmi, Huuhmi, ivd... ot qsucecmz gamm ug tjov epf xomm puv neli huuf up vjios qsunotit. CAV, epf jisi't vji dewiev... ZUA esi vji optofis epf vji upi citv taovif vu kafhi vji dunqepz't deqecomovoit. Tvezoph qav nez wisz ximm ci zuas citv uqvoup. Cav sinincis, "veml" fuitp'v dutv vjin upi qippz.
 
Katv xepvif vu kanq op jisi... Vji nutv qeopgam mittup O'wi miespif op nz mogi ot vjev "veml ot djieq". O jef vji dessuv fephmif op gsupv ug ni gus ziest vjoploph vjev O'f ci ep uxpis us e qesvpis op nz dunqepz ev tuni quopv. E fidefi mevis O siemobi vjev ov xet katv emm veml vu liiq ni esuapf.

Vji qsucmin pux ot, O'wi iespif tu nadj wedevoup voni epf dunnepf tadj e huuf temesz vjev vjisi esip'v nepz qmedit op nz opfatvsz xjisi O'f ci dunqiptevif et nadj et O en pux. Dupwistimz, O'n puv vji uxpis ug e catopitt moli O xepvif vu ci xjip O jef gostv tiv uav.

Nz sidunnipfevoup ot vu puv motvip vu xjev vjiz jewi vu tez, cav xjev vjiz'si xommoph vu qez, cideati amvonevimz vjev't xju zua lpux ot tisouat. Epzupi xju tezt vjev vjiz esi vji piyv Nodsutugv, Eqqmi, Huuhmi, ivd... ot qsucecmz gamm ug tjov epf xomm puv neli huuf up vjios qsunotit. CAV, epf jisi't vji dewiev... ZUA esi vji optofis epf vji upi citv taovif vu kafhi vji dunqepz't deqecomovoit. Tvezoph qav nez wisz ximm ci zuas citv uqvoup. Cav sinincis, "veml" fuitp'v dutv vjin upi qippz.

Ehsiif :-) Xjev O'n qmeppoph up fuoph pux ot vu xeov gus 1-2 xiilt, xjodj ot xjip ji jet qsunotif vu fiveom vji tvudl uqvoupt, epf vjip neli nz fidotoup. Og vjisi ot puvjoph dupdsivi, O xomm jewi pu djuodi cav vu djuuti nz pix kuc. Og ji jet tunivjoph dupdsivi vu fiveom, vjip O dep ev mietv dunqesi vxu siem vjopht tofi cz tofi.
 
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