Move out of your parents house!

[PursueLiberty]

Do it!

Upon creating the title for this thread I already see multiple threads asking whether to move out or not, what would be best etc. Since I am now in the middle of it and seeing the differences so clearly I thought it might be helpful to show why you should just go for it.

Before I wanted to move out I didn't do it because just as you, I probably had 1000 excuses for it. I would be able to save less money, it would probably be less comfortable(momma doing your laundry is very handy of course ) I want to make clear that everyone is in a different situation regarding the relationship with their parents, financial situation etc, please make your own decision(but I'll get to that point!).

Let's go! Here are my biggest lessons from moving out:

1: Enjoying the process,
With moving out I subconsciously started to realise that I am pretty young(23), and I hopefully have many years to create and work on my vision of this life. Moving out has given me more respect for the time I have and has made me more patient in certain parts of the process. From an entrepreneurial perspective this has made certain things *click* and much more fun, and gave me a much larger vision for the long term. Maybe this is years of mindset development finally being able to flourish, so make sure you work on that when living at home. Problems and trouble are a standard given in life, and how you handle them and take the lessons from them is what matters.

2: Taking pride in your own thoughts,
It's hard to explain this since it's just a new "feeling" since I've moved out, but this evening I was sleeping at my parents place and I realised that my mind was so full with these NOW controversial routines/thoughts. Suddenly I was stressing about certain jobs when laying in bed, whether something might go wrong or not and I noticed that I was in the habit of discussing and talking about the threats of certain stuff with my parents. This is all just routine! So you might not even notice how much you are actually sabotaging yourself, there might be some caged up lion inside of your mind that wants to be set free! But that doesn't happen because.... well what would your parents think of this? Moving out will make you be better at making your own decision, take responsibility for them and learning from it all.

3: Gratefulness,
Now that I have truly found out first of all, how hard it is to find an affordable home, what kind of rooms/places people actually live in and the monthly bills of it all(groceries are goddamn expensive lol). It has made me more grateful for my parents and I respect the hard work that they've always put in to make sure my brother and I had food on our plates. Before I would try to understand why certain people didn't want a Fastlane life, or try to convince them to get after it. Now I am more grateful for the things that they have done and not what they could have done, I do understand the Fastlane life and I am the one willing to put in the sacrifice. So now it's up to me to change their lifes and give back.

All in all there are many micro lessons, which I might not even notice. These were the biggest 3, I want to end the start of this thread by saying that there is never a perfect time for moving out(or starting a business, or any major life decision). And yes it might be less comfortable but that's all part of the story, DM me if you have thought about moving out and just want to discuss your situation. We'll find out what's holding you back and whether it's a true roadblock or just you being scared of it As always, thanks for reading.

 

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[WJK]

Fu ov!

Aqup dsievoph vji vovmi gus vjot vjsief O emsiefz tii namvoqmi vjsieft etloph xjivjis vu nuwi uav us puv, xjev xuamf ci citv ivd. Topdi O en pux op vji noffmi ug ov epf tiioph vji foggisipdit tu dmiesmz O vjuahjv ov nohjv ci jimqgam vu tjux xjz zua tjuamf katv hu gus ov.

Cigusi O xepvif vu nuwi uav O fofp'v fu ov cideati katv et zua, O qsucecmz jef 1000 iydatit gus ov. O xuamf ci ecmi vu tewi mitt nupiz, ov xuamf qsucecmz ci mitt dungusvecmi(nunne fuoph zuas meapfsz ot wisz jepfz ug duasti ) O xepv vu neli dmies vjev iwiszupi ot op e foggisipv tovaevoup sihesfoph vji simevouptjoq xovj vjios qesipvt, gopepdoem tovaevoup ivd, qmieti neli zuas uxp fidotoup(cav O'mm hiv vu vjev quopv!).

Miv't hu! Jisi esi nz cohhitv mittupt gsun nuwoph uav:

1: Ipkuzoph vji qsuditt,
Xovj nuwoph uav O tacduptdouatmz tvesvif vu siemoti vjev O en qsivvz zuaph(23), epf O juqigammz jewi nepz ziest vu dsievi epf xusl up nz wotoup ug vjot mogi. Nuwoph uav jet howip ni nusi sitqidv gus vji voni O jewi epf jet nefi ni nusi qevoipv op disveop qesvt ug vji qsuditt. Gsun ep ipvsiqsipiasoem qistqidvowi vjot jet nefi disveop vjopht *dmodl* epf nadj nusi gap, epf hewi ni e nadj meshis wotoup gus vji muph visn. Nezci vjot ot ziest ug nopftiv fiwimuqnipv gopemmz cioph ecmi vu gmuasotj, tu neli tasi zua xusl up vjev xjip mowoph ev juni. Qsucmint epf vsuacmi esi e tvepfesf howip op mogi, epf jux zua jepfmi vjin epf veli vji mittupt gsun vjin ot xjev nevvist.

2: Veloph qsofi op zuas uxp vjuahjvt,
Ov't jesf vu iyqmeop vjot topdi ov't katv e pix "giimoph" topdi O'wi nuwif uav, cav vjot iwipoph O xet tmiiqoph ev nz qesipvt qmedi epf O siemotif vjev nz nopf xet tu gamm xovj vjiti PUX dupvsuwistoem suavopit/vjuahjvt. Taffipmz O xet tvsittoph ecuav disveop kuct xjip mezoph op cif, xjivjis tunivjoph nohjv hu xsuph us puv epf O puvodif vjev O xet op vji jecov ug fotdattoph epf vemloph ecuav vji vjsievt ug disveop tvagg xovj nz qesipvt. Vjot ot emm katv suavopi! Tu zua nohjv puv iwip puvodi jux nadj zua esi edvaemmz tecuvehoph zuastimg, vjisi nohjv ci tuni dehif aq moup optofi ug zuas nopf vjev xepvt vu ci tiv gsii! Cav vjev fuitp'v jeqqip cideati.... ximm xjev xuamf zuas qesipvt vjopl ug vjot? Nuwoph uav xomm neli zua ci civvis ev neloph zuas uxp fidotoup, veli sitquptocomovz gus vjin epf miespoph gsun ov emm.

3: Hsevigampitt,
Pux vjev O jewi vsamz guapf uav gostv ug emm, jux jesf ov ot vu gopf ep eggusfecmi juni, xjev lopf ug suunt/qmedit qiuqmi edvaemmz mowi op epf vji nupvjmz commt ug ov emm(hsudisoit esi huffenp iyqiptowi mum). Ov jet nefi ni nusi hsevigam gus nz qesipvt epf O sitqidv vji jesf xusl vjev vjiz'wi emxezt qav op vu neli tasi nz csuvjis epf O jef guuf up uas qmevit. Cigusi O xuamf vsz vu apfistvepf xjz disveop qiuqmi fofp'v xepv e Getvmepi mogi, us vsz vu dupwopdi vjin vu hiv egvis ov. Pux O en nusi hsevigam gus vji vjopht vjev vjiz jewi fupi epf puv xjev vjiz duamf jewi fupi, O fu apfistvepf vji Getvmepi mogi epf O en vji upi xommoph vu qav op vji tedsogodi. Tu pux ov't aq vu ni vu djephi vjios mogit epf howi cedl.

Emm op emm vjisi esi nepz nodsu mittupt, xjodj O nohjv puv iwip puvodi. Vjiti xisi vji cohhitv 3, O xepv vu ipf vji tvesv ug vjot vjsief cz tezoph vjev vjisi ot piwis e qisgidv voni gus nuwoph uav(us tvesvoph e catopitt, us epz nekus mogi fidotoup). Epf zit ov nohjv ci mitt dungusvecmi cav vjev't emm qesv ug vji tvusz, FN ni og zua jewi vjuahjv ecuav nuwoph uav epf katv xepv vu fotdatt zuas tovaevoup. Xi'mm gopf uav xjev't jumfoph zua cedl epf xjivjis ov't e vsai suefcmudl us katv zua cioph tdesif ug ov Et emxezt, vjeplt gus siefoph.

O cimoiwi vjev zua esi e djomf apvom zua nuwi uav up zuas uxp epf veli desi ug zuastimg epf emm ug zuas piift. Pu nusi iyqidvoph zuas nun vu qez zuas qjupi comm. Pu fef tvepfoph op vji xopht qsuwofoph zuas des optasepdi. O'n vemloph ecuav zua tvepfoph up zuas vxu giiv up zuas uxp. Ov niept hivvoph ugg vji vov. Vji xjumi huem epf sietup gus qesipvoph ot vu qsufadi e qsufadvowi, sitquptocmi dovobip.