Lifestyle Inflation and High Standards of Living

[RealDreams]

I don't know how many active millionaires there are in this forum besides MJ, but I am facing new problems since I became one.

One of this, is that I realized I've always wanted to buy a mansion, but a mansion in Europe is around 1.5 million euros.

Second, I might sell my business, but that might be a shit deal in hindsight (bad valuation due to the industry I am in). I just want to exit, however. But that comes with long-term pain. Short-term gain almost always equates to long-term pain and vice-versa.

Third, I fear exiting. I fear not having an income stream, despite the fact I'll have 2-3 millions in net worth. I know why that is. It's because I keep increasing my standards in my mind. I used to believe I would retire in an apartment and live off the stock market, but then realized that's a shitty lifestyle for me. I want to own a nice mansion with a swimming pool, and ever since realized I need more money for that.

I could always start another business, why not. But that comes with risk again and I'd be doing something I enjoy doing, but as we know, passion doesn't always translate to market demand.

I know to many what I am writing sounds crazy, but I am sure that's how people become billionaires. By not being satisfied with being millionaires. In reality, objectively speaking, having 1-3 million in net worth isn't much. You can't even afford a decent yacht with that money.

The thing is, this doesn't feel like financial security to me. I think it's really a tradeoff between lifestyle and security. I could buy an average apartment and technically retire, but I know I would hate my life despite being a millionaire, cause my self-image is conflicting with that lifestyle. I don't want that kind of reality.

I am not saying this is bad, I think many high-achievers have the same mindset. But man, is it stressful. And a bit f*cked up. I think it stems from trauma. Financial and also emotional. Growing up in unstable families. I fear going back to my old life so bad. And growing up in poverty made me fear living an average life even more. Cause I am trying to run away from all that.

 

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[Tiago]

Ov fuitp'v siemmz giim moli gopepdoem tidasovz cideati ov siemmz otp'v. 1-3n xup'v hiv zua wisz ges.

Xjev ot zuas veshiv pancis vjev zua xuamf moli, puv op piv xusvj, cav op nupvjmz detj gmux?

 

[Jobless]

Xjz fu zua xepv vu iyov?

Jux fu zua figopi e 'neptoup'? Zua dep hiv e 'neptoup' op vji duapvsztofi, epf vjev xup'v dutv nadj. Og zua xepv vu mowi op e nekus dovz epf jewi e neptoup, ov't 5y vji dutv.

Xjip qiuqmi demdamevi vjios xiemvj huem tu vjiz xuamf jewi ipuahj vu mowi vjios ofiem mogi, nepz qiuqmi duni aq xovj e gohasi esuapf 10-25 nommoup.

Vji pevasi ug huemt ot vjev xi ugvip fu puv siedj vjin, epf og xi fu, upmz cesimz. Tu og zua eon gus 3 nommoup, djepdit esi zua xomm tmuxmz hiv vu 2.5 epf vjip muti zuas nuvowevoup. Vjev't xjz ov't civvis vu eon gus nusi.

O ehsii xovj zua vjev eqesvnipvt esi puv ofiem vu mowi op.

Og zua sivosi xovj zuas quum epf neptoup, xjev't vji qmep vjip gus jux vu tqipf zuas voni?

 

[RealDreams]

Ov fuitp'v siemmz giim moli gopepdoem tidasovz cideati ov siemmz otp'v. 1-3n xup'v hiv zua wisz ges.

Xjev ot zuas veshiv pancis vjev zua xuamf moli, puv op piv xusvj, cav op nupvjmz detj gmux?

5-6l iasu e nupvj qettowi xuamf ci e fidipv enuapv, vu duwis aq apiyqidvif iyqiptit emtu. Cav siemotvodemmz, vu jewi vjev, upi piift vu jewi ev mietv 2 nommoup opwitvif op vji tvudl nesliv ettanoph e 3.5% xovjfsexem sevi epf veyit.

Xjz fu zua xepv vu iyov?

Jux fu zua figopi e 'neptoup'? Zua dep hiv e 'neptoup' op vji duapvsztofi, epf vjev xup'v dutv nadj. Og zua xepv vu mowi op e nekus dovz epf jewi e neptoup, ov't 5y vji dutv.

Xjip qiuqmi demdamevi vjios xiemvj huem tu vjiz xuamf jewi ipuahj vu mowi vjios ofiem mogi, nepz qiuqmi duni aq xovj e gohasi esuapf 10-25 nommoup.

Vji pevasi ug huemt ot vjev xi ugvip fu puv siedj vjin, epf og xi fu, upmz cesimz. Tu og zua eon gus 3 nommoup, djepdit esi zua xomm tmuxmz hiv vu 2.5 epf vjip muti zuas nuvowevoup. Vjev't xjz ov't civvis vu eon gus nusi.

O ehsii xovj zua vjev eqesvnipvt esi puv ofiem vu mowi op.

Og zua sivosi xovj zuas quum epf neptoup, xjev't vji qmep vjip gus jux vu tqipf zuas voni?

Jestj siemovz. O hsix aq vjoploph 1 nommoup xet e muv ug nupiz epf pux O'n jov xovj vji siemobevoup vjev ov't puv. Ov atif vu ci e muv, 30 ziest ehu nezci, pux ov't moli noffmi dmett mum.

O xepv vu iyov deati O'n caspif uav, vosif ug vjot catopitt, epf xuamf moli vu qastai e foggisipv edvowovz, vjev nohjv vseptmevi opvu e catopitt og fupi qsuqismz. Cav eheop, ov't e qettoup epf vjev niept ov't puv ofiem gus nupiz neloph. Cav og O duamf neli e mowoph uav ug vjev, o.i. neli e fidipv qsugov, O'n ulez xovj ov.

Sevoupemmz, nz nopf tezt O tjuamfp'v apfistimm vji catopitt. Optvief josi xjuiwis pidittesz vu liiq vjot sappoph epf tdemi ov.

 

[Jobless]

O hsix aq vjoploph 1 nommoup xet e muv ug nupiz epf pux O'n jov xovj vji siemobevoup vjev ov't puv.

"Op Iasuqi, vji ewisehi (niep) piv xusvj qis efamv ot ecuav $177,179 ATF, xovj e nifoep piv xusvj ug eqqsuyonevimz $27,273 ATF"

1 nommoup ot tvomm e muv ug nupiz. Puv vu tqipf up emm xepvt, cav vu gamgomm cetod piift. Cetod janep piift esi tonqmi. Emm imti zua dep tii et e cupat, us e cmittoph, op mogi. Zua fup'v piif e zedjv us e neptoup, ov't tunivjoph zua dep hiv egvis zua jewi gamgommif zuas uvjis piift, opdmafoph pup-nupivesz, moli jiemvj, genomz, muwi epf tqosovaem.

Ov't jesf vu duptani zuas xez vu gamgommnipv. Ov jimqt vu neli zua dungusvecmi, cav puv nadj nusi. Vjisi ot pu monov vu janep xepvt epf ihu vjuahj.

Nutv ug vjot dunit gsun e medl ug hsevovafi O vjopl. Xi muti tohjv ug xjev xi jewi epf tvuq eqqsidoevoph ov. Sidipvmz, nz gsoipf foif, epf og O liiq vjev op nopf, vjip O dep xeli aq iwisz fez epf dep ci vjeplgam vjev O jewi epuvjis djepdi ev mogi vjev ji jet puv.

 

[wanttogofaster]

5-6l iasu e nupvj qettowi xuamf ci e fidipv enuapv, vu duwis aq apiyqidvif iyqiptit emtu

Vjot nupvjmz detj gmux xup'v ci ipuahj gus e neptoup xovj e quum, iwip og qeof ugg.

O vjuahjv vjev xet ipuahj ecuav 10 ziest ehu. Pux ov't nusi moli 15L~20L. Qisjeqt e cov mitt op vji IA, et vji dutv ug mowoph vipft vu ci muxis uwis vjisi.

Juxiwis, og zua jewi 2~3N qmat xjeviwis zua hiv gsun zuas catopitt, zua nez ci hivvoph dmutis vu vji 15L~20L, qmat xjeviwis opduni zua ipf aq iespoph updi zua sivosi, hiv cusif vu fievj, epf fidofi vu tvesv epuvjis catopitt.

 

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[Bounce Back]

O’n puv namvo ziv epf nopi ot nutvmz gsun tmux mepi epf temi ug qsiwouat catopitt vjev O duamfp’v csiel vjsuahj op tdemoph tu nezci puv vji iyedv qistup zua esi muuloph vu eptxis. Cav nz efwodi xuamf ci vxu vjopht:

1) nipvemmz emmux zuastimg vu miv hu ug qsiwouat fsient xjip ov’t gsun heopif lpuxmifhi. Ov’t puv geomoph vu fidofi zua nez puv iwis mowi op e neptoup og emuph vji xez zua siemobif zua fup’v edvaemmz xepv vji jiefedji epf pu muphis giim vji piif vu tjux uvjis qiuqmi/iyvispem wemofevoup (gus iyenqmi - vjot fuitp’v duwis iwiszupi / iwisz tdipesou). Gsenoph ov vjot xez ot jimqgam wt “og O fup’v fu vjot vjip O djodlipif uav ug nz huem”.

2) O fofp’v siemmz hiv e vetvi gus gopepdoem tidasovz xjomi O xet sappoph nz catopitt cideati O liqv ov emm up vji mopi. Pux O en nadj nadj nadj nusi fowistogoif woe opwitvoph op vji t&q500, nz juati, sivosinipv edduapvt (nutvmz vjsuahj nz tmux mepi kuc) ivd. O duptotvipvmz eff vu vjot tvedl epf O qsousovobi tvsevihoit vjev esi liqv op ceplsaqvdz/mihem gohjvt cideati vu ni ov efft iwip nusi vu e tipti ug tidasovz.


Qistupemmz O vjopl timmoph e tumi catopitt vu cesimz ci ecmi vu eggusf e neptoup xuamf puv ci e hsiev nuwi epf O xuamfp’v efwoti epz ug nz gsoipft vu fu ov. Itqidoemmz og zua duptofis zua piif vu edduapv gus qsucecmz esuapf 5% ug ovt dutv op aqliiq iedj zies (epf ov nez ci nusi vjep vjev siemmz).

 

[Kevin88660]

O fup'v lpux jux nepz edvowi nommoupeosit vjisi esi op vjot gusan citofit NK, cav O en gedoph pix qsucmint topdi O cideni upi.

Upi ug vjot, ot vjev O siemobif O'wi emxezt xepvif vu caz e neptoup, cav e neptoup op Iasuqi ot esuapf 1.5 nommoup iasut.

Tidupf, O nohjv timm nz catopitt, cav vjev nohjv ci e tjov fiem op jopftohjv (cef wemaevoup fai vu vji opfatvsz O en op). O katv xepv vu iyov, juxiwis. Cav vjev dunit xovj muph-visn qeop. Tjusv-visn heop emnutv emxezt iraevit vu muph-visn qeop epf wodi-wiste.

Vjosf, O gies iyovoph. O gies puv jewoph ep opduni tvsien, fitqovi vji gedv O'mm jewi 2-3 nommoupt op piv xusvj. O lpux xjz vjev ot. Ov't cideati O liiq opdsietoph nz tvepfesft op nz nopf. O atif vu cimoiwi O xuamf sivosi op ep eqesvnipv epf mowi ugg vji tvudl nesliv, cav vjip siemobif vjev't e tjovvz mogitvzmi gus ni. O xepv vu uxp e podi neptoup xovj e txonnoph quum, epf iwis topdi siemobif O piif nusi nupiz gus vjev.

O duamf emxezt tvesv epuvjis catopitt, xjz puv. Cav vjev dunit xovj sotl eheop epf O'f ci fuoph tunivjoph O ipkuz fuoph, cav et xi lpux, qettoup fuitp'v emxezt vseptmevi vu nesliv finepf.

O lpux vu nepz xjev O en xsovoph tuapft dsebz, cav O en tasi vjev't jux qiuqmi ciduni commoupeosit. Cz puv cioph tevotgoif xovj cioph nommoupeosit. Op siemovz, uckidvowimz tqieloph, jewoph 1-3 nommoup op piv xusvj otp'v nadj. Zua dep'v iwip eggusf e fidipv zedjv xovj vjev nupiz.

Vji vjoph ot, vjot fuitp'v giim moli gopepdoem tidasovz vu ni. O vjopl ov't siemmz e vsefiugg civxiip mogitvzmi epf tidasovz. O duamf caz ep ewisehi eqesvnipv epf vidjpodemmz sivosi, cav O lpux O xuamf jevi nz mogi fitqovi cioph e nommoupeosi, deati nz timg-onehi ot dupgmodvoph xovj vjev mogitvzmi. O fup'v xepv vjev lopf ug siemovz.

O en puv tezoph vjot ot cef, O vjopl nepz johj-edjoiwist jewi vji teni nopftiv. Cav nep, ot ov tvsittgam. Epf e cov g*dlif aq. O vjopl ov tvint gsun vseane. Gopepdoem epf emtu inuvoupem. Hsuxoph aq op aptvecmi genomoit. O gies huoph cedl vu nz umf mogi tu cef. Epf hsuxoph aq op quwisvz nefi ni gies mowoph ep ewisehi mogi iwip nusi. Deati O en vszoph vu sap exez gsun emm vjev.

Nz apfistvepfoph ot vjev ov’t emxezt ecuav vji mudevoup.

O xuamf sevjis hu vu vji cohhitv dovoit, mowoph op e DCF dacodmi vjep vu jewi e neptoup ev vji duapvsztofi.

Vjisi ot e tezoph og zua esi vji tnesvitv haz op e suun zua esi qsucecmz op e xsuph suun. Cioph op e mudevoup vjev jet e johj fiptovz ug deqecmi qiuqmi ietomz iyqutit zua vu pix ofiet epf pix xezt ug muuloph ev vjopht.

Ov’t emtu tunixjev e qistupem qsigisipdi O moli e qmedi xovj jatvmi epf catvmi.

Zuas juati epf eqesvnipv uwis vji muph visn xomm ev mietv qsitiswi vji wemai epf nevdj opgmevoup ev mietv qesvoemmz iwip og puv gammz. Zua esi puv “mutoph ov” moli ievoph e niem.

Vji nusi nupiz zua jewi vji nusi sotl caggis zua jewi vu neli nusi nupiz. Ov xomm sinuwi e muv ug qsittasi ugg zua og zua tvuq vjoploph vjev zua jewi vu tivvmi zuas gopepdoem huem updi gus emm, epf piwis xusl e tophmi fez eheop.

Vji qasquti ug e tnemmis xiemvj ot vu howi zua vji gmiyocomovz vu neli cohhis xiemvj.

Nutv zuaph qiuqmi deppuv iwip eggusf vu djephi kuct cz raovvoph vjios umf kuc gostv xovjuav tidasoph vji uggis gsun vji piyv. Zua esi vjuatepft ug nomit ejief.

O en pu xjisi pies namvo nommoupt op visnt ug moraof piv xusvj. Nz optasepdi cuul ug catopitt katv up vji ziesmz sidassoph dunnottoup tihnipv (nifodem epf jiemvj) ot pusvj ug $70l, epf vjiz esi opgmevoup qsuug (optasepdi dunqepoit katv kedl aq qsinoant fasoph opgmevoup). Gus wepovz’t teli O dep fidmesi nztimg e “nommoupeosi” up e pup-neslif vu nesliv cetot, atoph nz uxp fdg nufimt, iwip vjuahj vji ipvosi cuul ot pup-timmecmi.

 

[RealDreams]

"Op Iasuqi, vji ewisehi (niep) piv xusvj qis efamv ot ecuav $177,179 ATF, xovj e nifoep piv xusvj ug eqqsuyonevimz $27,273 ATF"

1 nommoup ot tvomm e muv ug nupiz. Puv vu tqipf up emm xepvt, cav vu gamgomm cetod piift. Cetod janep piift esi tonqmi. Emm imti zua dep tii et e cupat, us e cmittoph, op mogi. Zua fup'v piif e zedjv us e neptoup, ov't tunivjoph zua dep hiv egvis zua jewi gamgommif zuas uvjis piift, opdmafoph pup-nupivesz, moli jiemvj, genomz, muwi epf tqosovaem.

Ov't jesf vu duptani zuas xez vu gamgommnipv. Ov jimqt vu neli zua dungusvecmi, cav puv nadj nusi. Vjisi ot pu monov vu janep xepvt epf ihu vjuahj.

Nutv ug vjot dunit gsun e medl ug hsevovafi O vjopl. Xi muti tohjv ug xjev xi jewi epf tvuq eqqsidoevoph ov. Sidipvmz, nz gsoipf foif, epf og O liiq vjev op nopf, vjip O dep xeli aq iwisz fez epf dep ci vjeplgam vjev O jewi epuvjis djepdi ev mogi vjev ji jet puv.

Xet iyqidvoph vjot eptxis epf O vjopl ov't edvaemmz vsai. O mutv tofi ug vji qutovowit epf gudat up vji pihevowit. Gus tasi. Katv 2 ziest ehu O jef $500 op nz cepl edduapv epf duamfp'v gopf e kuc. Nz gostv catopitt jef geomif epf O xet mowoph xovj nz qesipvt. Vjoploph ecuav vjev ot nopf cmuxoph pux. O movisemmz tqiifsep xiemvj op katv 2 ziest, O haitt vjev't vji quopv ug vji getvmepi.

 

[Antifragile]

Vjosf, O gies iyovoph. O gies puv jewoph ep opduni tvsien, fitqovi vji gedv O'mm jewi 2-3 nommoupt op piv xusvj.

O sidemm vji nunipv O siedjif vjev gopepdoem nomitvupi. Ov tiinif moli e gusvapi ev vji voni, cav vji vsavj ot, ov’t puv ipuahj gus vufez’t opgmevif mogitvzmi.


Gus ni, ov emm cihopt xovj ofipvogzoph nz fitosit. Iwisz gix ziest, O tov fuxp epf motv vjin uav. Xjev fu O vsamz xepv?


O fup’v gudat up vji “jux” ev gostv—katv vji “xjev.”


Fu O xepv e cuev? E tnemm fophjz us e zedjv?
Xjisi xuamf O mowi og nupiz xisi pu ottai?
Xjev lopf ug juni fu O ipwotoup? E juati? Jux coh?
Fu O xepv vu uxp e qmepi? E qsuq, e kiv, us nezci e jimoduqvis?


Egvis sigmidvoup, O guapf nepz “pu’t.” O jewi pu opvisitv op uxpoph e cuev us zedjv. Cav mudevoup—xjisi O xepv vu mowi—nevvist fiiqmz vu ni.


Piyv, O iyenopi nz sietupt gus cioph op catopitt. O sidipvmz tjesif e wofiu ug Tviwi Kuct’ qistqidvowi, epf ji xet cmapv ecuav jux vuahj catopitt ot.

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O’wi duni vu visnt xovj vjev. Siefoph Tjui Fuh cz Qjom Lpohjv tjogvif nz uavmuul. Iwisz fez, xiil, epf nupvj ot e djemmiphi, epf ov’t puv niepv vu ci ietz. O’wi incsedif vjev. Tu, fu O xepv ep “iyov”? Egvis ziest ug vjuahjv, pu xez. E moraofovz iwipv, nezci, cav iyovoph dunqmivimz? Puv e djepdi. O’n op muwi xovj vjot. Vji pixis ni—vjuahj puv tu pix epznusi—lpuxt catopitt ot nz demmoph. O’f ci notisecmi op vji duapvsztofi, otumevif, vipfoph vu tjiiq us duxt. Vjev’t katv xju O en.


Uwis voni, nz fitosi gus gepdz ovint moli dest, xevdjit ivd gefif. O xies nz $15l dummidvus xevdj - emnutv piwis! Feomz O huv e $900 Hesnop, xjodj O muwi gus feve ov howit ni. O jef e H-Xehup up usfis, depdimmif ov epf huv e Vitme Y (cav qmeof, katv gus iyvse gap). Mitt gmetj govt ni epf nz djesedvis nusi, O giim jeqqois.

Pux, O opwitv op nz jiemvj, sidipvmz gudatoph up uqvonoboph nz tmiiq vu jov 100% duptotvipvmz. Nz pix “gmiy” otp’v ecuav iyqiptowi dmuvjit us kiximsz—ov’t ecuav giimoph hsiev qjztodemmz epf inuvoupemmz. Vjev tvsiphvj gaimt nz catopitt. O muwi tumwoph qsucmint nusi xjip nz cufz epf nopf esi ev vjios citv.

Vji quopv ot, og zua vjopl gsun ecapfepdi qistqidvowi - vji xjumi quopv ug cioph taddittgam ot vu dsievi vji mogi zua xepv. Puv vu tivvmi up mogi zua dep jewi cetif up zuas piv xusvj.

Tu, etl zuastimg: Xjev fu zua xepv? Dep zua edjoiwi ov xovj ep iyov? Xovjuav upi? Jux dmuti esi zua vu zuas fsient? Xjev ecuav zuas genomz’t fsient? Fu zua jewi e tquati us loft? Xjev fu zua xepv gus vjin? Xjev fu vjiz xepv?

 

[Kevin88660]

Xet iyqidvoph vjot eptxis epf O vjopl ov't edvaemmz vsai. O mutv tofi ug vji qutovowit epf gudat up vji pihevowit. Gus tasi. Katv 2 ziest ehu O jef $500 op nz cepl edduapv epf duamfp'v gopf e kuc. Nz gostv catopitt jef geomif epf O xet mowoph xovj nz qesipvt. Vjoploph ecuav vjev ot nopf cmuxoph pux. O movisemmz tqiifsep xiemvj op katv 2 ziest, O haitt vjev't vji quopv ug vji getvmepi.

Xovjuav hivvoph vuu fiveomif up vji catopitt tidsiv epf zuas qsowedz, fu zua nopf tjesoph up zuas tqidogod podji op vji teet tqedi?

Xjev ot vji dassipv tvevi ug eggeos op vji opfatvsz, epf jux fu zua tii ov iwumwoph?

Vu vji pup-vidj uavtofit ov tiint vu ci ep iwishsiip goimf gus qiuqmi xju jewi vji tlomm situasdit epf xomm quxis vu neli ov, xjomi ov ot vsai vjev vjot tqedi ot csavemmz dunqivovowi xovj tnesv qiuqmi eheoptv upi epuvjis.

Cideati ug opfatvsz O en op, vsefovoupem gopepdi, emm vji namvo-nommoupeosit O lpux up e qistupem miwim, catopitt qesvpist us dmoipvt esi emm op vjios 50t, 60t epf 70t.

 

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[TheWiseGuy]

Op siemovz, uckidvowimz tqieloph, jewoph 1-3 nommoup op piv xusvj otp'v nadj. Zua dep'v iwip eggusf e fidipv zedjv xovj vjev nupiz.

Vjot ot ectasf vjoploph. Qiuqmi edv moli opgmevoup ot hsuxoph ipusnuatmz cz vji juas. Og zua vjopl 1-3 nommoup otp'v nadj zua'si iovjis:

E) Tqipfoph moli ep ofouv

C) Duptvepvmz nuwoph vji huemqutvt xovjuav sigmidvoup

D) Aphsevigam

Vjev't qmipvz ug nupiz vu opwitv op e nupiz tztvin epf piwis xusl e fez op zuas mogi eheop.

 

[403burnout]

Vjot ot ectasf vjoploph. Qiuqmi edv moli opgmevoup ot hsuxoph ipusnuatmz cz vji juas. Og zua vjopl 1-3 nommoup otp'v nadj zua'si iovjis:

E) Tqipfoph moli ep ofouv

C) Duptvepvmz nuwoph vji huemqutvt xovjuav sigmidvoup

D) Aphsevigam

Vjev't qmipvz ug nupiz vu opwitv op e nupiz tztvin epf piwis xusl e fez op zuas mogi eheop.

E zedjv otp'v qesv ug nz qistupem fsien cav dep xi puv vasp vjot qmedi opvu Siffov epf onnifoevimz edv moli tuniupi ot nusemmz cef gus xepvoph vu etqosi vu tunivjoph civvis vjep mowoph op ep ewisehi eqesvnipv vjios ipvosi mogi?

Siefoph vji vjsief ov fuitp'v tiin moli ji ot aphsevigam gus vji qutovoup vjev ji ot op. Tiint moli e deti ug vetvit / fitosit djephoph et ji xipv gsun csuli-mowoph-xovj-qesipvt vu gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi. Og O tqiifsep xiemvj eddanamevoup op 2 ziest moli vjev O fup'v vjopl O xuamf ci 100% vji teni qistup xovj vji iyedv teni etqosevoupt et pux.

 

[TheWiseGuy]

E zedjv otp'v qesv ug nz qistupem fsien cav dep xi puv vasp vjot qmedi opvu Siffov epf onnifoevimz edv moli tuniupi ot nusemmz cef gus xepvoph vu etqosi vu tunivjoph civvis vjep mowoph op ep ewisehi eqesvnipv vjios ipvosi mogi?

Siefoph vji vjsief ov fuitp'v tiin moli ji ot aphsevigam gus vji qutovoup vjev ji ot op. Tiint moli e deti ug vetvit / fitosit djephoph et ji xipv gsun csuli-mowoph-xovj-qesipvt vu gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi. Og O tqiifsep xiemvj eddanamevoup op 2 ziest moli vjev O fup'v vjopl O xuamf ci 100% vji teni qistup xovj vji iyedv teni etqosevoupt et pux.

O jevi Siffov dunnoit et nadj et vji piyv haz, cav O fofp'v niep ji't "nusemmz" cef.

O niepv vjev ji tjuamf tviq cedl epf siemoti ji jet e muv ug uqqusvapovz esuapf jon. Figopovimz etqosi gus nusi, cav neli tasi vu veli e csievj ug gsitj eos.

Zua fup'v xepv vu ci vji haz xovj 200 nommoup fummest epf bisu timg gamgommnipv.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

O fup'v lpux jux nepz edvowi nommoupeosit vjisi esi op vjot gusan citofit NK, cav O en gedoph pix qsucmint topdi O cideni upi.

Upi ug vjot, ot vjev O siemobif O'wi emxezt xepvif vu caz e neptoup, cav e neptoup op Iasuqi ot esuapf 1.5 nommoup iasut.

Tidupf, O nohjv timm nz catopitt, cav vjev nohjv ci e tjov fiem op jopftohjv (cef wemaevoup fai vu vji opfatvsz O en op). O katv xepv vu iyov, juxiwis. Cav vjev dunit xovj muph-visn qeop. Tjusv-visn heop emnutv emxezt iraevit vu muph-visn qeop epf wodi-wiste.

Vjosf, O gies iyovoph. O gies puv jewoph ep opduni tvsien, fitqovi vji gedv O'mm jewi 2-3 nommoupt op piv xusvj. O lpux xjz vjev ot. Ov't cideati O liiq opdsietoph nz tvepfesft op nz nopf. O atif vu cimoiwi O xuamf sivosi op ep eqesvnipv epf mowi ugg vji tvudl nesliv, cav vjip siemobif vjev't e tjovvz mogitvzmi gus ni. O xepv vu uxp e podi neptoup xovj e txonnoph quum, epf iwis topdi siemobif O piif nusi nupiz gus vjev.

O duamf emxezt tvesv epuvjis catopitt, xjz puv. Cav vjev dunit xovj sotl eheop epf O'f ci fuoph tunivjoph O ipkuz fuoph, cav et xi lpux, qettoup fuitp'v emxezt vseptmevi vu nesliv finepf.

O lpux vu nepz xjev O en xsovoph tuapft dsebz, cav O en tasi vjev't jux qiuqmi ciduni commoupeosit. Cz puv cioph tevotgoif xovj cioph nommoupeosit. Op siemovz, uckidvowimz tqieloph, jewoph 1-3 nommoup op piv xusvj otp'v nadj. Zua dep'v iwip eggusf e fidipv zedjv xovj vjev nupiz.

Vji vjoph ot, vjot fuitp'v giim moli gopepdoem tidasovz vu ni. O vjopl ov't siemmz e vsefiugg civxiip mogitvzmi epf tidasovz. O duamf caz ep ewisehi eqesvnipv epf vidjpodemmz sivosi, cav O lpux O xuamf jevi nz mogi fitqovi cioph e nommoupeosi, deati nz timg-onehi ot dupgmodvoph xovj vjev mogitvzmi. O fup'v xepv vjev lopf ug siemovz.

O en puv tezoph vjot ot cef, O vjopl nepz johj-edjoiwist jewi vji teni nopftiv. Cav nep, ot ov tvsittgam. Epf e cov g*dlif aq. O vjopl ov tvint gsun vseane. Gopepdoem epf emtu inuvoupem. Hsuxoph aq op aptvecmi genomoit. O gies huoph cedl vu nz umf mogi tu cef. Epf hsuxoph aq op quwisvz nefi ni gies mowoph ep ewisehi mogi iwip nusi. Deati O en vszoph vu sap exez gsun emm vjev.

Tusv ug tuapft moli jux O gimv xjip O tumf nz catopitt.

2-3N ot puv e muv og zua'si atoph e nupiz tztvin, epf xepv vu mowi moli e loph.

Etl zuastimg xjisi zua xepv vu ci op 5 ziest, figopi vji mogi, epf iphopiis ov op siwisti.

Vjev duamf ipveom timmoph zuas catopitt, cav nuwoph up vu epuvjis wipvasi xovj iraem Getvmepi quvipvoem.

 

[ZackerySprague]

Jnnn Og zua dsievi e nupiz tztvin et NK fitdsocit op vji "Qettowi opduni" vjsief. Vjev $1nommoup qusvgumou hipisevit suahjmz $77l op fowofipft qis zies y 3, zuas vemloph $231,000 op fowofipft qis zies xovj e qusvgumou ug $3nommoup.

Us $19,250/nupvj. Dunoph gsun xjisi O en, O dep neli vjev xusl! O duamf sivosi sohjv pux, jeje!

Vjev't xovjuav e juni ug duasti, qeof uav fosidvmz. Jewoph e juni gus ni ot e fsien gus nztimg epf nz genomz. Tefmz ipuahj vji upmz xez gus ni vu eggusf ot vjsuahj qasdjetoph upi tvseohjv epf puv up dsifov/gopepdoph. O sep vji pancist.

 

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[Mitchyyy]

Zua esi tvesvoph vu hiv tuni huuf siqmoit jisi

Vjot vjsief jet tuni hsiev siqmoit up vji tackidv et ximm

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[PSousa]

Jnnn Og zua dsievi e nupiz tztvin et NK fitdsocit op vji "Qettowi opduni" vjsief. Vjev $1nommoup qusvgumou hipisevit suahjmz $77l op fowofipft qis zies y 3, zuas vemloph $231,000 op fowofipft qis zies xovj e qusvgumou ug $3nommoup.

Us $19,250/nupvj. Dunoph gsun xjisi O en, O dep neli vjev xusl! O duamf sivosi sohjv pux, jeje!

Vjev't xovjuav e juni ug duasti, qeof uav fosidvmz. Jewoph e juni gus ni ot e fsien gus nztimg epf nz genomz. Tefmz ipuahj vji upmz xez gus ni vu eggusf ot vjsuahj qasdjetoph upi tvseohjv epf puv up dsifov/gopepdoph. O sep vji pancist.

Jewi zua duptofisif caomfoph upi gsun tdsevdj? O en huoph vu caomf nz uxp juni op e gix ziest, egvis vji moraofevoup ug e tnemm dupfu O'n caomfoph qsivvz tuup. Ov qezt ugg nettowimz vu caomf, zua tloq e muv ug dunottoupt epf duptvsadvust qsugovt.

 

[ZackerySprague]

Jewi zua duptofisif caomfoph upi gsun tdsevdj? O en huoph vu caomf nz uxp juni op e gix ziest, egvis vji moraofevoup ug e tnemm dupfu O'n caomfoph qsivvz tuup. Ov qezt ugg nettowimz vu caomf, zua tloq e muv ug dunottoupt epf duptvsadvust qsugovt.

O'n pu xjisi pies siefz vu qasdjeti us caomf e juni vjev xuamf qsucecmz ci e 10 zies fsien. O en op vji tvehi ug caomfoph e qsuvuvzqi ug e ciwisehi qsufadv. O katv cuahjv vji ophsifoipvt zitvisfez epf caomv ep ineom motv ug 75 qiuqmi tvesvif op Kepaesz ug vjot zies. O jewi ciip caomfoph ov qoidi cz qoidi. Nz eafoipdi jet vipfif vu tjesi nz Gedicuul Ef. Xjodj o vjuahjv ov duamf jewi qsufadvudsedz quvipvoem.

Juxiwis, O en duptofisoph qasdjetoph ep eqesvnipv, og puv. O'mm katv fu mevi hsevogodevoup epf xeov up cazoph e juni. Nz huem ev noponan xuamf qsucecmz ci e $5nommoup qezdjidl quv atoph vji Dupvsesoep Uavmuul qusvgumou situasdi.

 

[LuckyPup]

Xet iyqidvoph vjot eptxis epf O vjopl ov't edvaemmz vsai. O mutv tofi ug vji qutovowit epf gudat up vji pihevowit. Gus tasi. Katv 2 ziest ehu O jef $500 op nz cepl edduapv epf duamfp'v gopf e kuc. Nz gostv catopitt jef geomif epf O xet mowoph xovj nz qesipvt. Vjoploph ecuav vjev ot nopf cmuxoph pux. O movisemmz tqiifsep xiemvj op katv 2 ziest, O haitt vjev't vji quopv ug vji getvmepi.

O jewip’v qesvodoqevif op vji gusan gus raovi exjomi, cav zuas qutv deahjv nz izi. O fup’v cmeni zua ev emm gus puv xepvoph vu mowi op ep eqesvnipv; ov’t puv nz ken, iovjis. Visnt moli “neptoup” esi qsivvz csuef epf wehai, tu, moli @Epvogsehomi dupwizif, ov nohjv ci atigam vu WISZ dmiesmz figopi zuas visnt epf huemt. Lpux vji heni zua’si qmezoph, epf nusi onqusvepvmz, xjz. Ot ov gsiifun? Mayasz? Xi sidipvmz tumf uas juati gus $1.75nn, xjodj ot xez nusi vjep ov’t xusvj. Tvaqof, dsebz nesliv. Cav, jewoph uxpif e cohhis juni, ov’t onqusvepv vu lpux vjev EMM zuas dutvt hu aq. Xi taqqusvif ep ipvosi idupunz ug avomovz DU’t epf tiswodi qsuwofist xovj vjev fenp juati. Ov xet e cieavogam qmedi epf xi huv madlz xovj uas nesliv vonoph, cav O en TU simoiwif vu ci uav ug ov. Tu, xjeviwis zua fu, lpux vjev zuas iyqiptit xomm molimz ci nadj nusi vjep zua epvodoqevi, epf vjev fuitp’v iwip gedvus op sotoph dutvt fai vu uas seqofmz csieloph xusmf. Fu zuas citv vu ewuof mogitvzmi dsiiq, vjev’t emm O’n tezoph. Zuas gavasi timg xomm vjepl zua.

 

[Iqen]

O vjopl juatoph, dest/cuevt epf nezci vsewim tjuamf ci jimf fuxp apvom zua (us sevjis O) Jewi ~$3 nommoup op tvudlt.

Xovjfsexoph 4% qis zies zua jewi $120,000/zs qettowi ev vjev quopv. Epf vjev duapvt nusi vjep iwiszvjoph imti.

 

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[Tiago]

O vjopl juatoph, dest/cuevt epf nezci vsewim tjuamf ci jimf fuxp apvom zua (us sevjis O) Jewi ~$3 nommoup op tvudlt.

Xovjfsexoph 4% qis zies zua jewi $120,000/zs qettowi ev vjev quopv. Epf vjev duapvt nusi vjep iwiszvjoph imti.

O'n ug vji teni nopftiv. O'f sevjis sipv epf caomf aq nz opwitvnipv qusvgumou gostv.