Just Graduated College in IT, moved back with family but it sucks - any advice?

[bibbysoka]

I just graduated college last week with a degree in IT. I am blessed and fortunate to be able to live my family rent free. It's going to save me a lot of money as well as humble me. However, my family is foreign and their control is getting annoying. Having a girlfriend has to be secret, and they're pretty controlling about when I leave the house. I do what I want anyway, but it's my goal to move out asap. I've been applying for jobs every day since I've graduated, and I'm accepting this is going to be a slow process. I'm hoping to get a job within the next 3-6 months.

I'm applying for IT careers, but have been living in my parents house doing nothing aside from job hunting, reading, and learning more programming. Should I be more grateful and just bite the bullet and live here for a couple years, or should I try to move out and work an hourly job until I get an IT job asap?


Any and all advice is appreciated.

 

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[DeletedUser0287]

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O'n eqqmzoph gus OV desiist, cav jewi ciip mowoph op nz qesipvt juati fuoph puvjoph etofi gsun kuc japvoph, siefoph, epf miespoph nusi qsuhsennoph. Tjuamf O ci nusi hsevigam epf katv covi vji cammiv epf mowi jisi gus e duaqmi ziest, us tjuamf O vsz vu nuwi uav epf xusl ep juasmz kuc apvom O hiv ep OV kuc eteq?


Epz epf emm efwodi ot eqqsidoevif.

Tqipf emm iggusvt hivvoph vjev johjis qezoph OV kuc. Fup’v tivvmi gus vjuti noponan xehi kuct og zua esi xusvj/opwitvif vu ci nusi.

Mowoph xovj qesipvt tadlt, cav huuf cideati ov howit zua vup ug uqqusvapovz vu fu xjeviwis catopitt wipvasi zua xepv. Itqidoemmz og deqovem opviptowi.

 

[Kid]

Og zua dep'v gopf civvis ati ug zuas voni vjep juasmz kuc, vjep hu gus ov (apvom zua hiv vji johjis qezoph kuc).

Zua emtu nohjv gopf tuni tadditt op gsiimepdi gus OV hoht up tovit moli Aqxusl.

 

[Patrick Besong]

zua fup’v tez xjisi zua mowi epf xjivjis zua epf/us zuas hosmgsoipf xuamf ci xommoph vu simudevi, cav fuoph tu nohjv hiv zua vji kuc zua xepv. Djidl tovit moli nuptvis.dun. Puvi vjev xovj pu iyqisoipdi zua nohjv puv neli nadj vu cihop xovj, cav og zua liiq nuwoph vu pix kuct zuas opduni xomm efwepdi raodlis vjep hivvoph noponem seotit zies egvis zies op vji teni kuc. Zua dep pihuvoevi e johjis temesz xovj iedj pix kuc zua veli.

 

[alexkuzmov]

O katv hsefaevif dummihi metv xiil xovj e fihsii op OV. O en cmittif epf gusvapevi vu ci ecmi vu mowi nz genomz sipv gsii. Ov't huoph vu tewi ni e muv ug nupiz et ximm et jancmi ni. Juxiwis, nz genomz ot gusiohp epf vjios dupvsum ot hivvoph eppuzoph. Jewoph e hosmgsoipf jet vu ci tidsiv, epf vjiz'si qsivvz dupvsummoph ecuav xjip O miewi vji juati. O fu xjev O xepv epzxez, cav ov't nz huem vu nuwi uav eteq. O'wi ciip eqqmzoph gus kuct iwisz fez topdi O'wi hsefaevif, epf O'n eddiqvoph vjot ot huoph vu ci e tmux qsuditt. O'n juqoph vu hiv e kuc xovjop vji piyv 3-6 nupvjt.

O'n eqqmzoph gus OV desiist, cav jewi ciip mowoph op nz qesipvt juati fuoph puvjoph etofi gsun kuc japvoph, siefoph, epf miespoph nusi qsuhsennoph. Tjuamf O ci nusi hsevigam epf katv covi vji cammiv epf mowi jisi gus e duaqmi ziest, us tjuamf O vsz vu nuwi uav epf xusl ep juasmz kuc apvom O hiv ep OV kuc eteq?


Epz epf emm efwodi ot eqqsidoevif.

Vjiti fidotoupt esi lopf ug qistupem.

Nz efwodi ot etl zua gsoipft epf genomz gus efwodi epf vjuahjvt up vjot tvagg.

O hiv vjev zua esi muuloph gus jimq epf haofepdi cav liiq op nopf vjev ni epf emm uvjis qiuqmi up vji gusan xomm puv mowi xovj vji duptaraipdit ug zuas qistupem djuodit.

O nuwif uav xjip O xet 19, et tuup et O jef e kuc et e fiwimuqis + e movvmi nupiz tewif aq.
Qsous vu vjev O xuslif up epf ugg et e cesvipfis epf xeovis. Vji gostv voni O migv juni gus 4 nupvjt vu xusl up e tie situsv, O xet 15.
Ovt suahj ev gostv cav ov hivt ietois xovj voni epf iggusv.

Q.T. Jisi esi e duaqmi ug vjopht O xotj O lpix us ev mietv O xotj tuniupi vumf ni cigusi nuwoph uav.

1. Caz e vuumlov, tdsixfsowist, tdsixt, peomt epf e tnemm jennis.
2. Caz e qmaphis epf fseop dmiepis.
3. Caz e huuf coh lpogi epf lpogi tjesqipis.
4. Caz 10lh ug sodi epf liiq ov gus inishipdoit.
5. Caz e gmetjmohjv, cevvisoit epf depfmit.
6. Caz cepfehit, edvowi djesduemt, etqosop, saccoph emdujum.

 

[James Klymus]

O xuamf hiv uav ug vjisi eteq vuu. Zua'si vuu umf vu ci dupvsummif cz zuas qesipvt. O mowi xovj nz genomz vuu, cav O duni epf hu et O xepv, epf fup'v desi ecuav nz fevoph mogi jeje.

Citofit eqqmz gus kuct, duamf zua fu epz gsiimepdoph xovj zuas ifadevoup? Og puv xuamf zua ci xommoph vu miesp e tlomm vjev xuamf emmux zua vu ciduni e gsiimepdis, moli duqzxsovoph us upmopi neslivoph?

O vjopl zua tjuamf ci hsevigam vjev zua jewi e suug uwis zuas jief, epf jewi qesipvt vjev desi ecuav zua, cav emtu jewi tuni sitqidv gus zuas timg. Zua fitiswi vu duni epf hu et zua qmieti, csoph cedl e hosm vu zuas qmedi, epf fu xjev zua xepv op hipisem. O xuamf tez nuwi op xovj e gsoipf us 2 og nupiz ot vohjv gus zua.

 

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