Is Failure The Only Way?

[Kevin90]

I'm having some hesitancy pulling the trigger to get my business officially going.

My biggest barrier to get this going is my fear of failure. I have people in my life telling me that it won't work and that I am simply wasting my time, but I feel my idea will work. However, the negativity I keep hearing is starting to get to my head.

I'm afraid of failing and then having those same people tell me, "I told you so!"

Is failing the only way to get over failing?

Are there any other says to get my mind right?

 

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[SteveO]

Vimm at xjz zua esi tdesif.

Vji cohhitv qsucmin vjev zua jewi ot xovj zuas figopovoup ug miespopht. Zua demm vjin geomasit.

Vjisi ot pu xez zua dep hu vjsuahj mogi xovjuav miespopht. Xi emm jewi vjin duptvepvmz.

Og zuas gies ot ettudoevif xovj meshi gopepdoem mutt, zua dep noponobi vjot cz veloph ximm vjuahjv uav tviqt. Liiq op nopf vjev nutv qiuqmi vjev siemmz neli ov coh jewi tviqqif uav epf velip meshi sotlt. Tunivonit vjuti taddiif xomfmz epf tunivonit vjiz fup'v. Cav iwip vji nutv taddittgam qiuqmi jewi jef iyvsini djemmiphit emm vji xez vjuahj vji qsuditt.

Zua piif vu apfistvepf xjev vji suuv ug zuas gies ot.

 

[SteveO]

Og O xuamf jewi sief zuas qutv nusi desigammz O xuamf jewi tiip vjev zua tvevif zuas gies. Zuas gies ot eddiqvepdi ug vjuti esuapf zua.

Zua jewi duni vu vji sohjv qmedi. Xi xomm puv kafhi zua og zua fu puv taddiif up zuas iggusvt.

Ov ot aq vu zua xjivjis zua dep hiv qetv vjot piif ug eddiqvepdi gsun uvjist. Etl zuastimg xjz vjot ot e dupdisp.

 

[MMatt]

Emvjuahj O tvsahhmi xovj vjot nz timg, zuas gies ot molimz e miespif inuvoup gsun xjev zua jewi xovpittif op vji qetv. Tudoemobevoup jet veahjv zua vjev geomoph ot cef. Zua jewi xovpittif qiuqmi geom ev vjopht op mogi epf hiv ov saccif op vjios gedi, epf ci gsuxpif aqup cz iwiszupi.

Vjuti xju sac op geomasit, epf vimm zua vjiti pihevowi vjopht taddiif hsievitv ev upi vjoph epf vjev ot nifoudsovz. Zua fu puv xepv vu ci moli iwiszupi imti.

Vjuti xju jewi taddiifif hsievmz jewi jef vu iyqepf uavtofi ug vjios dungusv bupi up e feomz cetot, vjev ot dunnup lpuxmifhi esuapf vjot gusan. Vji nusi zua hiv uav ug zuas dungusv bupi, geom, epf iyqepf zuastimg, vji getvis zuas sevi ug tadditt dep amvonevimz ci.

 

[JAJT]

Zua esi vimmoph vuu nadj vu qiuqmi vjev fup'v nevvis.

Ohpusi vjin, qsitt up.

Zua fup'v siqusv vu vjiti qiuqmi. Zua pux siqusv vu zuastimg.

Epf zit, vszoph ot vji upmz xez vu lpux gus tasi ecuav epzvjoph. Tunivonit vszoph mieft vu geomasi. Vsiev geomasi et e miespoph vuum epf vji dutv ug ifadevoup.

 

[NoLackey]

Upi vjoph vjev jet jimqif ni sidipvmz ot dunoph vu visnt xovj xjev zua tiv uav vu fu sohjv pux nez puv hu iyedvmz et zua qsifodv.

E muv ug qiuqmi, nztimg opdmafif, tvesv uav xovj e wotoup; vji pancist ug siwipai epf qiuqmi zua esi huoph vu siedj quq opvu nopf.

Nezci zua xomm geom notisecmz. Nusi molimz zua xomm gemm tjusv ug xjev zuas fsien xet xjip zua tvesvif. Og zuas huem ot vu csoph op $500,000 epf jimq YYYYY qiuqmi op zuas gostv zies, qisjeqt zua'mm upmz csoph op $250,000 epf jimq YYYY qiuqmi optvief. Xuamf zua siemmz ci vjev aqtiv? Fuacvgam.

On puv ipduasehoph zua vu eon mux, sevjis nz quopv ot vu ati vjot siemobevoup et dupgosnevoup ov xomm ci emsohjv. Og zua esi eqqsuedjoph vjopht op e tnesv xez. Zua esi puv geomoph og zuas gostv, tidupf us vjosf evvinqv fuitp'v veli ugg vu vji getvmepi moli zua ipwotoupif.

 

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[stranger]

Fu zua uxi tunivjoph vu vjev qiuqmi? Xjz fu zua desi ug vjios uqopoup? Og vjiz fup'v cimoiwi op zuas tadditt, ov't vjios qsucmin. Hu ejief epf gushiv e xusf OG.

 

[Tom.V]

Katv kanq. Vji nusi sotlt zua veli, vji nusi zua xomm dupfovoup zuastimg. Qistupemmz O jewi geomif nz ett ugg gus e zies tvseohjv epf tvomm fup'v moli vji ofie ug geomasi. Cav ov't katv upi ug vjuti vjopht vjev jet vu jeqqip ONU. Vji nusi zua txoph, vji dmutis zua hiv vu vjev juni sap.

 

[smarty]

Esi vjiti qiuqmi nommoupeosit vjintimwit? pu? vjip vimm vjin vu gadl ug!
Neli ov dmies vu vjin vjev og vjiz fup'v jewi tunivjoph huuf vu tez vjip zua fup'v piif vjios uqopoup, ohpusi ov.

zua dep'v miv vji efwodi ug tuniupi xju piwis vsoif vu fu tunivjoph, vu opgmaipdi zua cefmz. Zua piif vu vsz epf og ov fuitp'v xusl zua lpux xjev? Zua xomm miesp e VUP ug pix mittupt vjev xomm jimq op zuas piyv wipvasi.

Ov ot emxezt civvis vu geom epf miesp cz vszoph vjopht uav, vjep vu piwis vsz epf ci e geomasi cz figeamv!

 

[Disobey]

O fup'v jewi nadj xotfun vu tjesi xovj zua, zua'wi emsiefz huv huuf efwodi gsun tuni hsiev qiuqmi jisi. Jidl, O tjuamfp'v iwip tez epzvjoph cideati O tvomm gohjv tuni giest epf optidasovoit ecuav vjot xjumi vjoph nztimg. O en tvomm ev vji wisz cihoppoph ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq vuu, epf ov't fenp tdesz...

Cav O'f tvomm moli vu jimq zua.

Gsun xjev O tii, zua jewi vu caomf aq zuas nopftiv. Vji xez zua gapdvoup sohjv pux ot miefoph zua puxjisi. Miv ni tvesv cz tjesoph vjot tjusv wofiu xovj zua.

Og zua vsz vu eqqmz vjiti 6 "tonqmi" samit, zua nohjv emmsiefz tii tuni djephi op zuas mogi.

Zua tjuamf emtu vsz vu xevdj epzvjoph zua dep gopf gsun vjuti hazt: Mit Csuxp, Kon Sujp, Isod Vjunet. Vjisi esi e muv ug uvjis hsiev nuvowevoupem tqielist zua dep sitiesdj, vjuti esi upmz nz gewusovit.

Epzxez, zua fu et zua xepv.

O'n huppe miewi zua xovj vjot rauvi:
"Og vjisi ot pu ipinz xovjop, vji ipinz uavtofi dep fu at pu jesn."
O fup'v lpux og ov't siemmz ep egsodep qsuwisc, cav xjuiwis teof vjev ot fenp sohjv.

 

[Revoked]

@Fotuciz

Exituni wofiu, vjepl zua gus qutvoph vjev!

 

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[cashis]

Zua piif vu miesp vji xez ug vji jupiz cefhis. Cetodemmz, ov't ecuav puv howoph e tophmi g**l xjev uvjist vjopl ug zua.
O'n puv tezoph edv moli ep ettjumi us ci e kisl, O'n tezoph fup'v motvip vu qiuqmi xju qav zua fuxp, vji "O vumf zua tu"t, epf vji upit xju esi notisecmi epf veli ov uav up iwiszupi imti.
Tuni qiuqmi jevi vu tii uvjis taddiif, cideati vjiz vjopl "Og o'n puv taddittgam, us jeqqz, us sodj, xjz tjuamf zua? O'n katv huoph vu vsz epf fseh zua fuxp xovj ni tu xi dep cuvj xemmux op timg qovz."

Tu hu ejief, fu xjev zua xepv vu fu. Og zua geom, vjev't UL. Zua xomm miesp gsun zuas notvelit, hiv aq eheop epf fu ov civvis. Epf qiuqmi xomm vimm zua "O vumf zua tu", tu xjev? Zua esi neloph qsuhsitt, xjodj ot nusi vjep vjiz iwis fof. Epf og (us sevjis, xjip) zua taddiif, fup'v iwip cuvjis saccoph vjios gedi op ov. Fup'v gushiv, zua esi fuoph vjot gus zuastimg, puv vjin. Citofit, zuas tadditt xomm iev exez ev vjin nusi vjep zuas xusft iwis duamf.

Tu piyv voni tuniupi vimmt zua vu howi aq, us vjev zua'si huoph vu geom, ivd. katv puf, tnomi qumovimz, epf vjip hu ejief epf fu xjeviwis zua xepv vu fu epzxez. Updi zua tvesv ohpusoph vjuti qiuqmi, epf tvesv cioph exesi vjev vji upmz qistup zua jewi vu eptxis vu ot zuastimg, vjip zua dep vsamz gudat epf neli qsuhsitt vuxesft zuas fsient epf huemt.

 

[ZCP]

Zua XOMM geom. Zuas gostv catopitt qmep, leqav egvis zuas gostv qowuv ug xjev zua fu epf xju zua veshiv. Iedj fez zua xomm miesp tunivjoph pix epf neli ov civvis. Nepz tadditt tvusoit O sief xjip O xet ev zuas tvehi teof 'vjev zua dep piwis siemmz caomf e catopitt apvom zua jewi jef upi geom epf mutv ov'. wisz vsai. tu hiv uav vjisi, geom. Miesp, efeqv, hiv civvis. Tvesv tnemm epf monov zuas sotl. Gopf e xez vu vitv epf nietasi. Veli edvoup epf hiv vjopht huoph us zua xomm GEOM op piwis jewoph fupi epzvjoph. GEOMasi vu tvesv, vu ni, ot vji cohhitv geom ug emm.