Inferiority Complex

[ThornOS]

<div class="bbWrapper">Hello everyone<br /> <br /> <br /> I would appreciate some advice on this topic.<br /> <br /> So you can understand—I’ve had this thing for a couple of years.<br /> <br /> The thing is, I see pretty much everyone as better than me and I think if they went into business, they would definitely do a better job than me.<br /> <br /> I of course know the things I’m good at, but I’m like “oh, if they did that, they would probably do a better job than me.”<br /> <br /> So I think you can see the destructive pattern here. I have nothing to do with people and how good they are, but when I try to skew value, I will definitely think that I can’t do it better.<br /> <br /> As an aspiring entrepreneur, I’m convinced this will work against me. And I think I’m not so creative and I won’t be good at marketing.<br /> <br /> Well, I’m pretty sure that by then I won’t have time to be in my head and I’ll be more grounded in reality, and I’ll have other problems to think about. But I just want to face this problem as much as I can.<br /> <br /> I need to build some solid confidence—not to be unrealistic or delusional, but to really trust my product and myself in general.</div>

 

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[REV5028]

<div class="bbWrapper">The truth is that there certainly are people out there who do things better than you. You know what made them better than you? They did the thing and they did it so many times that it became impossible for them to be bad at it. And you know what? There are still people out there who do that thing better than them. But you don&#039;t have to be the absolute best to provide value. And value rarely lies in one component of who you are. The uniqueness of YOU can be enough to win over an audience. But you have to take action even when your brain tells you all the reasons not to. And some advice I got on this forum recently from someone who is eons ahead of me as an entrepreneur: no one knows what they&#039;re doing. But they&#039;re doing.</div>

 

[Devilery]

<div class="bbWrapper">Guess what! Even some of the smartest and most capable people still think they should be smarter and more capable. Just like gorgeous-looking, fit women still feel like their nose is too big, or they have to lose 10 more pounds. <br /> <br /> You will never be &quot;good enough&quot;. You have to start being imperfect.<br /> <br /> Don&#039;t even focus on yourself. Focus on solving problems. You only need to be good at solving problem/-s, and almost anyone can find and learn something they can solve.<br /> <br /> Just go do something - provide a service for a fee, digital or in-person. Get paid. Then figure out how to make your service more valuable and deliver it to more people.<br /> <br /> I&#039;m far from where I want to be, but when I started as a digital marketing freelancer, I was absolutely broke and severely depressed, hated basically everything about myself and life. Many years later, I&#039;m working on my own schedule, making more money than I ever have, and traveling to several new countries every year.<br /> <br /> My clients have problems, I solve them, and I get paid. Simple as that.</div>

 

[ThornOS]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 64688" data-quote="Devilery" data-source="post: 1168890" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1168890" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1168890">Devilery said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> My clients have problems, I solve them, and I get paid. Simple as that. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Yes, you’re right.<br /> <br /> As I thought, I’m not the first—and there will be much more serious problems to solve.<br /> <br /> Thank you for your answers!</div>

 

[Kevin88660]

<div class="bbWrapper">Being in good in anything is a process. <br /> <br /> Babies only know crying for milk when they are born.</div>

 

[DareDevil]

<div class="bbWrapper">change your something in your life I can&#039;t pinpoint it new friends , new environment , new name, change behaviour <br /> and with the intersection of these above things you will evolve</div>

 

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[ThornOS]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 125950" data-quote="DareDevil" data-source="post: 1168914" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1168914" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1168914">DareDevil said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> change your something in your life I can&#039;t pinpoint it new friends , new environment , new name, change behaviour<br /> and with the intersection of these above things you will evolve </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Oh man, I’ve been waiting for that! <br /> I’m moving out in the near future, and that’s great because I’m still in my hometown—and I’m really tired of this place.</div>

 

[DareDevil]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 148108" data-quote="ThornOS" data-source="post: 1168919" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1168919" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1168919">ThornOS said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Oh man, I’ve been waiting for that!<br /> I’m moving out in the near future, and that’s great because I’m still in my hometown—and I’m really tired of this place. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>And some further suggestion find confident winning people try as much as possible to stay near them , you can spot them , those who are happier , smarter or more confident and more money making people stay close to them<br /> and I know it might sound a little harsh but stay as far as possible from depressed , sad , lonely or lazy people even if you are struggling from these issues I am betting you will overcome this , I did and I am loving myself now same will happen to you</div>