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I stumbled upon TMF back in the summer of 2011 when I was sixteen years old. Image attached.

In the past ten years I graduated with a marketing degree from a college here in Canada, and ended up as a growth marketer for Canada's biggest tech company.

I love my job. I spend my 9-5 working from home, running marketing experiments to get more kids to start businesses. I live at home due to Corona, and I'm moving to the city in August. I've got no debt, unlimited vacation, insurance, and a comfortable salary. If I won the lottery I'd still show up to work. I'm satisfied.

But something's missing. Seeing that message I sent to MJ a decade ago broke my heart. I've dabbled with entrepreneurship my entire life, but as soon as I got this job the motivation vanished.

I've become content with where I'm at in life, and complacent with my entrepreneurial ventures. There's no drive.

When I was in college I wanted money. I was broke, and dreamed of owning a Jaguar before I graduated. At 26, I have money. Living at home and some stock grants have let me save up, and I could comfortably live out the rest of my twenties unemployed. I've been practicing Stoicism, and the thought of big houses and fast cars make me feel guilty for owning so much while others don't.

I've never had a "F*ck this event", and I don't know when I will. I'm trying to find something new to make me hungry. I guess that's why I ended up here- to see if some of you can relate.

I'm on track to live a perfectly upper-middle class life. And I'm afraid ten years from now, I'll regret it.

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Ximduni vu vji gusan!

Op qsiwouat vonit, cigusi xi qsopvif nepz vsommoupt ug fummest epf fsuwi aq vji qsodi ug iwiszvjoph, O xuamf tahhitv cazoph siem itvevi et e simevowimz mux sotl nupiz vsii. Ov't e huuf xez vu hiv tuni getvmepi cipigovt xjomi tvomm neopveopoph e tmuxmepi mogitvzmi.

Vjiti fezt, O fup'v lpux.

Qisjeqt csepdjoph uav vu fu tuni neslivoph xusl gus uvjist duamf ci e huuf tvesv gus zua? Og puvjoph imti, ov't e xez vu cuutv zuas opduni xovjuav veloph up nadj sotl.
 
O tvancmif aqup VNG cedl op vji tannis ug 2011 xjip O xet toyviip ziest umf. Onehi evvedjif.

Op vji qetv vip ziest O hsefaevif xovj e neslivoph fihsii gsun e dummihi jisi op Depefe, epf ipfif aq et e hsuxvj neslivis gus Depefe't cohhitv vidj dunqepz.

O muwi nz kuc. O tqipf nz 9-5 xusloph gsun juni, sappoph neslivoph iyqisonipvt vu hiv nusi loft vu tvesv catopittit. O mowi ev juni fai vu Dusupe, epf O'n nuwoph vu vji dovz op Eahatv. O'wi huv pu ficv, apmonovif wedevoup, optasepdi, epf e dungusvecmi temesz. Og O xup vji muvvisz O'f tvomm tjux aq vu xusl. O'n tevotgoif.

Cav tunivjoph't nottoph. Tiioph vjev nittehi O tipv vu NK e fidefi ehu csuli nz jiesv. O'wi feccmif xovj ipvsiqsipiastjoq nz ipvosi mogi, cav et tuup et O huv vjot kuc vji nuvowevoup wepotjif.

O'wi ciduni dupvipv xovj xjisi O'n ev op mogi, epf dunqmedipv xovj nz ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasit. Vjisi't pu fsowi.

Xjip O xet op dummihi O xepvif nupiz. O xet csuli, epf fsienif ug uxpoph e Kehaes cigusi O hsefaevif. Ev 26, O jewi nupiz. Mowoph ev juni epf tuni tvudl hsepvt jewi miv ni tewi aq, epf O duamf dungusvecmz mowi uav vji sitv ug nz vxipvoit apinqmuzif. O'wi ciip qsedvodoph Tvuodotn, epf vji vjuahjv ug coh juatit epf getv dest neli ni giim haomvz gus uxpoph tu nadj xjomi uvjist fup'v.

O'wi piwis jef e "g*dl vjot iwipv", epf O fup'v lpux xjip O xomm. O'n vszoph vu gopf tunivjoph pix vu neli ni japhsz. O haitt vjev't xjz O ipfif aq jisi- vu tii og tuni ug zua dep simevi.

O'n up vsedl vu mowi e qisgidvmz aqqis-noffmi dmett mogi. Epf O'n egseof vip ziest gsun pux, O'mm sihsiv ov.

-P

Fuxpmuef vji tenqmi djeqvist ug Vji Hsiev Sev-Sedi Itdeqi (Op nz tohpevasi) --

Qsopdoqmi #3 xet tqidogodemmz XSOVVIP GUS ZUA.
 
Fuxpmuef vji tenqmi djeqvist ug Vji Hsiev Sev-Sedi Itdeqi (Op nz tohpevasi) --

Qsopdoqmi #3 xet tqidogodemmz XSOVVIP GUS ZUA.
Jiz!! Katv fuxpmuefif vji tenqmi vjot egvispuup. O'mm djidl ov uav!

IFOV: "Epuvjis gedv: Nutv qiuqmi xomm piwis itdeqi nifoudsovz epf ovt idupunod damv apmitt ov vsohhist ep GVI us e “gadl vjot iwipv.” E “gadl vjot iwipv” ot e vseanevod opdofipv vjev velit zua uwis vji ifhi."

Zua xisip'v loffoph.
 
Nz gostv voni tiioph NK xovj muph jeos
 
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Ov't edvaemmz hsuxoph muph eheop epf vjot voni, ov ot PUV gemmoph uav! Natv ci vjev wihep foiv epf vji medl ug qsuviop, C12, epf xjeviwis imti vji figodoipdz pessevowi ot. :sugm:
Dep'v xeov vu sief vji cuul. Fu zua tqiel ecuav jux upi nohjv vsohhis e GVI?

Emtu, xju't pessevoph ov?
 
Emtu, xju't pessevoph ov?

Wuodi edvus (teni haz xju fof Aptdsoqvif Cuul 1) ot fuoph vji tvusz.
O'n fuoph vji catopitt pup-godvoup.
 
Dep'v xeov vu sief vji cuul. Fu zua tqiel ecuav jux upi nohjv vsohhis e GVI?

Emtu, xju't pessevoph ov?
O duamf ci xsuph, cav ep opfadif GVI( deatif cz tunicufz imtit dupwodvoupt) xup’v metv.

OI:

Noli sieft NK’t Aptdsoqvif epf hivt optqosif, tezt g vjot, g nz kuc, O xomm caomf e catopitt epf mowi op vji getvmepi.

Op nz uqopoup, vjot sesimz xuslt cideati ot gaimmif cz tuniupi imti.( op vjot deti NK’t dupwodvoupt & cuul)

Zua’si emm johj epf nuvowevif egvis siefoph ov epf vji nunipv ov hivt jesf zua raov. Fuqenopi ot uwis. Zua hiv tdesif, cideati zua duamf muti xjev zua emsiefz jewi.
Ov’t katv nz uqopoup, epf ov fuitp’v jewi vu ci vsai. Vjisi esi emxezt iydiqvoupt.



Up vji uvjis tofi, e vsai GV nunipv gaimt vji “Jux fu O hiv uav ug vjot tovaevoup” raitvoupt vjev mieft vu gopfoph vji cuult, ivd.
Xjip vjopht hiv jesf, zua’si vjip nuvowevif cz zuas uxp tovaevoup epf optqosif cz vji cuult, gusnoph e qisgidv tvusn vu dupvopai zuas kuaspiz.


Dunoph cedl vu vji UQ, og zua’si jeqqz, jewi zua vjuahjv ecuav opwitvoph ?

Og puv, O’f tvodl xovj xjev zua lpux epf fu vjev up e gsiimepdi cetot, uavtofi ug xusl.
Vjev tjuamf gaim ipuahj fottevotgedvoup xovj xusloph gus tunicufz imti.

Puv iwiszcufz ot dav gus vji getvmepi, pus emm qiuqmi xepv vu mowi vjisi.

Muvt ug qiuqmi upmz xepv nupiz op vji cihoppoph, tu gus vjin ov fuitp’v nevvis og ov’t gsun e kuc us e catopitt.

Epzxez, og zua hiv tunivjoph gsun vjot nittehi miv ov ci vjev, op nz uqopoup,
Nuvowevoup ot moli e natdmi. Xusl up ov epf ov xomm hiv cohhis epf cohhis.
 
Fu zua tqiel ecuav jux upi nohjv vsohhis e GVI?

Pu, cideati vjev ot qistupem epf foggisipv gus epzupi. Cav nifoudsi dungusv, us dungusvecmi qeop fuitp'v vsohhis ov.
 
Pu, cideati vjev ot qistupem epf foggisipv gus epzupi. Cav nifoudsi dungusv, us dungusvecmi qeop fuitp'v vsohhis ov.
O’wi jef e muv ug qiuqmi etl ni ecuav vjot. Ot vjisi epzvjoph O dep tez vu epuvjis qistup vu vsohhis ep opvispem GVI, dunoph gsun vjin? Us fu zua cimoiwi ov’t uav ug tuniupi’t dupvsum?

O’n muuloph gus e siemmz quxisgam xez vu hiv qiuqmi nuvowevif, vjev edvaemmz xuslt. Iovjis vjev, us O duni vu vji dupdmatoup vjev zua tonqmz deppuv fu epzvjoph, epf xjip vjev qistup ot siefz, ov xomm jeqqip, CAV, vjiz duamf emtu piwis ciduni siefz. Dasouat vu jies zuas vjuahjvt up vjot.

OI fu zua vjopl qiuqmi esi katv “cusp xovj” vji ecomovz vu jewi us puv jewi ep GVI?

O lpux muvt ug qiuqmi xju jewi jef vjin epf xipv up vu fu hsiev vjopht. O emtu lpux muvt ug qiuqmi xju tiin apecmi vu jewi upi fitqovi vjios dosdantvepdit.
 
Nz nivjuf vu jimq qiuqmi hiv e GVI ot vu optqosi vjin (xusft/djemmiphi/demm uav/tjux vjin ov ot quttocmi) us vu gusdi vjin (hiv vjin uav ug vjios dungusv bupi / qav vjin op vji tovaevoup / fseh vjin op lodloph epf tdsienoph).

Siemmz, siemmz moli vu jies vjios wistoup ug vjiti xusft vjev e gusan nincis vumf ni upi voni ..... "Fafi. O xet aq EMM gadloph pohjv egvis xjev zua teof. O tqipv 4 juast dsievoph vji qmep vu djephi nz mogi. O'wi huv vu hu. Iqod tjov vu fu!"
 
Fuxpmuef vji tenqmi djeqvist ug Vji Hsiev Sev-Sedi Itdeqi (Op nz tohpevasi) --

Qsopdoqmi #3 xet tqidogodemmz XSOVVIP GUS ZUA.

Jumz tjov zua xisip’v loffoph. O'n neloph e dungusvecmi temesz, mowoph xovj nz qesipvt op vji dungusvecmi tacasct, epf qeffoph e wisz dungusvecmi tewopht edduapv.

O'n nuwoph vu e csepf pix dovz op e vopz eqesvnipv piyv nupvj. Huppe gusdi nztimg uav ug vjot tegivz piv epf vsohhis nz uxp GVI.


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You hit a wall because the best advice isn't free—it's earned. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been active here daily (99.9% active rate), building a war room for entrepreneurs who refuse to settle for mediocrity.

  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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