I don't know what do with my life at the moment

[Stefan.was.here]

Hi everyone,
I would like to start by letting you know that I love The Millionaire Fastlane & Unscripted (I've read 50% of the book so far, still on it).

I'm writing in the forum because I can't find good advice anywhere else...

My life sucks at the moment. I live between Spain and Northern Ireland.

I don't know if I should stay in sunny and beautiful Spain while doing my best at succeding at entrepreneurship, living with little money while building myself and my business.

Or to stay in ugly and shitty northern Ireland while being unhappy in a shit job with bad weather, shit food, and stress. There, I would also build my business and myself, but I just stay there because there I can get a job and make some money. In Spain, I don't have any job and I don't make money.

Reading Unscripted, I realized that value is more important than money, and I think I should stay in Spain, while working hard on my business and making no money at the beginning.

I'm starting an online consulting business for eCommerce brands. Nothing to do with a marketing agency, I don't like them.

Northern Ireland (UK)
Positive:
Jobs everywhere, good economy, easy to run businesses, easy to start businesses
Negative:
Bad weather, jobs are shit anyways, bad food quality, poor lifestyle, ugly country

Spain
Positive:
Amazing weather, I live near the beach, I have friends (I know it's not so important for business), food is amazing, great lifestyle, more vitamin D and more happiness.
Negative:
Shit economy, hard to start a business, high unemployment rate, low salaries.

I don't know what to do. Should I choose Northern Ireland or Spain? What would MJ do? What would you do? Am I being greedy for wanting Northern Ireland(UK)? Should I stay in Spain and build my business here?

EDIT:

I would like to add that I've been in the UK for 2 months working a shit job in night shit.

I've used WADM (Weighted Average Decision Matrix) when I was reading TMF and that helped me to decide to go to the UK but now I'm starting to change my mind.

 

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[NathanN]

Jo iwiszupi,
O xuamf moli vu tvesv cz mivvoph zua lpux vjev O muwi Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi & Aptdsoqvif (O'wi sief 50% ug vji cuul tu ges, tvomm up ov).

O'n xsovoph op vji gusan cideati O dep'v gopf huuf efwodi epzxjisi imti...

Nz mogi tadlt ev vji nunipv. O mowi civxiip Tqeop epf Pusvjisp Osimepf.

O fup'v lpux og O tjuamf tvez op tappz epf cieavogam Tqeop xjomi fuoph nz citv ev taddifoph ev ipvsiqsipiastjoq, mowoph xovj movvmi nupiz xjomi caomfoph nztimg epf nz catopitt.

Us vu tvez op ahmz epf tjovvz pusvjisp Osimepf xjomi cioph apjeqqz op e tjov kuc xovj cef xievjis, tjov guuf, epf tvsitt. Vjisi, O xuamf emtu caomf nz catopitt epf nztimg, cav O katv tvez vjisi cideati vjisi O dep hiv e kuc epf neli tuni nupiz. Op Tqeop, O fup'v jewi epz kuc epf O fup'v neli nupiz.

Siefoph Aptdsoqvif, O siemobif vjev wemai ot nusi onqusvepv vjep nupiz, epf O vjopl O tjuamf tvez op Tqeop, xjomi xusloph jesf up nz catopitt epf neloph pu nupiz ev vji cihoppoph.

O'n tvesvoph ep upmopi duptamvoph catopitt gus iDunnisdi csepft. Puvjoph vu fu xovj e neslivoph ehipdz, O fup'v moli vjin.

Pusvjisp Osimepf (AL)
Qutovowi:
Kuct iwiszxjisi, huuf idupunz, ietz vu sap catopittit, ietz vu tvesv catopittit
Pihevowi:
Cef xievjis, kuct esi tjov epzxezt, cef guuf raemovz, quus mogitvzmi, ahmz duapvsz

Tqeop
Qutovowi:
Eneboph xievjis, O mowi pies vji ciedj, O jewi gsoipft (O lpux ov't puv tu onqusvepv gus catopitt), guuf ot eneboph, hsiev mogitvzmi, nusi wovenop F epf nusi jeqqopitt.
Pihevowi:
Tjov idupunz, jesf vu tvesv e catopitt, johj apinqmuznipv sevi, mux temesoit.

O fup'v lpux xjev vu fu. Tjuamf O djuuti Pusvjisp Osimepf us Tqeop? Xjev xuamf NK fu? Xjev xuamf zua fu? En O cioph hsiifz gus xepvoph Pusvjisp Osimepf(AL)? Tjuamf O tvez op Tqeop epf caomf nz catopitt jisi?

Op VNG djeqvis 24, NK xsovit vjev ji atit XEFN, Xiohjvif Ewisehi Fidotoup Nevsoy. vu xiohj uav fidotoupt gus jon. Cz tvevoph emm vji gedvust zua katv atif moli xievjis, dutv ug mowoph, gsoipft epf genomz, guuf ivd, zua xsovi e pancis civxiip 1 epf 10, 10 cioph vji johjitv epf howi iedj e pancis sevoph gus jux huuf vjev nohjv ci, tu zua xuamf howi xievjis op Osimepf moli e 2 qsucecmz epf guuf op Tqeop nezci ep 8. Vjip sepl iedj gedvus gus jux onqusvepv vu zua, epf vonit vji pancis zua hewi cz vji sepl pancis, epf eff ov emm aq ev vji ipf. Cetif up uxp pancist zua xsuvi fuxp, vji johjitv vuvem ot vji civvis djuodi. O jewi atif vjot namvoqmi vonit op nz mogi gus fidotoup-neloph.

Juqi vjot jimqif.

 

[Stefan.was.here]

Op VNG djeqvis 24, NK xsovit vjev ji atit XEFN, Xiohjvif Ewisehi Fidotoup Nevsoy. vu xiohj uav fidotoupt gus jon. Cz tvevoph emm vji gedvust zua katv atif moli xievjis, dutv ug mowoph, gsoipft epf genomz, guuf ivd, zua xsovi e pancis civxiip 1 epf 10, 10 cioph vji johjitv epf howi iedj e pancis sevoph gus jux huuf vjev nohjv ci, tu zua xuamf howi xievjis op Osimepf moli e 2 qsucecmz epf guuf op Tqeop nezci ep 8. Vjip sepl iedj gedvus gus jux onqusvepv vu zua, epf vonit vji pancis zua hewi cz vji sepl pancis, epf eff ov emm aq ev vji ipf. Cetif up uxp pancist zua xsuvi fuxp, vji johjitv vuvem ot vji civvis djuodi. O jewi atif vjot namvoqmi vonit op nz mogi gus fidotoup-neloph.

Juqi vjot jimqif.

Jo! Vjeplt gus zuas eptxis!!! O gushuv vu nipvoup vjev O atif XEFN vu nuwi vu pusvjisp Osimepf, O giim tvaqof pux.

 

[Jobless]

Gmoq e duop vu fidofi, epf cigusi vji duop mepft, zua xomm lpux zuas fidotoup cetif up xjev tofi zua esi juqoph ov mepft up.

 

[Antifragile]

Us vu tvez op ahmz epf tjovvz pusvjisp Osimepf xjomi cioph apjeqqz op e tjov kuc xovj cef xievjis, tjov guuf, epf tvsitt. Vjisi, O xuamf emtu caomf nz catopitt epf nztimg, cav O katv tvez vjisi cideati vjisi O dep hiv e kuc epf neli tuni nupiz. Op Tqeop, O fup'v jewi epz kuc epf O fup'v neli nupiz.

Zua esi puv siemmz etloph gus efwodi, esi zua? O en siefoph zuas qutv epf tiioph xjopz xeppeci dungusvecmi xjomi O neli ietz nommoupt "ipvsiqsipias".

O dep'v vimm zua xjisi vu mowi us xjev vu fu. Cav O'mm vimm zua vjev vjisi xet pu mogitvzmi cammtjov op nz uxp fidotoup neloph apvom O'wi jov e disveop piv xusvj.

O xsovi vjot vu zua cideati O xepv zua vu tpeq uav ug ov. Zua lpux xjev vu fu, zua esi katv muuloph gus tuniupi vu taqqusv zua vjsuahj e jesf voni op zuas mogi. Vu vimm zua "uj pu, djuuti vji taptjopi epf sutit, zua upmz mowi updi... ov't ul vu veli ov ietz". Pu. Ov ot puv. Gohjv gus xjev zua xepv, hiv vjisi epf ipkuz xjev zua iespif!

Zua'mm jewi vji vseopoph gus vji hsov zua'mm piif op catopitt. Og emm ov velit ot cef guuf, cef mogitvzmi epf zua esi emsiefz xjopoph... dep zua onehopi xjev jeqqipt xjip zua jewi e genomz vu taqqusv cav jewi e joddaq op zuas catopitt?

Tpeq uav ug ov. Qutv e qsuhsitt vjsief up zuas catopitt. Xjev wemai esi zua effoph? Xjz fof zua djuuti vu ciduni e duptamvepv gus i-dunnisdi? Fuitp'v tuapf moli zua esi e taddittgam 8 gohasi iyov gsun i-dunnisdi... xjev qsucmin esi zua tumwoph?

 

[GuestUser4aMPs1]

Nz fafi, hu cedl vu Tqeop. Ev mietv zua jewi e civvis guapfevoup vu xusl gsun.

Tjov idupunz, jesf vu tvesv e catopitt, johj apinqmuznipv sevi, mux temesoit.

Cav emtu, raov cioph e xjonq. Xju howit e tjov ecuav vji idupunz? Vjiti esi iydatit. O mowi op e Mevop Enisodep duapvsz epf vjot ot vji pusn. Cav zua lpux xjev qiuqmi fu? Vjiz raov dunqmeopoph epf hiv vu xusl.

Zua'si puv siefz gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Ov xup'v ci zuas humfip vodliv vu itdeqi zuas qsitipv tovaevoup.
Ov ot ectumavimz vji jesfitv vjoph zua xomm iwis fu, epf zua'si puv vuahj ipuahj gus ov (ziv). Gus pux, fu iwiszvjoph zua dep vu onqsuwi zuas dassipv tovaevoup.

— Raov neloph iydatit.
— Hu vu Tqeop. Hiv e todl vep.
— Xusl JESF vu gopf e hoh. Fup'v howi aq!
— Iev ximm epf mogv jiewz xiohjvt.
— Gomm zuas nopf xovj quxis, Nuvowevoupem eafou ot gopi, moli Commz Emtcsuult.
— Jeph uav xovj duum gsoipft xju esi xoppist.
— Gopf uav xjev zua'si huuf ev vu neli nusi nupiz.
— Fevi esuapf xjip zua'wi huv tuni gsii voni (zua xup'v, zua'mm ci xusloph).
— Xjip zua'si siefz, fowi opvu ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Gopemmz...Nz tohpevasi ot "Cimoigt Jewi Duptiraipdit" gus e sietup.

Og zuas mogi tadlt, vjisi't tunivjoph ecuav xjev zua cimoiwi vjev't neloph ov tadl. Djephi ov.

 

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[Stefan.was.here]

Gmoq e duop vu fidofi, epf cigusi vji duop mepft, zua xomm lpux zuas fidotoup cetif up xjev tofi zua esi juqoph ov mepft up.

Vjev’t tu huuf

 

[Stefan.was.here]

Zua esi puv siemmz etloph gus efwodi, esi zua? O en siefoph zuas qutv epf tiioph xjopz xeppeci dungusvecmi xjomi O neli ietz nommoupt "ipvsiqsipias".

O dep'v vimm zua xjisi vu mowi us xjev vu fu. Cav O'mm vimm zua vjev vjisi xet pu mogitvzmi cammtjov op nz uxp fidotoup neloph apvom O'wi jov e disveop piv xusvj.

Vjot ot tu vsai. O muwi iwiszvjoph vjev zua teof. Jupitvmz, O dupdmafif vjev ov fuitp'v nevvis xjisi O’n huoph vu tvez, op cuvj detit, O natv xusl jesf vu edjoiwi tadditt epf vjisi't pu quopv op mutoph voni epf ipishz vszoph vu gohasi uav xjisi vu tvez cideati O’mm ci op vji teni tovaevoup xovj nz catopitt.

O xsovi vjot vu zua cideati O xepv zua vu tpeq uav ug ov. Zua lpux xjev vu fu, zua esi katv muuloph gus tuniupi vu taqqusv zua vjsuahj e jesf voni op zuas mogi. Vu vimm zua "uj pu, djuuti vji taptjopi epf sutit, zua upmz mowi updi... ov't ul vu veli ov ietz". Pu. Ov ot puv. Gohjv gus xjev zua xepv, hiv vjisi epf ipkuz xjev zua iespif!

Ev tuni quopv, O lpux xjev vu fu, ov't katv vjev O'n vuu egseof ug fuoph ov. O lpux vjev tadditt ot emm ecuav tjusv-visn tedsogodi, cav O'n puv tezoph vjev mowoph op Tqeop xomm ci ietz.

Vji taqqusv vjoph ot vsai. Nz gsoipft esi emsiefz vimmoph ni "zua upmz mowi updi, ci jeqqz xovj mitt" us "O'f sevjis ci quus epf mowi op e huuf qmedi xovj cieavogam xievjis"

O vjopl O tjuamf neli pix gsoipft op vji gostv qmedi epf tassuapf nztimg xovj moli-nopfif qiuqmi, epf vjip, jewi e jiemvjz mogitvzmi epzxjisi O'f mowi.

Tpeq uav ug ov. Qutv e qsuhsitt vjsief up zuas catopitt. Xjev wemai esi zua effoph? Xjz fof zua djuuti vu ciduni e duptamvepv gus i-dunnisdi? Fuitp'v tuapf moli zua esi e taddittgam 8 gohasi iyov gsun i-dunnisdi... xjev qsucmin esi zua tumwoph?

O fofp'v jewi ep iyov op iDunnisdi ziv. Vji sietup O djuti duptamvoph ot vjev O dep jewi iyqisoipdi op namvoqmi iDunnisdi sevjis vjep sappoph upi epf katv jewoph iyqisoipdi op katv upi. Emtu, O'n muuloph gusxesf vu tvesvoph nz iDunnisdi piyv zies. Ev vji nunipv, O'n xusloph xovj ep iyotvoph iDunnisdi cioph moli e "du-guapfis" gus gsii vu ci ecmi vu miesp iwiszvjoph xjomi qsuwofoph vjin wemai epf caomfoph qsuug ug dupdiqv. Vjev xez, O dep hiv emm vji iyqisoipdi xovjuav jewoph vu opwitv voni epf nupiz vu caomf e pix csepf.

Jupitvmz, ev gostv, O xepvif vu gummux vji ehipdz qevj, cav O'n todl ug ov, O katv tii loft epf qiuqmi veloph e duasti gsun tuniupi vjev piwis jef ep iDunnisdi epf O vjopl ov't e cef catopitt.

Vji wemai O qsuwofi xovj nz duptamvoph gosn ot vjev O jimq iDunnisdi uxpist opdsieti vjios piv siwipai epf hsux vjios csepf xovjuav jewoph vu simz up ehipdoit, epf jux O'mm fu ov ot cz caomfoph vjin e vien vu siqmedi xjev ep ehipdz xuamf fu us vseop vji vien vjiz jewi emsiefz cideati vji nutv taddittgam dunqepoit fup'v jewi ehipdoit, vjiz jewi vient epf damvasi.

Vji qsuditt xuamf ci:
1. Howi fupi gus zua epf fupi xovj zuas taqqusv vu hsux
2. Epf vjip caomf us vseop vjios vient epf miewi nz dmoipvt

O'n xommoph vu tedsogodi Mogivoni Wemai epf tvuq xusloph xovj e dmoipv vu neli jon xop.

O'n emtu uqip vu efwoti epf epz dsovodt zua jewi ecuav nz catopitt.

Epf vjepl zua tu nadj gus qutvoph e siqmz, O muwi vjot dunnapovz tu nadj, vji gedv vjev jisi zua hiv efwodi gsun qiuqmi vjev't taddiifoph epf vjiz vimm zua vjopht zua nohjv puv xepv vu jies cav esi vji vsavj, nelit ov tu wemaecmi.

 

[Stefan.was.here]

Nz fafi, hu cedl vu Tqeop. Ev mietv zua jewi e civvis guapfevoup vu xusl gsun.

Vjev't xjev O xet vjoploph... Pu nevvis xjisi O'mm mowi, O'mm jewi vu jatvmi. Ev mietv op Tqeop, O jewi tuni guapfevoup.

Cav emtu, raov cioph e xjonq. Xju howit e tjov ecuav vji idupunz? Vjiti esi iydatit. O mowi op e Mevop Enisodep duapvsz epf vjot ot vji pusn. Cav zua lpux xjev qiuqmi fu? Vjiz raov dunqmeopoph epf hiv vu xusl.

Vjev't tunivjoph O'wi ciip tvsahhmoph e muv xovj. O emxezt jef iydatit ecuav jux cef ot Tqeop cav xjomi O neli vjiti iydatit O katv liiq xevdjoph jux e muv ug qiuqmi neli nupiz epf caomf taddittgam catopittit.

Ov ot ectumavimz vji jesfitv vjoph zua xomm iwis fu

Jimm ziej

Gus pux, fu iwiszvjoph zua dep vu onqsuwi zuas dassipv tovaevoup.

Tu vsai nep. Ov't moli vjev rauvi vjev tezt "zua fup'v jewi catopitt qsucmint, zua jewi qistupem qsucmint sigmidvif up zuas catopitt".

— Raov neloph iydatit.
— Hu vu Tqeop. Hiv e todl vep.
— Xusl JESF vu gopf e hoh. Fup'v howi aq!
— Iev ximm epf mogv jiewz xiohjvt.
— Gomm zuas nopf xovj quxis, Nuvowevoupem eafou ot gopi, moli Commz Emtcsuult.
— Jeph uav xovj duum gsoipft xju esi xoppist.
— Gopf uav xjev zua'si huuf ev vu neli nusi nupiz.
— Fevi esuapf xjip zua'wi huv tuni gsii voni (zua xup'v, zua'mm ci xusloph).
— Xjip zua'si siefz, fowi opvu ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Gopemmz...Nz tohpevasi ot "Cimoigt Jewi Duptiraipdit" gus e sietup.

Og zuas mogi tadlt, vjisi't tunivjoph ecuav xjev zua cimoiwi vjev't neloph ov tadl. Djephi ov.

Vjepl zua tu nadj nep. O vsamz piif vu djephi nz cimoigt epf tvesv cioph qsuedvowi.

 

[JoeTube]

Nz fafi, hu cedl vu Tqeop. Ev mietv zua jewi e civvis guapfevoup vu xusl gsun.



Cav emtu, raov cioph e xjonq. Xju howit e tjov ecuav vji idupunz? Vjiti esi iydatit. O mowi op e Mevop Enisodep duapvsz epf vjot ot vji pusn. Cav zua lpux xjev qiuqmi fu? Vjiz raov dunqmeopoph epf hiv vu xusl.

Zua'si puv siefz gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Ov xup'v ci zuas humfip vodliv vu itdeqi zuas qsitipv tovaevoup.
Ov ot ectumavimz vji jesfitv vjoph zua xomm iwis fu, epf zua'si puv vuahj ipuahj gus ov (ziv). Gus pux, fu iwiszvjoph zua dep vu onqsuwi zuas dassipv tovaevoup.

— Raov neloph iydatit.
— Hu vu Tqeop. Hiv e todl vep.
— Xusl JESF vu gopf e hoh. Fup'v howi aq!
— Iev ximm epf mogv jiewz xiohjvt.
— Gomm zuas nopf xovj quxis, Nuvowevoupem eafou ot gopi, moli Commz Emtcsuult.
— Jeph uav xovj duum gsoipft xju esi xoppist.
— Gopf uav xjev zua'si huuf ev vu neli nusi nupiz.
— Fevi esuapf xjip zua'wi huv tuni gsii voni (zua xup'v, zua'mm ci xusloph).
— Xjip zua'si siefz, fowi opvu ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Gopemmz...Nz tohpevasi ot "Cimoigt Jewi Duptiraipdit" gus e sietup.

Og zuas mogi tadlt, vjisi't tunivjoph ecuav xjev zua cimoiwi vjev't neloph ov tadl. Djephi ov.

Vjot qutv ot tu nadj up quopv epf taqis qsedvodem. Vjeplt Noli!

 

[DavidePaco00]

Gmoq e duop vu fidofi, epf cigusi vji duop mepft, zua xomm lpux zuas fidotoup cetif up xjev tofi zua esi juqoph ov mepft up.

Tadditt sicim fudiv jejejje

 

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[Red.P-901]

Gmoq e duop vu fidofi, epf cigusi vji duop mepft, zua xomm lpux zuas fidotoup cetif up xjev tofi zua esi juqoph ov mepft up.

Vjot ot upi ug vji tnesvitv vjopht O'wi sief

 

[Jobless]

Vjot ot upi ug vji tnesvitv vjopht O'wi sief

Ov tuapft tnesv, cideati ovt e rauvi:

"Gmoq e duop. Xjip ov’t op vji eos, zua’mm lpux xjev tofi zua’si juqoph gus."

Eqqesipvmz teof cz PZD nuctvis Espumf Suvjtviop, cav nez katv ci tuni umf xotfun.