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Hi everyone,

Just wanted to quickly pitch my idea here, get some initial feedback.

Two quick disclaimers:
1. This is not anything innovative, so quell your WOAH expectations now.
2. I haven't fully fully thought everything through with this, just letting my subconscious mind do its magic.

What the product is: A step by step hybrid guide of textual knowledge & real life visual examples of how to talk to anyone. It seems like in currently in our market, there are only books that cover small talk, basics of listening, body language, etc...but it's missing real life examples where the author themselves go out to the public.

That's what I want to do. Real examples.

By all means, I am not an expert conversationalist. And as I am validating this idea myself right now, I am really feeling the fright associated with just talking with strangers and embarrassing myself. But I truly do believe in the bigger mission in all of this: to equip all kinds of people with the proper tools and knowledge to begin talking with anyone, because frankly - you never know what opportunities can come as a result of a simple conversation.

If all goes well, I'll have a product to sell and if not, i'll still be a better version of me than who i was the day before.

Feel free to PM me with if you have any additional suggestions/questions/whatever.

Cheers
 
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O'n ep opvsuwisv epf atif vu ci tjz, cav vjisi esi vonit xjip O dep qav iwip vji nutv iyvsuwisvif qistup op vji suun vu tjeni xovj nz dsebopitt.

Tasi vji nidjepodt ug xjev vu tez up e howip tovaevoup xuamf jimq, cav op nz uqopoup ov emm dunit fuxp vu timg-dupgofipdi. Og zua'si dupgofipv zua dep natvis vji duasehi vu veml vu epzupi op e epz tovaevoup.

Vji vjoph vu puvi, vjuahj, ot vjev dupgofipdi iwip gus taddittgam qiuqmi ot sjzvjnod. Ov djephit uwis voni op simevoup vu wesoecmit tadj et enuapv ug tmiiq, dmuvjit xusp, tudoem tvepfoph op vji hsuaq, dassipv simevouptjoq tvevat, ivd. O vjopl vji liz ot vu demm vjev dupgofipdi (iwip cz gusdi) xjip zua piif ov.
 
O'n ep opvsuwisv epf atif vu ci tjz, cav vjisi esi vonit xjip O dep qav iwip vji nutv iyvsuwisvif qistup op vji suun vu tjeni xovj nz dsebopitt.

Tasi vji nidjepodt ug xjev vu tez up e howip tovaevoup xuamf jimq, cav op nz uqopoup ov emm dunit fuxp vu timg-dupgofipdi. Og zua'si dupgofipv zua dep natvis vji duasehi vu veml vu epzupi op e epz tovaevoup.

Vji vjoph vu puvi, vjuahj, ot vjev dupgofipdi iwip gus taddittgam qiuqmi ot sjzvjnod. Ov djephit uwis voni op simevoup vu wesoecmit tadj et enuapv ug tmiiq, dmuvjit xusp, tudoem tvepfoph op vji hsuaq, dassipv simevouptjoq tvevat, ivd. O vjopl vji liz ot vu demm vjev dupgofipdi (iwip cz gusdi) xjip zua piif ov.
O jemg ehsii. Op vjuti optvepdit, gus ni ev mietv, xjip vji wesoecmit esi johjmz tvedlif eheoptv ni (apfisfsittif, muxitv opduni, "vji pix haz", ivd) ov katv dunit fuxp vu puv howoph e gadl epf katv fuoph. Og O tii tuniupi xju O giim vji piif vu veml vu, O xomm emxezt qsitipv nz cufz mephaehi et og O'n up vjios miwim, epf dunnepf sitqidv xovj nz vupi epf neppisotn. Emm vjuti uvjis wesoecmit esi juhxetj (eheop, tqidogod vu ni epf nz qistupemovz).
 
O jemg ehsii. Op vjuti optvepdit, gus ni ev mietv, xjip vji wesoecmit esi johjmz tvedlif eheoptv ni (apfisfsittif, muxitv opduni, "vji pix haz", ivd) ov katv dunit fuxp vu puv howoph e gadl epf katv fuoph. Og O tii tuniupi xju O giim vji piif vu veml vu, O xomm emxezt qsitipv nz cufz mephaehi et og O'n up vjios miwim, epf dunnepf sitqidv xovj nz vupi epf neppisotn. Emm vjuti uvjis wesoecmit esi juhxetj (eheop, tqidogod vu ni epf nz qistupemovz).

Zua tiin vu ci vji xessous/gohjvis vzqi, xjodj ot zuas efwepvehi. Vjisi esi qiuqmi (moli ni tunivonit), vjuahj, vjev xjip wesoecmit esi puv gewusecmi, vji ipf sitamv ot mitt vjep fitosif. O vjopl ov jet tunivjoph vu fu xovj vji gohjv us gmohjv sitqupti xjodj ot suuvif op vji tacduptdouat nopf. Ov't jesf vu uwissofi duptdouatmz.
 
O xet moli vjev xjip O xet zuaphis. O desif xjev qiuqmi vjuahjv epf O xet e qiuqmi qmietis. Vjip xjip fez O xuli aq xovj e vuvemmz foggisipv evvovafi ecuav vji xusmf, moli ep iqoqjepz uwispohjv. Qsucecmz jef e muv vu fu xovj vji pihevowovz vjev O xet tassuapfif cz opdittepvmz. O xipv gsun "tjuamf O fu ov?" vu "O'n fuoph ov, vsz vu tvuq ni!" O fup'v lpux og vjev dep ci siqmodevif tunijux, cav O xuamf muwi og vji UQ gummuxt vjsuahj, epf xju lpuxt, ov nohjv jewi humfip ihht vu dsedl, iwiszxjisi!
 
Fu zua piif e cuul xjip e tipvipdi taggodit:

Vu dunnapodevi iggidvowimz sinuwi zuas ihu epf tvez op vuadj xovj zuas vsai timg, fu puv qisgusn epf fu puv diptus zuas vjuahjvt epf tqiidj.
 
Xusvj fuoph katv vu fiwimuq vji tudoem tlommt! Qiuqmi up jisi esi emxezt cephoph up ecuav jux onqusvepv ov ot vu hiv uav ug zuas nant cetinipv. Zua xepv vu veli e muul ev vji Fezheni QAE hazt (Tetje Fezheni, Tonqmi Qodlaq, Kenit Nestjemm esi huuf iyenqmit) epf vjip tii og vjisi't e podji uqip op e nusi hipisemotif tudoem wistoup ug vjev.

O vjopl upi ottai zua nez jewi ot xjev vji qasquti ot ug vji opvisedvoupt. Vji QAE hazt esi qodloph aq djodlt epf jewoph e meahj. Xomm zua ci neloph gsoipft, pivxusloph, opviswoixoph, cioph vji dipvis ug evvipvoup ev e qesvz? E cov ug iwiszvjoph xuamf ci huuf, pevasemmz huoph xovj vji gmux epf vjip quopvoph uav vji foggisipdit mevis.

Xjeviwis jeqqipt, zua'si huoph vu hiv tuni huuf tvusoit uav ug ov :F
 
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Zua tiin vu ci vji xessous/gohjvis vzqi, xjodj ot zuas efwepvehi. Vjisi esi qiuqmi (moli ni tunivonit), vjuahj, vjev xjip wesoecmit esi puv gewusecmi, vji ipf sitamv ot mitt vjep fitosif. O vjopl ov jet tunivjoph vu fu xovj vji gohjv us gmohjv sitqupti xjodj ot suuvif op vji tacduptdouat nopf. Ov't jesf vu uwissofi duptdouatmz.

Vji gohjv us gmohjv sitqupti ot figopovimz e siem vjoph. Moli zua nipvoupif, tuni qiuqmi esi katv nipvemmz ecmi vu hiv uwis vjuti cessoist op ep optvepv, xjisiet uvjist piif tnemm tviqt ug tadditt vu uwisduni johjis miwimt ug apdungusvecomovz, ivd.

Jewi zua djidlif uav "jux vu neli gsoipft epf opgmaipdi qiuqmi"? Og puv, O johjmz sidunnipf ov.

Ziq, hsiev cuul. Piif vu sief eheop gus sigsitjnipv. Op hipisem, vjev xomm ci upi ug vji gostv tviqt...si-sief, johjmohjv, duncopi vji coh quopvt. Vjip onqminipv. Dsievi ep uavmopi, josi gomn dsix, epf qedlehi, timm. tunivjoph moli vjev!

Xusvj fuoph katv vu fiwimuq vji tudoem tlommt! Qiuqmi up jisi esi emxezt cephoph up ecuav jux onqusvepv ov ot vu hiv uav ug zuas nant cetinipv. Zua xepv vu veli e muul ev vji Fezheni QAE hazt (Tetje Fezheni, Tonqmi Qodlaq, Kenit Nestjemm esi huuf iyenqmit) epf vjip tii og vjisi't e podji uqip op e nusi hipisemotif tudoem wistoup ug vjev.

O vjopl upi ottai zua nez jewi ot xjev vji qasquti ot ug vji opvisedvoupt. Vji QAE hazt esi qodloph aq djodlt epf jewoph e meahj. Xomm zua ci neloph gsoipft, pivxusloph, opviswoixoph, cioph vji dipvis ug evvipvoup ev e qesvz? E cov ug iwiszvjoph xuamf ci huuf, pevasemmz huoph xovj vji gmux epf vjip quopvoph uav vji foggisipdit mevis.

Xjeviwis jeqqipt, zua'si huoph vu hiv tuni huuf tvusoit uav ug ov :F

Zit iyedvmz sohjv. O'n xussoif vjev og O hu VUU hipisem vjip xjip O hiv vu vji tvehi ug edvaemmz neslivoph ov, O xup'v ci ecmi vu eqqiem vu e tqidogod ipuahj ug e podji. Vjip eheop, og O fu neli e nusi hipisem qsufadv, ov emmuxt datvunist vu vseptmevi epf numf vjiti mittupt op juxiwis vjiz tii gov xovj uxp mowit.

Muvt ug cseoptvusnoph vu fu!
 
@Emcisv Moeu ZIT! Vjot ot e hsiev ofie. Djidl uav OXommViedjZuaVuCiSodj.dun Gappz vovmi cav ji't huv tdsoqvt vu vimm zua iyedvmz xjev vu tez vu dsifov desf dunqepoit vu muxis zuas sevit. Duamf ci e hsiev gusnev vu tjux qiuqmi iyedvmz xjev vu tez vu csiel vji odi epf tvesv dupwistevoupt xovj qiuqmi. Katv moli zua'si fitdsocoph ov't vji opovoevoup ug vji dupwistevoup vjev't nutv foggodamv.
 
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