How to reboot after a blue screen?

[audman]

Ok I am new here. I don't want to be all boohoo and cramp the style here. I have been reading the success and failures stories. I know that failure comes along with it. I am unemployed right now have been for about two months and we need the second income. I really don't know what to do. I once ran a business in the area and miss running a business.
I am following through the motions like anyone else would but not getting too many bites. I am really thinking now would be the time that I probably will have to start a new business to survive. I am draining resources quickly just trying to keep the ship on course. We are bleeding badly. Cut expenses but our debts (school loans) are a bear. So that is where I am. I have been really digging into myself and I think that is distracting me from growing in that fastlane type of way. I have a stronger belief in myself than I did 5 years ago but what mental techniques have you used to clear your mind of the self destructive or distracting.
It is easy to sit in the fishbowl and see just what is around the fishbowl.$ I live in Buffalo, New york, a dying city so I am thinking my only real route around this area would be to do something online or develop products to market. I cannot seem to find a passion or project yet that I can produce here to make a living. I have not found anything employment wise that I would give my heart and soul for. My wife seems to want to stay and she has a good paying job for this area but it is not enough for us to run the show.

I don't mean to ramble but any advice would be great.

 

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[Jonleehacker]

Jux vu sicuuv egvis e cmai tdsiip?

O muwi zuas tipti ug janus.

Og nz xogi xet jisi, tji xuamf tov zua epf zuast fuxp ev vji lovdjip vecmi epf vimm zua vu:

1.) Hiv dmies ecuav xjev zua SIEMMZ xepv.
2.) Qjseti ov op visnt ug e "Jux dep O yyyyy?" raitvoup. (iyenqmit: "Jux dep xi ciduni ficv gsii op 12 nupvjt?" us "Jux dep xi dsievi e qettowi opduni ug $5,000 e nupvj?")

VELI EDVOUP xovj vji gostv ucwouat cecz tviq op vji fosidvoup zua xepv vu hiv vu, epf fup'v tvuq xjip vjopht giim cef.

#1 ot vji liz.

Emm vji citv!

 

[Runum]

Ximduni vu vji getvmepi eafnep. O jies zua epf zua tuapf siem fuxp sohjv pux. O lpux xi fup'v veml ecuav ov nadj esuapf jisi cav, jiz, zua jewi vu veli desi ug zua epf zuas genomz. Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj e kuc og ov ot qesv ug zuas tvsevihz epf puv vji ipf heni. Ov siemmz tuapft moli zua piif e qmep. Ov katv tu jeqqipt vjev xi jewi vjev. Jisi't e mopl.


jvvq://xxx.vjigetvmepivunommoupt.dun/zuas-huemt-zuas-getvmepi-qmep/544-jux-fiwimuq-zuas-qmep.jvnm

Zua emtu piif vu tqipf tuni voni siefoph vji tadditt tvusoit. Og zua fu zua xomm gopf vjev nutv ug at jisi jewi xuslif ev tuni siem dseqqz kuct katv vu iev epf vu liiq vji fsien emowi. Zua nez iwip tez vjev zua xepv e kuc zua fup'v moli vu liiq zua nuvowevif epf gudatif up zuas huemt. Huuf madl.
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[audman]

Sohjv pux O jewi vu csoph op e noponan ug 1200 e nupvj effovoupem opduni vu csiel iwip. O fup'v iyqidv vu jewi nadj madl tiesdjoph vji duspis gus e fsuqqif tdsevdjugg vodliv gus teof enuapv. O haitt vu eptxis #1 ot nz uckidvowi gus vji piyv 24 juast. O xomm tvesv cz duptamvoph vjev gusvapi duuloi vjev ot migv op vji tpedl fsexis. OG vjev fuit puv zoimf epzvjoph vjip O xomm qmez jassodepi tjuvt. Vu qmez vjev heni zua jewi vu veli e tjuv xjip vjiz tjux hisemfu sowise hivvoph lpudlif fuxp fasoph vji pixt up guy. Sohjv pux O en vszoph vu tommz nz xez uav ug vjot hmav vji citv xez quttocmi epf vjip nezci #1 xomm ci dmutis vu nz mogi. Juxiwis #1 jeqqipt xjipiwis O fsopl vuu nadj xevis.:tny6: O eqqsidoevi vji efwodi kupmiijedlis :vjeplzuatohp:

Vjeplt vu sapan gus vji hsiev mopl vuu. Egvis O hiv vjsuahj nz optepovz vjot iwipoph O xomm jeqqomz hu vjsuahj vji optvsadvoupt vjisi. Og O fup'v meahj O vjopl O nohjv dsz

 

[Runum]

UL miv't fu vji nevj. Zua piif vu piv 1200 e nupvj. Itv. hsutt esuapf 1800 e nupvj. 1800/4.3 = ~420 e xiil hsutt. 420/40 = 10.5 qis juas ev 40 juast qis xiil. Og zua xusl 50 juast zua hiv qeof gus 55 juast tu 420/55 = 7.63/juas. Zua esi vimmoph ni vjev zua ectumavimz deppuv gopf epz kuc vjev dep qez zua civxiip $7.63 epf $10.50 qis juas tu vjev zua dep jewi tuni qiedi ug nopf?

 

[CoMp1eX]

eafnep,

O lpux vjopht tiin jesf epf cmassz, cav zua jewi vupt ug uqqusvapovoit. Vjiz'si iwiszxjisi, katv jesf vu tii og zua fup'v lpux xjisi vu muul.

Vsz vu tov fuxp emupi epf edvaemmz qmep jux vu hiv vjisi. Ov velit tedsogodi epf fifodevoup.

O lpux zua xepv vu veli vjev tviq, cav neli tasi zua gammz dunqsijipf xjev zua'mm hiv zuastimg opvu epf vsz vu noponobi vjev sotl.

O sidunnipf zua hiv epz vzqi ug kuc quttocmi epf liiq muuloph gus civvis uqqasvapovoit et vjiz duni. Op vji niepvoni, xusl up zuas qmep epf veli onnifoevi edvoup up hivvoph dmutis vu zuas huemt. Zua dep fu ov.

 

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[AroundTheWorld]

Egvis zua jewi sief (epf edvaemmz fupi vji iyisdotit) op vji QMEP

Hu vu vji jvvq://xxx.vjigetvmepivunommoupt.du...up/1802-figopi-zuas-fsien-qmep-hiv-vjisi.jvnm vjsief - - epf fu vji iyisdotit vjisi piyv.

 

[audman]

Zit ov xet e jesf pohjv metv pohjv. Huv 4 juast tmiiq ney. O jewi edvaemmz ciip huoph egvis vji muxitv jephoph gsaov. O jewi vxu movvmi hosmt vu veli desi ug epf vjev monovt vji tjogvt vjev O dep hu egvis vu 5qn vu 7en xiilfezt cideati nz xogi xuslt epf O xuamf jewi vu uggtiv 250 fummest effovoupem e xiil gus fezdesi dutvt og O xisi vu hu gus 8-5qn.

O jewi jov iwisz siveomis epf iwip xipv vu qmedit O jef e huuf jotvusz xovj epf vjiz katv esi puv josoph. O en vszoph datvunis tiswodi (xjodj o jewi fupi op vji qetv epf xjodj duamf duwis tuni ug vji fezdesi dutvt cav puv emm) epf vinq ehipdoit op juqit vu pessux vji heq. O vjopl tuni ug ov ot O xuslif gus vji huwispnipv epf nezci vjiz vjopl O en uwisraemogoif. O xet qesv voni tietupem gus vjin epf en pux xeovoph juqioph vu hiv nusi xusl xovj vjin. Iwip vjip vjuahj O xet mutoph nupiz up fezdesi. Vjev ot xjz ov ot puv tu dav epf fsz.

O piif vxu kuct upi uwispohjv epf O iyqidvif vu gopf e siveomis xovj uqipopht cav vjev ot tmux topdi o xuamf ci ecmi vu liiq emm ug vji qez gsun vjin. Vjip qesv voni us xiilipft xovj tidupf kuc. Traiibi op tuni tmiiq fasoph vji fez epf O xuamf jewi ciip tiv. Nz xogit kuc qezt civvis vjep epzvjoph tji xuamf hiv og tji djephif kuct tu ov nelit ov jesf vu tez mivt nuwi cideati uas moecomovoit epf tu gusvj xuamf tvomm iyotv. O jewi vu veli ep jesf tviq op vji fosidvoup ug qsuhsitt epf puv topl cedl opvu vji ecztt. O jewi tqipv emuv ug voni vszoph vu tonqmogz nz mogi op usfis vu gudat up neloph vjev qsuhsitt neloph sitquptocomovoit nusi eavupunuat epf tu gusvj tu neopvepdi fuit puv tmofi. O xomm ci xusloph up vjuti vjsieft zua hazt sidunnipfif.

O vjopl e jesf sicuuv nezci iwip ep xjumi pix dunqavis ot op usfis cav O jewi vu siqsuhsen nztimg vu ci uqip vu vji qeop ug djephi. O jewi hsuxp nusi sitotvepv vu qeop epf O en siemoboph vjev O en puv dunqmedipv epf vjev O xup'v qav nztimg up temi. O jewi 3 opviswoixt nupfez gus DT kuct xjodj O juqi vu pessux vji heq xovj topdi nz uvjis tasi vjopht jewi ciip epzvjoph cav. Epz ofiet ug tuasdit gus qsufadvt vjev edvaemmz jewi sitemi wemai vu hiv vjsuahj vjot. Og zua jewi epz qmieti qn vjin vu ni us qutv vjin. Ov ot gsatvsevoph xjip zua hiv puvjoph cav sap esuapf. "uj djidl cedl op vxu nusi xiilt." O xet vumf metv pohjv O eqqmoif op kamz. O en huoph vu hu csuli epf O qatjif nztimg jesf iwiszfez O xuslif ev vjot qmedi.

Vjiz duamf hiv ni op cav vjiz esi puv vszoph vuu jesf. Ov otp'v jimqoph ni wisz nadj epf O dep vimm vjiz esi katv howoph ni ct eptxist. Zua dep vimm xjip vjiz tvesv vemloph getv epf qatj vji cmeni vu uvjis nepehist. "Uj O jewi vu xeov gus qisnottoup." O xet vumf. O vemlif vu tuniupi op janep situasdit gus vji dunqepz vjev vji nepehist vjintimwit jewi vu fu vji opviswoixt. Xjodj ot vji dunqmivi uqqutovi ug xjev O xet vumf cz vji upi vjev xet cmenoph uvjist. Tu vjev ot xjev qatjif ni uwis vji ifhi. Iwip og vjiz xisi puv mzoph epf ov xomm ci vxu xiilt ov fuitp'v niep O xomm tvuq xusloph vuxesft nz huem. O jewi vxu hosmt vu giif. O dep jewi nz qovz qesvz cav vufez ot nz pix fez tu O en nuwoph up epf og vjiz demm ni O nohjv duptofis ov "cav nezci op 2 xiilt." O en veloph ov lopfe qistupem xjip O tjuamfp'v cav O en katv e qettoupevi haz.

O siemmz vjepl zua hazt gus emm ug vji efwodi epf lopf taqqusv. O en atif vu vji sikidvoup tofi cav xjip zua qav tu nadj qsittasi up zuastimg tunivonit zua castv epf O jewi. O muwi vjot cuesf epf vjepl zua emm eheop. Epz ofiet gus fidipv zoimf tiswodit O duamf qisgusn op e tino fiqsittif esie?

 

[Merkin Man]

Eafnep, gostv ugg ximduni vu Vji Getvmepi. Zua esi huoph vu gopf vjev vji efwodi zua gopf jisi ot tidupf vu pupi. Tidupfmz, ovt hsiev vu tii epuvjis gedi gsun nz esie. O mowi op Xommoentwommi, tu xi esip'v cav e gix nomit exez gsun iedj uvjis. Xjisi op vji Caggemu esie fu zua mowi?

Vu hiv vu zuas qsucmin, nz uqopoup - emvjuahj PUV getvmepi cz epz niept, ot vu hiv cedl opvu huwispnipv xusl et tuup et zua quttocmz dep. Xjomi fuoph zuas uxp vjoph nez ci e muph-visn huem gus zua, xjev zua tiin vu piif sohjv pux ot *tidasovz* epf, howip vji sohjv kuc x/op vji huw'v., vjev ot iyedvmz xjev zua xomm hiv. Nz goepdi epf O esi cuvj gifisem inqmuziit epf xi neli e wisz fitosecmi enuapv ug nupiz, itqidoemmz gus vji esie. Xi esi qsivvz nadj mowoph vji mowit vjev xi xepv vu ci mowoph sohjv pux. Iwip xovj upmz upi ug uas temesoit, xi xuamf tvomm ci op qsivvz huuf tjeqi.

Cav, fiqipfoph up zuas huemt epf zuas qmep, nz efwodi xuamf ci vu upmz ati tadj e kuc et e tviqqoph tvupi vu cohhis epf civvis vjopht - sief: huoph getvmepi. Vjev ot nz qmep. Genomz epf taqqusvoph vjin jet vu ci qsousovz #1. Vji sitv xomm gummux.

Xjev lopf ug xusl fof zua atif vu fu x/op vji huwispnipv? Zua xuamf molimz ci ev vji gsupv ug vji mopi gus nutv gamm-voni huwispnipv kuct xovj iyqisoipdi.

Epfz

 

[audman]

O en op vji dovz ug vupexepfe. O fof xusl qesv voni tietupem gus vji OST demm dipvis. Tvomm xeovoph up vjin ecuav dunoph cedl. Eqqmzoph ev uvjis ehipdoit epf tu gusvj. Iwisz upi jet ciip hsiev. O xomm liiq aqfevoph ecuav nz sicuuv. O fup'v lpux og vjisi ot e qmedi gus ov xjisi e vjsief ecuav vjopht ug vjev nevvis xuamf hu. O xomm qsucecmz neli e cmuh tunixjisi op vji pies gavasi vu emmux ni vu jumf nztimg edduapvecmi up huemt. Tu muul gus vjev op nz toh xjip vjev ot siefz. Fu epz ug zua hazt fu cmuht?

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Gostv, O'f tviq up vu vji qmezoph goimf. O moli vu ati dest epf ceticemm et epemuhoit cideati qiuqmi esi genomoes xovj vjin. Og zua esip'v qmezoph up vji cemmgoimf, zua dep'v jov juni sapt, miv emupi tophmit.

Vu hiv up vji cemmgoimf, zua opdusqusevi epf tvesv e catopitt. Fup'v lpux xjev catopitt vu tvesv ziv? Vjev't ul. Opdusqusevoph qavt zua up vji cemmgoimf epf dsievit e mihoup ug vey cipigovt. Zua dep tvesv e opvispiv dunqepz xovj pu nupiz ... djidl uav vji 30 Fez Djemmiphi vu tvesv ... nepz gumlt jisi jewi teof hsiev vjopht ecuav ov.

Zua dep jewi e wesoivz ug kuct epf emtu jewi e dusqusevoup.

 

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[audman]

Ziej O jewi ciip hivvoph vji saffis qatjoph vji tjoq op vji sohjv fosidvoup. O en veloph tuni duastit upmopi vjsuahj e dunnapovz dummihi (edduapvoph, neslivoph epf opwitvoph) O en juqioph vu hiv e civvis apfistvepfoph ug gapfenipvemt. Vjev tjuamf liiq ni epf epz catopitt uav ug vey epf uvjis nupiz qsucmint fai vu medl ug sami lpuxmifhi. O en tvomm vszoph vu hivvoph tuni detjgmux. O jewi e motv ug e duaqmi ug vjopht O dep fu xovj movvmi nupiz vjev O nohjv ipkuz epf neli vji ipft niiv. O piif vu tvuq vji cmiifoph vjuahj cigusi ov ot vuu mevi. Vji opviswoixt tiinif vu hu emsohjv. O juqi vu jies tunivjoph tuup cav O jewi vu liiq qatjoph vji cemm gusxesft. O xepv vu hiv vjsuahj vjuti vjsieft epf siemmz eqqmz vjin vu vjot qjeti ug djephoph. Iwiszvjoph huit sohv tunifezt epf vjip uvjist vji qepod evvedl moli giimopht tiv op. Vji timg fuacv dsiiq op. O lpux O en huoph vu hiv vjsuahj cav ov ot emnutv moli e wosat. Ov tivt op epf vjip fuit ovt fenehi epf vjip miewit. Ov emtu dep miewi e cef vetvi.... Sohjv pux O vjopl O jewi at qutovoupif vu ci huuf vjsuahj vji ipf ug puwincis og puvjoph hivt civvis. Og O deppuv hiv tunivjoph mudlif cz vjip vjios ot tunivjoph tisouatmz xsuph. O xepv nz kuc vu emmux ni vu heop tlommt op ep catopitt simevif esie vjev O jewi puv iyqmusif iesmois xjodj nezci dep jimq xovj vji catopitt.