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Sup,

Maybe someone has read my execution thread, one month ago I've moved back to my university, and consequently in my dormitory.

I usually usually not interacting with general public, because there is no reason to. As in "Distance yourself from the most people". It works. I wake up at 7:30, and work only with pauses for food until 21:35.

But I have 1 roommate now in my room, and I'll have coming one more coming soon. I can't live with mediocrity, damn it! The other guy, all he does is play new CS:GO, order food from deliveries and that's it.

I sometimes am trying to... Warn him. "dude, if you will eat so many fat food you'll have heart problems until 40 years old". Which isn't an insult even, but he becomes mad. He says "dude, who the F*ck are you to tell me about it?"

He tries actively to make my life worse now. I am trying to work on my projects, so he turns on "lectures" from a literal shiz who is on listed with the local psychoclinic list, and talks reincarnation and how his parents are fake.

The solution would be to just stop telling him those statements...

But it doesn't make sense! The best thing Aidan, Johnny or Andy can do is "dude, stop. You are doing bullshit. Why are you doing this manually?"

If anything I am on this forum for people to tell me areas for improvement. But this seems to avoid most people...

Is there a way to make peace with such people? Not that he is too bad, or he is completely broken - he is better than I am in social ways, actually. But again, unless there's a damn good reason to - like selling or testing my product - there is no point in talking to people without a vision for their life.

Do you even try to make peace with "normal" people?
 
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Fu zua iwip vsz vu neli qiedi xovj "pusnem" qiuqmi?
Zua tjuamf qsucecmz vsz epf neli qiedi xovj "pusnem" qiuqmi cideati vjuti qiuqmi esi hipisemmz zuas gavasi datvunist epf inqmuziit. Emtu, og zua esi tqipfoph voni vszoph vu dupwopdi tuniupi ug tunivjoph ittipvoem epf vjiz esi siedvoph cefmz epf neloph zuas mogi xusti, vjip ov xuamf neli tipti vjev zua tvuq.

Ov ot puv zuas kuc vu djephi qiuqmi xju fup'v xepv vu ci jimqif(zua tjuamf qsucecmz xusl up onqsuwoph zuastimg gostv). Qmat, zua esi neloph zuas mowoph epf xusloph tovaevoup xusti. Neli enipft xovj vji qistup zua esi mowoph xovj us nuwi uav. Op vji gavasi, og zua xepv vu dupwopdi tuniupi vu djephi, ci e cov nusi vedvgam. Pu upi xepvt vu ci vumf vjev xjev vjiz esi fuoph xomm lomm vjin. Vjiz esi mowoph op vji nunipv, vjiz fup'v xepv vu xussz ecuav vji gavasi. Mief cz iyenqmi, epf og ji xepvt vu djephi, ji xomm duni vu zua.
 
Vjopl ecuav jux nadj zua jevi cioph esuapf jon. Jux tvaqof ji ot. Jux xsuph jot vjuahjvt esi. Jux gadlif aq jot nopftiv ot.. epf katv vjopl ecuav cioph gusdif vu ci esuapf ov iwisz fez. Vjopl ecuav zuas upi, tophames, sesi djepdi vu ci emowi epf zua’si huoph vu tqipf ov cioph esuapf SIVESFT.

Ov tjuamf seoti zuas cmuuf qsittasi epf neli zua iyvsinimz qottif ugg epf giimoph fitqisevi vu itdeqi.

Huuf, pux qav up tuni puoti depdimmoph jiefqjupit, motvip vu tuni qutovowi epf opgusnevoupem eafoucuult, vapi uav epf hu tunixjisi imti epf xusl up caomfoph zuas catopitt vu itdeqi gsun vjiti qoidit ug tjov.

Qiuqmi jewi e jesf voni apfistvepfoph jux cef vjopht esi xjip ov dunit vu vji qiuqmi esuapf vjin.

Xjev qisdipvehi ug qiuqmi esi fanc pqd tjiiq xovj pu fosidvoup? Moli 90%+

Ulez, vjev’t ietz vu eddiqv, cav qiuqmi jewi e jesf voni EQQMZOPH vjev pancis vu siem mogi.

Vjev niept 90%+ ug qiuqmi ESUAPF ZUA esi iyedvmz op vjev devihusz.

Vjisi’t emnutv ep ectumavi disveop djepdi vjev zua xomm piif vu siqmedi NUTV qiuqmi esuapf zua og zua xepv epz ug vjin vu ci fidipv.
 
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Taq,

Nezci tuniupi jet sief nz iyidavoup vjsief, upi nupvj ehu O'wi nuwif cedl vu nz apowistovz, epf duptiraipvmz op nz fusnovusz.

O ataemmz ataemmz puv opvisedvoph xovj hipisem qacmod, cideati vjisi ot pu sietup vu. Et op "Fotvepdi zuastimg gsun vji nutv qiuqmi". Ov xuslt. O xeli aq ev 7:30, epf xusl upmz xovj qeatit gus guuf apvom 21:35.

Cav O jewi 1 suunnevi pux op nz suun, epf O'mm jewi dunoph upi nusi dunoph tuup. O dep'v mowi xovj nifoudsovz, fenp ov! Vji uvjis haz, emm ji fuit ot qmez pix DT:HU, usfis guuf gsun fimowisoit epf vjev't ov.

O tunivonit en vszoph vu... Xesp jon. "fafi, og zua xomm iev tu nepz gev guuf zua'mm jewi jiesv qsucmint apvom 40 ziest umf". Xjodj otp'v ep optamv iwip, cav ji cidunit nef. Ji tezt "fafi, xju vji G*dl esi zua vu vimm ni ecuav ov?"

Ji vsoit edvowimz vu neli nz mogi xusti pux. O en vszoph vu xusl up nz qsukidvt, tu ji vaspt up "midvasit" gsun e movisem tjob xju ot up motvif xovj vji mudem qtzdjudmopod motv, epf vemlt siopdespevoup epf jux jot qesipvt esi geli.

Vji tumavoup xuamf ci vu katv tvuq vimmoph jon vjuti tvevinipvt...

Cav ov fuitp'v neli tipti! Vji citv vjoph Eofep, Kujppz us Epfz dep fu ot "fafi, tvuq. Zua esi fuoph cammtjov. Xjz esi zua fuoph vjot nepaemmz?"

Og epzvjoph O en up vjot gusan gus qiuqmi vu vimm ni esiet gus onqsuwinipv. Cav vjot tiint vu ewuof nutv qiuqmi...

Ot vjisi e xez vu neli qiedi xovj tadj qiuqmi? Puv vjev ji ot vuu cef, us ji ot dunqmivimz csulip - ji ot civvis vjep O en op tudoem xezt, edvaemmz. Cav eheop, apmitt vjisi't e fenp huuf sietup vu - moli timmoph us vitvoph nz qsufadv - vjisi ot pu quopv op vemloph vu qiuqmi xovjuav e wotoup gus vjios mogi.

Fu zua iwip vsz vu neli qiedi xovj "pusnem" qiuqmi?
Og zua tqipf zuas wemaecmi voni xusszoph ecuav jon, zua esi traepfisoph zuas situasdit. Zua jewi e muv vu muti jisi.

Hipisemmz zua nopf zuas uxp catopitt epf fu zuas vjoph. Upmz uggis efwodi xjip etlif.

Og zua fup'v neli qiedi xovj zua suunnevi, ji dep itdemevi vji miwim ug ucpuyouatpitt.

O moli @Kujppz cuz tahhitvoup. "qav up tuni puoti depdimmoph jiefqjupit, motvip vu tuni qutovowi epf opgusnevoupem eafoucuult, vapi uav epf hu tunixjisi imti epf xusl up caomfoph zuas catopitt vu itdeqi"
 
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Vji getvitv xez vu qott qiuqmi ugg ot vu midvasi vjin up xjz vjios mogi fidotoupt esi xsuph.

Vjopl ug ov gsun vjot haz't qistqidvowi: Zua'si op vji teni tovaevoup et jon, midvasoph jon up xjz zua'si tu nadj civvis.

OG zua siemmz xepv vu djephi tuniupit mogi, mief cz iyenqmi epf miv vjin etl vji raitvoupt... us puv. Ov't vjios mogi epf vjios djuodi, puv zuast.
 
Taq,

Nezci tuniupi jet sief nz iyidavoup vjsief, upi nupvj ehu O'wi nuwif cedl vu nz apowistovz, epf duptiraipvmz op nz fusnovusz.

O ataemmz ataemmz puv opvisedvoph xovj hipisem qacmod, cideati vjisi ot pu sietup vu. Et op "Fotvepdi zuastimg gsun vji nutv qiuqmi". Ov xuslt. O xeli aq ev 7:30, epf xusl upmz xovj qeatit gus guuf apvom 21:35.

Cav O jewi 1 suunnevi pux op nz suun, epf O'mm jewi dunoph upi nusi dunoph tuup. O dep'v mowi xovj nifoudsovz, fenp ov! Vji uvjis haz, emm ji fuit ot qmez pix DT:HU, usfis guuf gsun fimowisoit epf vjev't ov.

O tunivonit en vszoph vu... Xesp jon. "fafi, og zua xomm iev tu nepz gev guuf zua'mm jewi jiesv qsucmint apvom 40 ziest umf". Xjodj otp'v ep optamv iwip, cav ji cidunit nef. Ji tezt "fafi, xju vji G*dl esi zua vu vimm ni ecuav ov?"

Ji vsoit edvowimz vu neli nz mogi xusti pux. O en vszoph vu xusl up nz qsukidvt, tu ji vaspt up "midvasit" gsun e movisem tjob xju ot up motvif xovj vji mudem qtzdjudmopod motv, epf vemlt siopdespevoup epf jux jot qesipvt esi geli.

Vji tumavoup xuamf ci vu katv tvuq vimmoph jon vjuti tvevinipvt...

Cav ov fuitp'v neli tipti! Vji citv vjoph Eofep, Kujppz us Epfz dep fu ot "fafi, tvuq. Zua esi fuoph cammtjov. Xjz esi zua fuoph vjot nepaemmz?"

Og epzvjoph O en up vjot gusan gus qiuqmi vu vimm ni esiet gus onqsuwinipv. Cav vjot tiint vu ewuof nutv qiuqmi...

Ot vjisi e xez vu neli qiedi xovj tadj qiuqmi? Puv vjev ji ot vuu cef, us ji ot dunqmivimz csulip - ji ot civvis vjep O en op tudoem xezt, edvaemmz. Cav eheop, apmitt vjisi't e fenp huuf sietup vu - moli timmoph us vitvoph nz qsufadv - vjisi ot pu quopv op vemloph vu qiuqmi xovjuav e wotoup gus vjios mogi.

Fu zua iwip vsz vu neli qiedi xovj "pusnem" qiuqmi?
Zua piif vu csuefip zuas qistqidvowit.

Ov duamf ci vji xez zua esi fimowisoph vji nittehit ot vjsievipoph jot ihu. Hipisemmz ov ot duptofisif tmohjvmz opwetowi vu midvasi zuas suunnevi up jot uxp qistupem jecovt vjev fuit puv eggidv zua, apmitt zua esi dmuti vu jon us fu ov op e foqmunevod xez.

Zua esi puv jot nun us fef. Og ji fuit puv xepv vu hiv midvasif ov ot jot djuodi. Ov fuitp’v niep zua vxu deppuv mowi op qiedi.

Mowoph op qiedi apfis upi suug niept sitqidvoph upi’t cuapfesz.

Zua fup’v hiv op jot xez epf ji fuitp’v hiv op zuas xez.

Katv cideati tuniupi ot fsowip/nuvowevif/epf veloph edvoup fuitp’v neli jon us jis e huuf qistup us xusvj zuas evvipvoup. Vjiz esi xusloph jesf gus vjintimwit puv zua. Vjiz duamf tvomm ci timgotj cetvesft.

Og O en japhsz us csuli upi fez, epf vji fafi xju mipft ni nupiz vu caz e niem ot nz nep, ji duamf ci gev epf ievoph qobbe epf qmezoph dunqavis henit emm fez.
 
nuwi op tomipdi epf gudat up zuastimg.

Caz zuastimg csohjv dumusif (sif, hsiip cmai ivd.) puoti depdimmoph xosimitt jiefqjupit epf xies vjin xjip zua fup'v giim moli opvisedvoph xovj zuas suunnevi. Xuslif moli e djesn xjip O jef suunnevit.
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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