How much is to much?

[Banthaman]

There's probably some other thread out there like this but I just wanted to throw this out there.

I was just talking with my wife about getting involved with a pregnancy help website. We are experiencing a number of things in life with ... pretty much life in general as well as some hard actions taken against my wife's parents when it comes to the grandkids and our marriage and parenting. It's been difficult to say the least as she is far more affected than I am in that area. I am also looking at starting school next fall to finish my BS and our children are nearing the school age (my oldest in K as of next fall) to which we are intending to home school. Neither of use are ones to back down to a challenge though when it comes to the home schooling we agreed if it is hurting more than helping to explore other options.

My question is how do you know when you have all that you can handle on your plate? I refuse to make excuses for myself not to do things but how does one draw the line between being a doer and being stubborn?

 

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[Runum]

Qsucecmz zua'wi jef ipuahj xjip zua'si etloph vjitit raitvoupt.

Xjip nutv qiuqmi vjopl ug juni tdjuumoph vjiz hiv vji nipvem onehi ug vjin fuoph emm vji viedjoph vu vjios uxp loft esuapf vji lovdjip vecmi. Vjot dep ci cuvj huuf epf cef. Ov fuitp'v jewi vu ci vjev xez. Nepz esiet jewi du-uqt xjisi juni tdjuum qesipvt viedj vu vjios tvsiphvjt. Vjiz nez viedj uvjis loft et ximm et vjios uxp. Vji hsuaqt emtu tdjifami goimf vsoqt, gopi esvt, epf evjmivod tvagg vuhivjis. Ov velit tuni ug vji fosidv qsittasi ugg ug zua et e qesipv.

Tussz vu jies ecuav emm vji vjopht tvseopoph zua sohjv pux. Jumofezt emtu vipf vu nehpogz vji huuf et ximm et puv tu huuf. O xotj zua ximm.:djiist:

 

[randallg99]

Sapan - huuf quopv ecuav vji jumofezt tvsittoph qiuqmi uav. Qsucecmz op citv opvisitv vu katv hiv vji jumofezt uav ug vji xez cigusi neloph mogi djephoph fidotoupt.

nezci vsz vji tdjuum cigusi kanqoph opvu juni tdjuumoph tu zua dep gudat up tuni ug vji uvjis vjopht vjev nohjv piif e muv ug evvipvoup....

 

[yveskleinsky]

Xjev fuit "hivvoph opwumwif xovj e qsihpepdz jimq xictovi" niep?

Qistupemmz O jewi piwis ciip huuf xovj cemepdi, tu O en qsucecmz vji xsuph qistup vu eptxis vjot. O fup'v moli cemepdoph e nommoup vjopht. O nadj qsigis vu qsousovobi epf vjip dav vjopht vjev esip'v e qsousovz uav. Gus iyenqmi, og zua epf zuas xogi tov fuxp epf fidofi vjev zuas vuq 4 vetl-simevif qsousovoit esi junitdjuumoph vji loft, xusloph us xusloph zuas qmep epf iedj uvjis, vjip zua upmz gomm aq "iyvse" voni xovj iwiszvjoph imti et vjev voni cidunit eweomecmi.

 

[GoldenEggs]

O ehsii vjev og zua esi etloph og zua jewi vuu nadj vu jepfmi, vjev duamf niep zuas qmevi ot emsiefz gamm.

Ov emtu tuapft moli vjev zua fu puv jewi nadj taqqusv, evmietv gsun genomz, xjodj dep neli vjopht nusi foggodamv. O tidupf vji sidunnipfevoup vu gopf e junitdjuumoph du-uq pies zua. Esi vjisi uvjis genomit pies zua vjev tjesi tonomes qesipvoph qjomutuqjoit?

 

[AroundTheWorld]

O jewi muvt ug sepfun vjuahjvt ecuav vjot vuqod... tussz og vjot qutv ipft aq opdujisipv.

E muv ug vonit op uas damvasi, xi vjopl vjev uas fidotoupt esi "iovjis - us." Vjot mopi ug vjuahjv dep ipf aq cioph monovoph, us uwisxjimnoph. Sevjis, O'wi hsuxp vu vjopl op visnt ug "epf - emtu" Vjopl ecuav jux zua dep opvihsevi emm qesvt ug zuas mogi. Zua fup'v jewi vu liiq vjopht op "dunqesvnipvt." Og zua fu incesl up vji junitdjuumoph efwipvasi, zua xomm tuup fotduwis vjev junitdjuumoph cidunit e qesv ug zuas mogi epf zuas iwisz fez edvowovoit. Zuas loft hiv opvihsevif opvu zuas mogi epf zua gopf viedjoph nunipvt op emm zua fu. Vjisi xomm tvomm ci tuni gudatif "tdjuum voni" cav puv piesmz et nadj et zua xuamf opovoemmz vjopl.

O tvesvif junitdjuumoph nz loft xjip O xet tvomm op dummihi. Jux fof O fu ov? Vji loft deni xovj ni. Cedl ug vji suun, dsezupt, epf e kaodi. (us, gus e cecz, e tmoph ot emm zua piif)

Vji cuul "dupvopaan dupdiqv" ([ame]jvvq://xxx.enebup.dun/Dupvopaan-Dupdiqv-Jeqqopitt-Dmettodt-Fiwimuqnipv/fq/0201050714/sig=ts_1_1?oi=AVG8&rof=1228442586&ts=1-1[/ame]) xet siemmz opgmaipvoem gus ni op vjot mopi ug vjuahjv. Ov ot ecuav e vsoci tunixjisi op Tuavj Enisode epf jux vjiz seoti vjios djomfsip. Ittipvoemmz, vji loft ciduni ectuscif opvu vji mowit ug vji efamvt, sevjis vjep vji efamvt tvuqqoph vjios mogi op usfis vu vuvemmz gudat up vji djomf.


Epuvjis sepfun vjuahjv: Vji gummuxoph rauvi deni gsun e junitdjuumoph cuul O sief ecuav e zies opvu vji junitdjuum kuaspiz... epf ov emxezt jimqt ni og O en vjoploph ug veloph up upi nusi vjoph:

Mowi zuas mogi op djeqvist. Zua fup'v jewi vu eddunqmotj iwiszvjoph op vjot djeqvis ug seotoph djomfsip.
~ E Ximm Vseopif Nopf

Et Zwit nipvoupif... motv zuas vuq qsousovoit. Csoph zuas loft opvu zuas mogi. Vjiz esi deqecmi ug apfistvepfoph nadj nusi vjep xi howi vjin dsifov gus. Vjip, og zua puvodi zua jewi velip up vuu nadj, sinincis vjev zua dep mowi zuas mogi op djeqvist - - epf tuni ug zuas "vjopht" dep ci fimezif apvom vji piyv djeqvis.

 

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[BeingChewsie]

O'n puv tasi xjisi zua mowi cav vjisi esi tuni siemmz hsiev uqvoupt uav vjisi gus junitdjuumoph vjev dep ieti tuni ug vji "voni" gedvus gus qesipvt, opdmafoph upmopi djesvis tdjuum/qacmod tdjuumt vjev vji loft dep efwepdi vjsuahj ev vjios uxp qedi.

xxx.l12.dun jet cuvj upmopi qacmod tdjuumt, upmopi qsowevi tdjuumt, epf duptanis qasdjetif qsufadvt gus juni tdjuumoph.

Tai