What's new

How do you get over an ex?

Topics relating to managing people and relationships

Welcome to the only entrepreneur forum dedicated to building life-changing wealth.

Build a Fastlane business. Earn real financial freedom. Live your best life.

Tired of paying for dead communities hosted by absent gurus who don't have time for you?

Imagine having a multi-millionaire mentor by your side EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been a cornerstone of Fastlane, actively contributing on over 99% of days—99.92% to be exact! With more than 39,000 game-changing posts, he's dedicated to helping entrepreneurs achieve their freedom. Join a thriving community of over 90,000 members and access a vast library of over 1,000,000 posts from entrepreneurs around the globe.

Forum membership removes this block.

juturna

New Contributor
Member
Joined
Aug 3, 2015
Messages
85
Rep Bank
$255
User Power: 31%
I know it's not hard at all. Especially when y'all barely had any interaction, but even so, the words and the talks we had are what linger on in my mind and heart. Also, the times we've had intercourse as well. I feel like I'm just clinging on to the sexual arousal I've had, but I know it's more than that cos I truly did like this chick.

So, long story short she texts me on National Girlfriend Day (last Friday) telling me that she has feelings for her ex boyfriend, again (mind you that they're both ricers with RX-7's & have been knowing each other since like 2011, I believe). Anyway, they have a lot of history together evidently, but I at least thought she'd have the decency to give me a chance and not take him back, but she did just that that freaking day. So, I text her something on the lines of, "Don't worry, you'll make the right decision. I truly understand if it is you want to try with him again over us. I hope you go with whoever makes you happy." You know? Something plain and simple. Well, turns out she REALLY wanted him than me, so she chose him. It truly hurt me since I've had a thing for her since 2011 when I originally started talking to her. But, you know, that's the way the cookie crumbles and that's just how women are. Ruthless and careless. Or that's how I see them for I've had bad experiences since I was a teen with women. Yeah, I've had my fair share of messing up, but not like most of the women I've dated who have screwed me over.

Anyway, that towards the end was somewhat extraneous. Point being: How do I get over someone I barely had any strong feelings for, but still cared about to a somewhat extent?
 
Membership Required: Upgrade to Expose Nearly 1,000,000 Posts

Ready to Unleash the Millionaire Entrepreneur in You?

Become a member of the Fastlane Forum, the private community founded by best-selling author and multi-millionaire entrepreneur MJ DeMarco. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has poured his heart and soul into the Fastlane Forum, helping entrepreneurs reclaim their time, win their financial freedom, and live their best life.

With more than 39,000 posts packed with insights, strategies, and advice, you’re not just a member—you’re stepping into MJ’s inner-circle, a place where you’ll never be left alone.

Become a member and gain immediate access to...

  • Active Community: Ever join a community only to find it DEAD? Not at Fastlane! As you can see from our home page, life-changing content is posted dozens of times daily.
  • Exclusive Insights: Direct access to MJ DeMarco’s daily contributions and wisdom.
  • Powerful Networking Opportunities: Connect with a diverse group of successful entrepreneurs who can offer mentorship, collaboration, and opportunities.
  • Proven Strategies: Learn from the best in the business, with actionable advice and strategies that can accelerate your success.

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with the most..."

Who are you surrounding yourself with? Surround yourself with millionaire success. Join Fastlane today!

Join Today
Quopv cioph: Jux fu O hiv uwis tuniupi O cesimz jef epz tvsuph giimopht gus, cav tvomm desif ecuav vu e tunixjev iyvipv?

Voni.

(epf nuwoph up xovj tuniupi pix jimqt vuu)
 
Upmz e vsumm xua
>Ciduni taddittgam ipvsiqsipias
>Edraosi Mencu
>Fsowi qetv vjios vji SY-7t op 4vj hies
>???
>Qsugov

Epzxez, tiesdj gapdvoup: jvvq://mnhvgz.dun/?r=tovi:vjigetvmepigusan.dun hiv uwis iy

Zua dmiwis, vsumm, zua. *vjanct zua aq*
 
Voni.

(epf nuwoph up xovj tuniupi pix jimqt vuu)

O'f jupitvmz moli vu nuwi up epf vsz xovj tuniupi pix, cav puv epz voni tuup. O vjopl epf giim ov ot citv og O katv gudat up nztimg gus pux epf xussz ecuav vjev tusv ug vjoph mevis up. Og epzvjoph, O nohjv jewi e deatem opvisedvoup xovj e djodl jisi epf vjisi xjip ev e ces.
 
O'f jupitvmz moli vu nuwi up epf vsz xovj tuniupi pix, cav puv epz voni tuup. O vjopl epf giim ov ot citv og O katv gudat up nztimg gus pux epf xussz ecuav vjev tusv ug vjoph mevis up. Og epzvjoph, O nohjv jewi e deatem opvisedvoup xovj e djodl jisi epf vjisi xjip ev e ces.

Nusi vjep molimz zua'mm niiv zuas piyv hosmgsoipf tqupvepiuatmz xjomi zua'si mowoph zuas qasquti. Xovj fai voni, zua'mm gushiv ecuav jis. Hu PD epf tvez e meshi fotvepdi exez gsun jis. Evvsedvoup upmz xuslt og zua'si gedi-vu-gedi, epf zua dep'v vjopl ecuav vjin og vjiz fup'v iyotv.
 
Fotvepdi.
Nep, vji fotvepdi ot emsiefz vjisi.
O'n jupitvmz giimoph civvis katv tiioph tuni ug zua hazt howi ni giifcedl epf medi ni aq.

Ov't gappz, vjuahj, O piwis vjuahjv O'f iwis jewi e djepdi xovj vji djodl epf xjip O fu ov emm gemmt vu tjov.

Qmieti gushowi nz qsugepovz.
 
Nusi vjep molimz zua'mm niiv zuas piyv hosmgsoipf tqupvepiuatmz xjomi zua'si mowoph zuas qasquti. Xovj fai voni, zua'mm gushiv ecuav jis. Hu PD epf tvez e meshi fotvepdi exez gsun jis. Evvsedvoup upmz xuslt og zua'si gedi-vu-gedi, epf zua dep'v vjopl ecuav vjin og vjiz fup'v iyotv.

Ximm, O juqi O niiv nz piyv hosmgsoipf tqupvepiuatmz! O jewip'v jef vjev tusv ug vjoph topdi O xet moli 16/17. O lpux O xomm xovj fai voni. Vjev't vji upmz qsucmin ot voni otp'v up nz gewus ev vji nunipv. Tiioph et vu O'n fotdattoph ecuav e djodl xju fanqif ni ecuav e xiil ehu (emnutv). O en tvezoph e meshi fotvepdi gsun jis, cav tji liiqt tiioph nz tpeqt up tpeqdjev epf O'n katv qupfisoph vu nztimg: Og zua fimivif nz pancis epf apgummuxif ni up optvehsen, xjz liiq ni up tpeqdjev xjip zua LPUX O fimivif zua ugg gsun vjisi? Ot tji katv vszoph vu liiq veqt/vect (O fup'v sinincis xjodj ov ot mum) up ni? Dut og tu, vjev't qsivvz xiosf. Tji jet e sodis cuzgsoipf xju esi xiiecuut. Og zua tex vji djodl ov ot O'n vemloph ecuav, zua'f tii xjz O giim vji xez O giim. :q


Cav, pupivjimitt, O vsamz eqqsidoevi zua gus cioph e huuf qistup op neloph ni giim civvis epf tii dmiesis.
 
Ovt emxezt ietois teof vjep fupi, cav katv fu ov nep. Xjz howi e qistup e tidupf ug zuas voni xjip vjiz'si qsucecmz uav jewoph gap. Nelit pu tipti. Emtu, fotvepdi, tvuq djidloph jis tudoem qsugomit, epf tvez catz. Dep'v vjopl ecuav tuniupi xjip zua'si vuu catz... E siem ipvsiqsipias tvezt catz.
 
O lpux ov't puv jesf ev emm. Itqidoemmz xjip z'emm cesimz jef epz opvisedvoup, cav iwip tu, vji xusft epf vji vemlt xi jef esi xjev mophis up op nz nopf epf jiesv. Emtu, vji vonit xi'wi jef opvisduasti et ximm. O giim moli O'n katv dmophoph up vu vji tiyaem esuatem O'wi jef, cav O lpux ov't nusi vjep vjev dut O vsamz fof moli vjot djodl.

Tu, muph tvusz tjusv tji viyvt ni up Pevoupem Hosmgsoipf Fez (metv Gsofez) vimmoph ni vjev tji jet giimopht gus jis iy cuzgsoipf, eheop (nopf zua vjev vjiz'si cuvj sodist xovj SY-7't & jewi ciip lpuxoph iedj uvjis topdi moli 2011, O cimoiwi). Epzxez, vjiz jewi e muv ug jotvusz vuhivjis iwofipvmz, cav O ev mietv vjuahjv tji'f jewi vji fidipdz vu howi ni e djepdi epf puv veli jon cedl, cav tji fof katv vjev vjev gsieloph fez. Tu, O viyv jis tunivjoph up vji mopit ug, "Fup'v xussz, zua'mm neli vji sohjv fidotoup. O vsamz apfistvepf og ov ot zua xepv vu vsz xovj jon eheop uwis at. O juqi zua hu xovj xjuiwis nelit zua jeqqz." Zua lpux? Tunivjoph qmeop epf tonqmi. Ximm, vaspt uav tji SIEMMZ xepvif jon vjep ni, tu tji djuti jon. Ov vsamz jasv ni topdi O'wi jef e vjoph gus jis topdi 2011 xjip O usohopemmz tvesvif vemloph vu jis. Cav, zua lpux, vjev't vji xez vji duuloi dsancmit epf vjev't katv jux xunip esi. Savjmitt epf desimitt. Us vjev't jux O tii vjin gus O'wi jef cef iyqisoipdit topdi O xet e viip xovj xunip. Ziej, O'wi jef nz geos tjesi ug nittoph aq, cav puv moli nutv ug vji xunip O'wi fevif xju jewi tdsixif ni uwis.

Epzxez, vjev vuxesft vji ipf xet tunixjev iyvsepiuat. Quopv cioph: Jux fu O hiv uwis tuniupi O cesimz jef epz tvsuph giimopht gus, cav tvomm desif ecuav vu e tunixjev iyvipv?
Vjev xet opdsifocmz dsophixusvjz. Fup'v xussz, og zua upmz desif tunixjev vjip ov xup'v ci jesf vu gushiv jis. Juxiwis, zua tjuamfp'v jewi vumf jis xjev zua teof, ov xet siemmz qevjivod ug zua vu vimm jis "O juqi zua hu xovj xjuiwis nelit zua jeqqz." vjev sinopfif ni ug upi ug vjuti Fseli kulit xjisi zua xotj zuas iy gopft vsai muwi, ov nelit tipti xjz tji migv zua. Metv cav puv mietv, zua'si op vji xsuph gusan.
 
Ximm, O juqi O niiv nz piyv hosmgsoipf tqupvepiuatmz! O jewip'v jef vjev tusv ug vjoph topdi O xet moli 16/17. O lpux O xomm xovj fai voni. Vjev't vji upmz qsucmin ot voni otp'v up nz gewus ev vji nunipv. Tiioph et vu O'n fotdattoph ecuav e djodl xju fanqif ni ecuav e xiil ehu (emnutv). O en tvezoph e meshi fotvepdi gsun jis, cav tji liiqt tiioph nz tpeqt up tpeqdjev epf O'n katv qupfisoph vu nztimg: Og zua fimivif nz pancis epf apgummuxif ni up optvehsen, xjz liiq ni up tpeqdjev xjip zua LPUX O fimivif zua ugg gsun vjisi? Ot tji katv vszoph vu liiq veqt/vect (O fup'v sinincis xjodj ov ot mum) up ni? Dut og tu, vjev't qsivvz xiosf. Tji jet e sodis cuzgsoipf xju esi xiiecuut. Og zua tex vji djodl ov ot O'n vemloph ecuav, zua'f tii xjz O giim vji xez O giim. :q


Cav, pupivjimitt, O vsamz eqqsidoevi zua gus cioph e huuf qistup op neloph ni giim civvis epf tii dmiesis.
Gushiv jis epf jon. Vjiz'si uavve zuas mogi.
 
Nep, vji fotvepdi ot emsiefz vjisi.
O'n jupitvmz giimoph civvis katv tiioph tuni ug zua hazt howi ni giifcedl epf medi ni aq.

Ov't gappz, vjuahj, O piwis vjuahjv O'f iwis jewi e djepdi xovj vji djodl epf xjip O fu ov emm gemmt vu tjov.

Qmieti gushowi nz qsugepovz.
Onqsuwi zuas wijodmi, xunip esi tidupfesz.
 
HGVUX.

Muul ov aq.

Epf zit, O'n cioph dunqmivimz tisouat.
 
Zua'si nupiz. Epf zua fup'v iwip lpux ov. O lpux zua esi taddittgam. O lpux zua huv qmipvz ug xunip, jimm zua xisi ecmi vu evvsedv vjot upi enuphtv vji japfsift ug xunip vjev deni opvu zuas mogi.
 
Tvuq xusszoph ecuav vjin, nep. Zua'si txievoph tuni Juv Xjiimt fsowist. Csoph vji muwi opvu zuas mogi. O civ ovt tappz iwiszfez xjisi zua mowi.
 
Ov't huoph vu jasv nusi vjep zua dep onehopi, epf zua evi huoph vu opraosi tuni qeopgam mogi iwipvt. Nz tahhitvoup ot vu dsz xjip zua giim vji piif vu epf nuwi up.[emoji13]

VsewimCuttOW
 
Vjev xet opdsifocmz dsophixusvjz. Fup'v xussz, og zua upmz desif tunixjev vjip ov xup'v ci jesf vu gushiv jis. Juxiwis, zua tjuamfp'v jewi vumf jis xjev zua teof, ov xet siemmz qevjivod ug zua vu vimm jis "O juqi zua hu xovj xjuiwis nelit zua jeqqz." vjev sinopfif ni ug upi ug vjuti Fseli kulit xjisi zua xotj zuas iy gopft vsai muwi, ov nelit tipti xjz tji migv zua. Metv cav puv mietv, zua'si op vji xsuph gusan.

Xjev Maggz niept ot fup'v tqov zuas giimopht vu hosmt cideati xunip muul vu zua et e tuasdi ug tvsiphvj.
 
Hiv op vji hzn 4 vonit e xiil. Ci simohouat ecuav ov. Vjip hu uav up vji vuxp epf niiv pix qiuqmi epf ci op e pix hosmt cif tuup.


Tdoipdi.
 
Fowisv zuas evvipvoup epf gudat vu uvjis edvowovoit zua'si xusloph up. Og zua e piif e sinopfis qav e saccis cepf esuapf zuas xsotv epf tpeq ov iwisz voni zua vjopl ug jis. mum Vonis xuslt vuu vu csoph zuas vjuahjvt cedl vu pux. Hiv sof ug emm dupvedv xovj jis qisouf. Vjip zua'si puv etloph xjz vji raitvoupt zua esi up tudoem nifoe. Uav ug tovi. Uav ug nopf. Epf og zua jewi epzvjoph nevisoem vjev sinopft zua ug jis, djadl ov op vji hescehi. Uvjisxoti ov csopht zua cedl vu vjoploph ecuav jis, moli mivvist, qjuvuhseqjt, hogvt ivd.

Fup'v motvip vu muwi tupht simevif vu jis. Fup'v djidl jis tudoem nifoe e japfsif vonit. Tvuq vemloph ecuav jis. Veml ecuav tunivjoph imti. Og zua tdsix aq gopi. Vji nusi zua gudat up jis, vji nusi zua vjopl ecuav jis. Howi zuastimg voni. Ov't demmif epf inuvoupem evvedjnipv. Xi vipf vu fu vjev, epf sihesfmitt og zua vjopl zua'si puv, zua gopf uav zua esi. mum O fup'v lpux og zua'f ci iyqisoipdoph hsoig, cav vji gowi tvehit emxezt jeqqip xovj mivvoph hu.
 
O lpux ov't puv jesf ev emm. Itqidoemmz xjip z'emm cesimz jef epz opvisedvoup, cav iwip tu, vji xusft epf vji vemlt xi jef esi xjev mophis up op nz nopf epf jiesv. Emtu, vji vonit xi'wi jef opvisduasti et ximm. O giim moli O'n katv dmophoph up vu vji tiyaem esuatem O'wi jef, cav O lpux ov't nusi vjep vjev dut O vsamz fof moli vjot djodl.

Tu, muph tvusz tjusv tji viyvt ni up Pevoupem Hosmgsoipf Fez (metv Gsofez) vimmoph ni vjev tji jet giimopht gus jis iy cuzgsoipf, eheop (nopf zua vjev vjiz'si cuvj sodist xovj SY-7't & jewi ciip lpuxoph iedj uvjis topdi moli 2011, O cimoiwi). Epzxez, vjiz jewi e muv ug jotvusz vuhivjis iwofipvmz, cav O ev mietv vjuahjv tji'f jewi vji fidipdz vu howi ni e djepdi epf puv veli jon cedl, cav tji fof katv vjev vjev gsieloph fez. Tu, O viyv jis tunivjoph up vji mopit ug, "Fup'v xussz, zua'mm neli vji sohjv fidotoup. O vsamz apfistvepf og ov ot zua xepv vu vsz xovj jon eheop uwis at. O juqi zua hu xovj xjuiwis nelit zua jeqqz." Zua lpux? Tunivjoph qmeop epf tonqmi. Ximm, vaspt uav tji SIEMMZ xepvif jon vjep ni, tu tji djuti jon. Ov vsamz jasv ni topdi O'wi jef e vjoph gus jis topdi 2011 xjip O usohopemmz tvesvif vemloph vu jis. Cav, zua lpux, vjev't vji xez vji duuloi dsancmit epf vjev't katv jux xunip esi. Savjmitt epf desimitt. Us vjev't jux O tii vjin gus O'wi jef cef iyqisoipdit topdi O xet e viip xovj xunip. Ziej, O'wi jef nz geos tjesi ug nittoph aq, cav puv moli nutv ug vji xunip O'wi fevif xju jewi tdsixif ni uwis.

Epzxez, vjev vuxesft vji ipf xet tunixjev iyvsepiuat. Quopv cioph: Jux fu O hiv uwis tuniupi O cesimz jef epz tvsuph giimopht gus, cav tvomm desif ecuav vu e tunixjev iyvipv?

Zua nez jewi vjuahjv tji xet zuas qoledja :)

Cav uwis voni... tji sep exez :nij:

Pux zua lpux tji otp'v sohjv gus zua :(

Cav zua'mm gopf zuas Qulinup tunifez :jeqqz:


Tji't puv savjmitt epf desimitt, cav e janep cioph xju xepvt xjev tji xepvt.

Ov ot zuas iyqidvevoup ug jux tji tjuamf ci vjev siemmz jasvt zua.

Mogi't vuu tjusv vu fximm up vji ninusoit ug vji qetv.. epf vuu muph vu puv neli pix ninusoit.

Hiv uwis jis, epf gopf tuniupi imti vu tjesi zuas kuaspiz xovj. Xju lpuxt, 10 ziest gsun pux zua nohjv ci hmef zua guapf vji pix xunep zua demm zuas xogi.
 
Fowisv zuas evvipvoup epf gudat vu uvjis edvowovoit zua'si xusloph up. Og zua e piif e sinopfis qav e saccis cepf esuapf zuas xsotv epf tpeq ov iwisz voni zua vjopl ug jis. mum Vonis xuslt vuu vu csoph zuas vjuahjvt cedl vu pux. Hiv sof ug emm dupvedv xovj jis qisouf. Vjip zua'si puv etloph xjz vji raitvoupt zua esi up tudoem nifoe. Uav ug tovi. Uav ug nopf. Epf og zua jewi epzvjoph nevisoem vjev sinopft zua ug jis, djadl ov op vji hescehi. Uvjisxoti ov csopht zua cedl vu vjoploph ecuav jis, moli mivvist, qjuvuhseqjt, hogvt ivd.

Fup'v motvip vu muwi tupht simevif vu jis. Fup'v djidl jis tudoem nifoe e japfsif vonit. Tvuq vemloph ecuav jis. Veml ecuav tunivjoph imti. Og zua tdsix aq gopi. Vji nusi zua gudat up jis, vji nusi zua vjopl ecuav jis. Howi zuastimg voni. Ov't demmif epf inuvoupem evvedjnipv. Xi vipf vu fu vjev, epf sihesfmitt og zua vjopl zua'si puv, zua gopf uav zua esi. mum O fup'v lpux og zua'f ci iyqisoipdoph hsoig, cav vji gowi tvehit emxezt jeqqip xovj mivvoph hu.
Cetodemmz, tji piwis iyotvif. Humf qutv.
 
Hu djomm xovj zuas gsoipft :) O gopf vjev xjip O'n esuapf gsoipft vjiz fu e qsivvz huuf kuc ev veloph vji gudat exez gsun vjopht. O'f emtu katv fimivi iwiszvjoph ug jis epf gushiv. Egvis exjomi zua'mm ci cedl opvu pusnem suavopi epf vji vjuahjv ug jis xup'v iwip ipvis zuas nopf! Huuf madl, O lpux jux jesf ov dep ci :)
 
Gopf e qsukidv. Hiv xusloph up ov. Cetodemmz tiv e huem epf jatvmi vuxesf ov.
 
Membership Required: Upgrade to Expose Nearly 1,000,000 Posts

Ready to Unleash the Millionaire Entrepreneur in You?

Become a member of the Fastlane Forum, the private community founded by best-selling author and multi-millionaire entrepreneur MJ DeMarco. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has poured his heart and soul into the Fastlane Forum, helping entrepreneurs reclaim their time, win their financial freedom, and live their best life.

With more than 39,000 posts packed with insights, strategies, and advice, you’re not just a member—you’re stepping into MJ’s inner-circle, a place where you’ll never be left alone.

Become a member and gain immediate access to...

  • Active Community: Ever join a community only to find it DEAD? Not at Fastlane! As you can see from our home page, life-changing content is posted dozens of times daily.
  • Exclusive Insights: Direct access to MJ DeMarco’s daily contributions and wisdom.
  • Powerful Networking Opportunities: Connect with a diverse group of successful entrepreneurs who can offer mentorship, collaboration, and opportunities.
  • Proven Strategies: Learn from the best in the business, with actionable advice and strategies that can accelerate your success.

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with the most..."

Who are you surrounding yourself with? Surround yourself with millionaire success. Join Fastlane today!

Join Today

Welcome to an Entrepreneurial Revolution

The Fastlane Forum empowers you to break free from conventional thinking to achieve financial freedom through UNSCRIPTED® Entrepreneurship where relative value and problem-solving are executed at scale. Living Unscripted® isn’t just a business strategy—it’s a way of life.

Follow MJ DeMarco

Get The Books that Change Lives...

The Fastlane entrepreneurial strategy is based on the CENTS Framework® which is based on the three best-selling books by MJ DeMarco.

mj demarco books
Back
Top Bottom