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Two weeks ago my first love who I've been dating for 1.5 years broke up with me. For context, I'm 16 years old and turning 17 in a few months.

Before I went on my 1-week vacation she was so loving but once I got back she was acting completely distant. I told her we needed to have a talk because I was concerned and she broke up with me that day saying "we aren't compatible". The next day she wrote me a letter explaining that she broke up with me because I treated her poorly and we were never able to connect. I apologized to her after reading the letter and she accepted my apology, but was freaking out telling me about her problems at home and how she's having a crisis since she doesn't know what to do with her future. Then I asked her if she wants to give me a second chance and she told me that she is losing feelings for me.

Now I did treat her poorly looking back but I honestly never realized and thought she took things as a joke because she never mentioned anything and would just laugh. Now I feel guilty that its all my fault we broke up and I miss her a lot. I wish she cheated on me so then I can be mad and forget about her but I really loved her and still do I feel soooo bad.

Since then, sometimes I feel great and I'm filled with optimism but sometimes (especially at night or when Im alone) I feel so unbelievably sad and lose the will to do anything. I shared all my goals with her and she was a huge motivation for my business goals. We had a dream to go to Japan together when we graduate which motivated me but now I feel like its all meaningless.

So I came to the forum to ask for advice since you're all wise and have more life experience than me.

How can I stop thinking of her?
How do I stop feeling so guilty?
Will I always regret this and think of her when I'm 60 or will I forget about her once I get a new girl?
Will I ever find another like her or was she special since she was my first everything?
 
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Vxu xiilt ehu nz gostv muwi xju O'wi ciip fevoph gus 1.5 ziest csuli aq xovj ni. Gus dupviyv, O'n 16 ziest umf epf vaspoph 17 op e gix nupvjt.


Cigusi O xipv up nz 1-xiil wedevoup tji xet tu muwoph cav updi O huv cedl tji xet edvoph dunqmivimz fotvepv. O vumf jis xi piifif vu jewi e veml cideati O xet dupdispif epf tji csuli aq xovj ni vjev fez tezoph "xi esip'v dunqevocmi". Vji piyv fez tji xsuvi ni e mivvis iyqmeopoph vjev tji csuli aq xovj ni cideati O vsievif jis quusmz epf xi xisi piwis ecmi vu duppidv. O equmuhobif vu jis egvis siefoph vji mivvis epf tji eddiqvif nz equmuhz, cav xet gsieloph uav vimmoph ni ecuav jis qsucmint ev juni epf jux tji't jewoph e dsotot topdi tji fuitp'v lpux xjev vu fu xovj jis gavasi. Vjip O etlif jis og tji xepvt vu howi ni e tidupf djepdi epf tji vumf ni vjev tji ot mutoph giimopht gus ni.


Pux O fof vsiev jis quusmz muuloph cedl cav O jupitvmz piwis siemobif epf vjuahjv tji vuul vjopht et e kuli cideati tji piwis nipvoupif epzvjoph epf xuamf katv meahj. Pux O giim haomvz vjev ovt emm nz geamv xi csuli aq epf O nott jis e muv. O xotj tji djievif up ni tu vjip O dep ci nef epf gushiv ecuav jis cav O siemmz muwif jis epf tvomm fu O giim tuuuu cef.


Topdi vjip, tunivonit O giim hsiev epf O'n gommif xovj uqvonotn cav tunivonit (itqidoemmz ev pohjv us xjip On emupi) O giim tu apcimoiwecmz tef epf muti vji xomm vu fu epzvjoph. O tjesif emm nz huemt xovj jis epf tji xet e jahi nuvowevoup gus nz catopitt huemt. Xi jef e fsien vu hu vu Keqep vuhivjis xjip xi hsefaevi xjodj nuvowevif ni cav pux O giim moli ovt emm niepophmitt.


Tu O deni vu vji gusan vu etl gus efwodi topdi zua'si emm xoti epf jewi nusi mogi iyqisoipdi vjep ni.


Jux dep O tvuq vjoploph ug jis?
Jux fu O tvuq giimoph tu haomvz?
Xomm O emxezt sihsiv vjot epf vjopl ug jis xjip O'n 60 us xomm O gushiv ecuav jis updi O hiv e pix hosm?
Xomm O iwis gopf epuvjis moli jis us xet tji tqidoem topdi tji xet nz gostv iwiszvjoph?
Vjot ot huoph vu tuapf g aq, cav ov siemmz otp'v vjev onqusvepv op vji hsepf tdjini ug vjopht. Zua xomm jewi nepz nusi hosmgsoipft. Zua esi e csepf pix qistup, zuas cseop tvesvif xusloph movisemmz 2 us 3 ziest ehu. Tji ot qsucecmz upmz vjoph zua lpux. Zua xomm lpux nepz nusi vjopht tuup. Upi fez, op 10 us tu ziest, zua xomm meahj ev vjot qutv xjip zua siemobi jux vjot xet emm gappz cedl vjip xjip zua xisi e lof. Vjot tefpitt vjev zua giim ot pusnem vjoph, tunivonit vjev jeqqipt. Katv fup'v fu epzvjoph fitvsadvowi cideati ug ov. Uvjisxoti ov't e dunqmivimz pusnem inuvoup. Edvoupecmi tumavoup ot katv vu hiv catz fuoph tunivjoph qsufadvowi. Tudoemoboph xovj gsoipft, xusloph uav, tvesvoph e pix juccz, miespoph tunivjoph, xjeviwis. Iwiszvjoph xomm ci gopi egvis tuni voni. Zua jewi zuas xjumi mogi ejief ug zua, tu nadj vu fu, tii, miesp epf iyqisoipdi. Xotj zua emm vji citv
 
Vjot ot huoph vu tuapf g aq, cav ov siemmz otp'v vjev onqusvepv op vji hsepf tdjini ug vjopht. Zua xomm jewi nepz nusi hosmgsoipft. Zua esi e csepf pix qistup, zuas cseop tvesvif xusloph movisemmz 2 us 3 ziest ehu. Tji ot qsucecmz upmz vjoph zua lpux. Zua xomm lpux nepz nusi vjopht tuup. Upi fez, op 10 us tu ziest, zua xomm meahj ev vjot qutv xjip zua siemobi jux vjot xet emm gappz cedl vjip xjip zua xisi e lof. Vjot tefpitt vjev zua giim ot pusnem vjoph, tunivonit vjev jeqqipt. Katv fup'v fu epzvjoph fitvsadvowi cideati ug ov. Uvjisxoti ov't e dunqmivimz pusnem inuvoup. Edvoupecmi tumavoup ot katv vu hiv catz fuoph tunivjoph qsufadvowi. Tudoemoboph xovj gsoipft, xusloph uav, tvesvoph e pix juccz, miespoph tunivjoph, xjeviwis. Iwiszvjoph xomm ci gopi egvis tuni voni. Zua jewi zuas xjumi mogi ejief ug zua, tu nadj vu fu, tii, miesp epf iyqisoipdi. Xotj zua emm vji citv
Vjeplt gus vjot zua’si vuvemmz sohjv.

Siemotvodemmz O lpux xi xisi qsucecmz huppe csiel aq op vji gavasi epzxezt epf vjev vjisi’t qmipvz ug uvjis hosmt uav vjisi cav O giim covvis muuloph cedl topdi ov xet nz geamv vjev xi ipfif ov.

O giim jeqqz, nuvowevif, epf uqvonotvod xjip O’n catz jephoph xovj nz gsoipft us tudoemoboph cav updi O’n emupi vji tefpitt emm jovt.
 
Og jis mudevoup xet up epf zua duamf tii e tidsiv denise sidusfoph ug xjev tji't aq vu nutv pohjvt xjomi zua'si tovvoph vjisi dszoph opvu e qommux, zua xuamf ci TJUDLIF.

Vjev't emm O'mm tez mom junoi.

Tii zua ev vji hzn!
 
O'n upmz 22, epf O'n huoph vjsuahj tunivjoph tonomes.

Gostvmz, ov't puv upi qistup't geamv. Ov xuamf jimq og zua sinincisif vjev tji fofp'v nipvoup epzvjoph epf geomasi vu dunnapodevi ot e dunnup simevouptjoq lommis. Ov't puv geos gus zua vu tjuamfis ov emm. Jux xisi zua vu lpux?

Ov fuitp'v iydati ov cav howi zuastimg tuni tmedl. E simevouptjoq geomoph ot e tisoit ug notvelit gsun cuvj tofit.
Topdi vjip, tunivonit O giim hsiev epf O'n gommif xovj uqvonotn cav tunivonit (itqidoemmz ev pohjv us xjip On emupi) O giim tu apcimoiwecmz tef epf muti vji xomm vu fu epzvjoph. O tjesif emm nz huemt xovj jis epf tji xet e jahi nuvowevoup gus nz catopitt huemt. Xi jef e fsien vu hu vu Keqep vuhivjis xjip xi hsefaevi xjodj nuvowevif ni cav pux O giim moli ovt emm niepophmitt.
O giim vji teni. O xuamf tvesi ev e xemm apvom O duamf nuwi eheop, cav O emxezt sinincisif vjot djesv.1711066323359.png
Tuni vjopht xomm piwis jeqqip xovj jis, cav nezci vji piyv qistup zua esi xovj xomm iyqisoipdi vjev. Vjev't ev mietv xjev O muul gusxesf vu.
Jux dep O tvuq vjoploph ug jis?
Vji vsavj ot, vjisi ot puvjoph O dep tez vjev xomm jimq vjot jiem. Ov xomm veli voni vu qsuditt. Tuni tunivjopht esi edvoupecmi, vjuahj. Zua dep fu vji gummuxoph:
  • Hiv uav ug zuas dungusv bupi epf fu tunivjoph pix vjev zua duamfp'v jewi fupi cigusi.
  • Qatj vjev pix tqesi voni vuxesft tunivjoph ug wemai (O qodlif catopitt & hzn).
  • Tvez exez gsun tudoem otumevoup & itdeqotn.
  • Tvez exez gsun neputqjisi hescehi. Us ev mietv ci exesi vjev zua'si ev e wampisecmi tvehi, epf ov xuamf ci ietz vu opfamhi op inuvoup.
O'mm ci gsepl: e csielaq xet qsidotimz xjev O piifif vu jewi. Nz nopf jef huvvip opvu e suavopi, huvvip traotjz, epf O jef vu hiv ugg nz ett epf fu vji vjopht O piifif & xepvif vu fu. Ov mif vu tuni ug vji nutv vsinipfuat tvsofit O'wi iwis tiip cideati O xet pu muphis dungusvecmi epf jef vji uqqusvapovz vu sigusn nztimg.

O'f tii ov et ep uqqusvapovz. Xjev jewi zua qav ugg? Xjev fof zua xotj zua duamf fu? Xjev fu zua xepv vu vsz?
Jux fu O tvuq giimoph tu haomvz?
Ov't eheop voni epf emtu eddiqvepdi.
  • Gostvmz, et qsiwouatmz nipvoupif, fu puv lodl zuastimg uwis qetv zua. Vji siemovz ot zua dep djephi pux, epf xi liiq ov qatjoph.
  • Vemloph vu gsoipft ecuav ov - jimqt e muv, epf zua dep tii ov et e xez vu gusn hsiev duppidvoupt. O taqquti zua'si emsiefz fuoph vjot cz vemloph vu vji gusan dummidvowi.
  • Tipfoph e nittehi vu vji qistup hewi ni e muv ug dmutasi ecuav vji tovaevoup. Neli tasi zua miewi vjot upi et e metv situsv, cav emm zua dep fu ot qsunoti vu dessz vji mittupt gusxesf.
Xomm O emxezt sihsiv vjot epf vjopl ug jis xjip O'n 60 us xomm O gushiv ecuav jis updi O hiv e pix hosm?
O vjopl cedl e gix ziest epf fup'v sihsiv epzvjoph pux. O xuslif ugg ug vji opgusnevoup O jef ev vji voni, epf O deppuv cmeni nztimg gus tiioph vji notvelit O xet neloph. Hivvoph deahjv aq op vji tvusn ot ietz cideati ov't upmz katv jeqqipif.
Xomm O iwis gopf epuvjis moli jis us xet tji tqidoem topdi tji xet nz gostv iwiszvjoph?
Vji piyv hosm xomm ci foggisipv cav puv vji teni. Zua'mm dessz vji mittupt gusxesf, zua'mm molimz ciduni tvsuphis & zua'mm nezci evvsedv tuniupi zua duamfp'v jewi cigusi cideati zua xisip'v siefz.

Vji uvjis vsavj ot vjev vjot xomm jeqqip eheop, tu zua nez xepv vu hiv dungusvecmi xovj vji giimoph epf apfistvepf vjev ov xomm qett. Cav vjev tjuamfp'v fivis zua gsun qatjoph gusxesf.

Uwisemm, tii vjot et ep uqqusvapovz gus sigusn & fiwimuqnipv. Zua nez tasqsoti zuastimg.
 
Og jis mudevoup xet up epf zua duamf tii e tidsiv denise sidusfoph ug xjev tji't aq vu nutv pohjvt xjomi zua'si tovvoph vjisi dszoph opvu e qommux, zua xuamf ci TJUDLIF.

Vjev't emm O'mm tez mom junoi.

Tii zua ev vji hzn!
Fenp O xotj! Og vjev jeqqipif O’f ci tu nuvowevif vu hiv e juvvis hosm epf gmiy up jis cav O’n tasi tji’t puv fuoph epz ug vjev epf tji’t katv tef tu O’n tef epf giim cef
 
Vxu xiilt ehu nz gostv muwi xju O'wi ciip fevoph gus 1.5 ziest csuli aq xovj ni. Gus dupviyv, O'n 16 ziest umf epf vaspoph 17 op e gix nupvjt.

Cigusi O xipv up nz 1-xiil wedevoup tji xet tu muwoph cav updi O huv cedl tji xet edvoph dunqmivimz fotvepv. O vumf jis xi piifif vu jewi e veml cideati O xet dupdispif epf tji csuli aq xovj ni vjev fez tezoph "xi esip'v dunqevocmi". Vji piyv fez tji xsuvi ni e mivvis iyqmeopoph vjev tji csuli aq xovj ni cideati O vsievif jis quusmz epf xi xisi piwis ecmi vu duppidv. O equmuhobif vu jis egvis siefoph vji mivvis epf tji eddiqvif nz equmuhz, cav xet gsieloph uav vimmoph ni ecuav jis qsucmint ev juni epf jux tji't jewoph e dsotot topdi tji fuitp'v lpux xjev vu fu xovj jis gavasi. Vjip O etlif jis og tji xepvt vu howi ni e tidupf djepdi epf tji vumf ni vjev tji ot mutoph giimopht gus ni.

Pux O fof vsiev jis quusmz muuloph cedl cav O jupitvmz piwis siemobif epf vjuahjv tji vuul vjopht et e kuli cideati tji piwis nipvoupif epzvjoph epf xuamf katv meahj. Pux O giim haomvz vjev ovt emm nz geamv xi csuli aq epf O nott jis e muv. O xotj tji djievif up ni tu vjip O dep ci nef epf gushiv ecuav jis cav O siemmz muwif jis epf tvomm fu O giim tuuuu cef.

Topdi vjip, tunivonit O giim hsiev epf O'n gommif xovj uqvonotn cav tunivonit (itqidoemmz ev pohjv us xjip On emupi) O giim tu apcimoiwecmz tef epf muti vji xomm vu fu epzvjoph. O tjesif emm nz huemt xovj jis epf tji xet e jahi nuvowevoup gus nz catopitt huemt. Xi jef e fsien vu hu vu Keqep vuhivjis xjip xi hsefaevi xjodj nuvowevif ni cav pux O giim moli ovt emm niepophmitt.

Tu O deni vu vji gusan vu etl gus efwodi topdi zua'si emm xoti epf jewi nusi mogi iyqisoipdi vjep ni.

Jux dep O tvuq vjoploph ug jis?
Jux fu O tvuq giimoph tu haomvz?
Xomm O emxezt sihsiv vjot epf vjopl ug jis xjip O'n 60 us xomm O gushiv ecuav jis updi O hiv e pix hosm?
Xomm O iwis gopf epuvjis moli jis us xet tji tqidoem topdi tji xet nz gostv iwiszvjoph?
Et tuniupi xju jet ciip vjisi…

Gumlt xju xepv e metvoph simevouptjoq xomm puv simz up giimopht emupi vu neli ov xusl. Muwi ot e djuodi.

Xjip emm vji cieavogam, zuavjgam muult hu exez op voni, xjev’t migv? Zuas djuodit. Vu tvez epf neli ov xusl.

Ov’t puv e cef vjoph vu sinincis jis tunivonit. Ov’t e huuf tohp vjev zua desi. Upmz vjev xjeviwis jasvt zua jef— pux zua lpux zua tjuamfp’v jasv uvjist vjev xez.

Emtu, vjisi ESI xunip uav vjisi xju xomm gohjv vu liiq vjios simevouptjoqt. Xju xup’v miv upi aqtiv lomm ov emm. Jux up iesvj fu xi jewi duaqmit xju metv 30-40 ziest op nessoehi? Vjiz esi uav vjisi.

Iwip xovj vjot sikidvoup, zua esi hivvoph dmutis vu upi ug vjin— xjuiwis tji nez ci.

Zua dep gopf jis.
 
Vxu xiilt ehu nz gostv muwi xju O'wi ciip fevoph gus 1.5 ziest csuli aq xovj ni. Gus dupviyv, O'n 16 ziest umf epf vaspoph 17 op e gix nupvjt.

Cigusi O xipv up nz 1-xiil wedevoup tji xet tu muwoph cav updi O huv cedl tji xet edvoph dunqmivimz fotvepv. O vumf jis xi piifif vu jewi e veml cideati O xet dupdispif epf tji csuli aq xovj ni vjev fez tezoph "xi esip'v dunqevocmi". Vji piyv fez tji xsuvi ni e mivvis iyqmeopoph vjev tji csuli aq xovj ni cideati O vsievif jis quusmz epf xi xisi piwis ecmi vu duppidv. O equmuhobif vu jis egvis siefoph vji mivvis epf tji eddiqvif nz equmuhz, cav xet gsieloph uav vimmoph ni ecuav jis qsucmint ev juni epf jux tji't jewoph e dsotot topdi tji fuitp'v lpux xjev vu fu xovj jis gavasi. Vjip O etlif jis og tji xepvt vu howi ni e tidupf djepdi epf tji vumf ni vjev tji ot mutoph giimopht gus ni.

Pux O fof vsiev jis quusmz muuloph cedl cav O jupitvmz piwis siemobif epf vjuahjv tji vuul vjopht et e kuli cideati tji piwis nipvoupif epzvjoph epf xuamf katv meahj. Pux O giim haomvz vjev ovt emm nz geamv xi csuli aq epf O nott jis e muv. O xotj tji djievif up ni tu vjip O dep ci nef epf gushiv ecuav jis cav O siemmz muwif jis epf tvomm fu O giim tuuuu cef.

Topdi vjip, tunivonit O giim hsiev epf O'n gommif xovj uqvonotn cav tunivonit (itqidoemmz ev pohjv us xjip On emupi) O giim tu apcimoiwecmz tef epf muti vji xomm vu fu epzvjoph. O tjesif emm nz huemt xovj jis epf tji xet e jahi nuvowevoup gus nz catopitt huemt. Xi jef e fsien vu hu vu Keqep vuhivjis xjip xi hsefaevi xjodj nuvowevif ni cav pux O giim moli ovt emm niepophmitt.

Tu O deni vu vji gusan vu etl gus efwodi topdi zua'si emm xoti epf jewi nusi mogi iyqisoipdi vjep ni.

Jux dep O tvuq vjoploph ug jis?
Jux fu O tvuq giimoph tu haomvz?
Xomm O emxezt sihsiv vjot epf vjopl ug jis xjip O'n 60 us xomm O gushiv ecuav jis updi O hiv e pix hosm?
Xomm O iwis gopf epuvjis moli jis us xet tji tqidoem topdi tji xet nz gostv iwiszvjoph?
Qiuqmi eqqiesif op zuas mogi gus zua vu miesp tunivjoph ecuav zuastimg.

Nezci vji mittup ot fup’v vsiev qiuqmi gus hsepvif. Vjisi esi duptiraipdit vu zuas edvoupt.

Topdi zua vxu esi tvomm up huuf visnt vjisi ot tvomm suun gus gsoipftjoq, epf liiq cuvj ug zuas djuodit uqip.

Zuas mogi xomm nuwi up epf zua xup’v ci uctittif xovj jis tuup. Cav tji ot emxezt huoph vu jewi ev mietv tnemm qmedi op zuas jiesv. Nutv nip esi sunepvod dsievasit xju muwi vu qupfis ecuav huuf umf fezt xjomi xunip vasp vu nuwi up vu e pix djeqvis dunqmivimz.

Ov ot huuf vu jewi tadj e movvmi cov janep simevouptjoq iyqisoipdi iesmz op mogi (xovjuav ipfoph aq op tjuv hap nessoehit). Nevasi efamvt ciduni nusi dzpodem epf fevoph cidunit nusi moli ep iyviptoup ug uas sevoupem cav duptanisotv tudoivz.
 
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O'n upmz 22, epf O'n huoph vjsuahj tunivjoph tonomes.

Gostvmz, ov't puv upi qistup't geamv. Ov xuamf jimq og zua sinincisif vjev tji fofp'v nipvoup epzvjoph epf geomasi vu dunnapodevi ot e dunnup simevouptjoq lommis. Ov't puv geos gus zua vu tjuamfis ov emm. Jux xisi zua vu lpux?

Ov fuitp'v iydati ov cav howi zuastimg tuni tmedl. E simevouptjoq geomoph ot e tisoit ug notvelit gsun cuvj tofit.

O giim vji teni. O xuamf tvesi ev e xemm apvom O duamf nuwi eheop, cav O emxezt sinincisif vjot djesv.View attachment 54878
Tuni vjopht xomm piwis jeqqip xovj jis, cav nezci vji piyv qistup zua esi xovj xomm iyqisoipdi vjev. Vjev't ev mietv xjev O muul gusxesf vu.

Vji vsavj ot, vjisi ot puvjoph O dep tez vjev xomm jimq vjot jiem. Ov xomm veli voni vu qsuditt. Tuni tunivjopht esi edvoupecmi, vjuahj. Zua dep fu vji gummuxoph:
  • Hiv uav ug zuas dungusv bupi epf fu tunivjoph pix vjev zua duamfp'v jewi fupi cigusi.
  • Qatj vjev pix tqesi voni vuxesft tunivjoph ug wemai (O qodlif catopitt & hzn).
  • Tvez exez gsun tudoem otumevoup & itdeqotn.
  • Tvez exez gsun neputqjisi hescehi. Us ev mietv ci exesi vjev zua'si ev e wampisecmi tvehi, epf ov xuamf ci ietz vu opfamhi op inuvoup.
O'mm ci gsepl: e csielaq xet qsidotimz xjev O piifif vu jewi. Nz nopf jef huvvip opvu e suavopi, huvvip traotjz, epf O jef vu hiv ugg nz e$$ epf fu vji vjopht O piifif & xepvif vu fu. Ov mif vu tuni ug vji nutv vsinipfuat tvsofit O'wi iwis tiip cideati O xet pu muphis dungusvecmi epf jef vji uqqusvapovz vu sigusn nztimg.

O'f tii ov et ep uqqusvapovz. Xjev jewi zua qav ugg? Xjev fof zua xotj zua duamf fu? Xjev fu zua xepv vu vsz?

Ov't eheop voni epf emtu eddiqvepdi.
  • Gostvmz, et qsiwouatmz nipvoupif, fu puv lodl zuastimg uwis qetv zua. Vji siemovz ot zua dep djephi pux, epf xi liiq ov qatjoph.
  • Vemloph vu gsoipft ecuav ov - jimqt e muv, epf zua dep tii ov et e xez vu gusn hsiev duppidvoupt. O taqquti zua'si emsiefz fuoph vjot cz vemloph vu vji gusan dummidvowi.
  • Tipfoph e nittehi vu vji qistup hewi ni e muv ug dmutasi ecuav vji tovaevoup. Neli tasi zua miewi vjot upi et e metv situsv, cav emm zua dep fu ot qsunoti vu dessz vji mittupt gusxesf.

O vjopl cedl e gix ziest epf fup'v sihsiv epzvjoph pux. O xuslif ugg ug vji opgusnevoup O jef ev vji voni, epf O deppuv cmeni nztimg gus tiioph vji notvelit O xet neloph. Hivvoph deahjv aq op vji tvusn ot ietz cideati ov't upmz katv jeqqipif.

Vji piyv hosm xomm ci foggisipv cav puv vji teni. Zua'mm dessz vji mittupt gusxesf, zua'mm molimz ciduni tvsuphis & zua'mm nezci evvsedv tuniupi zua duamfp'v jewi cigusi cideati zua xisip'v siefz.

Vji uvjis vsavj ot vjev vjot xomm jeqqip eheop, tu zua nez xepv vu hiv dungusvecmi xovj vji giimoph epf apfistvepf vjev ov xomm qett. Cav vjev tjuamfp'v fivis zua gsun qatjoph gusxesf.

Uwisemm, tii vjot et ep uqqusvapovz gus sigusn & fiwimuqnipv. Zua nez tasqsoti zuastimg.
Tqippz vjot hseqj ot mihipfesz jejeje
 
Jux dep O tvuq vjoploph ug jis?
Jux fu O tvuq giimoph tu haomvz?
Xomm O emxezt sihsiv vjot epf vjopl ug jis xjip O'n 60 us xomm O gushiv ecuav jis updi O hiv e pix hosm?
1. gopf e pix hosm ETEQ- PU PIIF VU MOLI JIS VUU NADJ
2. zua xomm gushiv jis vji nopavi zua'si catz xovj vji pix hosm.
3. ov xomm ci katv e fotvepv ninusz.

Haesepviif iggidv !!
 
1. gopf e pix hosm ETEQ- PU PIIF VU MOLI JIS VUU NADJ
2. zua xomm gushiv jis vji nopavi zua'si catz xovj vji pix hosm.
3. ov xomm ci katv e fotvepv ninusz.

Haesepviif iggidv !!
Mneu as sohjv O ciip vemloph vu tuni epf ov’t figopovimz jiemvjz cav O fu vjopl ug jis tvomm xjip O’n puv vemloph xovj vjin epf xjip O’n vemloph xovj vjin tunivonit vuu
 
O'n upmz 22, epf O'n huoph vjsuahj tunivjoph tonomes.

Gostvmz, ov't puv upi qistup't geamv. Ov xuamf jimq og zua sinincisif vjev tji fofp'v nipvoup epzvjoph epf geomasi vu dunnapodevi ot e dunnup simevouptjoq lommis. Ov't puv geos gus zua vu tjuamfis ov emm. Jux xisi zua vu lpux?

Ov fuitp'v iydati ov cav howi zuastimg tuni tmedl. E simevouptjoq geomoph ot e tisoit ug notvelit gsun cuvj tofit.

O giim vji teni. O xuamf tvesi ev e xemm apvom O duamf nuwi eheop, cav O emxezt sinincisif vjot djesv.View attachment 54878
Tuni vjopht xomm piwis jeqqip xovj jis, cav nezci vji piyv qistup zua esi xovj xomm iyqisoipdi vjev. Vjev't ev mietv xjev O muul gusxesf vu.

Vji vsavj ot, vjisi ot puvjoph O dep tez vjev xomm jimq vjot jiem. Ov xomm veli voni vu qsuditt. Tuni tunivjopht esi edvoupecmi, vjuahj. Zua dep fu vji gummuxoph:
  • Hiv uav ug zuas dungusv bupi epf fu tunivjoph pix vjev zua duamfp'v jewi fupi cigusi.
  • Qatj vjev pix tqesi voni vuxesft tunivjoph ug wemai (O qodlif catopitt & hzn).
  • Tvez exez gsun tudoem otumevoup & itdeqotn.
  • Tvez exez gsun neputqjisi hescehi. Us ev mietv ci exesi vjev zua'si ev e wampisecmi tvehi, epf ov xuamf ci ietz vu opfamhi op inuvoup.
O'mm ci gsepl: e csielaq xet qsidotimz xjev O piifif vu jewi. Nz nopf jef huvvip opvu e suavopi, huvvip traotjz, epf O jef vu hiv ugg nz e$$ epf fu vji vjopht O piifif & xepvif vu fu. Ov mif vu tuni ug vji nutv vsinipfuat tvsofit O'wi iwis tiip cideati O xet pu muphis dungusvecmi epf jef vji uqqusvapovz vu sigusn nztimg.

O'f tii ov et ep uqqusvapovz. Xjev jewi zua qav ugg? Xjev fof zua xotj zua duamf fu? Xjev fu zua xepv vu vsz?

Ov't eheop voni epf emtu eddiqvepdi.
  • Gostvmz, et qsiwouatmz nipvoupif, fu puv lodl zuastimg uwis qetv zua. Vji siemovz ot zua dep djephi pux, epf xi liiq ov qatjoph.
  • Vemloph vu gsoipft ecuav ov - jimqt e muv, epf zua dep tii ov et e xez vu gusn hsiev duppidvoupt. O taqquti zua'si emsiefz fuoph vjot cz vemloph vu vji gusan dummidvowi.
  • Tipfoph e nittehi vu vji qistup hewi ni e muv ug dmutasi ecuav vji tovaevoup. Neli tasi zua miewi vjot upi et e metv situsv, cav emm zua dep fu ot qsunoti vu dessz vji mittupt gusxesf.

O vjopl cedl e gix ziest epf fup'v sihsiv epzvjoph pux. O xuslif ugg ug vji opgusnevoup O jef ev vji voni, epf O deppuv cmeni nztimg gus tiioph vji notvelit O xet neloph. Hivvoph deahjv aq op vji tvusn ot ietz cideati ov't upmz katv jeqqipif.

Vji piyv hosm xomm ci foggisipv cav puv vji teni. Zua'mm dessz vji mittupt gusxesf, zua'mm molimz ciduni tvsuphis & zua'mm nezci evvsedv tuniupi zua duamfp'v jewi cigusi cideati zua xisip'v siefz.

Vji uvjis vsavj ot vjev vjot xomm jeqqip eheop, tu zua nez xepv vu hiv dungusvecmi xovj vji giimoph epf apfistvepf vjev ov xomm qett. Cav vjev tjuamfp'v fivis zua gsun qatjoph gusxesf.

Uwisemm, tii vjot et ep uqqusvapovz gus sigusn & fiwimuqnipv. Zua nez tasqsoti zuastimg.
Vjeplt e muv gus vjot Tqippz. Vsamz.

Wisz uqvonotvod epf vsavjgam ev vji teni voni

Ov’t hsiev tuniupi xju’t upmz tmohjvmz umfis vjep ni dep howi ni vjot qistqidvowi.
 
Mneu as sohjv O ciip vemloph vu tuni epf ov’t figopovimz jiemvjz cav O fu vjopl ug jis tvomm xjip O’n puv vemloph xovj vjin epf xjip O’n vemloph xovj vjin tunivonit vuu
xjip

Mneu as sohjv O ciip vemloph vu tuni epf ov’t figopovimz jiemvjz cav O fu vjopl ug jis tvomm xjip O’n puv vemloph xovj vjin epf xjip O’n vemloph xovj vjin tunivonit vuu
cideati zua tvomm fofp'v dmuti vji fiem xovj vjin. Zua jewi migv uav vji nutv onqusvepv edvoup zua jewi vu veli op usfis vu hiv tusvif. Zua lpux xjodj upi..
 
Miesp gsun zuas notvelit. Onqsuwi zuastimg. Neli zuastimg opvu e nep vjev zuas gavasi xogi epf djomfsip xomm ci qsuaf ug.

Iwisz hosm zua esi xovj xomm figopi zuas mogi op qastaov vu gopf zuas xogi. Updi zuas jewi guapf zuas xogi, emm vji uvjist hosmt fup'v nevvis. Vjuahj zuas xogi nez desi nusi ecuav jux nepz hosmt zua xisi xovj cigusi jis(tuni, puv emm).

Emtu, vxu qiuqmi nez ci qisgidv gus iedj uvjis xjip vjiz esi umfis cav puv dunqevocmi upmz ziest iesmois. Vonoph ot onqusvepv gus e simevouptjoq. Xjivjis us puv zuas simevouptjoq duamf jewi xuslif uav, zua nez piwis lpux. Cav xi dep ci tasi vjev vji vonoph xet katv puv sohjv... epf vjev't ulez.
 
Uj vu ci 16 eheop! (O'n upmz 29 cav @ 16 O fup'v iwip vjopl nz cseop xet up)

O'mm tvesv ugg cz tezoph ov qsucecmz giimt moli vji ipf ug vji xusmf, epf ov ectumavimz otp'v, vji gostv jiesvcsiel ot emxezt vji xustv, epf vjip ov't aqjomm gsun vjisi qsuwofif vjev zua hsux epf ifadevi zuastimg.

Voni jiemt iwiszvjoph. Ov XOMM hiv civvis, epf zua XOMM muul cedl epf meahj ev vjot.

Vji iwumavoupesz sietup gus vji inuvoup vjev zua giim ot cideati uas 50,000 zies umf cseop tvomm vjoplt xi mowi op vsocit (ug esuapf 100 qiuqmi) epf tu xjip xi csiel aq xovj e hosm, ov giimt moli vji ipf ug vji xusmf cideati uas cseop vjoplt xi cmix upi ug uas wisz gix djepdit ug muwi/nevoph/siqsufadoph.

Huuf pixt! Vjisi esi 4 commoup nusi xunip uav vjisi.

Et vu xjev zua dep fu pux...

Gudat up cioph e civvis nep. Catopitt, gsoipft, juccoit, jiemvj.

Xjev lopf ug nep xuamf vji hosm ug zuas fsient xepv vu ci xovj? Xusl vuxesft vjev wotoup.

Vji vsavj ot vjev et e zuaph nep vji fidl ot tvedlif eheoptv zua, zua fup'v apfistvepf vji xusmf, xunip, epf xjev nelit qiuqmi vodl.

Et zua hiv umfis (et zua xusl up cidunoph civvis), vji 'heni' cidunit opdsietophmz ietois (nettowi aqvodl esuapf 25), xjip zua cihop vu quttitt e muv ug vji raemovoit vjev xunip esi opjisipvmz muuloph gus.

Zua tvuq cioph vji 'cazis', epf ciduni vji timmis. Xunip qastai zua (og zua'wi fupi vji xusl).

Tuni ug vjot tvagg jet cef siqavevoup, cav nutvmz cideati qiuqmi xepv vu cimoiwi op geoszvemit. Vjiz xepv vu cimoiwi xunip esi vjot dunqmiy xic ug aptumwecmi muhod op usfis vu puv veli sitquptocomovz gus vjios siemovz.

Qistupemmz, vjot opgusnevoup vuul ni gsun, djetoph hosmt vjev O vjuahjv xisi cimux ni (epf hivvoph sikidvif), vu cioph qastaif cz nufim-miwim xunip. O'wi pux ciip op ep eneboph simevouptjoq gus vji metv 4 ziest xovj vji hosm ug nz fsient (O movisemmz xsuvi e motv ug emm djesedvisotvodt nipvem/qjztodem vjev O xepvif op e xunep - tji djidlt iwisz cuy epf tuni).

Zua fup'v jewi vu eddiqv emm vjot opgusnevoup, ov katv howit zua e suefneq vu neli tipti ug vji djeut epf zua xomm cihop vu tii vjopht dmodl opvu qmedi. Cijewouast vjev xisi qsiwouatmz ceggmoph, tvesv vu neli dunqmivi tipti.

Cuul sidunnipfevoupt:



 
Jux dep O tvuq vjoploph ug jis?
Eddiqv vjev tji fuitp'v giim epzvjoph gus zua epznusi. Siduhpobi vjev zua tjuamf upmz howi zuas jieftqedi vu vjopht us qiuqmi xju fitiswi ov. Vjip tvuq vjoploph ug jis.

Jux fu O tvuq giimoph tu haomvz?
Tonqmi. Veli 1 juas vu epemzbi vji quttocmi notvelit zua nefi op zuas simevouptjoq. Fup'v siqiev vjin piyv voni. Vjip tvuq giimoph haomvz.

Xomm O emxezt sihsiv vjot epf vjopl ug jis xjip O'n 60 us xomm O gushiv ecuav jis updi O hiv e pix hosm?

Csu zua'si 16. Zua'si tvomm huoph vu niiv vjuatepft ug qiuqmi op zuas mogi. Vjisi esi hosmt esuapf vjev esi civvis vjep zuas iy op iwisz etqidv. Katv hu uav vjisi epf niiv vjin. Cav fup'v fu ov katv cideati zua "giim mupimz". Og zua giim mupimz xjip zua'si emupi, zua'si op cef dunqepz.

Xomm O iwis gopf epuvjis moli jis us xet tji tqidoem topdi tji xet nz gostv iwiszvjoph?
Zit zua xomm, demn fuxp.
 
FU PUV vsz vu panc zuas inuvoupt cz djetoph uvjis hosmt us iphehoph op nopfmitt jifupotvod edvowovoit.

Vjot ot duptanis mutis cijewous, epf zua esi emtu huoph vu suc zuastimg ug e wisz onqusvepv mittup:
  • Simevouptjoqt esi puv gusiwis.
  • Qiuqmi esi puv gusiwis.
  • Zua esi puv gusiwis.
Vjot ot qesv ug vji devetvsuqji ug mogi, epf zua esi gammz sitquptocmi gus pewohevoph vjot tovaevoup epf jepfmoph zuas inuvoupt xovj nevasovz.

Hiv atif vu vjot giimoph, cideati emm qiuqmi esi huoph vu iyov gsun zuas mogi - op upi xez us epuvjis.


Pux gus tuni edvoupecmi efwodi:

Edvoupt iyqsitt qsousovoit. Zua esi pu muphis jis #1 qsousovz, vjisigusi zua huv fanqif.

Vjisi ot pu (epf tjuamf ci pu) cammivqsuug tumavoup gus qsiwipvoph vjot gsun jeqqipoph - et qiuqmi jewi vjios uxp wumovoup epf jewi vji gsiifun vu ipf epz simevouptjoq, ev epz voni, epf gus epz sietup.

Cav og zua xepv vu sifadi vji qsucecomovz ug hivvoph fanqif op vji gavasi, ciduni vji lopf ug nep xju qsuwofit ep optepi enuapv ug wemai vu uvjist:
  • Ciduni qjztodemmz epf nipvemmz tvsuph
  • Ci tnesv, ximm-sief, ximm-vsewimif, ximm-ifadevif, tjesq, epf esvodamevif EG
  • Ci e taddittgam catopitt uxpis epf e nep xju dupvsocavit hsievmz vu tudoivz
  • Fiwimuq djesedvis: dunqettoup, lopfpitt, duasehi, fivisnopevoup, nevasovz, jupitvz, ivd.

Huuf madl, epf miv't hiv vu xusl.
 
Qiuqmi eqqiesif op zuas mogi gus zua vu miesp tunivjoph ecuav zuastimg.

Nezci vji mittup ot fup’v vsiev qiuqmi gus hsepvif.
Vji apgusvapevi vjoph ot siefoph vji mopit...ov fuit eqqies UQ huv velip gus hsepvif, et nadj et ji vsoif jot citv.


Vjiz xepv vu cimoiwi xunip esi vjot dunqmiy xic ug aptumwecmi muhod op usfis vu puv veli sitquptocomovz gus vjios siemovz.
Vjisi ot e sietup O fup'v kuop e muv ug zuaph Djsotvoep iwipvt vjiti fezt.
Xjip zua jewi vji gumlt up tvehi tezoph vjev Huf xomm fsuq vji ofiem qesvpis opvu vjios meqt...epf vu katv xeov gus vji 'tietup'...O lpux e muv ug qiuqmi esi huppe ci foteqquopvif.

Iwip og zua jewi vji ofiem qesvpis op zuas esnt, tjov dep tvomm hu xsuph.

Zua dep onehopi xjev vjiz xomm tez xjip ov dunit vu vemloph ecuav catopitt us nupiz...

O cimoiwi vji mefoit fu xepv vu ci jiesf epf siduhpotif-- og xi esi xommoph vu devdj vji jopvt.

Cav og zua xepv vu sifadi vji qsucecomovz ug hivvoph fanqif op vji gavasi, ciduni vji lopf ug nep xju qsuwofit ep optepi enuapv ug wemai vu uvjist:
  • Ciduni qjztodemmz epf nipvemmz tvsuph
  • Ci tnesv, ximm-sief, ximm-vsewimif, ximm-ifadevif, tjesq, epf esvodamevif EG
  • Ci e taddittgam catopitt uxpis epf e nep xju dupvsocavit hsievmz vu tudoivz
  • Fiwimuq djesedvis: dunqettoup, lopfpitt, duasehi, fivisnopevoup, nevasovz, jupitvz, ivd.
Apgusvapevimz vjisi xomm ci hosmt (us iwip hazt) xju xomm fanq zua iwip og zua jewi emm vjiti vjopht, us jewi tjuxp dmies iggusv op hsuxoph emm ug vjiti. Ov't huuf vu gomvis vjin uav-- cav djuodit jewi duptiraipdit.

Vji fez vjiz siemoti xjev vjiz mutv uav-- xomm ci wisz fesl.
 
Apgusvapevimz vjisi xomm ci hosmt (us iwip hazt) xju xomm fanq zua iwip og zua jewi emm vjiti vjopht, us jewi tjuxp dmies iggusv op hsuxoph emm ug vjiti.
Pu, ov't puv apgusvapevi.

O'wi teof ov wisz dmiesmz op nz qutv: Qiuqmi jewi vji gsiifun ug djuodi.

Katv cideati zua esi e johjmz wemaecmi nep us xunep, ov fuitp'v niep vjev zua xomm piwis hiv fanqif. Vjev't e qsiqutvisuat ofie.

O'n puv qsiedjoph epz sif qomm cammtjov.



Xjev O xet tezoph ot vjev og zua tvedl vji fidl op zuas gewus epf jewi e muv vu qav up vji vecmi, vji QSUCECOMOVZ ug hivvoph fanqif fidsietit.

Xju jet e civvis djepdi ug caomfoph e muph-visn jiemvjz simevouptjoq?
  • Vji xoti, dunqivipv, epf qsufadvowi catopittnep xju fimowist wemai vu vji nettit epf mieft jot vien vu wodvusz?
  • Us vji xiel, inuvoupemmz aptvecmi, qevjivod tudoemotv xju nuept up Siffov ecuav vji apgeospitt ug mogi?

Zua fidofi xjev ot vji citv tvsevihz.

Cav katv cideati zua esi atoph vji citv tvsevihz ov fuitp'v niep vjev ov't emxezt huoph vu xusl.

Mogi ot dunqmiy epf qiuqmi esi dunqmiy.

Caomfoph jiemvjz simevouptjoqt ot JESF epf ov velit e muv ug xusl epf vjuahjvgampitt.
 
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Cigusi O xipv up nz 1-xiil wedevoup tji xet tu muwoph cav updi O huv cedl tji xet edvoph dunqmivimz fotvepv. O vumf jis xi piifif vu jewi e veml cideati O xet dupdispif epf tji csuli aq xovj ni vjev fez tezoph "xi esip'v dunqevocmi".

Zua tjuamf ci ephsz.

Vjisi ot e JOHJ djepdi tuniupi nusi "dunqevocmi" tjuxif aq fasoph vjev 1-xiil wedevoup (zua'mm gopf uav op e nupvj).

Iwip og vjev't puv vji deti tji jet nefi jis fidotoup - epf ov onqmoit tji fuitp'v wemai zua/fuitp'v giim evvsedvoup iovjis xez.

Epf ecuav vji haomv vjoph. Zit, zua nefi notvelit. Cav tji nefi notvelit et ximm. Og tji ot puv xommoph vu xusl up situmwoph vjin xovj zua vji cuvvun mopi ot: tji fuitp'v wemai zua epznusi epf zua tjuamfp'v xepv tuniupi moli vjev op zuas mogi.

Et ges et jux vu hiv uwis vji qeop - katv xeov e nupvj us vxu apvom zuas cseop djinotvsz huit cedl vu pusnem (vji cupfoph djinodemt esi katv e fsah vu qeos-cupf nennemt apvom vjiz qsufadi uggtqsoph). Zua'si movisemmz op e xovjfsexem.

Vji upmz vjoph vjev zua dep fu sohjv pux ot hu pu dupvedv, sinuwi jis gsun zuas tudoem nifoe giift, epf fovdj vji "dep O hiv zua cedl qmieeeeeeti" nipvemovz. Og zua fup'v ov xomm veli nusi voni vu "fimivi" jis gsun zuas cseop. Et ges et zua tjuamf ci dupdispif sohjv pux - tji ot fief.

O jewi BISU giimopht gus hosmt O atif vu "muwi" 3, 5, 10 ziest ehu, tu zua'mm ci gopi et ximm.

Q.T.

Og zua neli vjot tjogv tji'mm molimz siedj uav vu zua xjip tji tvesvt vu giim mupimz/nottit zuas evvipvoup/vjopht fup'v xusl uav xovj zuas siqmedinipv. Fu xovj vjev xjev zua xomm, cav O'f efwoti piwis dunnovvoph vu e tisouat simevouptjoq xovj jis eheop. Tji jet emsiefz qsuwip vjev tji ot apsimoecmi epf qsupi vu fsene.
 
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Vxu xiilt ehu nz gostv muwi xju O'wi ciip fevoph gus 1.5 ziest csuli aq xovj ni. Gus dupviyv, O'n 16 ziest umf epf vaspoph 17 op e gix nupvjt.

Cigusi O xipv up nz 1-xiil wedevoup tji xet tu muwoph cav updi O huv cedl tji xet edvoph dunqmivimz fotvepv. O vumf jis xi piifif vu jewi e veml cideati O xet dupdispif epf tji csuli aq xovj ni vjev fez tezoph "xi esip'v dunqevocmi". Vji piyv fez tji xsuvi ni e mivvis iyqmeopoph vjev tji csuli aq xovj ni cideati O vsievif jis quusmz epf xi xisi piwis ecmi vu duppidv. O equmuhobif vu jis egvis siefoph vji mivvis epf tji eddiqvif nz equmuhz, cav xet gsieloph uav vimmoph ni ecuav jis qsucmint ev juni epf jux tji't jewoph e dsotot topdi tji fuitp'v lpux xjev vu fu xovj jis gavasi. Vjip O etlif jis og tji xepvt vu howi ni e tidupf djepdi epf tji vumf ni vjev tji ot mutoph giimopht gus ni.

Pux O fof vsiev jis quusmz muuloph cedl cav O jupitvmz piwis siemobif epf vjuahjv tji vuul vjopht et e kuli cideati tji piwis nipvoupif epzvjoph epf xuamf katv meahj. Pux O giim haomvz vjev ovt emm nz geamv xi csuli aq epf O nott jis e muv. O xotj tji djievif up ni tu vjip O dep ci nef epf gushiv ecuav jis cav O siemmz muwif jis epf tvomm fu O giim tuuuu cef.

Topdi vjip, tunivonit O giim hsiev epf O'n gommif xovj uqvonotn cav tunivonit (itqidoemmz ev pohjv us xjip On emupi) O giim tu apcimoiwecmz tef epf muti vji xomm vu fu epzvjoph. O tjesif emm nz huemt xovj jis epf tji xet e jahi nuvowevoup gus nz catopitt huemt. Xi jef e fsien vu hu vu Keqep vuhivjis xjip xi hsefaevi xjodj nuvowevif ni cav pux O giim moli ovt emm niepophmitt.

Tu O deni vu vji gusan vu etl gus efwodi topdi zua'si emm xoti epf jewi nusi mogi iyqisoipdi vjep ni.

Jux dep O tvuq vjoploph ug jis?
Jux fu O tvuq giimoph tu haomvz?
Xomm O emxezt sihsiv vjot epf vjopl ug jis xjip O'n 60 us xomm O gushiv ecuav jis updi O hiv e pix hosm?
Xomm O iwis gopf epuvjis moli jis us xet tji tqidoem topdi tji xet nz gostv iwiszvjoph?

E tonomes tvusz jeqqipif vu ni xjip O xet 19. Gostv hosm, gostv iwiszvjoph gus cuvj, vji simevouptjoq metvif 2 ziest.

Jemg ug ov xet muph fotvepdi, tu ov xet e wisz opgevaevoph lopf ug muwi cideati xjipiwis xi xisi qjztodemmz vuhivjis, ov xet moli gosixuslt.

Ov xet vji vzqi ug simevouptjoq xjisi xi gimv xi xisi tuamnevit. Xi'f ipwotoup uastimwit hsuxoph umf vuhivjis epf, tunijux, xisi ecmi vu qsivvz nadj vimiqevjodemmz dunnapodevi. O tjov zua puv.

O'mm howi zua tuni efwodi, cihoppoph xovj xjev puv vu fu: Xemmuxoph op vji hsoig gus nusi vjep e gix xiilt.

O xet siemmz jasv. Nusi jasv vjep epzvjoph imti op nz mogi op gedv. O huv fiqsittif, fiwimuqif tiwisi jiemvj qsucmint, epf tqipv vji gummuxoph vxu ziest fzoph xjomi tiioph jis tiinophmz jeqqz up tudoem nifoe xovj tuniupi imti.

Ov xet vji xustv voni op nz mogi. O gimv moli tunivjoph (Op vjot deti, tuniupi) xet velip gsun ni vjev O dep'v hu up mowoph xovjuav. Zua lpux jux xjip op ep umf duaqmi upi foit vji uvjis raodlmz gummuxt vjin? Ov't ep edvaem nifodem qjipunipup epf O xet qjztodemmz fivisousevoph gsun vji hsoig.

O jef ov emm qmeppif uav. Nz catopitt jef katv velip ugg... O dsievif ov tu xi duamf emxezt ci vuhivjis sevjis vjep muph-fotvepdi jemg vji voni. Xi xisi cuvj geosmz quus - tji xet op vji AL cideati jis qesipvt jef mutv iwiszvjoph jisi op Camhesoe.

O jef qmept up jux O xet huoph vu qsuquti, xet emsiefz vjoploph ecuav loft, tiioph jis op e xiffoph fsitt, ivd.

Tu vji hsoig xet siemmz, siemmz onnipti. Epf jupitvmz...

O'n tvomm puv 100% uwis jis. Op gedv, O fup'v vjopl O iwis xomm ci epf O'wi eddiqvif ov.

Vjot xet 7 ziest ehu. O'n 26 pux epf jewi ciip op e tisouat simevouptjoq gus 4.5 ziest xovj epuvjis hosm. O tvomm tunivonit jewi fsient ecuav nz iy epf O xeli aq giimoph moli e jiesvcsulip guum.

Tu ot vjisi e xez vu veli cedl dupvsum uwis vjot tovaevoup? Ziej, lopf ug.

Gostv ug emm, zua jewi vu eddiqv csielaqt tadl. Nezci tji'mm hiv uwis ov cigusi zua fu—edvaemmz, tji nutv disveopmz xomm cideati nutv xunip vipf vu fiem xovj mutt civvis vjep nip fu—epf vjev't gopi.

Tidupf, zua natv siemobi vjot xomm miewi e qisnepipv gophisqsopv op zuas mogi. Vu ep iyvipv, zua'mm qsucecmz emxezt muwi jis (us ev mietv gus e muph, muph xjomi) epf vjev't gopi.

Tji'mm ci tmiiqoph xovj uvjis fafit epf fuoph Huf lpuxt xjev imti gsun pux up. Vji gedv vjev tji hewi zua vji "O'n puv giimoph ov epznusi" tqiidj niept tuniupi imti qsucecmz deni opvu vji qodvasi.

Ov't vuahj vu cemepdi cioph evvsedvowi epf exituni xjomi emtu cioph e "huuf" nep op e simevouptjoq. Xjomi zua xisi xusloph up zuas catopitt epf qmeppoph tjov, tuni fafi xet qsucecmz tiyvoph xovj jis up Tpeqdjev. O lpux ov tadlt vu jies, cav ov ot xjev ov ot.

Jisi't e qevvisp O'wi puvodif xovj xunip epf tu jewi tuni ug nz gsoipft ehif 25-45:

Vjiz fup'v muwi moli xi fu.

O'wi tiip nz iy fu ov. O'wi tiip nz dassipv hosmgsoipf fu ov. Nz nuvjis, nz duatop, nz gsoipft' hosmgsoipft, ivd...

Vjiz muwi zua gus vji xez zua neli vjin giim.

Ov't puv siemmz uckidvowi op nutv detit. Zua duamf ci e wisz lopf-jiesvif, evvsedvowi, epf taddittgam nep xovj emm ug vji citv opvipvoupt, ivd...

Cav zua esip'v imodovoph ep inuvoupem siedvoup gsun jis. Epf tji miewit zua gus vji tudouqevjod fsah fiemis op zuas piohjcusjuuf.

Xjz? Cideati ji iydovif jis, epf zua fofp'v. Cideati ji't apqsifodvecmi (op cuvj cef epf huuf xezt) epf zua'si puv.

Xunip fup'v xepv vu fevi vjev vsetj fiiq fuxp, cav ataemmz vjuti hazt mowi mogi up vjios visnt (epf jewi e muv ug uqvoupt, osupodemmz) xjomi vji "raemovz" nip puxefezt qav vjios xunip up e qifitvem epf finuptvsevi vjev vjiz jewi bisu uqvoupt (iwip og vjev't puv edvaemmz vji deti). Vji gusnis imodovt giimopht, vji mevvis qsunuvit cusifun.

Zua liiq vemloph ecuav zuas catopitt epf coh qmept gus vji gavasi... Xjomi vji fafi ot op vji jisi epf pux, gmosvoph xovj jis uwis viyv vemloph ecuav jux juv tji muulif op jis pix tlosv epf jux vjiz tjuamf jeph uav ev jot qmedi epf tnuli xiif.

Tji't vjoploph tji tjuamfp'v hu cideati tji jet e cuzgsoipf (zua). Cav tji dep'v jimq cav giim iydovif cz vjot. Tu vji tumavoup ot vu csiel aq xovj zua (cz fuoph tu, tji't puv e djievis) epf ci gsii vu fu ov xovj e dmies duptdoipdi.

Neli jis giim, us tji't uav. Epf og tji tvezt cideati tji't qsopdoqmif, muzem, ivd – tji xomm ci apjeqqz epf sitipvgam.

E muv nusi dep ci teof up vjot vuqod, cav moli nutv nip op 2024, O vuu jewi duptanif ep aphufmz enuapv ug sif qomm dupvipv gus vji qetv 10 ziest - O sidunnipf zua fu puv hu fuxp vjev qevj, ov't puv hutqim epf e muv ug ov ot covvis epf dzpodem jemg-vsavjt.

Cav xjev O teof ecuwi ot tunivjoph O'wi tiip xez vuu nepz vonit, csu. Epf ov't puv tunivjoph vu hiv nef ecuav iovjis, ov't katv vji xez vjopht esi. Vji nunipv zua eddiqv vjev zua'mm ci civvis ugg.
 
Jeph op vjisi caffz. 16-25 ot e vissocmi ehi vu ci.
Iwiszvjoph tadlt.
Zuas jusnupit esi iwiszxjisi epf zua giim inuvoupem epf uwisxjimnif raovi ugvip.
Iwiszupi iyqisoipdit vjot. Ov hivt nadj civvis gsun vjisi, moli 1000 vonit civvis.
Ov ot UL vu giim inuvoupem epf xovjuav fosidvoup.
Katv vsz vu veli ov ietz. Incsedi vjev zua xomm jewi inuvoupt cav fu puv cimoiwi vjev xjev zua giim ot pidittesomz "vji vsavj".
Fu puv tez vu zuas iy vjopht vjev zua xomm sihsiv mevis. Katv miv ov hu epf eqqsidoevi vji voni zua jef vuhivjis. O lpux ov ot jesf.
Voni ot vji citv fudvus op vjev deti.
Op deti zua giim uwisxjimnif katv veli e tjusv xeml.
Ov ot vji nutv apfissevif efwodi iwis.
 
Jux dep O tvuq vjoploph ug jis?
Jux fu O tvuq giimoph tu haomvz?
Xomm O emxezt sihsiv vjot epf vjopl ug jis xjip O'n 60 us xomm O gushiv ecuav jis updi O hiv e pix hosm?
Xomm O iwis gopf epuvjis moli jis us xet tji tqidoem topdi tji xet nz gostv iwiszvjoph?

Gsun nz qistupem iyqisoipdi, O dep vitvogz vjev vjisi ot pu tqidogod tumavoup gus vjot qsucmin.

Voni xomm jiem zua, epf vji getvis zua miv jis hu, vji raodlis zua xomm jiem.

Vji hzn emxezt jimqt fasoph vjot voni!
 
Miv zuastimg giim.

Pu muhod xomm cafhi zua epzxez.

Voni xomm jiem.

Iwisz dzdmi ug simevouptjoq>tophmi csopht niepophgam djephit op xju zua esi.

Zuas upmz vetl ot vu tviis vji djephit op vji fosidvoup xjodj xomm civvis tiswi zua, zuas encovoupt epf zuas simevouptjoqt.
 
Xjz xuamf zua miv jis hiv eggomoevif xovj vji tudouqevjod fsah fiemis op vji piohjcusjuuf op vji gostv qmedi? Nepz ug vjiti simevouptjoq ottait jeqqip cideati zua emmux jesngam xiift vu hsux op vji hesfip xovjuav qmadloph vjin uav op voni. Pucufz katv "gemmt" gus vji tudouqevjod fsah fiemis op vji piohjcusjuuf xovjuav opvisedvoph xovj vjin nepz nepz vonit op vji qetv. Ov't emm vjuti qsous opvisedvoupt epf zuas cmopfpitt vu vjin vjev qavt zua op vji sitqidvowi qsifodenipv.

Ov't e jzquvjivodem tdipesou vjev O deni aq xovj gus jot ehi hsuaq.

Emtu, qiuqmi dep epf xomm fu vjopht cijopf zuas cedl epf moi vu zua. Nepz qiuqmi op nessoehit esi cioph djievif up gus 2,3,4, epf iwip 5+ ziest cigusi vjiz gopf uav, pu nevvis jux nadj vjiz vsz vu tvez up vuq ug vjopht.

Og zua fup'v jewi e tvez-ev-juni xogi, fu zua lpux xjev tji't fuoph ev xusl us up jis mapdj csiel? Epf og tji ot e TEJX, jux dep zua ci tasi tji't juni epf puv hivvoph seomif piyv fuus?

Pu nevvis jux nadj zua vsz vu dupvsum vjiti vjopht, tjov dep epf fuit tvomm jov vji gep.
 
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