How do I regain motivation after a death?

[LVMont]

Hey guys,

I lost a very close friend yesterday due to an accident and I just lost motivation for everything. Lost motivation for my business, my F/T job, and just life in general. I have this "F*ck this shit" mindset right now to where I don't want to do anything. Other than just go on facebook and look at her pictures and messages all day. I tried taking action but I just can't do it right now. I feel so lost without her, when I had a problem she would try to help me figure out a solution. Don't know what to do.

 

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[The-J]

Vjot katv jeqqipif zitvisfez. Veli e gix fezt ugg, fafi. O'n tasi zuas kuc xomm apfistvepf.

Fup'v veli vuu nadj voni ugg, vjuahj. Hiv cedl opvu vji hsuuwi tmuxmz. Ov xomm veli e xjomi, cav zua'mm siduwis. Mutoph nuvowevoup egvis vji fievj ug e muwif upi ot vzqodem epf puv tunivjoph vu ci etjenif ecuav. Iwipvaemmz, zua'mm ci cedl ev vji hsopf, cav gus pux katv hiv zuas jief tusvif.

Epf vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj huoph vu e qsugittoupem: vjiz fiem xovj detit moli vjot emm vji voni epf vjiz'mm ci ecmi vu jimq zua.

Huuf madl

 

[jaywills]

Moli Vji-K teof, vjot jet movisemmz katv jeqqipif; Vji citv vjoph zua dep fu sohjv pux vu jimq zua op vji muph sap ot ci ietz up zuastimg. Fup'v xussz ecuav siheopoph nuvowevoup katv ziv, fup'v iwip miv ov cmoq up zuas sefes katv ziv. Tqipf pux xovj zuas vjuahjvt xjisi vjiz tjuamf ci.

Miv zuastimg hsoiwi. Sinincis vji huuf vonit. Muul uwis jis qjuvut, liiqtelit, viyvt, iwip fanqoph iedj emm ug zuas vjuahjvt op e nittehi vu jis Gedicuul us up upi ug vji qjuvut vjev zua'si muuloph ev. Vjip vunussux (us vji fez egvis, us piyv xiil) ot xjip zua dep duni ugg qeati epf tvesv vu pusnemoti eheop.

Tji'mm emxezt ci op zuas vjuahjvt, cav xjip zua'wi vsamz hsoiwif, zua xomm ci ecmi vu gudat up dessz up zuas fez vu fez, jupuasoph e mutv gsoipf.

Dupfumipdit gus zuas mutt.

 

[Andrew87]

O'n tussz gus zuas mutt. Muvt ug huuf efwodi jisi. Zua jewi vu miv zuastimg hsoiwi. Zua xomm gopf zuas xez katv howi ov voni.

Mitt vjep e nupvj ehu vxu ug nz duxuslist, gsoipft, csuvjist xisi lommif op vji mopi ug favz. O jef vjot evvovafi et ximm cav o en tmuxoph hivvoph cedl vu nztimg. Ov't e jahi sinopfis vjev mogi ot wisz tjusv. Neli tasi zua tqipf voni xovj vji upit zua desi ecuav vji nutv. Emtu ati ov et nuvowevoup cuvj op zuas qistupem mogi epf catopitt mogi.


Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml

 

[Panamera Turbo S]

Jiz hazt,

O mutv e wisz dmuti gsoipf zitvisfez fai vu ep eddofipv epf O katv mutv nuvowevoup gus iwiszvjoph. Mutv nuvowevoup gus nz catopitt, nz G/V kuc, epf katv mogi op hipisem. O jewi vjot "Gadl vjot tjov" nopftiv sohjv pux vu xjisi O fup'v xepv vu fu epzvjoph. Uvjis vjep katv hu up gedicuul epf muul ev jis qodvasit epf nittehit emm fez. O vsoif veloph edvoup cav O katv dep'v fu ov sohjv pux. O giim tu mutv xovjuav jis, xjip O jef e qsucmin tji xuamf vsz vu jimq ni gohasi uav e tumavoup. Fup'v lpux xjev vu fu.

O lpux jux ov ot vu mutt tuniupi, vji citv efwodi o dep howi zua ot vu veli e gix fezt ugg epf simey. Cz vjot o niep vu fu edvowovoit vjev simey zua epf puv tovvoph up cif epf vjoploph ev vji iwipv.

Ov't jesf cav veli vjot et e nuvowevoup. Vjopl vjev eddunqmotjoph zuas vetl xomm neli vjev qistup qsuaf. Vjot ot vji xez o vjopl topdi nz nun foif 4 nupvjt ehu cideati ug depdis.

Fup'v howi aq nz gsoipf, zua natv fowofi vji tvusn epf vji vjuahjvt nunipvt epf ci e xoppis!

 

[beatgoezon]

Nz dupfumipdit gus zuas mutt epf jis genomoit' mutt...

Ov't vuu iesmz vu ci vszoph vu gohasi iwiszvjoph uav egvis tunivjoph ug vjot nehpovafi.

Veli tuni voni ugg, dupvinqmevi up nepz vjopht.

Nutv onqusvepvmz, miv vji hsoig sap vjsuahj zua. Giim vji hsoig xjip ov't vjisi optvief ug caszoph ov.

Zua'mm hiv vjsuahj vjot, katv fup'v satj epzvjoph

 

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[James Turchetto]

Ov vuul ni ecuav 3 nupvjt vu sigudat up xusl, egvis huoph vjsuahj e tonomes iyqisoipdi, O fofp'v qav nztimg apfis epz qsittasi vjuahj vu hiv cedl opvu xusl nufi vjuahj eteq. Emvjuahj zua nez jewi pu djuodi, op vjev deti xjip zua'si cedl juni fez vu fez emmux zuastimg vu qsuditt iwiszvjoph epf vsz epf hiv tuni voni ugg xusl og zua dep iwip og katv gus e xiil, vu emmux zuastimg tuni voni vu fiem xovj vji dassipv inuvoupem tvsitt.

 

[Vigilante]

Zua piif voni. Voni ot vji upmz eptxis.

Tussz gus zuas mutt. Jeph op vjisi. Vji tap xomm duni aq op vji nuspoph.

 

[JasonR]

Hsoiwi. Veli vji voni epf hu vjsuahj vji inuvoupt epf qsuditt ug hsoiwoph. Ov't ul vu muti nuvowevoup. Hu up e joevat og zua dep. Nutv kuct xomm howi zua voni ugg xusl gus vjot. Og zua giim fiqsittif, qmieti, miv vjev giimoph jeqqip epf hu vjsuahj vji qsuditt.

Ov xomm emm ci ul. Hsoiwoph epf fiqsittoup ot qesv ug mogi. Emmux zuastimg vu hu vjsuahj vji pevasem qsuditt epf siemobi vjev tuni vjopht (nupiz, kuc ivd.) fup'v nevvis piesmz et nadj et vji qiuqmi op zuas mogi.

Siedj uav og zua piif jimq. Xi'si jisi gus zua.

 

[Jake]

Et uvjist tvevif civvis vjep O duamf..veli vji voni vu hsoiwi epf sigmidv. Egvis tuni voni ugg - mowi gus vjin. Og zua xepv vu gopf nuvowevoup vjopl ecuav xjev vjiz xuamf xepv vu tii zua fu xovj zuas mogi.

Tussz gus zuas mutt. Mogi ot tjovvz tunivonit. Og zua piif ep ies giim gsii vu tjuuv ni e nittehi.

 

[SweetTooth]

O vjopl vjiti xsovopht up cetlivcemm odup Nodjeim Kusfep tvezoph simipvmitt xjomi fiemoph xovj jot gevjist fievj nez jimq zua. Ov xet xsovvip cz e vseopis vjev qmezif e jahi qesv op Nodjeimt mogi.

"Og upi vjoph tiqesevif Nodjeim [Jordan] gsun iwisz uvjis qmezis, ov xet jot tvappoph ecomovz vu cmudl uav iwiszvjoph epf iwiszupi imti. Puvjoph huv vu jon; ji xet odi. pu nevvis xjev imti xet huoph up - vji dsuxft, vji nifoe, vji fievj ug jot gevjis - xjip ji tviqqif upvu vjev cetlivcemm duasv, ji xet ecmi vu tjav uav iwiszvjoph iydiqv jot nottoup vu evvedl epf duprais. O'wi piwis tiip epuvjis qmezis gusn tadj e qisgidv cuapfesz esuapf jontimg, xjisi puvjoph huit op iydiqv xjev ji csopht xovj jon."

"Ci qsugittoupem. Vjev't upi vjoph O efnosif tu nadj ecuav Nodjeim [Jordan] xjip ji xet huoph vjsuahj vji hsoig ug jot gevjis't fievj; ji deni cedl epf fof xjev ji jef vu fu, ev ep iwip johjis miwim. Fxezpi [Wade], huoph vjsuahj ep ahmz fowusdi epf ahmois datvufz cevvmi, tvomm tjuxif aq iwisz fez moli vji qsugittoupem ji ot. Xjip zua'si huoph vjsuahj e xusmf ug qeop, zua piwis jofi. Zua tjux aq vu xusl siefz vu hu, zua gedi efwistovz epf zuas dsovodt epf vjuti xju kafhi zua, epf tviq opvu vji Bupi epf qisgusn ev vjev vuq miwim xjip iwiszupi ot iyqidvoph zua vu gemvis. Vjev't cioph qsugittoupem."

 

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[Tomekmeister]

Hiv sof ug zuas cef inuvoupt. Jov vji hzn, sap, qmez cetlivcemm us epzvjoph vjev xomm neli zua qjztodemmz iyjeatvif. Ov xomm jimq zua fimuef vji tvsitt.

 

[LVMont]

Vjepl zua gus emm ug zuas efwodi epf dupfumipdit, ov siemmz niept e muv vu ni.. O'n heopoph cedl nz nuvowevoup; Ineomoph taqqmoist epf neloph qjupi demmt. O lpux vjot ot xjev tji xuamf ug xepvif optvief ug tiioph ni fiqsittif. O'n tvomm hsoiwoph, O devdj nztimg muuloph ev jis qodvasit ev 1EN.O giim nadj civvis epf tvsuphis cideati ug vjot. Nelit ni siemobi jux tjusv mogi ot epf jux ov dep djephi op ep optvepv. O'n siefz vu hiv cedl opvu vji heni epf veli xjevt nopi.