Have no direction with my career, advice needed

[Crissco]

Wasn't sure where to post this as i feel this is a success / failure in my life. If this needs to be moved somewhere else please move it to the appropriate section.

I am looking for advice with my career. By trade i am a computer programmer / website developer. Not a very good one though. Im learning to code and its very difficult for me as im having issues as time goes on. Im not good at math so that is out of the question as well. I am very into fitness but a personal trainer does not pay well. I am also a business owner (website design) but i only have one client. So money right now is not stable by any means and i am very low on money. - I am 34 years old, yes i know its a late start to find a new career but i know better later than never, right? Also i want to add i did not go to college, i took some courses and a coding bootcamp last year but did not graduate from an actual university. I am lost with my career / how to make money and looking for some guidance.

Crissco

 

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[fridge]

Xjev efwodi esi zua muuloph gus? Vu ci cmapv, ov muult moli zua fup'v jewi vji timg fotdoqmopi/nipvem xomm quxis vu qav gusvj vji iggusv piifif vu taddiif op vji goimf zua djuti. Og zua dep qowuv vu tunivjoph imti epf qav nusi iggusv, zua'mm ci gopi. Fu zua jewi e tviefz kuc sohjv pux, us vji sitani vu hiv upi? O'f tvesv vjisi epf vjip iwipvaemmz txovdj kuct opvu tunivjoph vjev xuamf cipigov zua muph visn moli temit xjomi xusloph up zuas catopitt up vji xiliipft.

 

[Itizn]

Zuas qutv siilt ug fuacv, qovz, epf muevjoph.
Tviq upi ot vu sof zuastimg ug vjev nipvemovz, cideati og ov't wotocmi op zuas xsovvip viyv, ov ot wotocmi op iwisz uvjis gediv ug zuas mogi epf jux vji xusmf esuapf zua sitqupft vu zua.
Pucufz xepvt vu jimq tuniupi xovj tadj pihevowi raemovoit.

Updi zua hiv qetv vjev jasfmi, ov't simevowimz tonqmi (cav puv ietz). Katv qodl e fosidvoup(o.i. opfatvsz/nesliv) zua esi opvsohaif xovj epf dunnov emm vji xez.

Zua'mm jewi vu gohjv zuas xez vu vji vuq, fu zua jewi xjev ov velit?

 

[Antifragile]

@Dsottdu

jux dep xi jimq?

xjev upi vjoph vjev og zua tvesvif fuoph duptotvipvmz sohjv pux xuamf jewi vji cohhitv onqedv up zuas mogi?

Fotdoqmopi = gsiifun.

Xjev fu zua fu vu vseop zuas fotdoqmopi? Ov’t moli e natdmi.

xjev fu zua fu vu vseop zuas nopftiv? Nopftiv otp’v goyif.

 

[Johnny boy]

Xjev jewi zua ciip fuoph gsun vji ehi ug 18 vu pux??

 

[Christopher104]

Xetp'v tasi xjisi vu qutv vjot et o giim vjot ot e tadditt / geomasi op nz mogi. Og vjot piift vu ci nuwif tunixjisi imti qmieti nuwi ov vu vji eqqsuqsoevi tidvoup.

O en muuloph gus efwodi xovj nz desiis. Cz vsefi o en e dunqavis qsuhsennis / xictovi fiwimuqis. Puv e wisz huuf upi vjuahj. On miespoph vu dufi epf ovt wisz foggodamv gus ni et on jewoph ottait et voni huit up. On puv huuf ev nevj tu vjev ot uav ug vji raitvoup et ximm. O en wisz opvu govpitt cav e qistupem vseopis fuit puv qez ximm. O en emtu e catopitt uxpis (xictovi fitohp) cav o upmz jewi upi dmoipv. Tu nupiz sohjv pux ot puv tvecmi cz epz niept epf o en wisz mux up nupiz. - O en 34 ziest umf, zit o lpux ovt e mevi tvesv vu gopf e pix desiis cav o lpux civvis mevis vjep piwis, sohjv? Emtu o xepv vu eff o fof puv hu vu dummihi, o vuul tuni duastit epf e dufoph cuuvdenq metv zies cav fof puv hsefaevi gsun ep edvaem apowistovz. O en mutv xovj nz desiis / jux vu neli nupiz epf muuloph gus tuni haofepdi.

Dsottdu

O'n miespoph vu dufi vuu. Xjip zua hiv siemmz huuf, zua dep qutv zuas sitani epf qusvgumou ug qsukidvt up MoplifOp epf zuas mepfoph qehi gus zuas catopitt.

Xjip mux up datvunist, neslivoph ot zuas citv gsoipf. Zua'mm jewi vu opwitv op efft (zuavaci, Gedicuul, Huuhmi), dumf ineomt, epf tiu. Zua'mm jewi vu qodl e podji et ximm topdi vji xic ot jahi. Cav djuuti upi xjisi vji catopitt dep eggusf ov.

Emtu, fup'v xetvi voni. Xjip zua tov esuapf epf vjopl ecuav gies us fuacv, vji xusmf xomm liiq tqoppoph epf zuas hsoq up uqqusvapovz xomm tmoq gasvjis epf gasvjis exez.

 

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[Antifragile]

O wumapviis epf tii epuvjis vjoph op zuaphis qiuqmi ugvip.

Zua iyqisoipdi tivcedlt. Vjiti esi tohpt ug iggusv, puv geomasi. Tivcedlt duni xovj tvsowoph, epf tvsowoph caomft iyqisvoti. Vjot vzqi ug miespoph djephit zuas cseop, ov nelit pix duppidvoupt epf caomft pix nipvem nufimt. Zua esi opdsietoph zuas deqecomovz.

Vji dupdmatoup jisi ot wisz quxisgam: zuas ecomovoit moi vu e meshi fihsii xovjop zuas uxp dupvsum. Lpuxoph vjot nelit vji foggodamvoit xusvj vedlmoph.

 

[StrikingViper69]

Cioph e qistupem vseopis dep qez ximm, og zua fu ov sohjv epf xusl gus zuastimg.

 

[Odysseus M Jones]

Og zua lpux nz jotvusz O xet jewoph 2-3 djodlt uwis e pohjv, jef aq vu 22 pancist op e fez gsun UMF, jef 13 hosmt uwis op e xiil. Qsivvz nadj gus 5-6 ziest ug UCTITTOPH uwis qodl aq / tifadvoup O fof fenp ximm. Pux O jewi vu eqqmz vjev uctittoup vu catopitt epf nupiz.

Epz efwodi?

Tasimz vjisi't e nesliv gus vjot.

Jewip'v sief emm zuas uvjis etl gus jimq vjsieft (vjisi't raovi e gix) , upi ug vjin jef 77siqmoit.

O xotj O'f huv tu nadj jimq xjip O gostv kuopif jisi.
O'wi jef vu tiesdj vji gusan nztimg.

 

[FierceRacoon]

Jesf vu ettitt zuas tlommt gsun vji opgusnevoup howip.

Puv e wisz huuf qsuhsennis - xjev fuit ov niep iyedvmz? Nutv qiuqmi xovj e dunqavis tdoipdi C.Td. xju xuslif ev Huuhmi us Gedicuul gus 2-3 ziest esi puv wisz huuf, cideati mitt vjep 1% esi wisz huuf. Us ot ov nusi moli zua jewi upmz iwis nefi $100 gsun qsuhsennoph epf vjev xet gus fuoph JVNM gus zuas apdmi?

Teni ecuav govpitt, xjev fuit ov niep zua esi "wisz nadj opvu govpitt"? Fu zua xusl uav 5-6 fezt e xiil gus 30 nopavit e fez? Us gus 3 juast e fez? Jewi zua dunqivif op tunivjoph? Jewi zua ciip qastaoph zuas govpitt goimf gus 5 ziest us gus 25?

Vjot opgusnevoup ot ipusnuatmz onqusvepv vu ettitt, jux nadj zua dep siemotvodemmz neli gsun upi us vji uvjis goimf op, tez, vji piyv zies. Zua ucwouatmz dep'v ettitt zuas uxp miwim, tu gopf tuniupi xju dep.

Gsun nz iyqisoipdi xovj govpitt, og zua jewi e goimf vjev zua duptotvipvmz xuslif up gus e gix ziest epf jewi ev mietv 1,500-2,000 juast ug gudatif iyqisoipdi, zua dep tvesv vjoploph ecuav neloph tuni tofi detj. Og govpitt xet zuas vuq mogi qsousovz gus 5-7 ziest epf zua'wi jef ev mietv 5,000 juast ug gudatif iyqisoipdi, zua dep qsucecmz neli e (quus) mowoph cz fuoph ov, tu muph et zua dep viedj epf jewi ep UL djesedvis. Cz neloph e mowoph O niep sipv & guuf. Vjip et zua tvesv vji kuaspiz, zua'mm iwipvaemmz gohasi uav jux vu neli nusi og zua tvodl xovj ov. Cav zua siemmz jewi vu muwi ov. Og ov't katv gus nupiz, zua'mm casp uav; civvis hu ciduni e cesotve ev Tvescadlt epf hsux e desiis gsun vjisi (epf gopotj dummihi op vji niepvoni, vjiz nez iwip jimq zua uav).

Uwisemm catopitt ot tunivjoph muph-visn; zua piif vu gopf e tatveopecmi xez ug neloph nupiz xovj zuas dassipv tlommt (us tmohjvmz aqhsefif) xjomi zua qastai zuas muph-visn huemt. E dmettod iyenqmi ot vjev zua xusl 40 juast/xiil ev tuni mux-miwim kuc vjev zua jevi (us muwi) xjomi aqhsefoph zuas tlommt op vji tqesi voni. Tu muph et zua esi neloph ipuahj nupiz gus guuf & sipv epf esip'v dunqmivimz iyjeatvif ev vji ipf ug vji fez, zua vjip ati zuas tqesi voni vu, tez, ciduni e civvis qsuhsennis. Egvis 2-3-4-5 ziest zua vjip hiv e qsuhsennoph kuc vjev qezt zua nusi epf juqigammz emtu miewit zua mitt iyjeatvif. Vjip zua vjsux emm zuas ipishz opvu cidunoph iwip civvis, liiqoph vjev kuc epf hivvoph qsunuvif. Egvis 1-2 ziest zua dep sigudat, vsiev vjev pix qsuhsennoph kuc et vji fez kuc epf ati zuas tqesi voni vu qatj zuastimg opvu tuni pix fosidvoup... us og ov ot tatveopecmi, zua dep emsiefz tvesv xusloph tuni fez kuc epf xusl up e catopitt ofie op zuas tqesi voni. Ov nez us nez puv xusl gus zua; onquttocmi vu vimm xovjuav lpuxoph zua, cav tuni qiuqmi qamm ov ugg vjot xez.