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Free registration at the forum removes this block.No….he is difficult all the way around. but he’s a very good looking…surgeon. He’s been married twice before…left his first wife while she was pregnant with their third child (for the neighbor)….
My advice would be to consider him your ex-fiancee.
Stop wondering, it's called abuse. In your case it is mental, but as others have said it could be physical, and may even turn into that.
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Oh.No….he is difficult all the way around. but he’s a very good looking…surgeon.
If that alone isn't a giant red flag, I don't know what else would beHe’s been married twice before…left his first wife while she was pregnant with their third child (for the neighbor)….
There may be more to this story, but it seems everyone else who has responded in this thread is rightfully more concerned about you personally than your business.He is nearly bankrupt right now… because he has overspent. But I see his business rebuilding and I keep thinking I will be left (or I will leave him) right about the time his business takes off again…. and I will watch him with a hot new woman.
I just wonder why sometimes he's nice...sometimes he is HORRIBLE.
I dont agree here. You have to understand I was asking him to go into business with me...launch it with me...it would be "our business". He would co-sign for a line of credit and we would do this together.
His response was that I will fail. That he won't EVER be my bitch or sell anything FOR me. He isn't like that...and it will never work and I should stick to my day job.
That's when I got the investor/developer and that's when I chose to leave him out.
I should say the formation lawyers heard my concerns about him threatening to sue me for trying to help me or offer advice. So, they suggested making him a paid consultant to establish his role in the beginning of the company....
I'm just sad.
No….he is difficult all the way around. but he’s a very good looking…surgeon. He’s been married twice before…left his first wife while she was pregnant with their third child (for the neighbor)….
I didn’t know this until I was already engaged and living with him. But he grabs womens’ attention like bees to honey. He is nearly bankrupt right now… because he has overspent. But I see his business rebuilding and I keep thinking I will be left (or I will leave him) right about the time his business takes off again…. and I will watch him with a hot new woman.
Yes…he is difficult in every area. I left my tv career to move with him…. and this is my new attempt to being a success…after leaving everything for him.
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If she'll step up and do it, @Kung Fu Steve put her first hour on my tab.
@legaljanie he'll change you life.
Well no, but sort of. He would often block my exit of the house when I would try to leave during a fight. Once during a fight he tried to get the bag out of my hand. He yanked it and it broke my fingers. I did have to have surgery.
Yes i see what you are saying.
I do love him but not the way i used to. It’s true. I am angry and resentful.
I think i keep imagining that some how some day we will be okay.
The problem with letting go...is that I respect him and his surgical skills. I see him as a very smart man and I feel inferior to him.
Tanesha? Is that you..?
I think at the core I'm not capable of much...including this business.
I think abuse is a strong word for a guy that’s just a douche. People throw that word around a lot. Mentally taxing and and a**hole yes. Abusive? Really?
I will leave him....but I know from past experience...I must disappear. I cant tell him or he will beg and plead or the drama will make me stay....when he cries....I break down.
I called a lawyer today to see if I could possibly get a protective order -- that way I can use it as evidence as well -- if I ever need it for a questioning investor etc.
Is this really a boy that you want to marry, spend the rest of your life with, be your business partner and possible father your potential children?
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