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I'm in a contentious debate right now, and I'm wondering if I'm seeing this right (as a way of thinking in the fastlane).. Is this one of those scenarios where I (a fastlane member) are talking to two friends with slowlane mentalities? Or am I completely off about what it means to be in the fastlane... THANK YOU
Me: I want to be a multi-millionaire.
Friend 1: Don't. I hate money. It destroys people.
Me: Here's how I look at it... I don't like money either... but I enjoy freedom.
I want loads of money in my life (we're talking in the multi-millions okay?) but I don't want stuff.
Why do I want money? Not because of material possessions...no amount of money can ever buy happiness, but it can buy freedom...and what could anyone desire more than the ability to do what you want, when you want, whenever you want?... See More
Sure... You can have a "job that you love" (job = just over broke) lol... but you have no power! ...Not power in the sense of controlling or dominating other people...but power in the sense that you can truly be in the driver's seat of your own life. For instance..what happens if you are fired from your job?
I can't imagine living or enjoying my life when other people truly are in control. I want to answer to no one but myself. I want do whatever I want to do, help whoever I want to help, and become everything I want to become... and money plays no role in that... the freedom it buys will allow me to accomplish my goals.
That's it lol
Friend 1: Ryan, I don't care about money even after reading that. It destroys people, I've seen it completely change people for no real reason literally right before my eyes.
The only thing I care about in life at all is love, truthfully.
If I end up living in a car with a woman I love, I'd be just as happy as in the Hamptons with a woman I love. Freedom isn... See More't free, but it doesn't cost money. It costs will and determination, the stuff it takes to get to the adventure is half an adventure in itself. If I end up alone, I honestly don't care how much money I have.
I can free climb anything, cliff dive, hike, long distance bike/backpack, anything I want that wont cost anything more than simple living. That's actually my biggest fear, though. Alone forever.
Friend 2: I like what Ryan said, but Dylan you're right, money does destroy people. If I ever came into a lot of money I pray, which I do everyday if this ever happens, that I will still be the same person.
Me: Only the weak minded allow money to control/destroy them. Only the weak rely on material possessions to feel like they themselves are worth something. (I'm sorry but it is true. My parents let money destroy them... they are weak).
I want to give people opportunities I never had.. I want to empower people to live truly great lives, in whatever domains they so choose.
As for being alone. For me, I couldn't care less. I'm strong enough to not need the company of a significant other. It is my friends that support me, and I them. If I can help change other people's lives... I don't care if I go home at the end of the day to no one..because the person I will become as a result, and the friends I will have made are worth more than anything I could ever ask for.... See More
I draw strength of mind from the people around me.. those who are positive and ambitious. I don't need anything more.
Friend 2: So true Ryan. Never thought of it that way.
Friend 1: I also know for a fact you can massively influence people without money at all. Give people hope, draw from them as you draw from them. You don't have to be weak to let money change you, money is a strong hell, you can be weaker than it with being weak yourself in every other way.
Me:
1.2 billion people are right now lacking access to clean water...can we empower them to just build their own wells without the ressources to do so?
900,000,000 people (300,000,000 children) are right now, at this very moment, starving because they haven't had enough to eat today... can we simply inspire them to find food?
Not quite, because they need the infrastructure and the subsequent knowledge to provide for themselves.. but they need that first step.... See More
How could you be strong and let money CHANGE you...key word right there. Only the weak allow outside influences (in this case money) to change who they are at their core. The strong change as a result of who they BECOME.
I have a friend (it's MJ...lol) who lived in virtual poverty for the first years of his life once he moved out on his own. He built a company from the ground up (all the while listening to people who said that his goals were not achievable) and is now a multi-millionaire 10x over... the money wasn't his goal... he's the same guy now as he was before after all.. his goal was to achieve something incredible with his life and experience true freedom.
He lives an extraordinary life. I hope to one day do so as well.
and just to repeat... I DON'T WANT ANYTHING...I don't want a house, I don't want a fancy car... I want to change the world. You are right, you can do that without money...but imagine the possibilities presented if you had both.
and from a simply economic sense... money has no intrinsic value... it's just a piece of paper.. No truly strong individual would let a piece of paper control them even to the slightest degree.
Friend 2: Ryan that is so true.
Me:
thanks Ashley
Don't get me wrong Dylan, I see your opinion as totally valid and I respect it and even agree with it... I simply have a problem when people try and blame money as "evil" and a destroyer of people ...when really it is the people who can't handle the money properly and therefore destroy themselves. People are quick to blame others (or money) for the shortcoming in their own lives but rarely do they accept the blame.
Me: I want to be a multi-millionaire.
Friend 1: Don't. I hate money. It destroys people.
Me: Here's how I look at it... I don't like money either... but I enjoy freedom.
I want loads of money in my life (we're talking in the multi-millions okay?) but I don't want stuff.
Why do I want money? Not because of material possessions...no amount of money can ever buy happiness, but it can buy freedom...and what could anyone desire more than the ability to do what you want, when you want, whenever you want?... See More
Sure... You can have a "job that you love" (job = just over broke) lol... but you have no power! ...Not power in the sense of controlling or dominating other people...but power in the sense that you can truly be in the driver's seat of your own life. For instance..what happens if you are fired from your job?
I can't imagine living or enjoying my life when other people truly are in control. I want to answer to no one but myself. I want do whatever I want to do, help whoever I want to help, and become everything I want to become... and money plays no role in that... the freedom it buys will allow me to accomplish my goals.
That's it lol
Friend 1: Ryan, I don't care about money even after reading that. It destroys people, I've seen it completely change people for no real reason literally right before my eyes.
The only thing I care about in life at all is love, truthfully.
If I end up living in a car with a woman I love, I'd be just as happy as in the Hamptons with a woman I love. Freedom isn... See More't free, but it doesn't cost money. It costs will and determination, the stuff it takes to get to the adventure is half an adventure in itself. If I end up alone, I honestly don't care how much money I have.
I can free climb anything, cliff dive, hike, long distance bike/backpack, anything I want that wont cost anything more than simple living. That's actually my biggest fear, though. Alone forever.
Friend 2: I like what Ryan said, but Dylan you're right, money does destroy people. If I ever came into a lot of money I pray, which I do everyday if this ever happens, that I will still be the same person.
Me: Only the weak minded allow money to control/destroy them. Only the weak rely on material possessions to feel like they themselves are worth something. (I'm sorry but it is true. My parents let money destroy them... they are weak).
I want to give people opportunities I never had.. I want to empower people to live truly great lives, in whatever domains they so choose.
As for being alone. For me, I couldn't care less. I'm strong enough to not need the company of a significant other. It is my friends that support me, and I them. If I can help change other people's lives... I don't care if I go home at the end of the day to no one..because the person I will become as a result, and the friends I will have made are worth more than anything I could ever ask for.... See More
I draw strength of mind from the people around me.. those who are positive and ambitious. I don't need anything more.
Friend 2: So true Ryan. Never thought of it that way.
Friend 1: I also know for a fact you can massively influence people without money at all. Give people hope, draw from them as you draw from them. You don't have to be weak to let money change you, money is a strong hell, you can be weaker than it with being weak yourself in every other way.
Me:
1.2 billion people are right now lacking access to clean water...can we empower them to just build their own wells without the ressources to do so?
900,000,000 people (300,000,000 children) are right now, at this very moment, starving because they haven't had enough to eat today... can we simply inspire them to find food?
Not quite, because they need the infrastructure and the subsequent knowledge to provide for themselves.. but they need that first step.... See More
How could you be strong and let money CHANGE you...key word right there. Only the weak allow outside influences (in this case money) to change who they are at their core. The strong change as a result of who they BECOME.
I have a friend (it's MJ...lol) who lived in virtual poverty for the first years of his life once he moved out on his own. He built a company from the ground up (all the while listening to people who said that his goals were not achievable) and is now a multi-millionaire 10x over... the money wasn't his goal... he's the same guy now as he was before after all.. his goal was to achieve something incredible with his life and experience true freedom.
He lives an extraordinary life. I hope to one day do so as well.
and just to repeat... I DON'T WANT ANYTHING...I don't want a house, I don't want a fancy car... I want to change the world. You are right, you can do that without money...but imagine the possibilities presented if you had both.
and from a simply economic sense... money has no intrinsic value... it's just a piece of paper.. No truly strong individual would let a piece of paper control them even to the slightest degree.
Friend 2: Ryan that is so true.
Me:
thanks Ashley
Don't get me wrong Dylan, I see your opinion as totally valid and I respect it and even agree with it... I simply have a problem when people try and blame money as "evil" and a destroyer of people ...when really it is the people who can't handle the money properly and therefore destroy themselves. People are quick to blame others (or money) for the shortcoming in their own lives but rarely do they accept the blame.
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