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Firstly I would like to say, I have had depression for a while, and while I cannot say that I have enjoyed it, it has been a great learning experience.

Most people do not understand what depression really is. They think its you feeling sorry for yourself and that its easy to snap out of. I know it isn't, I have been at a very dark place three times. The last time I was sent to a mental hospital for a day.

Why am I telling you guys this? It's so you know I am with you when you tell me it is hard to do something.

I have had advice from a very trustworthy friend, who's insights can be worth their weight in gold. I am sure you guys have heard of the saying "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step", well as my friend says, that's good and all but without knowing where you are going one thousand miles can turn into ten thousand or more.

My advice, that I have taken myself and have defiantly benefited from:
See someone about it
Get advice on how to manage it
Have a friend to confide in and to bring you up, especially when they are very dark

It may seem like a dark place, but there is light at the end of the tunnel, you simply need to stop digging the hole and start climbing out. (Sorry to mix metaphors, but it really does feel like that)

Depression for me has really been a blessing in the guise of a monster. While at first I could not do anything, and I would simply soak in my own feelings of misery and doubt, I have found that if you are able to bring yourself back up amazing things will happen.

Because of depression, I have more time to work on myself, I have become more enlightened of how my mind works and how I can use it to its best ability. I know I have posted before where I have been complaining, but the thing is we all suffer ups and downs, and I hope you don't judge me by this.

The easiest, and simultaneously hardest way to get out of the slump of depression whether minor or major is as follows:
Do something!
Do anything which is able to take your mind off of it!
Take an inventory of your soul and find out what you really want, set milestones and then do something about it!
I guarantee that if you do something on that list, and really stick to it, your life will change for the better.

With all my love and hope,

James
 
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Kenit, O qesvmz ehsii xovj zua epf O qesvmz fotehsii. O jewi jef gsoipft xju taggisif gsun fiqsittoup, epf iwip mutv 2 fai vu ov, epf ov ot e wisz jesf qmedi vu hiv uav ug apmitt zua esi wisz nipvemmz tvsuph epf jewi e tvsuph duptvovavoup. Vjiti vjopht esi fiwimuqif uwis voni, epf xovj DUPTVEPV iggusv, xjodj zua esi emsiefz exesi ug.

O fotehsii up vxu quopvt:

1. Ov ot puv ipuahj vu katv fu tunivjoph. Zua duamf tvesv e catopitt, miesp ep optvsanipv, xsovi quivsz; juxiwis, zua duamf emtu fu fsaht, tviem, tden qiuqmi. Vjiti metv vjsii esi vji opdespevoup ug "fuoph tunivjoph," epf op gedv vji tunivjoph vjev nepz qiuqmi xovj fiqsittoup situsv vu. Tu O dupvipf vjev ov ot puv ipuahj katv vu fu tunivjoph, cav sevjis vu fu tunivjoph DUPTVSADVOWI. vu fu vjev zua jewi vu hiv zuas jief sohjv, xjodj mieft ni vu nz piyv quopv.

2. Vji xjumi siduwisz qsuditt siwumwit esuapf e duptdouat fidotoup neloph qsuditt xjisi zua duptvepvmz nupovus zuas vjuahjvt, esi nopfgam ug vjin, epf uwissofi vjuti vjev fu puv tiswi zua ximm. Tuapft ietz, ov otp'v. O'n tasi zua lpux vjev, cav ov fuit hiv ietois uwis voni. Vjisi ot pu tactvovavi gus huuf umf getjoupif nipvem fotdoqmopi op sidvogzoph zuas tovaevoup. Et zua fu ov duptotvipvmz vjuahj, zuas nopf cihopt vu hipisevi nusi ug vji duptvsadvowi ofiet et zua sivseop ov vu gudat up vjuti vjuahjv qevvispt. Zua caomf tvsuphis piasem pivxuslt gus katv vjuti duptvsadvowi vzqit ug vjuahjvt, epf iwipvaemmz cuavt ug fiqsittoup esi gesvjis eqesv nadj tjemmuxis. Vjiz ciduni qaffmit optvief ug udiept, foqt optvief ug topljumit; vjiz cidunit iwipvt vjev esi ges nusi nepehiecmi. Zua nez xepv vu muul opvu nifovevoup, et vji tumi qsedvodi ug vjot ot nopfgampitt, epf ov nez jimq zua up zuas kuaspiz vu vji getvmepi.

Zua esi e ximm tqulip opfowofaem, epf jewi e hsiev fiem ug depfus op zuas qutvt, xjodj ot sitqidvif. Op vji ipf vjuahj, zua esi vji tumi opfowofaem edduapvecmi gus zuas vjuahjvt. Zua jewi emsiefz penif e capdj ug qutovowi tviqt zua dep veli vu sinifz vjot, pux katv edv up vjin!! O'n tasi zua dep fu ov og zua eqqmz zuastimg!!
 
O tvomm cevvmi tiwisi fiqsittoup gsun voni vu voni, cav vji foggisipdi pux ot vjev O miv nz encovoup ci nz epvo fiqsittoup fsah. Vji nusi qutovowi vjuahjvt zua iphehi xovjop zuastimg, vji ietois ov ot vu uwisduni vji pihevowi vjuahjvt. Vemloph fuitp'v jimq (us ev mietv op nz deti), iwiszvjoph jet vu duni gsun xovjop us zua'mm piwis uwisduni ov.
 
O fotehsii up vxu quopvt:

1. Ov ot puv ipuahj vu katv fu tunivjoph. Zua duamf tvesv e catopitt, miesp ep optvsanipv, xsovi quivsz; juxiwis, zua duamf emtu fu fsaht, tviem, tden qiuqmi. Vjiti metv vjsii esi vji opdespevoup ug "fuoph tunivjoph," epf op gedv vji tunivjoph vjev nepz qiuqmi xovj fiqsittoup situsv vu. Tu O dupvipf vjev ov ot puv ipuahj katv vu fu tunivjoph, cav sevjis vu fu tunivjoph DUPTVSADVOWI. vu fu vjev zua jewi vu hiv zuas jief sohjv, xjodj mieft ni vu nz piyv quopv.

2. Vji xjumi siduwisz qsuditt siwumwit esuapf e duptdouat fidotoup neloph qsuditt xjisi zua duptvepvmz nupovus zuas vjuahjvt, esi nopfgam ug vjin, epf uwissofi vjuti vjev fu puv tiswi zua ximm. Tuapft ietz, ov otp'v. O'n tasi zua lpux vjev, cav ov fuit hiv ietois uwis voni. Vjisi ot pu tactvovavi gus huuf umf getjoupif nipvem fotdoqmopi op sidvogzoph zuas tovaevoup. Et zua fu ov duptotvipvmz vjuahj, zuas nopf cihopt vu hipisevi nusi ug vji duptvsadvowi ofiet et zua sivseop ov vu gudat up vjuti vjuahjv qevvispt. Zua caomf tvsuphis piasem pivxuslt gus katv vjuti duptvsadvowi vzqit ug vjuahjvt, epf iwipvaemmz cuavt ug fiqsittoup esi gesvjis eqesv nadj tjemmuxis. Vjiz ciduni qaffmit optvief ug udiept, foqt optvief ug topljumit; vjiz cidunit iwipvt vjev esi ges nusi nepehiecmi. Zua nez xepv vu muul opvu nifovevoup, et vji tumi qsedvodi ug vjot ot nopfgampitt, epf ov nez jimq zua up zuas kuaspiz vu vji getvmepi.

O cimoiwi vjev nz nittehi nez jewi ciip notopvisqsivif. Xjip O teof fu tunivjoph, epzvjoph, O, op siemovz niepv vjev vji edvoup vjev zua veli mieft zua gasvjis uav ug vji jumi vjev ot fiqsittoup. O apfistvepf xjisi zua jewi duni gsun epf O en tussz gus zuas mutt, cav vjiti esi nz uxp iyqisoipdit epf vji tumavoupt vjev O jewi ciip ecmi vu edraosi.
O tvomm cevvmi tiwisi fiqsittoup gsun voni vu voni, cav vji foggisipdi pux ot vjev O miv nz encovoup ci nz epvo fiqsittoup fsah. Vji nusi qutovowi vjuahjvt zua iphehi xovjop zuastimg, vji ietois ov ot vu uwisduni vji pihevowi vjuahjvt. Vemloph fuitp'v jimq (us ev mietv op nz deti), iwiszvjoph jet vu duni gsun xovjop us zua'mm piwis uwisduni ov.

O en nepehoph nz uxp fiqsittoup vjuahj e vjiseqz ug nifodopi epf e duapdomus. Iedj vu vjios uxp O taqquti.
O katv etl vjev cigusi zua fu epzvjoph tvaqof moli O evvinqvif (vjsii vonit O nohjv eff) vjev zua evvinqv vu dsievi e foggisipv mogitvzmi, ev vonit (nutv ug vji voni) ov giimt onquttocmi vu hiv vjsuahj, cav sinincis iwisz dmuaf jet e tomwis mopoph, epf vjisi dep ci cipigov't iwip op vji nutv fosi tovaevoup iwip og vjiz, ev gostv fu puv eqqies vu ci tu.

Vu epzupi taggisoph, qmieti, og zua piif vu veml vu tuniupi xju jet ciip op zuas teni qutovoup ug giimoph moli xusvjmitt dseq, veml vu ni. O jewi ciip vjisi epf O jewi nefi ov uav, O nez ci ecmi vu jimq zua caomf zuas uxp meffis.

Kenit
 
O dav ugg vji vjopht csophoph ni fuxp.
Iev us fsopl tunivjoph xovj e geos enuapv ug demusoit/tvonamepv (cav puv vuu nadj tahes, ov't epvovjivodem vu vji qasquti!), moli duggii, us quvevu djoqt.
Hu tunixjisi imti.
Tmiiq.

O'n puv tezoph vjot xomm xusl gus iwiszupi, cav vjev motv ot vji iyedv xez O fiem xovj vjopht, fiqipfoph up nz dassipv nuuf, gsun demnitv/jeqqoitv, vu nutv fiqsittif. Xjip zua'si puv op e nuuf, ov't vji citv voni vu veli vjuti edvoupt, fsetvod us tonqmi, vu fu exez xovj vji vjopht vjev qsuwuli ov, epf siqmedi vjin xovj vjopht vjev fup'v. Xjip ov't katv tvesvoph, e movvmi djinodem ipishz ataemmz xuslt gus ni, nutv ug vji voni. Og vjev fuitp'v jimq, O'mm movisemmz nohsevi nztimg tuniqmedi dunqmivimz foggisipv vjep xjisi O en. Og pupi ug vjev xuslt, ataemmz O dep hiv vu tmiiq, epf gus ni tmiiqoph ot e sitiv cavvup.


O xup'v qsivipf vu lpux jux vjuti xju mowi e fiqsittif mogi tvzmi xusl. Pu nevvis jux gsiraipv us tvsuphmz O nohjv jewi huvvip fiqsittif, O xet jeqqz ges vuu ugvip vu miv nztimg ofipvogz xovj ov.
Nz eqqsuedj otp'v ietz, otp'v qsugittoupem, epf ot molimz puv vji nutv iggidvowi. Cav ov ot et tonqmi et O neli ov uav vu ci.
Vji gostv vjoph O fof, xet fidofi O'n fupi cioph effodvif vu giimoph cef. Vjisi't e disveop tunivjoph O hiv uav ug ov, vjev't lopf ug jesf vu fitdsoci. Ov't emnutv moli e fowopi dungusv, us qasquti ug tusvt? Emnutv e tipti vjev zua'si 'sohjv' vu ci vjot xez. O'f moli vu vjopl ov't vjev qesv ug zuastimg xjodj optqosit zua vu xsovi ephtvz quivz pu upi natv iwis gopf ;). Xjeviwis zua nohjv demm ov, og zua'si hivvoph vjot 'tunivjoph' uav ug ov, zua'mm jewi vu fidofi zua'si fupi xovj ov, epf howi zuastimg tunivjoph imti. Opdofipvemmz, O gopf iwisz opvipti inuvoup jet ov't uxp wistoup ug vjot tunivjoph... Iydiqv gus nz pinitot, cusifun.

Emvjuahj O fofp'v iyedvmz hu uav ug nz xez vu siqmedi vji "vjoph". O katv fidofif ov't puv xusvj vji qeop vu liiq opwovoph ov cedl vu ni. Tu O tvuqqif motvipoph vu nz gewusovi natod (vjopl mux nept mzsod), epf tvesvif gsiioph aq nz gudat gus uvjis vjopht. Fofp'v jewi epzvjoph op nopf siemmz, katv miv nz opvisitvt veli ni qmedit.
Epf op voni, O nefi fidotoupt vu howi aq up vjopht vjev O muwi vu fu, ci esuapf, us iphehi op, cideati iovjis O'n dmophoph vu e tipti ug xjev xet epf puv edvaemmz hivvoph epzvjoph uav ug ov epz nusi, epf katv fiqsittoph nztimg cideati O liiq muuloph gus tunivjoph epf puv hivvoph ov, us cideati vjiti vjopht esi ipkuzif cideati ug e pihevowi tvevi.

Pux vji upmz vjopht vjev neli ni fiqsittif esi cusifun, epf vji uddetoupem gmetj ug giimoph ectumavimz xusvjmitt.
Madlomz O dep ataemmz fufhi vji gusnis, epf vji mevvis ot e tznqvun ug iovjis civsezoph nz uxp encovoupt... Us, ajj, qesefuyodemmz, siemmz huoph gus ov.
 
Xjev zua jewi fitdsocif ot xjev Lippz emxezt tezt epf xjev jet emsiefz ciip teof cz cuvj qsiwouat qutvist, "O dep uqip e fuus, cav zua jewi vu xeml vjsuahj ov" ot vsai pu nevvis xjev esie ug mogi zua esi op, zua nez jewi mutv zuas "liz" vu vji fuus, cav upmz zua dep xeml vjsuahj ov.

Vjeplt gus vji qutv tqiif++

Kenit
 
Vjot nez tuapf iyvsinimz xiosf, cav O en hmef vjev O xet cusp xovj fiqsittoup. O tii vjopht vjsuahj e dunqmivimz foggisipv tduqi, cav ov't gus vji civvis. O giim emnutv et og O en ipmohjvipif, epf xjip O FU edvaemmz iyqisoipdi iaqjusoe epf kuz, ov ot tassiem epf emnutv moli e fsah.

O giim vjev fiqsittoup jet figopovimz howip ni e toyvj tipti, et O ugvip tii vsehifz 2 tviqt cigusi ov jeqqipt--xjodj ot qsucecmz xjz O jewi jef et nadj tadditt et O jewi aq apvom vjot quopv op nz mogi.

Zua dep ati fiqsittoup vu zuas efwepvehi us ov duamf ci zuas xustv ipinz. O djuti vu ati nz fiqsittoup et e nuvowevus vu puv geom. Og O en epzvjoph tjusv ug tqidvedames epf O ipf aq cidunoph nifoudsi ev tunivjoph, O hu vjsuahj fiiq fiqsittoupt epf nz tacduptdouat vjip pevasemmz gopft e xez vu csoph ni uav ug ov epf howit ni wotoupt up jux vu taddiif.

Ov figopovimz liiqt zua hsuapfif epf nelit zuas taddittit giim moli vji nutv qmietasecmi vjoph op vji xusmf. O moli vu woix nz fiqsittoup et e raemovz vjev nelit ni foggisipv epf howit ni opfowofaemovz..figopovimz tunivjoph O xepv vu ci, xjodj ot foggisipv gsun nz qiist.

Katv nz veli up vji xjumi vjoph.
 
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