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I've read so many inspiring successful experiences from so many people. But I think everybody has his or her own story and learned something what you will never learn in a book.

Just learning by acting.

Last week I pulled the plug out of my company.

I did everything like it should have been, but believe me, that guarantees nothing. At the beginning, everybody was excited and couldn't wait til I started my business.

It was "the gap in the market", they said. Nobody did this before! I was going to have lots of customers!

I kept my costs low, and so was the margin. I thought that I just needed that one spark... And I got it...

But no ignition.

No clients.

My supplier started moaning because I had no orders.

So I decided to perish the short pain.

What YOU can learn from my failure(s)?
- OK, we've all read at least once that we should ignore the naysayers. Well, better ignore the yaysayers, for they can harm your future as well. You better be pessimistic when you start your company.

- Face it, we are overmotivated. Everywhere you see motivation, it's quiet depressing actually. I think it's typical for Generation Y. But it hits me how unrealistic many young people are and can't deal with the failure and sadness in case they fail.

- Don't clamp to what's written in any book. Every entrepreneur has his own story. Yours will be different. The only way to learn is to act. 90% you will learn or understand by trial and error. I've failed for 3 times right now. Let's say only the last one was heading for the right direction. The first one was a sidewalk daydream. At least I evolved! :)

- All time classic, but hard to understand: failure is part of the deal. After suffering some good old depressing failures, you're getting quiet immune to it. I never felt sad for shutting down my last company.

- As long as you didn't receive money for your work, you're not having a company. Stop daydreaming.

Now, I started copywriting. I'm a good writer in Dutch. So far (after one week), I have one client for whom I write blog articles for. But I have to find my niche.

And I still want to do something with public speaking :)
 
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- Emm voni dmettod, cav jesf vu apfistvepf: geomasi ot qesv ug vji fiem. Egvis taggisoph tuni huuf umf fiqsittoph geomasit, zua'si hivvoph raoiv onnapi vu ov. O piwis gimv tef gus tjavvoph fuxp nz metv dunqepz.

Vjev't ov.

O vjopl vji vjoph vjev tiqesevit ipvsiqsipaist gsun gelist ot vji xommophpitt vu csatj zuastimg ugg epf liiq huoph gusxesf, iwip og vji eqqsuedj djephit - apvom taddittgam.

Zua upmz piif vu ci sohjv updi, epf vji piyv wipvasi nohjv ci vji upi.
 
Vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas mittupt miespif. E duaqmi raitvoupt...

Jux muph xet ov gsun catopitt ofie vu zua qammoph vji qmah?

Xjev xet vji amvonevi sietup zua cimoiwi vji catopitt geomif?
 
O vuu en wisz opvisitvif et O xuamf ettani esi epz vjev esi pix vu vji ipvsiqsipias heni, O'n puv guumotj ipuahj vu vjopl vjev nz gostv catopitt ofie xomm ci e jov cav HUFFENOV o'mm fu ov epzxez cideati vji emvispevowi ot xusloph nz ett ugg gus e nihsi xehi gus 40 ziest gus tuniupi imti - pu vjepl zua o'f sevjis Lasv Duceop nz xez vji xjev iwis ot piyv.
 
Vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas mittupt miespif. E duaqmi raitvoupt...

Jux muph xet ov gsun catopitt ofie vu zua qammoph vji qmah?

Xjev xet vji amvonevi sietup zua cimoiwi vji catopitt geomif?

Catopitt ofie xet Tiqvincis 2014.

Nz qsufadvt xisi gus temi Nesdj 2015.

Qammif nz qmah metv xiil. Tu, vu eptxis zuas raitvoup: upi zies.

Gostv O vjuahjv nz gusname xet vuu dunqmodevif, tu O nefi djieq "qsunu qedlehit". Tumf 2 ug vjin.
Vjip O vjuahjv nz qsodit xisi vuu johj, tu fasoph tannis qisouf, O fsuqqif qsodit. Tumf puvjoph vjev voni.
Gopemmz, O vjuahjv O jef e hsiev fiem xovj e dmac. O csuahjv tuni ug nz qsufadvt, vu tii og ov xuamf timm woe vji dmac. Ov fof, vjiz teof. Upmz vu gopf uav vji cutt emm atif vjin jontimg.

Vji sietupt xjz O vjopl ov geomif: O tii vjev iwip vji wisz ehhsittowi epf djieq dunqivovust esi jewoph vsuacmit timmoph vjios qsufadvt. Apmoli vji ATE, O vjopl Iasuqi otp'v siefz ziv gus vjot lopf ug qsufadv. Emtu, O xet wisz fiqipfipv gsun nz taqqmois. O xepvif vu fu ov nztimg, apgusvapevimz mext guscof ni.

Tjuamf O xeov apvom vjiz esi siefz?

Nezci. Cav niepxjomi, O xepv vu edv. Nz xictovi otp'v uggmopi, tu O dep sitvesv epzvoni og taffipmz Iasuqi tvesvt dsewoph gus vjot podji.

Xjev O xuamf jewi fupi foggisipvmz?

Tvesv xovj €0,- opwitvnipv optvief ug josoph e xicnetvis vu neli e gepdz xictovi.

Xjev imti fof O miesp?

Vjev catopitt qmept esi e xetvi ug voni epf nupiz. Cav xjomi xsovoph, ov jov ni vjev O'n qsivvz huuf op ov :)
 
Tuapft moli zuas catopitt geomif vji dunnepfnipv ug piif. Xjev sitiesdj epf nesliv vitvoph fof zua fu qsous vu meapdj? Qiuqmi tezoph ovt e hsiev ofie, epf edvaemmz hivvoph vjios dsifov desf uav ug vjios xemmiv, esi vxu wisz foggisipv vjopht.

O tznqevjoti xovj zuas tovaevoup, cav liiq qatjoph.
 
O'n pix vu vjot tofi ug mogi, cav puv vu mogi ovtimg.

Tiint vjisi esi vxu huuf mittupt gemmoph dep viedj at. Jux vu qodl uastimwit aq epf jux vu ofipvogz vsoq jebesft. Cuvj iraemmz onqusvepv.
 
Puv siemmz e puvi gus UQ (cideati zua lpux vjot) cav gus vji uvjist siefoph vjot vjsief. (Itqidoemmz dummihi catopitt hseft.)

'Heq op vji nesliv' =/= 'Finepf op vji nesliv'

Xjipiwis nz gsoipft eqqsuedj ni xovj 'aporai' catopitt ofiet, O fup'v hiv iydovif. O hiv xussoif.

Cideati og pucufz imti ot fuoph ov, vjip vjisi't qsucecmz e huuf sietup gus vjev.

UQ zua xomm xop iwipvaemmz. Ov't katv e nevvis ug voni. Huuf madl vu zua epf liiq zuas jief aq!
 
Tuapft moli zuas catopitt geomif vji dunnepfnipv ug piif. Xjev sitiesdj epf nesliv vitvoph fof zua fu qsous vu meapdj? Qiuqmi tezoph ovt e hsiev ofie, epf edvaemmz hivvoph vjios dsifov desf uav ug vjios xemmiv, esi vxu wisz foggisipv vjopht..

Fot, wisz nadj.

O ettanif. Cef jecov.

Puv siemmz e puvi gus UQ (cideati zua lpux vjot) cav gus vji uvjist siefoph vjot vjsief. (Itqidoemmz dummihi catopitt hseft.)

'Heq op vji nesliv' =/= 'Finepf op vji nesliv'

Ov't tvomm e heq. Finepf? Zit, cav vjisi esi nepz (apjiemvjz) emvispevowit. Cav et O vjopl ecuav ov, nz iyidavoup xet quus. O vjuahjv O duamf duqz ep iyotvoph tztvin, cav vji tztvin O'n vemloph ecuav xet tovaevif op e coh Enisodep dovz. O xet tovaevif op vji Xitv ug Gmepfist. Pagg teof.
 
Nz qsuhsitt:

O usfisif tuni vitv tenqmit gsun Djope. Upi qedlehi ot tvadl ev vji datvunt op Csattimt cideati vjiz vjopl vji wemai ug vji qsufadvt ot johjis vjep nipvoupif up vji opwuodi epf vji taqqmois fofp'v xsovi "TENQMIT" up ov. FJM vumf ni vjiz nohjv fsomm jumit op ov us tdsevdj ov tu O dep'v timm ov epznusi. Tu O'n xeovoph gus vjev uavduni.

Tnemm voq: og zua fu catopitt xovj Djopiti qiuqmi, ci podi epf gsoipfmz vu vjin. O jewi wisz huuf dupvedvt sohjv pux. Vsiev vjin podimz epf vjiz xomm ci gsoipft xovj cipigovt (niepoph vjiz xuamf howi civvis qsodit). O haitt vjiz hiv op vuadj xovj wisz nadj apopvisitvif qsutqidvt/dmoipvt. Zua dep ciduni vjios gewusovi katv cz edvoph podi epf opvisitvif.
Tunivonit O'n puv tasi og tuni hosmt esi op muwi xovj ni (tezoph O'n vjios ofum, O'n wisz jepftuni, vjiz xepv vu tvez op vuadj iwip O fup'v fu catopitt epf tvagg) us og ov't katv vji nipvemovz vu datvunist.
Ov emtu jov ni jux xi esi dunqmeopoph ecuav 9 vu 5 xjomi vjiz esi xusloph op e vuxp ges gsun vjios junivuxp, 6/7 fezt, 20 juast e fez (ug duasti upmz 8 juast qeof) XOVJUAV DUNQMEOPOPH.


Vu vji xepfisist jisi xju esi puv optofist:


Ciduni ep optofis pux. O jewi ectumavimz pu opvisitv og zua fu ov us puv, ov't gus zuas uxp huuf. O'n ep optofis gus +/- upi nupvj epf jewi vji giimoph O tloqqif nepz ziest op qsuhsitt. O'n puv iyehhisevoph. Ov't xusvj ov. Vsatv ni.

NK't cuul viedjif ni vji cetodt. Apdupdouatmz O liqv cimoiwoph vjev O jef vu neli e pix xictovi us eqq. Vji optohjvt epf iyqisoipdit ug uvjis nincist up vjot gusan tjuxif ni ov dep ci fupi up foggisipv xez.

Vjeplt gus vjot gusan. Vjeplt gus qutvoph zuas qsuhsittoup. VNG epf vjot gusan xisi vji citv vjopht vjev jeqqipif op nz mogi. Xovjuav vjot gusan O xuamf jewi howip aq epf ci e covvis epf gsatvsevif qistup.

Vjeplt @NK FiNesdu
Vjeplt @Wohomepvi
Vjeplt @TopotvisMiy
Vjeplt @Vji Emdjinotv
Vjeplt @OdiDsienLof
Vjeplt @couqjeti

O'n 10 ziest ejief op nz mogi, vjeplt vu zua hazt.

(O'n tvomm siefoph muvt ug vuqodt, tu nz vjepltmotv xomm qsucecmz iyqepf.)
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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