Burn the Ships - what are you experiences ?

[thOsim]

Yeah, she will. Try to see it from her perspective ... I have a solid husband, father, provider ... I have a security.

Now you are comming with "Honey, I quit my good paying job and ... (now you are explaining to her your goals, how this will work and that will work and explain it to her)". But she is just not listening, because she stopped listening when the fear completelly overhelmed her after your first sentence.

You yourself are not ready yet, have doubts and fears and need three months to prepare to even rethink your decision. Try to imagine you would quit today, just imagine it. Would you be stressed, full of fear, doubt? Now multiply it and this is how she will feel.

I remember I was scared and full of doubt. The worst part, the biggest doubt came after I announced to my employer I quit. They didn't expected that, they weren't ready also. They tried to find a way to keep me, offered promotion next year. And I was like: Should I really do it? Should I jump? Really?

Things will get crazy after you make the decission. Your family and friends ... you think they will support your decission? Prepare for a mental fight and prepare your wife for your decission. Don't make her believe everything is ok. You don't need your wife unprepared or as an enemy, negative enviroment at home and your kid in the middle of it. At least mention to her few times you are not happy at your job.

 

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[ZMan26]

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[Swam010]

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