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Hello!

First I just need to say THANK YOU MJ! The book was literally a wake up call. What the F*ck was I doing before? Just drifting around with no bigger goals of the future..

Im also glad that I have come into this whole business world young. Im only 21. So I know I have many years to build up something great (hopefully).

But the thing that really stress me and I feel like its hard to balance it is the stressful feeling I have to succeed. Im sure all of you have had this feeling or have it now, so how do you balance this feeling with life?

Im feeling like its eating me from the inside.

I feel this urge and stress about making something that I can live of someday. Make an income from MY business and not some dead end job which I have now. I go around everyday feeling freaking stressed about life and the future. Like what if I dont make it? Then wtf should I do?

I know I dont want to study to become a person in the ratrace, and working for somebody else.

So I should be happy and just deal with it, but at the moment I just feel stressed about the future.

So how do you guys deal with this? Would be awesome to get some advice from people who have been going thru this and know a few things!

Thanks :).
 
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"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
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— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
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