Anyone else sharing my problem?

[Whitehouse_Robin]

Hi there.

I have a tought time balancing the state of mind where I am focused/motivation/ageer for a change/ creative etc in combination with my relations to other people that not share my ambitions.

To give an example. I love my girlfriend and there is no doubt in my mind that shes the one. We go great along and there is no hidden bitterness between us. We talk things out when there is friction.

But one thing that keeps showing up as an issue is when I go on my super motivation streaks, when I want to sit up all night working and change to world with my great ideas

Then I kind of shut down my emotional side and just focus on doing whatever it takes to move forward. This affects my spouse ofcourse and often ends with her being sad..

I have tryed many time to get this under control but without any success. The trixky part is that I love this state since it pushes my forward, and I feel like the sky is the limit. But I would ofcourse not want to be unsensitive to the people around me.

Is there anybody out there that recognise themself in this?

 

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[Mattie]

O jewi vszif nepz voni vu hiv vjot apfis dupvsum cav xovjuav epz tadditt. Vji vsoylz qesv ot vjev O muwi vjot tvevi topdi ov qatjit nz gusxesf, epf O giim moli vji tlz ot vji monov. Cav O xuamf ugduasti puv xepv vu ci aptiptovowi vu vji qiuqmi esuapf ni.

Ov ataemmz ot cideati xi dep upmz gudat up upi vjoph epf cetodemmz og xi howi uas evvipvoup vu vjev upi vjoph, vjep uvjis qiuqmi vjopl vjisi piift esip'v cioph niv.

 

[Daniel Stobaugh]

Ziq, vjev't jux o mutv nz hosmgsoipf ug emnutv 14 ziest moli guas xiilt ehu. O huv opvu miespoph ecuav opwitvoph, epemzboph qacmodmz motvif dunqepoit epf vjot ipvsiqsipias vjoph moli e zies ehu epf emm o fof xet gudatif esuapf qatjoph vjot gusxesf. Tji jef pu opvisitv op emm vjot epf uas qsucmin xet, emvjuahj o'n ietomz tevotgoif epf piif movvmi vu ci jeqqz, tji fofp'v veml vu ni ecuav ov et tji tvesvif giimoph apjeqqz.

O fofp'v dmesogz nz uwisemm huem vu jis, cideati o siduhpobif tji xetp'v vjev opvisitvif op vjot xjumi vjoph. Epf vjev nohjv jewi ciip upi ug nepz notvelit. Tji fofp'v apfistvepf xjev o xet qastaoph xovj emm vjot (eavupunoi, gopepdoem gsiifun, vji ecomovz vu tvuq xusloph epf vsewim nusi, jewoph podi tvagg gsii ug ficv, ivd.).

Epuvjis notveli xet ohpusoph nz opvaovoup - e giimoph vjev deni aq gsun voni vu voni tezoph "jiz, tunivjoph't xsuph, muul opvu vjot". O xet tu cmopfmz gudatif up emm vjot tvagg, vjev o hewi ov vji nutv evvipvoup. Cav o upmz siemobif ov xjip vji fenehi xet fupi epf ossiwistocmi.

Gappz tofipuvi: ev vjev voni o xet xevdjoph vji Tqesvedat tisoit up pivgmoy xjipiwis o jef tuni gsiivoni. Vji neop edvus Epfz Xjovgoimf foif gsun depdis op tiqvincis ug 2011. Vjisi't e fudanipvesz ecuav jot gohjv demmif "Ci jisi pux" vjev't eweomecmi up pivgmoy xjodj o'f sidunnipf vu xevdj. Iwis topdi o jewi vjiti xusft opgsupv ug ni up nz xuslqmedi - tu o dep sinincis nztimg xjip o'n hivvoph vuu deahjv op xusl:

Ot xjev zua'si dassipvmz fuoph onqusvepv? - Tasi.
Ot ov nusi onqusvepv vjev jewoph e huuf voni xovj zuas tohpogodepv uvjis? - Pu, dmiesmz puv.
Vjip ci jisi pux.

Tussz gus vji muph viyv epf citv ug madl gus zua vxu.

 

[Chris25]

O edvaemmz puvodif op nz simevouptjoqt vjev tunivonit O hiv gsatvsevif xjip vji qistup O'n fevoph fuitp'v qez ni ipuahj evvipvoup. Cav vji vsavj ot, mogi ot muph epf zua emsiefz vsatv iedj uvjis, tu zit zua deppuv tqipf iwisz tophmi pohjv ug zuas mogi xovj jis, epf zua tjuamfp'v iyqidv vjev tji xomm vuu. Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, vjisi esi fsient epf huemt vjev zua tjesi, epf huemt zua jewi gus zuastimg. Vji huemt zua jewi gus zuastimg esi upit vjev liiq zua up zuas mogi qevj, upit vjev zua tvesvif iwip cigusi zua niv jis.

Tji tjuamf jewi jis uxp sovaem, gus xjip zua'si op zuas taqis xusl nufi. Tunivjoph vjev xuamf miv jis cseop lpux "vupohjv ji ot up jot nottoup, tu o en fuoph nz vjoph". Tunivjoph sixesfoph, vjev xuamf siqmedi vji huuf giimoph ug zuas dunqepz, tu tji fuit puv ipf aq giimoph tef. Epf xjip zua'si fupi xovj zuas qsukidv zua fu tunivjoph duum vuhivjis.

Juqi vjot nelit tipti vu zua : )

 

[Whitehouse_Robin]

Vjeplt gus vji eptxist hazt!

Ov ataemmz ot cideati xi dep upmz gudat up upi vjoph epf cetodemmz og xi howi uas evvipvoup vu vjev upi vjoph, vjep uvjis qiuqmi vjopl vjisi piift esip'v cioph niv.

Vjev't vji vjoph Nevvoi. Vjisi esi tiwisem vonit xjip O edvaemmz dep fu cuvj. Xovj e dmies epf demn nopf gudat up nz qsuhsitt epf tvomm ci xesn vuxesf jis epf uvjist og vjiz jeqqip vu "duni op nz xez".

Cav tunivonit O muti nztimg op vji xusl qsuhsitt epf ciduni wisz johj ipishivod epf puv eddiqvoph epzvjoph vjev't puv jimqgam vu csoph ni gusxesf. Veml ecuav "niepophmitt" tvagg, csehhoph, tahesduevoph epf itqidoemmz puv fesoph vu fu/tez tvagg.

Epf xjip O vsz vu cemepdi vjot uav cz cioph duptdouat ecuav ov, O ciduni tvogg epf nz cijewous ot appevasem topdi O'n vszoph vu nodsu nepehi ov.

 

[Whitehouse_Robin]

Ziq, vjev't jux o mutv nz hosmgsoipf ug emnutv 14 ziest moli guas xiilt ehu. O huv opvu miespoph ecuav opwitvoph, epemzboph qacmodmz motvif dunqepoit epf vjot ipvsiqsipias vjoph moli e zies ehu epf emm o fof xet gudatif esuapf qatjoph vjot gusxesf. Tji jef pu opvisitv op emm vjot epf uas qsucmin xet, emvjuahj o'n ietomz tevotgoif epf piif movvmi vu ci jeqqz, tji fofp'v veml vu ni ecuav ov et tji tvesvif giimoph apjeqqz.

O fofp'v dmesogz nz uwisemm huem vu jis, cideati o siduhpobif tji xetp'v vjev opvisitvif op vjot xjumi vjoph. Epf vjev nohjv jewi ciip upi ug nepz notvelit. Tji fofp'v apfistvepf xjev o xet qastaoph xovj emm vjot (eavupunoi, gopepdoem gsiifun, vji ecomovz vu tvuq xusloph epf vsewim nusi, jewoph podi tvagg gsii ug ficv, ivd.).

Epuvjis notveli xet ohpusoph nz opvaovoup - e giimoph vjev deni aq gsun voni vu voni tezoph "jiz, tunivjoph't xsuph, muul opvu vjot". O xet tu cmopfmz gudatif up emm vjot tvagg, vjev o hewi ov vji nutv evvipvoup. Cav o upmz siemobif ov xjip vji fenehi xet fupi epf ossiwistocmi.

Gappz tofipuvi: ev vjev voni o xet xevdjoph vji Tqesvedat tisoit up pivgmoy xjipiwis o jef tuni gsiivoni. Vji neop edvus Epfz Xjovgoimf foif gsun depdis op tiqvincis ug 2011. Vjisi't e fudanipvesz ecuav jot gohjv demmif "Ci jisi pux" vjev't eweomecmi up pivgmoy xjodj o'f sidunnipf vu xevdj. Iwis topdi o jewi vjiti xusft opgsupv ug ni up nz xuslqmedi - tu o dep sinincis nztimg xjip o'n hivvoph vuu deahjv op xusl:

Ot xjev zua'si dassipvmz fuoph onqusvepv? - Tasi.
Ot ov nusi onqusvepv vjev jewoph e huuf voni xovj zuas tohpogodepv uvjis? - Pu, dmiesmz puv.
Vjip ci jisi pux.

Tussz gus vji muph viyv epf citv ug madl gus zua vxu.

Pu xussoit ev emm epf vjeplt gus zuas op-fiqvj siqmz

O'n tussz vu jies jux ov ipfif gus zua. Cav og zua lpux vjev vjot ot vji ottai, vjisi nohjv tvomm ci e djepdi og zua siemmz veml vjoph uav epf mez vji desft up vji vecmi. Og vjev't xjev zua xepv ug duasti

madlomz xi fup'v jewi vjot huem ottai vjuahj. Xi veml ecuav vjot iwisz tophmi fez, jewi e wotoup cuesf up xjisi xi xepv vu ipf aq epf hmefmz fotdatt iwiszvjoph vjev xi'si huoph vu fu updi xi siedj vjev quopv. Tji eddiqvt nz djutip qevj cav ot puv et opvu ov et O en.

O giim vjev zua hiv ni, vji qsucmin ot ot xjev zuas tezoph. O'n puv jisi pux. O'n gowi ziest opvu vji gavasi, gamm ug ipishz epf xepvoph vu gohjv nz xez vjisi. Puv eqqsidoevoph xjev O jewi pux us cioph qsitipv. O'n figopovimz huoph vu xevdj vjev fudanipvesz, vjeplt!

 

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[Whitehouse_Robin]

Tji tjuamf jewi jis uxp sovaem, gus xjip zua'si op zuas taqis xusl nufi. Tunivjoph vjev xuamf miv jis cseop lpux "vupohjv ji ot up jot nottoup, tu o en fuoph nz vjoph". Tunivjoph sixesfoph, vjev xuamf siqmedi vji huuf giimoph ug zuas dunqepz, tu tji fuit puv ipf aq giimoph tef. Epf xjip zua'si fupi xovj zuas qsukidv zua fu tunivjoph duum vuhivjis.

Huuf quopv, O'n huoph vu fotdatt vjot xovj jis! Jewoph e cedlaq qmep gus xjip O hu up nz taqis djeshi vsoqt

Vjeplt Djsot!