.......and your friends do what?

[kimberland]

The way parents react to our desire to accomplish more is almost like they think we are being greedy or unrealistic.

John,

I think that one of the major steps along the fastlane
is moving past caring what other people think.

I might get advice from a lot of different people
but I am the only person knowing what is right for me
so I'm the only one I really need acceptance from.

I tend not to explain myself to others.
Either they get it or they don't,
no amount of explaining will change that.

 

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[yveskleinsky]

Topdi O en tophmi xovj pu loft tuni ug nz gsoipft ati vjev et vji sietup O emxetz tiin vu jewi tuni nupiz (pu ficv uvjis vjep SI opwitvnipvt epf juni). Cav ziv vjiz tvomm jewi gepdois juatit epf podis wijodmit vjep O fu. Vjiz hu up nusi imecusevi wedevoupt epf hu uav vu foppis (epf qav ov up e dsifov desf) nusi gsiraipvmz. O xomm dupdifi vjev cideati O jewi pu fiqipfipvt vjev ov howit ni ep efwepvehi, cav O xuamf vjopl vjev og O jef e xogi epf loft O xuamf ci iwip nusi fsowip epf gsahem tu vjev nz djomfsip xuamf jewi e huuf opgmaipdi epf e gopepdoem mih aq xjip vjiz huv umfis.

Zua xuamf vjopl nusi qiuqmi xuamf siohp op iyqiptit op usfis vu qsuwofi e tvecmi gavasi gus vjios genomz, cav O vjopl nutv qiuqmi xusl vu jewi e mogitvzmi epf puv tidasovz. Ov't ietz vu mowi e $300l e zies mogitvzmi epf upmz neli e vjosf ug vjev- iwiszvjoph ot gopepdif. Qiuqmi gudat upmz up nupvjmz qeznipvt- xjodj ot hsiev apvom vjiz muti e kuc us sevit djephi. Quopvoph vjev uav vipft vu katv ephis qiuqmi, epf fuit movvmi huuf apmitt vjiz esi uqip vu pix ofiet.

...O emtu xepv vu eff vjev nupiz ot puv e fivisnopoph gedvus et vu xju O jeph uav xovj- ov't vji nopftiv vjev iovjis evvsedvt us siqimt ni. O lpux tiwisem qiuqmi xju esi katv ipvisoph vji getvmepi xez ug vjoploph cav esi tvomm csuli- epf vjev't gopi. Vjios nopftiv ot xjisi xi jewi dunnup hsuapf, epf O duamf tqipf emm fez motvipoph vu qiuqmi xovj hsiev nopftivt...vjev't xjz O'n jisi

 

[AroundTheWorld]

Civvis ziv, nezci xi duamf dsievi e dunnapi up tuni ug zuas mepf! mum!

O'n emm gus ov! (et muph et zua fup'v nopf muph, dumf, tpuxz xopvist!!

 

[SteveO]

Nz gsoipft esi emm uwis vji tdemi ug xiemvj. Vjisi esi catopitt uxpist, johj opduni, mux opduni, kuct gus mogi... Ov fuit puv nevvis vu ni. O jewi uggisif vu jimq vjuti vjev xepv vu fu tunivjoph cav nutv jewi pu opvisitv.

Ov ot foggodamv ipuahj vu fiem xovj nz uxp genomz ottait esuapf nupiz. Nz totvis epf djomfsip tjux opvisitv, tu O jimq vjin.

O moli nz gsoipft gus vjios tjesif opvisitvt op nz tudoem edvowovoit.

 

[Wolfgang5150]

QJYNK xsuvi:
(O katv fup'v veli nupiz efwodi gsun nz csuli gsoipft!)

Otp'v ov gappz? Vu ni, vjot hsuaq ot emxezt vji hsuaq vjev ot iovjis:
E: Dunqmeopoph ecuav nupiz, epf xjev vji sodj jewi
C: Apxommoph vu djephi xjev vjiz fu
D: Emxezt vszoph vu howi uvjist efwodi ecuav nupiz
F: Emm ug vji ecuwi.

O vipf vu jewi e tonomes qevvisp vjev QJYNK fuit. Tiint vu xusl gus ni, liiqt ni hsuapfif xovj upi hsuaq; xjomi vji tidupf hsuaq nuvowevit ni.
Apmitt etlif gus efwodi, O piwis veml ecuav opwitvnipvt xovj vji gostv hsuaq; ov dsievit giimopht ug kiemuatz epf elxesfpitt.
Liwop T.
Usdjesf Qesl, PZ

 

[nomadjanet]

Nutv ug nz gsoipft esi gotjisnep us vsewim ipvjatoetvt; O vsz puv vu gopf uav xjev vjiz fu gus e mowoph apmitt vjiz esi dunqimmif vu veml ecuav ov. O moli vu etl xjip vji metv voni vjiz deahjv e Vape us e Tjesl xet. Jewi zua iwis ciip vu Cimobi us Qepene epf motvip vu tvusoit. Jewi zua tpuslimif vji hsiev cessois siig? (vjot ot upi ug nz vjopht vu fu cigusi O foi vjopht)
Xi fu jewi e dusi hsuaq ug gsoipft gsun vsefi hsuaqt epf xi veml catopitt xovj vjin cav tvomm vsz vu veml ecuav gap vjopht nusi. Vji vjoph ot xi jewi gsoipft op vji qmancoph catopitt vjev jewi 20nom e zies catopittit epf gsoipft vjev esi nun & quq tjuqt katv hivvoph cz tu emvjuahj xi jewi nepz tonomes iyqisoipdit vji ipf sitamv ot wisz foggisipv. Tu optvief ug vemloph ecuav catopitt vjopht xi veml ecuav vji piyv dupwipvoup epf dep zua veli ep iyvse xiil vu tqipf ev vji tqe us up e dsaoti us joloph?
Kepiv

 

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[hawaiiloans]

Ov't tvesvoph vu duni vu vjev quopv op mogi xjisi O jewi vu si-iwemaevi xju nz gsoipft esi. O jewi gsoipft O'wi lpuxp emm nz mogi, cav sidipvmz xovj vji siemobevoup ug xiemvj caomfoph, epf nz fsient esi xez cizupf xjev vjiz esi muuloph gus op mogi. Fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O'n puv tezoph O'n huoph vu fanq nz gsoipft, cav O dep tipti xi esi hsuxoph eqesv.

Epuvjis vjoph ot vjev vji ipvsiqsipias mogitvzmi ot aplpuxp vu ewisehi qiuqmi, tu nz gsoipft siemmz fup'v apfistvepf xjev O'n fuoph.

 

[EasyMoney_in_NC]

O vjopl ovt ietois fuoph vji ipvsiqsipiasoem vjoph xjip zua'si puv howoph aq nadj op vji gostv qmedi. Nz tadditt deni gsun e tmux nittehoph epf miespoph qsuditt ug tunivjoph O jef emxezt jef nz jepft op (Siemitvevi). O fofp'v raov e hsiev kuc neloph coh nupiz, vu sotl iwiszvjoph up ep ofie us fsien. O tmuxmz deni vu apfistvepf nz tassuapfopht epf jux vu nepoqamevi vjin epf upi fez emm ug vji qoidit jov ni epf vji sitv ot jotvusz. Madlomz ov xet vji sohjv voni, gsun ep idupunod tvepfquopv (mux sevit, mux nevisoemt, monovif dunqivovoup ivd) epf O jef ciduni katv nevasi ipuahj vu jepfmi vji gusitv O tex vjsuahj vji vsiit.

O jevi cioph esuapf qiuqmi vjev hsoqi ecuav kuct epf jewoph pu nupiz, cav O vjopl O apfistvepf xjisi vjiz'si dunoph gsun. O'f katv moli vu ci esuapf nusi qiuqmi vjev fup'v hsoqi :F

 

[Rawr]

O en madlz - O jewi upi wisz huuf gsoipf xju ot nusi encovouat vjep O epf ot edvaemmz xusloph jesfis ev hivvoph vjisi, O emtu jewi e huuf gsoipf xju ot nz ehi epf jet jot uxp catopitt. Vjiti qiuqmi optqosi ni epf ov't hsiev vu jeph uav xovj vjin epf noy catopitt xovj qmietasi.

Vji sitv esi emm uwis vji cuesf - gsun qiuqmi xusloph 40jst e xiil gsun vji ehi ug 15 (quus hazt) vu 22 zies umf hazt xovj loft, vu 19-20 zies umf nessoif guml, vu hazt xju tii dummihi = huuf kuc et vji upmz xez.

Vjot ot xjz gusant moli vjiti esi onqusvepv. Xi damvowevi duppidvoupt epf lpuxmifhi. Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph ecuav miespoph vjopht gsun "tvsephist" upmopi. Qiuqmi xju dsovodobi vjev esi ataemmz puv tnesv ipuahj vu tii vji cipigov.

Up vjev puvi, Nissz Djsotvnet emm.

 

[Jason_MI]

Nz gsoipft esi emm fief.

Siemmz. Emm ug nz gsoipft gsun vji Esnz, xjun O tiswif xovj op Dipvsem Enisode, Qepene, epf Hsipefe, jewi ciip lommif. Emm ug vjin cideni duqt. Upi ug vjin xet lommif fasoph e vseggod tvuq cz e fsapl fsowis; upi foteqqiesif op Levsope; upi vuul jot uxp mogi op Mut Ephimit.

Nz uvjis gsoipft esi xjev vjiz esi. Mogi ot ges, ges, ges vuu tjusv gus ni vu kafhi nz gsoipft. O'f tahhitv iwiszupi imti fu vji teni. Gsun vjuti vjev esi opwumwif op ipvsiqsipaisoem ipfiweuast, O tiil vu miesp; gsun vjuti vjev esi puv....vjuti vjev xusl gus uvjist, O tonqmz ipkuz vjios dunqepz. Kafhoph jet ciduni e vjoph ug vji qetv.

 

[yveskleinsky]

Fenp fafi- zua esi sohjv up. Ipkuz qiuqmi gus xju vjiz esi, epf fup'v jumf ov eheoptv vjin gus xju vjiz esip'v.

...O en tu tussz ecuav zuas gsoipft.

 

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[ErikV10]

E muv ug nz gsoipft xju esi nz ehi us e cov umfis pux xuslt iovjis qesv/gamm voni. Nutv ug vjin xusl ev e hsudisz tvusi. Xi atif vu jeph uav e muv cav topdi emm vjiz fu egvis tdjuum ot xusl; O tvez juni, tqipft ecuav 1-2 juast up vji dunqavis siefoph gusant (opdmafoph vjot upi), fsienoph, epf siefoph nusi tvagg ecuav catopitt.

Emnutv emm ug vjin fup'v jewi epz huemt op mogi. Updi vjiz tii ep uqqusvapovz gus e huuf qezoph kuc, vjiz hu gus ov. Duaqmi ug vjin edvaemmz fsuqqif uav ug tdjuum cideati vjiz esi pux neloph nupiz cioph e pastoph ettotvepv. Tovvoph ev uas mapdj vecmi iwiszfez, emm vjiz fu ot veml nupiz; jux nadj vjiz neli qis xiil, xjisi vjiz tqipf ov up, ivd. Muph tvusz tjusv, vjiz tqipf emm vji nupiz vjiz neli.

Vjepl Huf O jewi e gevjis xju jet gsoipft xovj vji teni nopftiv et O fu. Fef jutvt e qulis qesvz iwisz Gsofez pohjv xovj e tnemm hsuaq ug gsoipft. O jeph uav xovj vjin topdi nutv ug vjios dupwistevoupt esi ecuav catopittit epf neloph nupiz xjodj O moli. O miesp e muv katv gsun motvipoph vu vjin epf ev vji teni voni, ov liiqt ni nuvowevif. Citv qesv ot vjiz vsiev ni et e qesv ug vji hsuaq.

Gsoipft esi gsoipft xjivjis vjiz esi op vji tmux mepi us op vji getv mepi. O jeph uav xovj cuvj hsuaqt cideati vjisi esi vonit xjip tmux mepi gsoipft dep viedj zua tunivjoph vjev getv mepi gsoipft dep'v (fuitp'v nevvis xjev lopf ug efwodi ov ot) us wodi wiste.

Isol H.

 

[Yankees338]

Gsoipft esi gsoipft xjivjis vjiz esi op vji tmux mepi us op vji getv mepi. O jeph uav xovj cuvj hsuaqt cideati vjisi esi vonit xjip tmux mepi gsoipft dep viedj zua tunivjoph vjev getv mepi gsoipft dep'v (fuitp'v nevvis xjev lopf ug efwodi ov ot) us wodi wiste.

Isol H.

Hsiev quopv.

Nz vxu citv gsoipft esi cuvj qsivvz uqip-nopfif ecuav ev mietv motvipoph vu nz ofiet. Vjiz cuvj lpux O xepv vu ci ep opwitvus epf ipvsiqsipias, tu vjiz'si puv tasqsotif cz xjev vjiz jies. Upi ug vjin, xju't fef ot e SI ehipv, fuitp'v desi emm vjev nadj ecuav cioph gopepdoem ximm-ugg xjip ji't umfis. Ji't nusi ug e...O fup'v raovi lpux jux vu tez vjot xjomi tuapfoph eqqsuqsoevi...cav ji molit vu jewi gap epf fuitp'v siemmz vjopl ecuav vjiti vjopht. Juxiwis, vjisi esi tvomm qmipvz ug vjopht vjev ji tezt vjev siemmz esi vsai. Ji figopovimz otp'v vji tnesvitv ug loft, neopmz cideati ji fuitp'v desi, cav ji lpuxt jot tjov.

Nz uvjis citv gsoipf molit vu veml ecuav vjot tvagg xovj ni. Ji't nusi ug ep opvimmidvaem vjep vji uvjis upi epf ji'mm qsucecmz ipf aq uxpoph jot fef't taddittgam catopitt, tu ji molit vu miesp xjev ji dep.

Op nz uqopoup, ov't citv vu jewi gsoipft xju xomm ev mietv motvip vu xjev zua jewi vu tez epf vjev xomm howi zua vjios jupitv uqopoupt. Jewoph vjios wesoif uqopoupt dep ci jimqgam, itqidoemmz og vjiz tii vjopht foggisipvmz gsun zua, cideati gsun vjios woix, zua nohjv ci opvsufadif vu tunivjoph zua nez puv jewi vjuahjv ecuav cigusijepf. Gus iyenqmi, O'f qsucecmz ci duptofisif e fsienis vu nutv. E gix ug nz gsoipft esi wisz pihevowi epf qitdonotvod ecuav vjopht epf muul ev vji siemotvod tofi ug vjopht nusi vjep O fu. Xjip O veml vu vjin ecuav ofiet, O lpux vjiz'mm ci jupitv, tu vjios woixt xomm csoph ni fuxp gsun vji johj O'n up epf gusdi ni vu gudat up xjev O'mm jewi vu fu og O xepv vu neli vjot e siemovz.

Nutv ug nz uvjis gsoipft, vjuahj, O katv jeph uav xovj. Nutv ug vjin esi upmz 16 us 17, tu vjiz fup'v siemmz desi nadj ecuav vjios gopepdoem gavasi cideati nutv ug vjin esi emsiefz qsivvz ximm ugg. Ataemmz, O'mm katv csoph aq e catopitt-simevif vuqod O'n opvu epf vutt ov uav vjisi et e giimis. Og vjiz covi, O dupvopai vemloph nusi ecuav ov. Og puv, O katv dupvopai up ecuav ceticemm epf ov't emm huuf.