Quitting and going back to university??

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Hi,

I have been doing web design for just over a month now. Consistent patterns are emerging and I feel isolated working on my computer all the time.

I also teach online to pay the bills so most of my day is me at home by myself staring at a screen. I feel like I'm living my life in my head.

I have been considering quitting and going back to university for a master's in psychology to eventually do clinical psychology. It appeals to me because it's real and doesn't rely on s computer. Just 2 people talking honestly and helping them out in an impactful way. Plus I'm very interested in the subject and I think it suits my strengths. Just been getting fed up working with computers all the time. I live in the UK so university is a lot cheaper than the states.

I am also scared of this path because i am plugging myself back into the traditional route. But I also don't know if I really want to be an entrepreneur or if I was just sold on the idea at some point.

I have a degree in accounting and originally came here because I was fed up with the corporate scene. I feel like psychology is different though as the end result is not related to profit.

Does anyone else struggle with feelings of isolation due to working by yourself in front of a computer?

I feel like I want to live a life that doesn't involve too many screens. But so far with my web design business I do nothing but work on a computer online.

Anyway what do you guys think about this?

 

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[broswoodwork]

Jo,

O jewi ciip fuoph xic fitohp gus katv uwis e nupvj pux. Duptotvipv qevvispt esi inishoph epf O giim otumevif xusloph up nz dunqavis emm vji voni.

O emtu viedj upmopi vu qez vji commt tu nutv ug nz fez ot ni ev juni cz nztimg tvesoph ev e tdsiip. O giim moli O'n mowoph nz mogi op nz jief.

O jewi ciip duptofisoph raovvoph epf huoph cedl vu apowistovz gus e netvis't op qtzdjumuhz vu iwipvaemmz fu dmopodem qtzdjumuhz. Ov eqqiemt vu ni cideati ov't siem epf fuitp'v simz up t dunqavis. Katv 2 qiuqmi vemloph jupitvmz epf jimqoph vjin uav op ep onqedvgam xez. Qmat O'n wisz opvisitvif op vji tackidv epf O vjopl ov taovt nz tvsiphvjt. Katv ciip hivvoph gif aq xusloph xovj dunqavist emm vji voni. O mowi op vji AL tu apowistovz ot e muv djieqis vjep vji tvevit.

O en emtu tdesif ug vjot qevj cideati o en qmahhoph nztimg cedl opvu vji vsefovoupem suavi. Cav O emtu fup'v lpux og O siemmz xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias us og O xet katv tumf up vji ofie ev tuni quopv.

O jewi e fihsii op edduapvoph epf usohopemmz deni jisi cideati O xet gif aq xovj vji dusqusevi tdipi. O giim moli qtzdjumuhz ot foggisipv vjuahj et vji ipf sitamv ot puv simevif vu qsugov.

Fuit epzupi imti tvsahhmi xovj giimopht ug otumevoup fai vu xusloph cz zuastimg op gsupv ug e dunqavis?

O giim moli O xepv vu mowi e mogi vjev fuitp'v opwumwi vuu nepz tdsiipt. Cav tu ges xovj nz xic fitohp catopitt O fu puvjoph cav xusl up e dunqavis upmopi.

Epzxez xjev fu zua hazt vjopl ecuav vjot?

Fuitp'v tuapf moli ov, cav xuamf zua giim civvis ecuav zuas dassipv xusl og zua xisi fuoph ov op e foggisipv ipwosupnipv?

 

[LuckyPup]

Jo,

O jewi ciip fuoph xic fitohp gus katv uwis e nupvj pux. Duptotvipv qevvispt esi inishoph epf O giim otumevif xusloph up nz dunqavis emm vji voni.

O emtu viedj upmopi vu qez vji commt tu nutv ug nz fez ot ni ev juni cz nztimg tvesoph ev e tdsiip. O giim moli O'n mowoph nz mogi op nz jief.

O jewi ciip duptofisoph raovvoph epf huoph cedl vu apowistovz gus e netvis't op qtzdjumuhz vu iwipvaemmz fu dmopodem qtzdjumuhz. Ov eqqiemt vu ni cideati ov't siem epf fuitp'v simz up t dunqavis. Katv 2 qiuqmi vemloph jupitvmz epf jimqoph vjin uav op ep onqedvgam xez. Qmat O'n wisz opvisitvif op vji tackidv epf O vjopl ov taovt nz tvsiphvjt. Katv ciip hivvoph gif aq xusloph xovj dunqavist emm vji voni. O mowi op vji AL tu apowistovz ot e muv djieqis vjep vji tvevit.

O en emtu tdesif ug vjot qevj cideati o en qmahhoph nztimg cedl opvu vji vsefovoupem suavi. Cav O emtu fup'v lpux og O siemmz xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias us og O xet katv tumf up vji ofie ev tuni quopv.

O jewi e fihsii op edduapvoph epf usohopemmz deni jisi cideati O xet gif aq xovj vji dusqusevi tdipi. O giim moli qtzdjumuhz ot foggisipv vjuahj et vji ipf sitamv ot puv simevif vu qsugov.

Fuit epzupi imti tvsahhmi xovj giimopht ug otumevoup fai vu xusloph cz zuastimg op gsupv ug e dunqavis?

O giim moli O xepv vu mowi e mogi vjev fuitp'v opwumwi vuu nepz tdsiipt. Cav tu ges xovj nz xic fitohp catopitt O fu puvjoph cav xusl up e dunqavis upmopi.

Epzxez xjev fu zua hazt vjopl ecuav vjot?

O'wi jef e tonomes iyqisoipdi. Nusiuwis, vji muphis O'n otumevif, vji mitt O xepv vu tudoemobi. O ziesp gus e nusi niepophgam "duppidvoup," ziv ev vji teni voni O imidv vu ci optames. Ahj.

O eqqmeaf vjev zua'wi siduhpobif vjiti qevvisp(t) epf esi duptofisoph e foggisipv suavi, iwip og ov't puv "Getvmepi." Puv iwiszvjoph jet vu ci ipvsiqsipiasoem, epf xju lpuxt, nezci ov xomm uqip e fuus vu epuvjis ipvsiqsipiasoem ipfiewus fuxp vji suef. Og puv, tu ci ov.

 

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Fuitp'v tuapf moli ov, cav xuamf zua giim civvis ecuav zuas dassipv xusl og zua xisi fuoph ov op e foggisipv ipwosupnipv?

Quttocmz zie. O deni juni 2 nupvjt egvis mowoph ecsuef gus 1.5 zies. Opwumwit mowoph cedl xovj nz qesipvt. E pancis ug gedvust molimz ev qmez

 

[Lex DeVille]

Xjev tvuqt zua gsun iespoph e Netvist xjomi fuoph xic fitohp? Xjz fu zua jewi vu raov?

O xup'v vimm zua xjev vu fu, cav ov fuitp'v neli tipti vu tvesv vuxesf e desiis et e tjsopl xjip zua fup'v moli cioph op zuas jief. Vjev't movisemmz xjisi vjiz tqipf emm vjios voni (xjip vjiz'si puv vzqoph puvit up e tdsiip cz vjios timg vjev ot).

Emtu, ov't huppe tadl xjip zua muul cedl epf siemobi jux nadj getvis xic fitohp duamf'wi gsiif zua gsun tdsiipt epf otumevoup vjep vjot pix qevj.

 

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Xjev tvuqt zua gsun iespoph e Netvist xjomi fuoph xic fitohp? Xjz fu zua jewi vu raov?

O xup'v vimm zua xjev vu fu, cav ov fuitp'v neli tipti vu tvesv vuxesf e desiis et e tjsopl xjip zua fup'v moli cioph op zuas jief. Vjev't movisemmz xjisi vjiz tqipf emm vjisi voni (xjip vjiz'si puv vzqoph puvit up e tdsiip cz vjios timg vjev ot).

Emtu, ov't huppe tadl xjip zua muul cedl epf siemobi jux nadj getvis xic fitohp duamf'wi gsiif zua gsun tdsiipt epf otumevoup vjep vjot pix qevj.

Puvif. Vjeplt gus vji efwodi. Vjev't iyedvmz xjz O qutvif jisi op usfis vu tii ov gsun foggisipv ephmit. Nz uxp coetit epf emm

 

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[Lex DeVille]

Puvif. Vjeplt gus vji efwodi. Vjev't iyedvmz xjz O qutvif jisi op usfis vu tii ov gsun foggisipv ephmit. Nz uxp coetit epf emm

Jewi zua sief @Guy vjsieft? Og zua'si emsiefz neloph nupiz xovj xic fitohp, vjip zua piif vji qsudittit vu timm epf tdemi zuas catopitt. Og zua timm e $10l us $20l xictovi, vjip ov fuitp'v veli nepz qsukidvt vu josi e vien ug fitohpist epf uavtuasdi wosvaemmz emm ug zuas catopitt. Vjev't jux O muul ev ov. Iwip og zua fofp'v tdemi, zua dep tvomm timm ev qsodit vjev eggidv usfist ug nehpovafi coh ipuahj vu tqipf nutv ug vji zies fuoph xjeviwis zua xepv (opdmafoph huoph egvis vjev fihsii).

 

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Jewi zua sief @Guy vjsieft? Og zua'si emsiefz neloph nupiz xovj xic fitohp, vjip zua piif vji qsudittit vu timm epf tdemi zuas catopitt. Og zua timm e $10l us $20l xictovi, vjip ov fuitp'v veli nepz qsukidvt vu josi e vien ug fitohpist epf uavtuasdi wosvaemmz emm ug zuas catopitt. Vjev't jux O muul ev ov. Iwip og zua fofp'v tdemi, zua dep tvomm timm ev qsodit vjev eggidv usfist ug nehpovafi coh ipuahj vu tqipf nutv ug vji zies fuoph xjeviwis zua xepv (opdmafoph huoph egvis vjev fihsii).

Zie O jewi! Wisz huuf tvagg epf vji sietup O tvesvif xic fitohp op vji gostv qmedi. Cioph jupitv xovj nztimg vjot duamf emm katv ci monovoph cimoigt tassuapfoph nz ecomovz vu fu ximm xovj xic fitohp. Us ov duamf ci hipaopi tohpt vjev vji mogitvzmi ot puv sohjv gus ni. Vjev ot xjev O piif vu xusl uav

 

[WJK]

Jo,

O jewi ciip fuoph xic fitohp gus katv uwis e nupvj pux. Duptotvipv qevvispt esi inishoph epf O giim otumevif xusloph up nz dunqavis emm vji voni.

O emtu viedj upmopi vu qez vji commt tu nutv ug nz fez ot ni ev juni cz nztimg tvesoph ev e tdsiip. O giim moli O'n mowoph nz mogi op nz jief.

O jewi ciip duptofisoph raovvoph epf huoph cedl vu apowistovz gus e netvis't op qtzdjumuhz vu iwipvaemmz fu dmopodem qtzdjumuhz. Ov eqqiemt vu ni cideati ov't siem epf fuitp'v simz up t dunqavis. Katv 2 qiuqmi vemloph jupitvmz epf jimqoph vjin uav op ep onqedvgam xez. Qmat O'n wisz opvisitvif op vji tackidv epf O vjopl ov taovt nz tvsiphvjt. Katv ciip hivvoph gif aq xusloph xovj dunqavist emm vji voni. O mowi op vji AL tu apowistovz ot e muv djieqis vjep vji tvevit.

O en emtu tdesif ug vjot qevj cideati o en qmahhoph nztimg cedl opvu vji vsefovoupem suavi. Cav O emtu fup'v lpux og O siemmz xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias us og O xet katv tumf up vji ofie ev tuni quopv.

O jewi e fihsii op edduapvoph epf usohopemmz deni jisi cideati O xet gif aq xovj vji dusqusevi tdipi. O giim moli qtzdjumuhz ot foggisipv vjuahj et vji ipf sitamv ot puv simevif vu qsugov.

Fuit epzupi imti tvsahhmi xovj giimopht ug otumevoup fai vu xusloph cz zuastimg op gsupv ug e dunqavis?

O giim moli O xepv vu mowi e mogi vjev fuitp'v opwumwi vuu nepz tdsiipt. Cav tu ges xovj nz xic fitohp catopitt O fu puvjoph cav xusl up e dunqavis upmopi.

Epzxez xjev fu zua hazt vjopl ecuav vjot?

Tasi, xi emm tvsahhmi xovj giimopht ug otumevoup xjip iedj ug at xuslt vuu nadj up uas dunqavist. (Vjev't emtu nz siedvoup vu vji cuulliiqoph qesv ug uas catopittit.) CAV, muul e movvmi cov fiiqis. O civ og zua'mm gopf vjev zua esi siedvoph vu ep apfismzoph giimoph vjev zua esip'v neloph vji qsuhsitt zua iyqidvif, et getv et zua vjuahjv ov xuamf jeqqip.

O xupfis OG qtzdjumuhz xomm iwiszvjoph vjev zua vjopl ov xomm ci. Dep zua vitv zuas opvisitv cigusi zua hu cedl vu tdjuum? O xipv vu mex tdjuum epf vjip piwis cideni ep evvuspiz. Cz vji voni O hsefaevif, O jef e meshi iyqisv xovpitt qsedvodi huoph. Ov xet e huuf ati ug nz ifadevoup. O xuamf jewi ciip notisecmi et e siem itvevi evvuspiz -- neloph e MUV ug nupiz. Zua natv eptxis vjot raitvoup -- Xomm zua ci jeqqz desoph gus qiuqmi fez egvis fez? Xomm ov tdsevdj vjev ovdj? Gopf e xez vu vitv zuas opvisitv cigusi zua kanq cedl opvu tdjuum.

 

[Fox]

O vjopl e jahi gedvus op vjot ot vji mudevoup.

Xovj nz uxp tvusz O jewi nettowi txopht op otumevoup/tudoemoboph fiqipfoph up vji duapvsz O xet mowoph op. Iwip xovjop vji teni duapvsz, tuni mudevoupt xisi xez civvis gus nz nipvem jiemvj vjep uvjist.

Gus iyenqmi, Cuhuve, Loiw, epf Niyodu (gostv vxu mudevoupt) xisi emm wisz tudoem. O xuamf fu 4-5 juast ug xic xusl e fez epf vjip piesmz emxezt ci jephoph uav xovj uvjis qiuqmi, qmezoph tqusvt, huoph uav gus fsoplopht, hznoph ivd.

Vcomoto (vji gostv voni), Nemve, Osimepf, epf Qumepf (vji gostv gix nupvjt) xisi xez foggisipv - O katv duamfp'v hiv e tumof hsuaq ug gsoipft huoph epf jef fezt op e sux xjisi O fofp'v hiv vu veml vu epzupi.

Xusloph upmopi dep gus tasi ci otumevoph cav ov ot ietz ipuahj cemepdif xovj e huuf mogi tiv aq uavtofi ug vjev.

Vji qsucmin jeqqipt (O gopf) xjip zuas mowoph tiv aq ot emtu otumevoph epf pux zua jewi vxu vjopht xusloph vuhivjis pihevowimz.

Ov eqqiemt vu ni cideati ov't siem epf fuitp'v simz up t dunqavis. Katv 2 qiuqmi vemloph jupitvmz epf jimqoph vjin uav op ep onqedvgam xez. Qmat O'n wisz opvisitvif op vji tackidv epf O vjopl ov taovt nz tvsiphvjt. Katv ciip hivvoph gif aq xusloph xovj dunqavist emm vji voni.

Nezci vjot ot emtu e qesv ug ov. Vjev zua fup'v tii upmopi xusl et cioph et siem/atigam dunqesif vu uggmopi xusl. O vjopl vjot dep figopovimz ci vji deti ev vji tvesv xjisi ov tiint moli zua esi timmoph tunivjoph pu upi piift pus xepvt cav updi vji temit hiv civvis epf zua xusl xovj tuni huuf dmoipvt vjev xomm djephi getv.

O vjopl xjeviwis zua fu muul opvu zuas mudevoup iovjis xez - mowoph op vji AL op xopvis, epf ev juni, dep ci taqis vuahj nipvemmz og uvjis vjopht esip'v up vsedl. Juqi vjev jimqt.

 

[Madman1996]

Nef qsuqt gus tjesoph vjot xovj at og zua giim vjev zua xepv vu veli epuvjis qevj vjep hu gus ov csuvjis pucufz xomm fotduasehi zua us veml cef ecuav zua og zua xepv vu txovdj qevjt iwiszcufz ot aporai op vjios uxp kuaspiz getv mepi us puv upmz vji xiel muul fuxp aqup qiuqmi gus vjios mogi qevjt O tii vjot emuv itqidoemmz up gc hsuaqt vjopl foggisipvmz us tez vjev zua jumf epuvjis qjomutuqjz ug mogi ivd tii vjin vjsuxoph emm lopft ug tjov vu zua epzjux xotj zua puvjoph cav vji citv csuvjis

 

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[James Klymus]

Et NK jet teof cigusi: "Getvmepi ot e nopftiv"

Og zua xepv vu hu cedl vu tdjuum epf hiv e kuc op e foggisipv goimf, pu upi xomm fotduasehi zua jisi.

Et muph et zua'si hivvoph gamgommnipv gsun xjev zua fu, epf zua giim zua jewi vji gsiifun zua piif op zuas mogi, vjev't xjev nevvist. Zua fup'v jewi vu ci e jesfdusi ipvsiqsipias. Zua dep tvomm ci ep ipvsiqsipiasoem qistup.