You're trying not to understand.Intimacy is important sure but so Is status. I have lost status and no matter how intimate the relationship was they lose interest. When you have status, intimacy and connection is easier to get. I’d rather have status and importance over intimacy and connection as I’ll alwys have the power to CHOOSE if I want to proceed with the connection and intimacy. Having options is having power.
I’ve seen guys walking with girlfriends and when they see me walking towards them (I’m pretty jacked and good looking) I see them cling tightly to their girlfriends and their girlfriends see this neediness and let go of them and condescendingly put them down (patting them on the head or berating him). Happened to me at the gym today. Pretty pathetic. I’m sure they have a good connection but status is everything IMO in keeping a girl interested
You just assumed their actions "patting them on the head or berating him" is a bad thing and they will leave their boyfriends because of that. That is way too much assumption IMO.
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