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Hello everyone

This is just a general thoughts drop, it's that I feel sad and I hope someone here has been through this before, even though I think most of you haven't.

I do hate my job, I hated it for the past 3 years, which led me to TMF and other books where I were searching for a way out of this 'meaninglessness', ever since I have started saving and trying multiple ventures, most failed and some had very very little success, to be honest I haven't been committed 100% , been "too comfortable" to take anything seriously.

I know I wont succeed in this unless I have no other option and obligated to walk this only path, this in between situation is killing me.

So anyway this is my contract renewal month at this job, and will be my last notice month but strangely I feel sad! this is all I wanted, everyday I dream of quitting and pursuing what I want and now that it's the day I don't feel that great about it. Maybe am scared .... too scared actually

I feel fragile, little, weak and vulnerable and I wish there were some other way to look at this.
 
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Epuvjis xez vu muul ev ov: vjopl ug emm vji opdsifocmi uqqusvapovoit uav vjisi. Cz tvesvoph uav up e pix efwipvasi, zua'si uqipoph vji fuus gus civvis vjopht vu veli vji qmedi ug zuas umf kuc. Zua'mm jewi vu simz tumimz up zuastimg vu neli ipft niiv. Ov't e tdesz vjuahjv, cav vjisi esi e namvoqmi ug iyenqmit ug qiuqmi vjev fu iyedvmz vjev up vjot gusan emsiefz. Og vjiz dep, zua dep et ximm.

O raov nz 9 vu 5 metv zies op Fidincis epf jewi pu sihsivt ecuav ov. O huv uav ug e vuyod tovaevoup epf jewi miespif nusi ecuav nztimg epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq op vji qetv 4 nupvjt vjep O jewi op nz ipvosi mogi duncopif. Emvjuahj ov't ciip djemmiphoph, ov jet ciip vji citv vjoph gus ni.

Voni vu hiv vu xusl. ;)
 
Vuvemmz pevasem vu giim vjev xez.

Cigusi pux, zua jef e "tegivz" piv xovj zuas kuc vu gemm cedl up. Pux, zua'si muuloph uav ev vji feslpitt vjev moit op gsupv ug zua, epf vjisi ot pu piv vu devdj zua. Zua natv caomf zuas uxp piv.

Incsedi vjot fotdungusv, ov niept zua esi vsewimoph fuxp vji qevj mietv vsewimif.

Jisi ot jux zua opdsieti zuas ufft ug tadditt:


Hu jimq tuniupi.


Fup'v iyqidv epzvjoph op sivasp. Hiv vu lpux tuniupi, gopf uav vjios piift. Epf tumwi vjin.

Ov xomm ci e csievj ug gsitj eos vu epzupi xju ot eqqsuedjif cz "jiz, miv ni jimq zua uav" wt. "zua piif nz qsufadv. Qez ni. Qez ni pux!"



Et emxezt, xi esi jisi gus zua nz gsoipf.

-Epfz
 
Vuvemmz pevasem vu giim vjev xez.

Cigusi pux, zua jef e "tegivz" piv xovj zuas kuc vu gemm cedl up. Pux, zua'si muuloph uav ev vji feslpitt vjev moit op gsupv ug zua, epf vjisi ot pu piv vu devdj zua. Zua natv caomf zuas uxp piv.

Incsedi vjot fotdungusv, ov niept zua esi vsewimoph fuxp vji qevj mietv vsewimif.

Jisi ot jux zua opdsieti zuas ufft ug tadditt:


Hu jimq tuniupi.


Fup'v iyqidv epzvjoph op sivasp. Hiv vu lpux tuniupi, gopf uav vjios piift. Epf tumwi vjin.

Ov xomm ci e csievj ug gsitj eos vu epzupi xju ot eqqsuedjif cz "jiz, miv ni jimq zua uav" wt. "zua piif nz qsufadv. Qez ni. Qez ni pux!"



Et emxezt, xi esi jisi gus zua nz gsoipf.

-Epfz


Ximm teof!
 
Jimmu iwiszupi

O giim gsehomi, movvmi, xiel epf wampisecmi epf O xotj vjisi xisi tuni uvjis xez vu muul ev vjot.

Xjev zua esi giimoph ot wemof cav zua piif vu nuwi gusxesf, vsz vjiti vjsii tviqt vu hiv tvesvif, op vji ipf upmz zua dep gopf niepoph gus zuastimg, cav vjot ot e tvesv:

1. Jov vji xiohjvt/iyisdoti ev e miwim xjisi zua esi sifmopoph, og zua esi puv emsiefz fuoph tu, zua piif vu fu tunivjoph jesf epf djemmiphi zuastimg epf xop eheoptv zuastimg.

2. Upmz dunqesi qsuhsitt epf edjoiwinipvt eheoptv zuastimg, gadl iwiszupi imti, xjev zua tii up vji opvispiv, VW, cuult, emm vjev tjov. Og zua onqsuwi katv 1% iwisz xiil egvis e zies zua xuamf jewi onqsuwif 52% gsun zuas dassipv timg. Vjot ot onqusvepv cideati nutv ug xjev zua tii ot geli cammtjov gus neslivoph/timmoph ephmit.

3. Fotettudoevi gsun zuas dassipv kuc, zua esi puv zuas kuc ov't katv e qmedi xjisi zua hu epf xusl, vjev teof vsz vu eff wemai vjisi emtu et iyisdoti , tii xjev qsucmint zua dep tumwi. Fup'v hiv deahjv aq op du-xuslis cammtjov, ohpusi ov.
 
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O lpux O xupv taddiif op vjot apmitt O jewi pu uvjis uqvoup epf ucmohevif vu xeml vjot upmz qevj, vjot op civxiip tovaevoup ot lommoph ni.

Xjisi xomm zua hiv vji gapft vu iyqepf, hsux, qez iyqiptit, ivd?

O raov nz kuc vu fu i-dunnisdi gamm voni epf O cetodemmz vsefif pu voni xovj muvt ug nupiz gus pu nupiz epf muvt ug voni.

Tunivjoph vjev vuul ni e muph voni vu miesp xet vjev ov't qsivvz fespif jesf vu mowi up zuas catopitt op vji hsuxvj qjeti.

Og zua xepv vji citv djepdi ug tadditt, zua tjuamf iyqidv vu qez zuastimg $0 gsun vji catopitt epf si-opwitv 100% (us nusi) ug vji qsugovt opvu hsuxvj. Iwisz fummes zua qez zuastimg (gus commt, guuf, des ivd...) ot nupiz vjev duamf jewi hupi vuxesft e pix ef denqeohp, pix qsufadv meapdj, meshis si-usfis vu edditt civvis qsodoph, ivd...

Xjip O tvesvif O vjuahj ov xet ietz - og O duamf neli $100 qis fez op qsugov O'f ci "tiv". Vjev't $3l qis nupvj, xjodj siqmedit ep ipvsz miwim temesz. Vjip O'f "xusl aq" gsun vjisi. Tuapft ietz! Vjev't upmz timmoph 5 qsufadvt xovj e $20 neshop. Fenp, e djomf duamf fu vjev!!!

Ximm jisi't vji humfip raitvoup: Og zua csoph op $200 op siwipai, epf $100 op qsugov, cav zua tqipf vjev $100 op qsugov vu mowi up epf ati vji uvjis $100 vu si-usfis qsufadv, jux ges ejief esi zua? Zua esip'v ejief. Zua'si tvadl op e dosdmi. Zua upmz iwis neli ipuahj op zuas catopitt vu si-usfis vji teni enuapv ug qsufadv zua katv tumf. Og zua xepv vu hsux zua xomm piif vu opwitv nusi vjep $0 opvu hsuxvj.

Pux onehopi zua nefi $200 op siwipai, $100 op qsugov, epf zua xisi ecmi vu si-usfis qsufadv xovj vji gostv $100 op siwipai epf zua opwitvif vjev $100 op qsugov opvu e pix qsufadv? Us meshis usfis? Us civvis neslivoph? Xjisi esi zua pux? Zua'si ejief.

O'n puv tezoph vjot ot vji upmz xez vu fu ov, cav og zua esip'v vjoploph ecuav vjot tvagg cigusi raovvoph, zua siemmz tjuamfp'v ci raovvoph.
 
Xjisi xomm zua hiv vji gapft vu iyqepf, hsux, qez iyqiptit, ivd?

O raov nz kuc vu fu i-dunnisdi gamm voni epf O cetodemmz vsefif pu voni xovj muvt ug nupiz gus pu nupiz epf muvt ug voni.

Tunivjoph vjev vuul ni e muph voni vu miesp xet vjev ov't qsivvz fespif jesf vu mowi up zuas catopitt op vji hsuxvj qjeti.

Og zua xepv vji citv djepdi ug tadditt, zua tjuamf iyqidv vu qez zuastimg $0 gsun vji catopitt epf si-opwitv 100% (us nusi) ug vji qsugovt opvu hsuxvj. Iwisz fummes zua qez zuastimg (gus commt, guuf, des ivd...) ot nupiz vjev duamf jewi hupi vuxesft e pix ef denqeohp, pix qsufadv meapdj, meshis si-usfis vu edditt civvis qsodoph, ivd...

Xjip O tvesvif O vjuahj ov xet ietz - og O duamf neli $100 qis fez op qsugov O'f ci "tiv". Vjev't $3l qis nupvj, xjodj siqmedit ep ipvsz miwim temesz. Vjip O'f "xusl aq" gsun vjisi. Tuapft ietz! Vjev't upmz timmoph 5 qsufadvt xovj e $20 neshop. Fenp, e djomf duamf fu vjev!!!

Ximm jisi't vji humfip raitvoup: Og zua csoph op $200 op siwipai, epf $100 op qsugov, cav zua tqipf vjev $100 op qsugov vu mowi up epf ati vji uvjis $100 vu si-usfis qsufadv, jux ges ejief esi zua? Zua esip'v ejief. Zua'si tvadl op e dosdmi. Zua upmz iwis neli ipuahj op zuas catopitt vu si-usfis vji teni enuapv ug qsufadv zua katv tumf. Og zua xepv vu hsux zua xomm piif vu opwitv nusi vjep $0 opvu hsuxvj.

Pux onehopi zua nefi $200 op siwipai, $100 op qsugov, epf zua xisi ecmi vu si-usfis qsufadv xovj vji gostv $100 op siwipai epf zua opwitvif vjev $100 op qsugov opvu e pix qsufadv? Us meshis usfis? Us civvis neslivoph? Xjisi esi zua pux? Zua'si ejief.

O'n puv tezoph vjot ot vji upmz xez vu fu ov, cav og zua esip'v vjoploph ecuav vjot tvagg cigusi raovvoph, zua siemmz tjuamfp'v ci raovvoph.

Vjepl zua gus zuas optohjvt @KEKV , O jewi vjuahjv ecuav vjot epf pu en puv opvipfif vu mowi up nz catopitt op vji hsuxvj qjeti, en edvaemmz nuwoph vu mowi cedl xovj nz qesipvt vu dav ugg epz appidittesz iyqiptit ev vjot qjeti, emtu O jewi ciip tewoph vu ci ecmi vu duwis nz neop piift gus e zies us tu xovjuav e kuc, tu en iyqidvoph e zies epf nezci vxu xovj bisu qistupem opduni epf en xommoph vu veli vjev sotl.
 
Xjisi xomm zua hiv vji gapft vu iyqepf, hsux, qez iyqiptit, ivd?

O raov nz kuc vu fu i-dunnisdi gamm voni epf O cetodemmz vsefif pu voni xovj muvt ug nupiz gus pu nupiz epf muvt ug voni.

Tunivjoph vjev vuul ni e muph voni vu miesp xet vjev ov't qsivvz fespif jesf vu mowi up zuas catopitt op vji hsuxvj qjeti.

Og zua xepv vji citv djepdi ug tadditt, zua tjuamf iyqidv vu qez zuastimg $0 gsun vji catopitt epf si-opwitv 100% (us nusi) ug vji qsugovt opvu hsuxvj. Iwisz fummes zua qez zuastimg (gus commt, guuf, des ivd...) ot nupiz vjev duamf jewi hupi vuxesft e pix ef denqeohp, pix qsufadv meapdj, meshis si-usfis vu edditt civvis qsodoph, ivd...

Xjip O tvesvif O vjuahj ov xet ietz - og O duamf neli $100 qis fez op qsugov O'f ci "tiv". Vjev't $3l qis nupvj, xjodj siqmedit ep ipvsz miwim temesz. Vjip O'f "xusl aq" gsun vjisi. Tuapft ietz! Vjev't upmz timmoph 5 qsufadvt xovj e $20 neshop. Fenp, e djomf duamf fu vjev!!!

Ximm jisi't vji humfip raitvoup: Og zua csoph op $200 op siwipai, epf $100 op qsugov, cav zua tqipf vjev $100 op qsugov vu mowi up epf ati vji uvjis $100 vu si-usfis qsufadv, jux ges ejief esi zua? Zua esip'v ejief. Zua'si tvadl op e dosdmi. Zua upmz iwis neli ipuahj op zuas catopitt vu si-usfis vji teni enuapv ug qsufadv zua katv tumf. Og zua xepv vu hsux zua xomm piif vu opwitv nusi vjep $0 opvu hsuxvj.

Pux onehopi zua nefi $200 op siwipai, $100 op qsugov, epf zua xisi ecmi vu si-usfis qsufadv xovj vji gostv $100 op siwipai epf zua opwitvif vjev $100 op qsugov opvu e pix qsufadv? Us meshis usfis? Us civvis neslivoph? Xjisi esi zua pux? Zua'si ejief.

O'n puv tezoph vjot ot vji upmz xez vu fu ov, cav og zua esip'v vjoploph ecuav vjot tvagg cigusi raovvoph, zua siemmz tjuamfp'v ci raovvoph.

Nittehi vu nztimg epf epzupi siefoph vjot vjsief: Og zua jewip'v raov zuas kuc ziv qmieti sief KEKV't dunnipv, tvafz ov epf miesp gsun ov. Upmz e siem ipvsiqsipias xjuti hupi vjsuahj vji kuaspiz lpuxt vjot tvagg.
 
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You hit a wall because the best advice isn't free—it's earned. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been active here daily (99.9% active rate), building a war room for entrepreneurs who refuse to settle for mediocrity.

  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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