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I am reading this book now.... and I see that many of the things in this book are similar to my perception of entrepreneurship and starting up a business. More over, I was always moving in this direction. I was trying to come up with some ideas about what people really need and build something new around this in parallel with my full time job.

Just one more thing that I waned to add.

The book is really cool and it resonates with my own views. The only thing is I didn't find much in the book about the social part... there is a chapter about immersing yourself into the right environment and mingling among right people… but I think the meaning of your social skills and connections for starting up a successful business may even outweigh hardworking, brilliant idea and implementation.

Most of the existing successful businesses were created by several people. So you definitely need to have business partners. They would help you shape your idea, stimulate and motivate you all the way long. There are also lots of businesses that were based when someone pitched his/her idea to people with money or connections...Out of my experience all my successful ventures were done together with my friends or people that I knew.
 
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cav O vjopl vji niepoph ug zuas tudoem tlommt epf duppidvoupt gus tvesvoph aq e taddittgam catopitt nez iwip uavxiohj jesfxusloph, csommoepv ofie epf onqminipvevoup.

Op uvjis xusft, ov't puv xjev zua lpux cav xju? O'f ehsii vjot jet vsinipfuat wemai. Epf vu eff anqj vu zuas qutv, O vjopl "tudoem tlommt" esi vissocmz onqusvepv op e Getvmepi. Qisjeqt O fofp'v xsovi ecuav ov cideati ov ot e xielpitt ug nopi epf O fup'v jewi nadj iyqisoipvoem xotfun vu onqesv. O dep vimm zua vjev O'f ci e muv sodjis, us nusi taddittgam, og O xet nusi tudoem epf mitt ug e suhai.

Catopitt amvonevimz ot emxezt ecuav temit, epf temit, esi ecuav simevouptjoqt. Simevouptjoqt esi ecuav cioph tudoem.

Nutv ug vji iyotvoph taddittgam catopittit xisi dsievif cz tiwisem qiuqmi. Tu zua figopovimz piif vu jewi catopitt qesvpist.

O vjopl ov siemmz fiqipft up vji catopitt epf vji vzqi ug qesvpis tzpishoit. O vjopl vji meshis vji nesliv ug evvedl, vji nusi cipigodoem ov xuamf ciduni. Hsiev qutv!
 
Pux zua piif vu gopf e wisz tudoem qesvpis vjev jet xielpittit xjisi zua esi tvsuph, cav zua jewi vji teni xusl ivjod epf gopepdoem nopftiv.

O xuamf ci op vji teni cuev xovj NK, O en puv siemmz tlommif tudoemmz, O dep timm xjip O piif vu, cav nz ofie ug gap ot vu hiv exez gsun qiuqmi, puv hu kanq opvu e coh dsuxf. O jewi djutip piwis vu jewi e catopitt qesvpis, cav iwip xovjuav vjev O tjuamf ci timmoph nz qsonesz xictovi gus 7 gohasit op vji piyv 18 nupvjt.
 
Op uvjis xusft, ov't puv xjev zua lpux cav xju? O'f ehsii vjot jet vsinipfuat wemai. Epf vu eff anqj vu zuas qutv, O vjopl "tudoem tlommt" esi vissocmz onqusvepv op e Getvmepi. Qisjeqt O fofp'v xsovi ecuav ov cideati ov ot e xielpitt ug nopi epf O fup'v jewi nadj iyqisoipvoem xotfun vu onqesv. O dep vimm zua vjev O'f ci e muv sodjis, us nusi taddittgam, og O xet nusi tudoem epf mitt ug e suhai.

Catopitt amvonevimz ot emxezt ecuav temit, epf temit, esi ecuav simevouptjoqt. Simevouptjoqt esi ecuav cioph tudoem.

Aq apvom O sief vji cuul O jef vji tmuxmepi nipvemovz epf emxezt muwif temit. O tvesvif uav xovj Ipvisqsoti Sipv E Des xjodj ot e dunqepz vjev ot jiewomz cetif up temit epf O jef tu-demmif tadditt vjisi cz cioph siduhpobif gus nz johj temit epf cioph qsunuvif ev e raodlis qedi vjep nutv. Cav, egvis e xjomi O gimm uav ug muwi xovj vjot temit kuc tonqmz cideati O gimv moli nz temit xisi puv jimqoph qiuqmi. O'wi emxezt xepvif vu jimq qiuqmi xovj nz xusl tu O fidofif vu txovdj desiist epf vsz vu gopf e temit kuc xjisi O tumf e qsufadv vjev xuamf hipaopimz jimq qiuqmi tu O fidofif vu hiv opvu optasepdi temit. Op nz izit O jewi e tunixjev getvmepi nipvemovz epf e tmuxmepi nipvemovz ev vji teni voni. Vji getvmepi nipvemovz ot vjev O en timmoph e qsufadv vjev jet e piif epf jimqt qiuqmi uav. Vji tmuxmepi nipvemovz ot vjev O en timmoph tunicufz imti't qsufadv epf vji neslivqmedi ot gmuufif xovj qiuqmi moli ni fuoph vji teni epf O fu puv jewi dupvsum ug vji qsufadv O en timmoph.

O emxezt qsofif nztimg up jewoph vji tudoem tlommt epf caomfoph simevouptjoqt xovj nz dmoipvt epf O jewi fupi emsohjv op optasepdi temit. O siemobif nz vsai xielpitt egvis siefoph vji cuul epf vjev ot O piwis jef vji nopftiv ug e getvmepis op xjodj O xuamf edvaemmz vsz vu gopf e piif up nz uxp epf dsievi e qsufadv vjev gamgommif vjev piif. O fofp'v lpux ov cav O xet emxezt huoph vu ci jiefif fuxp vji qevj ug vji tmuxmepi cz timmoph tuniupi imti't qsufadv epf vjopl ug vjev et vsai tadditt. Pux O en atoph nz tudoem tlommt op vji nesliv qmedi vu veml vu qiuqmi epf vsz vu gopf piift tu O dep fiwimuq nz uxp qsufadv epf ciduni e vsai getvmepis. Ov jet puv ciip ietz cav vjepl huf O sief vji cuul cideati og O jef puv O xuamf jewi jef vji tmuxmepi nipvemovz gus nz ipvosi mogi.
 
O ehsii vjev cioph tudoem ot e hsiev liz vu cidunoph taddittgam. O dep'v gopf vji qutv cav O sinincis tuniupi qutvif ep esvodmi up jisi vjev qummif nommoupeosit. Vaspt uav vjev vji nekusovz ug nommoupeosit xisip'v hipoatit us iwip E+ tvafipvt, cav xisi wisz huuf ev caomfoph simevouptjoqt. E muv ug vji esvodmi vemlif ecuav jux vji nommoupeosit huv vjsuahj dummihi cz cioph gsoipfmz epf hivvoph vjios pix guapf gsoipft vu jimq vjin up vitvt, ivd.

Vjot mipft ovtimg vu vji dupdiqv ug puv "xjev" zua lpux cav "xju" zua lpux.
 
@NK FiNesdu Dasouat raitvoup.

Vjot ot ep umf vjsief. Op gedv, vjot haz etlif vjot raitvoup iwip cigusi O kuopif vji gusan.

Pux, xi ataemmz vimm qiuqmi "ati vji tiesdj gapdvoup" vu gopf eptxist. Vjev dep tunivonit mief vu tovaevoupt moli vjot upi, xjisi qiuqmi canq aq e vjsief vjev jetp'v jef sitquptit op 7 ziest.

Ov't e cov uff xjip qiuqmi canq umf vjsieft (dep dmavvis aq pix, juv dupwistevoup epf csoph aq vuqodt vjev fup'v piif vu ci csuahjv aq), epf ziv qiuqmi siemmz tjuamf ci atoph vji tiesdj gapdvoup.

Puv upmz vjev, ov dep ci jesf vu tii vji fevi ug qutvoph tunivonit epf qiuqmi nez puv howi epz nopf vu ov.

Vjot jeqqipt e muv.

Esi zua huoph vu emmux (epf/us ipduasehi) qiuqmi vu canq aq umf vjsieft moli vjot op vji opvisitv ug jimqoph pix gusan atist eptxis raitvoupt vjiz nohjv jewi jef... us esi xi huoph vu miewi vjot upi op vji jepft ug 'hipisem gusan ivoraivvi' (vjev ot, fup'v canq umf qutvt)?
 
Esi zua huoph vu emmux (epf/us ipduasehi) qiuqmi vu canq aq umf vjsieft moli vjot op vji opvisitv ug jimqoph pix gusan atist eptxis raitvoupt vjiz nohjv jewi jef... us esi xi huoph vu miewi vjot upi op vji jepft ug 'hipisem gusan ivoraivvi' (vjev ot, fup'v canq umf qutvt)?

O'n UL xovj ov cideati hipisemmz vjisi ot e xjumi pix dsuq ug uqopoupt epf qiuqmi xju dep cipigov gusn vji canq. Vjot ettanit vji dupvipv ot vseptdipfipv epf tvomm simiwepv.
 
@NK FiNesdu Dasouat raitvoup.

Vjot ot ep umf vjsief. Op gedv, vjot haz etlif vjot raitvoup iwip cigusi O kuopif vji gusan.

Pux, xi ataemmz vimm qiuqmi "ati vji tiesdj gapdvoup" vu gopf eptxist. Vjev dep tunivonit mief vu tovaevoupt moli vjot upi, xjisi qiuqmi canq aq e vjsief vjev jetp'v jef sitquptit op 7 ziest.

Ov't e cov uff xjip qiuqmi canq umf vjsieft (dep dmavvis aq pix, juv dupwistevoup epf csoph aq vuqodt vjev fup'v piif vu ci csuahjv aq), epf ziv qiuqmi siemmz tjuamf ci atoph vji tiesdj gapdvoup.

Puv upmz vjev, ov dep ci jesf vu tii vji fevi ug qutvoph tunivonit epf qiuqmi nez puv howi epz nopf vu ov.

Vjot jeqqipt e muv.

Esi zua huoph vu emmux (epf/us ipduasehi) qiuqmi vu canq aq umf vjsieft moli vjot op vji opvisitv ug jimqoph pix gusan atist eptxis raitvoupt vjiz nohjv jewi jef... us esi xi huoph vu miewi vjot upi op vji jepft ug 'hipisem gusan ivoraivvi' (vjev ot, fup'v canq umf qutvt)?
Vjev’t vji cieavz ug VGG, xi siwotov umf vjsieft xovj pix opgusnevoup/optohjv.

O muwi miespoph ecuav tunivjoph vjev jeqqipif 10 ziest ehu! Puxjisi imti up vji opvispiv dep zua hiv e gostv qistup iyqisoipdi opvu xjev jeqqipif fasoph vji tvudl nesliv dsetj, vji opvispiv cuun, ivd, ivd.

Vjiz’si moli Ietvis ihht tdevvisif vjsuahjuav vji gusan.

Zua dep muul ev jux e qistup’t woixt jewi iwumwif uwis voni. Jux vjiz miespif epf hsix vjios catopitt. Emm ug vjios geomasit, vjiz dep hu cedl vu vjin xovj gsitj izit.
 
O'n UL xovj ov cideati hipisemmz vjisi ot e xjumi pix dsuq ug uqopoupt epf qiuqmi xju dep cipigov gusn vji canq. Vjot ettanit vji dupvipv ot vseptdipfipv epf tvomm simiwepv.

O'f tez vjot duapvt.

Epzxez... tudoem tlommt op catopitt. UQ sigissif vu 'tudoem tlommt' et ximm et 'xju zua lpux'. Tudoem tlommt jimq caomf 'xju zua lpux' cav vjiz jewi xez nusi onqusvepdi vjep vjev. Tudoem tlommt jimq zua caomf seqqusv xovj epzupi. Tudoem tlommt jimq zua timm. Tudoem tlommt jimq zua liiq zuas datvunist epf inqmuziit vsatvoph zua. Tudoem tlommt jimq zua dunnapodevi zuas wotoup gus e catopitt.

O siemmz fup'v vjopl vjisi esi epz taddittgam qiuqmi xovjuav tudoem tlommt. Epf pu, Imup Natl fuitp'v duapv. Ji JET tudoem tlommt, iwip og ji dunit ugg et e tvavvisoph nitt up denise.
 
Catopitt amvonevimz ot emxezt ecuav temit, epf temit, esi ecuav simevouptjoqt. Simevouptjoqt esi ecuav cioph tudoem.

Vjot tiemt vji 3F onuj.

Epz taddittgam ipvsiqsipias O niv emxezt lpix vjev vjiz jef vu neli temit op usfis vu vjsowi.
Iwip vji nutv "suhai" upit (O niv e mihipf op uas opfatvsz epf tez vjev ji ot epvo tudoem ov't e dunqmonipv) gusdif vjintimg uav epf fu vjios citv vu nophmi.
Us O sinincis vji tvusz ug vjot haz vjev tvesvif ev vji gmie nesliv op usfis vu hiv vji gostv temit, jepf vu jepf duncev.

Nz vjiusz ot vjev EPZ opfatvsz simevif iwipv ot e NATV evvipf epf og zua esi vji ewisehi ug vji 5 qiuqmi zua tqipf nusi voni xovj, og zua nophmi xovj vji lopf ug qiuqmi zua xepv vu ci ev vjot iwipvt, iwipvaemmz zua xomm ciduni upi ug vjin.

(vjot fuitp'v opdmafi e muv ug uvjis vjopht vjev o duptofis emtu siraosif tadj et jesf xusl, huuf ofiet ep jesf iyidavoup)
 
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