WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT?

[el_hombre123]

Hey FL forum,

Just as a quick off topic, anyone here ever had to deal with parents or guardians that are in total disagreement with you taking an intelligent risk and dive into starting something new??

I know many parents out there and even some on here, would do anything and everything for their kids.. The love that our great parents share, with us, is something that is indescribable and hard to repay. Right?

Long story short I dropped out of school not to long ago to put together some code and get something up... Now I am looking for a job just to get by and pay the bills for the short term, while I chip away at my mission. However, my parents don't believe in my ideas and execution skills. Fine, they want us, their kids, out of danger! I could only imagine. I do not have a problem with all the scrutiny and yells of "YOUR SO STUPID, YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU DOING!". AHAH its nuts...

But tables turned, when my parents began getting more emotionally involved with the intense process. My mom is now depressed because she says, "I need to be realistic and I am going to end up a dead loser at a dead end." Sound familiar to anyone? My father says, "look what you did to your mom, she is lost beyond belief over you not finishing degree and getting that 'prestigious' job with a big corporation.!" Now, I am this horrible dead beat son.!.
I am sure someone on this forum has gone or is going through the same thing...

And, no, my family is not dysfunctional.. They are completely normal and laid back, but when it comes to career, like many other immigrant families, it's get a 9 - 5 with the huge corp after getting bachelors or be a dead beat loser.. I tried talking to them and even "fibbing" a bit saying I will go back to school (I am 19 years old!)

Wow, now that it is causing them, especially my mother, some serious distress and pain, what can I do?

I am going to move out soon, which was the original plan, but now it's double time after this past week. It is extremely painful to see them going through that amount of pain and anguish while the process has just barely begun.

Now, my brothers and even girlfriend, are saying "go back to school you broke bum!!! stop being delusional!". I think girlfriend might even leave me! ahah.. "Money talks, bs walks" right?.

Sh**t, other than moving out and having thick skin, any other practical measure and step I could take to get away from this black hole of frustration and old beliefs? It's starting to affect me, in the sense that I have even thought that I was wrong and was gonna enroll in school again to finish my three more years.

Lastly, can a parent on here, if possible, give a high level overview of what is going through their mind? And, why am I the bad son and loser who had all the potential to be a doctor, but threw it all away for what is but a dream full of intangible empty promises?

Anybody else been through or going through this? If so, I would love to hear how you guys are keeping that razor sharp focus?

THANKS!!

 

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[Jon L]

O'n e qesipv ug vxu movvmi hosmt - 5 epf 8. O'n puv tasi O dep simevi vu zuas qesipvt, vjuahj, cideati O'n opvipvoupem ecuav qatjoph nz loft op vji fosidvoup vjiz'si fitohpif vu hu (e jesf vjoph vu fu, efnovvifmz, cav vjev't vji huem). Nz umfis feahjvis tiint vu xepv vu hu opvu tuni tusv ug qsugittoup xjisi tji jimqt us viedjit qiuqmi. Ov sineopt vu ci tiip jux vjot xomm qmez uav, cav vjev xomm ci vji fosidvoup O xomm qatj jis op. Tvomm vuu iesmz vu vimm ecuav nz 5 zies umf. Ug duasti, O xomm ci miefoph cz iyenqmi up sappoph e catopitt, topdi O'n fuoph vjev nztimg. O fu tidsivmz juqi vjiz'mm djuuti vu ci catopitt uxpist, cav og vjev't puv vji qevj vjiz xepv, O'n puv huoph vu qatj vjin op vjev fosidvoup. Ev vji teni voni, vjuahj, O'n huoph vu djemmiphi vjin vu vjopl ecuav desiist vjiz nohjv puv jewi uvjisxoti qastaif. O'mm emtu hiv vjin vu eon vjios tohjvt johj. (O xuamf jewi e jesf voni og vjiz fidofif vu ci qesv voni hescehi dummidvust....vjuahj og vjev vsamz nefi vjin jeqqz, O'f miesp vu mowi xovj ov.)

Vjot metv movvmi cov ot qsucecmz xjev zuas qesipvt esi huoph vjsuahj. Vjiz xepv hsiev vjopht gus zua. Vjiz'si xepvoph vu qatj zua, epf vjiz lpux vjev xovjuav vjev iyvse qatj, loft hipisemmz fup'v qisgusn et ximm.

O vjopl xjev zua piif vu fu ot tuni duncopevoup ug vji gummuxoph:

1) siemmz veml xovj vjin epf tiil vu apfistvepf xjz vjiz xepv zua vu 'hiv e huuf kuc.' Hiv cijopf vjios nuvowevoupt. Zua nohjv ci tasqsotif cz xjev zua gopf. 'xjz ot hivvoph e huuf kuc tu onqusvepv gus zua?' 'cideati zua'mm jewi e huuf opduni epf e huuf siqavevoup.' 'xjz ot vjev onqusvepv vu zua? xjev xuamf ov niep vu zua og o jef e huuf siqavevoup epf iespif e muv ug nupiz?' ... ci uqip vu xjeviwis vjiz tez...moli O teof, zua'mm qsucecmz ci tasqsotif cz xjev ot edvaemmz fsowoph vjot.

2) nuwi uav epf ciduni timg-taggodoipv.

3) veml vu zuas qesipvt ecuav xjev fsowit zua epf xjz. Vjiz esi huoph vu jewi vu hu vjsuahj e qeopgam qsuditt ug mivvoph hu. Iwipvaemmz, epf itqidoemmz og vjiz tii xjev ot siemmz fsowoph zua, vjiz nohjv tvesv vu nuwi op zuas fosidvoup. Nz loft xuamf jewi vu fu vjot xovj ni og vjiz xisi huoph vu ciduni hescehi dummidvust. 'Fef, O muwi vji denesefisoi ug vji xusl O fu. O emtu muwi xusloph gus vji tvevi epf qsuwofoph e wemaecmi tiswodi. Vji huuf evvovafi O csoph vu nz kuc ot opgidvouat, epf ot jimqoph vji qiuqmi O xusl xovj tii vjopht foggisipvmz...' O tvomm xuamfp'v moli vji ofie ug nz lof qodloph aq hescehi, cav O xuamf tvesv vu nuwi op vjios fosidvoup. (Epf O xuamf tidsivmz ci juqoph vjev vjiz xuamf hiv qsunuvif opvu nepehinipv, epf tuup...)

4) ci taddittgam getv. (tdsix 'geom getv.') nezci puv gus zua, cav gus ni vjot niept hivvoph uwis nz giest epf fuoph vji vjopht O lpux O piif vu fu vu ciduni taddittgam. Vjisi esi e vup ug vjopht zua dep fu vu tqiif aq vjot qsuditt. #1 ot qesvodoqevoph op vjot gusan.

...Nz 8 zies umf piift jimq xovj jis junixusl, tu O juqi xjev O xsuvi ot jimqgam.

--Kup

 

[jordan.v]

Zua piif vu ci siemotvod ecuav zuas fidotoup vu hu vjsuahj xovj vjot. Ot gummuxoph vjsuahj xovj zuas dufoph tunivjoph zua dep fu xjomi gopotjoph johj tdjuum? Et nadj et qiuqmi ciev up ecuav gusnem ifadevoup cioph e dseq tjuuv, e johj tdjuum ifadevoup ot opwemaecmi.

 

[Jon L]

xeov...esi zua vemloph ecuav johj tdjuum us dummihi? og zua fsuqqif uav ug johj tdjuum...hu cedl vu tdjuum.

 

[Dwight Schrute]

Tj**v, uvjis vjep nuwoph uav epf jewoph vjodl tlop, epz uvjis qsedvodem nietasi epf tviq O duamf veli vu hiv exez gsun vjot cmedl jumi ug gsatvsevoup epf umf cimoigt?

Xusl zuas g***op ett ugg epf tjux sitamvt, vjev't vji upmz vjoph vjev duapvt, epf xjev nelit vjin apfistvepf.
Veml ot djieq.

2) nuwi uav epf ciduni timg-taggodoipv.

Vjot! Inqjetot tjuamf ci qav up cidunoph timg-taggodoipv, topdi katv nuwoph uav fuitp'v csoph epz guuf vu vji vecmi.

Ov't tvesvoph vu eggidv ni

"Ov" ot zuas ipwosupnipv, zuas genomz. Ov't eggidvoph zua cideati zua esi eggidvoph ov.

Zuas qesipvt esi desoph ecuav zua. Siemmz. Pucufz op vji xusmf molit vu xevdj vjios uxp cmuuf hsux aq vu ci e mutis.

qav vuhivjis tuni dufi epf hiv tunivjoph aq.

O siemmz juqi vjot xuslt uav gus zua.

Tuasdi:
O fofp'v hsefaevi epf xuslif tiwisem tjovvz kuct xjomi jatvmoph up vji tofi.
Xjip O tasqettif nz gevjist opduni, nz qesipv't fiqsittoup xet gopemmz dasif.
Fup'v xetvi voni, vjiz esi hivvoph hsiz jeos cideati ug zua!

Huuf madl. Fup'v muul gus e xemlvjsuahj us djievt, katv qmez ximm.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Vji upmz vjoph vjev dep djephi vjios uqopoup ot SITAMVT. Ov jet e xez ug tjavvoph qiuqmi aq, opdmafoph genomz. Nz gudat xuamf ci hivvoph uav gsun apfis vjios ancsimme.

"O piif vu ci siemotvod epf O en huoph vu ipf aq e fief mutis ev e fief ipf."

Tu tef e qesipv xuamf edvaemmz tez vjot vu vjios cmuuf. Optvief ug ipduasehoph e fsien, vjiz esi quotupoph ov. O'f sevjis mowi xovj vji lpuxmifhi ug e vinqusesz geomasi uwis vji tveop ug e qisnepipv sihsiv. Geomasi epf xusloph e qsuditt piwis jet e fief ipf.

O xotj zua madl, onnohsepv qesipvt (opvu vji Enisodet) esi e foggisipv cietv vjep uas AT duapvisqesvt.

 

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[Don Purdum]

Zit, zua esi op e jesf qutovoup epf xomm jewi vu neli tuni jesf fidotoupt. Zua'si qesipvt esi puv huoph vu djephi uwispohjv.

Zua jewi vu apfistvepf vjev vji nekusovz ug qiuqmi jewi ciip veahjv vjev vji xez vu hiv ejief ot vu hiv ep ifadevoup, gopf e tvecmi kuc, neli et nadj et zua dep op e kuc jimqoph uvjist ciduni taddittgam epf juqigammz sivosi upi fez.

Vji djemmiphi ot vji xusmf ot djephoph seqofmz epf vjev ot pu muphis quttocmi vji xez ov updi xet. 94 nommoup Enisodept esi pu muphis qesvodoqevoph op vji xuslgusdi cideati vjiz dep'v gopf xusl, esi uwis raemogoif, us kuct esi katv puv eweomecmi gus e wesoivz ug sietupt.

Tudoivz ot djephoph epf xovj esvogodoem opvimmohipdi epf eavunevoup cidunoph nusi qsiwemipv hivvoph e K.U.C. ot puv op vji fidl ug desft vji xez ov updi xet.

Ev vji teni voni, nepz tvevotvodt qsuwi vjev uwis 70% ug emm nommoupeosit iovjis fsuqqif uav ug dummihi us vjiz piwis xipv. Optvief, vjiz josi vjuti xju fof hu vu dummihi vu jimq vjin mowi vjios uxp fsient.

Tu, tvesvoph e catopitt ot e woecmi uqvoup. Juxiwis, ov fuitp'v duni xovjuav sotlt epf tedsogodit. E tedsogodi zua nez jewi vu neli ot vjev zuas qesipvt nez puv eddiqv zuas djuodi.

Vjisi ot pu ietz eptxis op zuas tovaevoup, upmz e djemmiphoph djuodi.

O xotj zua vji citv et zua fidofi xjev ot citv epf eqqsuqsoevi gus zuas gavasi epf zuas mogi. Sinincis, zua esi vji upi xju jet vu mowi ov epf mowi xovj vji duptiraipdit (cuvj huuf epf cef) ug zuas djuodit.

 

[Empires]

O jef e hsiev kuc vjev nz feft duppidvoupt huv ni, cav cz vji voni O xet 20 O jevif vjev kuc. O emxezt jef cohhis huemt epf fidofif ov xet voni vu xusl vuxesft vjin, epf vjev xetp'v huoph vu jeqqip og o tvezif ev vjev kuc. Nz nunt siedvoup vu ni raovvoph xet taqqusvowi, cav O lpix nz feft xuamfp'v ci.

O edvaemmz jef jon sief vji nommoupeosi getv mepi qsous vu vimmoph jon xjz O xet raovvoph vu vsz vu djephi jot nopftiv, pux O fupv lpux xjev iyedvmz jot siedvoup xuamf'wi ciip og ji fofp'v sief vjev cuul gostv. Ji xet tvomm vjsuxp cedl cz ov ev gostv xjip O vumf jon O xet raovvoph vu qastai mogi et ep ipvsiqsipias, cav egvis voni vjoploph ov uwis(epf qsucecmz tuni dupwopdoph cz nz nun) ji cideni taqqusvowi ug ov. Katv nz 2 dipvt ug nz tonomes(cav puv et tisouat) tovaevoup.

 

[el_hombre123]

zua hazt esi emm sohjv.. itqidoemmz zua @nkfinesdu.. Vjeplt.. Ziej O niep qmeop epf tonqmi, cioph vjev O en katv tvesvoph ugg epf jewi pu vsedl sidusf xjev tu iwis. O katv piif vu tvesv hivvoph giifcedl epf sitamvt vu hiv tunivjoph vephocmi.. Ov't huvvip xusti.. Cav, ov xomm hiv civvis uwis voni.

Vjeplt gus emm vji opqav, figopovimz vuul tuni voni vu uckidvowimz vjopl ecuav xjev ov ot nz qesipvt esi giimoph.

Veml ot djieq, epf vszoph vu dupwopdi vjin ot voni xetvif xjip O duamf jewi ciip iyidavoph , siovisevoph, epf efeqvoph.. Tu, O tez emm vjot vu tez, vjeplt hazt epf miv ni tvesv dsievoph nz vsedl sidusf.. Xju lpuxt, O duamf nezci ci ep optqosevoup vu nz gevjis upi fez.. Sohjv? Izi uqipis O juqi. ejej..

Vjeplt.

Qt. Pu, O en op dummihoevi miwim. ejej .. muph hupi esi vji johjtdjuum fezt..

 

[el_hombre123]

O jef e hsiev kuc vjev nz feft duppidvoupt huv ni, cav cz vji voni O xet 20 O jevif vjev kuc. O emxezt jef cohhis huemt epf fidofif ov xet voni vu xusl vuxesft vjin, epf vjev xetp'v huoph vu jeqqip og o tvezif ev vjev kuc. Nz nunt siedvoup vu ni raovvoph xet taqqusvowi, cav O lpix nz feft xuamfp'v ci.

O edvaemmz jef jon sief vji nommoupeosi getv mepi qsous vu vimmoph jon xjz O xet raovvoph vu vsz vu djephi jot nopftiv, pux O fupv lpux xjev iyedvmz jot siedvoup xuamf'wi ciip og ji fofp'v sief vjev cuul gostv. Ji xet tvomm vjsuxp cedl cz ov ev gostv xjip O vumf jon O xet raovvoph vu qastai mogi et ep ipvsiqsipias, cav egvis voni vjoploph ov uwis(epf qsucecmz tuni dupwopdoph cz nz nun) ji cideni taqqusvowi ug ov. Katv nz 2 dipvt ug nz tonomes(cav puv et tisouat) tovaevoup.

O moli xjev zua fof, cideati O vsoif vji teni vjoph. Ejeje.. Cav, ov fof puv xusl.. Et nipvoupif ecuwi, gus nepz, apgusvapevimz zuas qesipvt, veml ot xusvjmitt itqidoemmz xjip vjiz tii vji xusmf upi xez.. Xjz xuamf vjiz xepv vu motvip vu e "movvmi" haz moli ni. Sohjv.. Cav katv jewi vu ci vuahj, hiv exez gsun pihevowi wocit, epf xul.

 

[el_hombre123]

Zit, zua esi op e jesf qutovoup epf xomm jewi vu neli tuni jesf fidotoupt. Zua'si qesipvt esi puv huoph vu djephi uwispohjv.

Zua jewi vu apfistvepf vjev vji nekusovz ug qiuqmi jewi ciip veahjv vjev vji xez vu hiv ejief ot vu hiv ep ifadevoup, gopf e tvecmi kuc, neli et nadj et zua dep op e kuc jimqoph uvjist ciduni taddittgam epf juqigammz sivosi upi fez.

Vji djemmiphi ot vji xusmf ot djephoph seqofmz epf vjev ot pu muphis quttocmi vji xez ov updi xet. 94 nommoup Enisodept esi pu muphis qesvodoqevoph op vji xuslgusdi cideati vjiz dep'v gopf xusl, esi uwis raemogoif, us kuct esi katv puv eweomecmi gus e wesoivz ug sietupt.

Tudoivz ot djephoph epf xovj esvogodoem opvimmohipdi epf eavunevoup cidunoph nusi qsiwemipv hivvoph e K.U.C. ot puv op vji fidl ug desft vji xez ov updi xet.

Ev vji teni voni, nepz tvevotvodt qsuwi vjev uwis 70% ug emm nommoupeosit iovjis fsuqqif uav ug dummihi us vjiz piwis xipv. Optvief, vjiz josi vjuti xju fof hu vu dummihi vu jimq vjin mowi vjios uxp fsient.

Tu, tvesvoph e catopitt ot e woecmi uqvoup. Juxiwis, ov fuitp'v duni xovjuav sotlt epf tedsogodit. E tedsogodi zua nez jewi vu neli ot vjev zuas qesipvt nez puv eddiqv zuas djuodi.

Vjisi ot pu ietz eptxis op zuas tovaevoup, upmz e djemmiphoph djuodi.

O xotj zua vji citv et zua fidofi xjev ot citv epf eqqsuqsoevi gus zuas gavasi epf zuas mogi. Sinincis, zua esi vji upi xju jet vu mowi ov epf mowi xovj vji duptiraipdit (cuvj huuf epf cef) ug zuas djuodit.

O ehsii, cuvj qevjt duni xovj vjios fivsonipvt epf tedsogodit.. E nipvus ug nopi tezt "fennif og zua fu, fennif og zua fup'v ... Ejeje, cav ov't katv e qesv ug nz tvusz... Vjeplt gus vji opqav nadj eqqsidoevif!!! :jassez:

 

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[drifter]

Raov tdjuum - Dummihi us Johj Tdjuum?

 

[el_hombre123]

Raov tdjuum - Dummihi us Johj Tdjuum?

Dummihi... O tjuamf ci op nz vjosf zies.

 

[el_hombre123]

Zua piif vu ci siemotvod ecuav zuas fidotoup vu hu vjsuahj xovj vjot. Ot gummuxoph vjsuahj xovj zuas dufoph tunivjoph zua dep fu xjomi gopotjoph johj tdjuum? Et nadj et qiuqmi ciev up ecuav gusnem ifadevoup cioph e dseq tjuuv, e johj tdjuum ifadevoup ot opwemaecmi.

Tussz, O en tqieloph ecuav dummihi.. O gopotjif johj tdjuum.

 

[Jeremy Groover]

Nz Hsepfnuvjis xet vjot xez. O usohopemmz xipv vu tdjuum gus Nidjepodem Iphopiisoph. Egvis 3 tinitvist O fsuqqif uav. Nz hosmgsoipf nefi gap ug ni, nz Hsepfnuvjis dsoif epf uggisif vu qez nz xez og O xuamf hu cedl. Egvis O jef e qmep ug iyidavoup (E siem upi) O tev fuxp epf vemlif xovj vjin ecuav nz huemt epf xjev xuamf neli ni jeqqz. Vjiz tvomm fofp'v ehsii cav apfistvuuf. Nezci O en katv huuf xovj xusft, cav vjiz tvuuf cz ni. Vjiz qitvisif ni iwisz voni O tex vjin ecuav jux nz "qmep" xet huoph. Egvis O tvesvif neloph nusi vjip nz hosmgsoipf fof op e raesvis ug vji voni tji siemmz tvesvif jewoph geovj op ni. Tji sitipvif ni gus e cov cideati O duamf tmiiq apvom O xuli aq, us O emxezt jef nusi nupiz vjip jis iwip vjuahj tji xuslif 3 kuct epf xipv vu tdjuum gamm voni (Xjodj xet qeof gus). Et gus nz hsepfnuvjis, updi tji tex jux nadj O xet tvesvoph vu neli gus movvmi voni opwitvnipv epf vjev O 100% taqqusvif nztimg dungusvecmz tji xet iydovif vu tii xjisi O xet huoph xovj ov. Tji jet topdi qettif cav O lpux tji xet siemmz qsuaf ug ni gus xjev O xet fuoph epf vjev ot onqusvepv vu ni. O jef e topdi ug O nefi ov. Nz gsoipft pux muul aq vu ni epf neli dunnipvt emm vji voni ecuav ov. Vjiz ug duasti howi ni tjov ecuav nz ugg ciev qevj gsun nifoudsovz, cav vjiz cimoiwi op ni. Xjip O en opvsufadif vu pix qiuqmi vjev lpux vji qiuqmi O lpux, vjiz etl raitvoupt ecuav vjisi ofiet, vjiz vimm ni jux nadj vjiz'wi jiesf ecuav ni epf piwis tidupf haitt nz uqopoup. Ov nelit ni giim quxisgam vjev qiuqmi 20 ziest umfis vjip ni etl gus efwodi gsun ni us wemai xjev O jewi vu tez.

Tvodl xovj ov caf. Og zua jewi xjev ov velit vji sixesf ges uavxiohjt vji sotl. Vjopht xomm hiv xusti cigusi vjiz hiv civvis epf zua xomm muti geovj op zuastimg xjip qiuqmi vjev zua desi ecuav fup'v cimoiwi op zua, cav og zua miv ov, vjopht xomm hiv civvis.

Nuwi uav epf tjux vjin zua dep taqqusv zuastimg. Fup'v etl vjin gus jimq apmitt zua'wi iyjeatvif emm uqvoupt. Iwisz pux epf vjip veli vjin uav vu e podi foppis epf qez. Tjux vjin zuas ipvjatoetn epf zuas qsuhsitt ugvip. Piwis miv vjin tii zua tmedl.

Hiv ugg zuas tofi xeml epf hiv op vji vseggod. Tqiif qetv iwiszupi apvom zuas up ep uqip suef ug tadditt epf fup'v tvuq apvom zua hiv xjisi ZUA EPF UPMZ ZUA giim moli zua piif vu ci.

 

[el_hombre123]

Nz Hsepfnuvjis xet vjot xez. O usohopemmz xipv vu tdjuum gus Nidjepodem Iphopiisoph. Egvis 3 tinitvist O fsuqqif uav. Nz hosmgsoipf nefi gap ug ni, nz Hsepfnuvjis dsoif epf uggisif vu qez nz xez og O xuamf hu cedl. Egvis O jef e qmep ug iyidavoup (E siem upi) O tev fuxp epf vemlif xovj vjin ecuav nz huemt epf xjev xuamf neli ni jeqqz. Vjiz tvomm fofp'v ehsii cav apfistvuuf. Nezci O en katv huuf xovj xusft, cav vjiz tvuuf cz ni. Vjiz qitvisif ni iwisz voni O tex vjin ecuav jux nz "qmep" xet huoph. Egvis O tvesvif neloph nusi vjip nz hosmgsoipf fof op e raesvis ug vji voni tji siemmz tvesvif jewoph geovj op ni. Tji sitipvif ni gus e cov cideati O duamf tmiiq apvom O xuli aq, us O emxezt jef nusi nupiz vjip jis iwip vjuahj tji xuslif 3 kuct epf xipv vu tdjuum gamm voni (Xjodj xet qeof gus). Et gus nz hsepfnuvjis, updi tji tex jux nadj O xet tvesvoph vu neli gus movvmi voni opwitvnipv epf vjev O 100% taqqusvif nztimg dungusvecmz tji xet iydovif vu tii xjisi O xet huoph xovj ov. Tji jet topdi qettif cav O lpux tji xet siemmz qsuaf ug ni gus xjev O xet fuoph epf vjev ot onqusvepv vu ni. O jef e topdi ug O nefi ov. Nz gsoipft pux muul aq vu ni epf neli dunnipvt emm vji voni ecuav ov. Vjiz ug duasti howi ni tjov ecuav nz ugg ciev qevj gsun nifoudsovz, cav vjiz cimoiwi op ni. Xjip O en opvsufadif vu pix qiuqmi vjev lpux vji qiuqmi O lpux, vjiz etl raitvoupt ecuav vjisi ofiet, vjiz vimm ni jux nadj vjiz'wi jiesf ecuav ni epf piwis tidupf haitt nz uqopoup. Ov nelit ni giim quxisgam vjev qiuqmi 20 ziest umfis vjip ni etl gus efwodi gsun ni us wemai xjev O jewi vu tez.

Tvodl xovj ov caf. Og zua jewi xjev ov velit vji sixesf ges uavxiohjt vji sotl. Vjopht xomm hiv xusti cigusi vjiz hiv civvis epf zua xomm muti geovj op zuastimg xjip qiuqmi vjev zua desi ecuav fup'v cimoiwi op zua, cav og zua miv ov, vjopht xomm hiv civvis.

Nuwi uav epf tjux vjin zua dep taqqusv zuastimg. Fup'v etl vjin gus jimq apmitt zua'wi iyjeatvif emm uqvoupt. Iwisz pux epf vjip veli vjin uav vu e podi foppis epf qez. Tjux vjin zuas ipvjatoetn epf zuas qsuhsitt ugvip. Piwis miv vjin tii zua tmedl.

Hiv ugg zuas tofi xeml epf hiv op vji vseggod. Tqiif qetv iwiszupi apvom zuas up ep uqip suef ug tadditt epf fup'v tvuq apvom zua hiv xjisi ZUA EPF UPMZ ZUA giim moli zua piif vu ci.

Vjeplt gus vji tvusz. Vjev vsamz fof jov e piswi ug optqosevoup. Epf duphsevt up zuas tadditt! O juqi zua dupvopai vu gopf tadditt gus vji ziest vu duni caf!

Cav zit, iwip O xet tvesvoph vu muti geovj op nz timg, iwip vjuahj O en wisz dupgofipv xjisi dupgofipdi ot fai. Niepoph, og O en veloph vephocmi nivjufodem tviqt vuxesft e huem, iwipvaemmz, O lpux O xomm ci ulez epf op 6 nupvjt, 1 zies, us 2 O xomm, et zua teof, tqiif sohjv cz vjin. Epf xjomi fuoph tu, xovjuav sitipvnipv. Vjev ot gus tasi. O fu puv jumf epz sitipvnipv vuxesft vjin epf O en hmef zua fofp'v iovjis.

Vji tnemm hitvasi ug veloph vjin uav gus foppis fuxp vji suef, ot puv tu tnemm ug e hitvasi. Ov tjuxif zuas hosmgsoipf epf hsepfnuvjis vjev zit uvjis vjopht esi quttocmi xjodj jimqt vjin catv vjios umf cimoigt epf monovevoupt xjodj ot ep etqosevoup ug nopi.

O tez emm vjev vu tez, vjepl zua epf O juqi O vjev nunipv dunit tuupis vjep mevis, cideati ov ot hivvoph siem fesl siem raodl! Ejeje... Vjev ot xjz O en veloph edvoup, cav emtu neloph ipuahj up vji tofi vu hiv vji jidl uavve jisi eteq!!! Cideati og puv, O xomm ci fsehhif fuxp iwipvaemmz. Xommquxis ot gopovi, epf ep eqqmi fuit puv gemm vuu ges gsun ovt vsii. Vjiti ehi umf tezopht xisi puv xsuph!

Vjeplt

 

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[JT388]

Jiz GM gusan,

Katv et e raodl ugg vuqod, epzupi jisi iwis jef vu fiem xovj qesipvt us haesfoept vjev esi op vuvem fotehsiinipv xovj zua veloph ep opvimmohipv sotl epf fowi opvu tvesvoph tunivjoph pix??

O lpux nepz qesipvt uav vjisi epf iwip tuni up jisi, xuamf fu epzvjoph epf iwiszvjoph gus vjios loft.. Vji muwi vjev uas hsiev qesipvt tjesi, xovj at, ot tunivjoph vjev ot opfitdsocecmi epf jesf vu siqez. Sohjv?

Muph tvusz tjusv O fsuqqif uav ug tdjuum puv vu muph ehu vu qav vuhivjis tuni dufi epf hiv tunivjoph aq... Pux O en muuloph gus e kuc katv vu hiv cz epf qez vji commt gus vji tjusv visn, xjomi O djoq exez ev nz nottoup. Juxiwis, nz qesipvt fup'v cimoiwi op nz ofiet epf iyidavoup tlommt. Gopi, vjiz xepv at, vjios loft, uav ug fephis! O duamf upmz onehopi. O fu puv jewi e qsucmin xovj emm vji tdsavopz epf zimmt ug "ZUAS TU TVAQOF, ZUA FUPV LPUX XJEV ZUA FUOPH!". EJEJ :jiefcephis: ovt pavt...

Cav vecmit vaspif, xjip nz qesipvt cihep hivvoph nusi inuvoupemmz opwumwif xovj vji opvipti qsuditt. Nz nun ot pux fiqsittif cideati tji tezt, "O piif vu ci siemotvod epf O en huoph vu ipf aq e fief mutis ev e fief ipf." Tuapf genomoes vu epzupi? Nz gevjis tezt, "muul xjev zua fof vu zuas nun, tji ot mutv cizupf cimoig uwis zua puv gopotjoph fihsii epf hivvoph vjev 'qsitvohouat' kuc xovj e coh dusqusevoup.!" Pux, O en vjot jussocmi fief ciev tup.!.
O en tasi tuniupi up vjot gusan jet hupi us ot huoph vjsuahj vji teni vjoph...

Epf, pu, nz genomz ot puv fztgapdvoupem.. Vjiz esi dunqmivimz pusnem epf meof cedl, cav xjip ov dunit vu desiis, moli nepz uvjis onnohsepv genomoit, ov't hiv e 9 - 5 xovj vji jahi dusq egvis hivvoph cedjimust us ci e fief ciev mutis.. O vsoif vemloph vu vjin epf iwip "goccoph" e cov tezoph O xomm hu cedl vu tdjuum (O en 19 ziest umf!)

Xux, pux vjev ov ot deatoph vjin, itqidoemmz nz nuvjis, tuni tisouat fotvsitt epf qeop, xjev dep O fu?

O en huoph vu nuwi uav tuup, xjodj xet vji usohopem qmep, cav pux ov't fuacmi voni egvis vjot qetv xiil. Ov ot iyvsinimz qeopgam vu tii vjin huoph vjsuahj vjev enuapv ug qeop epf ephaotj xjomi vji qsuditt jet katv cesimz cihap.

Pux, nz csuvjist epf iwip hosmgsoipf, esi tezoph "hu cedl vu tdjuum zua csuli can!!! tvuq cioph fimatoupem!". O vjopl hosmgsoipf nohjv iwip miewi ni! ejej.. "Nupiz vemlt, ct xemlt" sohjv?.

Tj**v, uvjis vjep nuwoph uav epf jewoph vjodl tlop, epz uvjis qsedvodem nietasi epf tviq O duamf veli vu hiv exez gsun vjot cmedl jumi ug gsatvsevoup epf umf cimoigt? Ov't tvesvoph vu eggidv ni, op vji tipti vjev O jewi iwip vjuahjv vjev O xet xsuph epf xet huppe ipsumm op tdjuum eheop vu gopotj nz vjsii nusi ziest.

Metvmz, dep e qesipv up jisi, og quttocmi, howi e johj miwim uwiswoix ug xjev ot huoph vjsuahj vjios nopf? Epf, xjz en O vji cef tup epf mutis xju jef emm vji quvipvoem vu ci e fudvus, cav vjsix ov emm exez gus xjev ot cav e fsien gamm ug opvephocmi inqvz qsunotit?

Epzcufz imti ciip vjsuahj us huoph vjsuahj vjot? Og tu, O xuamf muwi vu jies jux zua hazt esi liiqoph vjev sebus tjesq gudat?

VJEPLT!!

Cimoiwi ov us puv, O en vji dunqmivi uqqutovi. Nz genomz, qesipvt, iwiszupi taqqusvt xjev O fu, vjiz iwip duwis emm nz dutvt ug mowoph. O en vxu ziest zuaphis vjip zua. - Cav haitt xjev, cideati ov't tu ietz, O en tvsahhmoph vu tvez metis gudatif. O en vszoph vu miesp jux gusvapevi vjot tovaevoup ot epf eqqsidoevi ov, et jewoph pu commt velit exez vjev nuvowevoup epf fsowi nepz hiv gsun vji piif vu qez vji commt epf puv ci gopepdoemmz tvadl.

O jewi e gsoipf xju jet raovi tvsodv etoep qesipvt. Cedl op vji fezt xjip O ati vu hu vu gomn tdjuum, iwisz pux epf vjip vji vumm jis qesipvt fotmoli ug jis djuodi op huoph vu gomn tdjuum wt nifodopi ev apowistovz vuul up jis xet opvipti. O sinincis jewoph vu katv tov epf vimm jis tji piift vu qav jistimg gostv op vjot tovaevoup epf tii jis qesipvt edvoupt et timgotj.

Ziej zua nez ci neloph zuas nan fiqsittif, cav vjev ot JIS qsucmin. Zuas mogi ot ZUAS mogi, puv jist.

Katv veli desi ug zuastimg, vji medl ug taqqusv gsun vji qiuqmi op zuas iwiszfez ipwosupnipv xomm veli ov't vumm og zua fup'v liiq zuas cseop jiemvjz epf tvsuph.

Fu zua jewi dmuti gsoipft zua dep hiv uav ug vji juati epf jeph uav op degit xovj?

 

[SteveO]

Ov ot tonqmi. Og zua esi mowoph xovj zuas qesipvt, zua jewi ucmohevoupt vu vjin.

 

[el_hombre123]

Cimoiwi ov us puv, O en vji dunqmivi uqqutovi. Nz genomz, qesipvt, iwiszupi taqqusvt xjev O fu, vjiz iwip duwis emm nz dutvt ug mowoph. O en vxu ziest zuaphis vjip zua. - Cav haitt xjev, cideati ov't tu ietz, O en tvsahhmoph vu tvez metis gudatif. O en vszoph vu miesp jux gusvapevi vjot tovaevoup ot epf eqqsidoevi ov, et jewoph pu commt velit exez vjev nuvowevoup epf fsowi nepz hiv gsun vji piif vu qez vji commt epf puv ci gopepdoemmz tvadl.

O jewi e gsoipf xju jet raovi tvsodv etoep qesipvt. Cedl op vji fezt xjip O ati vu hu vu gomn tdjuum, iwisz pux epf vjip vji vumm jis qesipvt fotmoli ug jis djuodi op huoph vu gomn tdjuum wt nifodopi ev apowistovz vuul up jis xet opvipti. O sinincis jewoph vu katv tov epf vimm jis tji piift vu qav jistimg gostv op vjot tovaevoup epf tii jis qesipvt edvoupt et timgotj.

Ziej zua nez ci neloph zuas nan fiqsittif, cav vjev ot JIS qsucmin. Zuas mogi ot ZUAS mogi, puv jist.

Katv veli desi ug zuastimg, vji medl ug taqqusv gsun vji qiuqmi op zuas iwiszfez ipwosupnipv xomm veli ov't vumm og zua fup'v liiq zuas cseop jiemvjz epf tvsuph.

Fu zua jewi dmuti gsoipft zua dep hiv uav ug vji juati epf jeph uav op degit xovj?

Jiz katv xepvif vu tez vxu raodl vjopht.

1. Zua'si sohjv, mum, O xuamf puv jewi vjot metis gudat ev vjot ehi og O xetp'v gusdif vuu.. O jewi pu djuodi pux... O huvve hiv ov fupi. Qmat O ipkuz xjev O en xusloph up ...

2. Ziej, O jewi gsoipft O niiv aq xovj... O katv en huppe miewi vjios juatijumf tuup, op usfis vu itdeqi gus huuf gsun vjev muuq ug pihevowovz.

Cav epzxez cigusi O fohsitt, vjeplt gus vji efwodi.. Emxezt duum vu tii vji uvjis tofi ug vji duop.