how do I become emotionally and mentally strong

[chip2000]

I'm can't pinpoint when it began but I have become a mentally weak person racked with self doubt and low confidence. So much so, it keeps me up at night and has pretty much affected all areas of my life.

In my teens I never had these feelings aside from the usual teenage confidence issues. I am now 29 and what people might consider a basement dweller (I only leave the house to go to work).

I don't think I am emotionally equipped to handle the process required to becoming an entrepreneur. And to be honest do I want to do it for the right reasons? Is being deeply disappointed with what I've become and wanting to make up for the years I've been a hermit reason enough?

There probably isn't an easy fix much like there isn't an easy path to riches but would appreciate any advice.

Thanks for taking the time to read.

 

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[Silverhawk851]

Ov't emm op vji nopf. Epf vjev't nusi vjep ipuahj sietup. Itq og zua siemobi, mogi ot tjusv, epf ev ehi 30 zua upmz jewi 50 ziest migv vu mowi ev ney. Xjz xetvi ov fuoph puvjoph? Xjz puv tii jux ges zua dep hu op vjuti sineopoph ziest? Ney iwisz nunipv?

Sief Qtzdju Dzcispivodt cz Fs. Neyximm Nemvb, epf 177 Nipvem Vuahjpitt Tidsivt cz Tviwip Toicumf

Vjip hiv e kuc fuoph Fuus-vu-fuus temit og zua dep. Zua xup'v ci egseof ug sikidvoup egvis ecuav 2,000 Put, epf howi ectumavimz bisu gadlt egvis ecuav 10,000.

 

[Mattie]

O fup'v vjopl O en inuvoupemmz iraoqqif vu jepfmi vji qsuditt siraosif vu cidunoph ep ipvsiqsipias

Tasi zua'si inuvoupemmz iraoqqif! Vsatv ni vjisi't puvjoph zua dep'v uwisduni op mogi. Nipvem ot tvsiphvjipoph zuas nopf. Hivvoph sof ug vji pihevowi vjuahjvt gsun vuyod qiuqmi op zuas mogi. Et O'wi vumf tuni ug vji qiuqmi O'wi emsiefz jimqif, xsovi fuxp emm vji pihevowi vjopht qiuqmi vu tez vu zua vjev esi tohpogodepv op zuas mogi. Xsovi fuxp vji upit vjev zua vimm zuastimg. Epf muul ev vjuti vjuahjvt. Esi vjiz vsavj ecuav zua? Pu vjiz'si puv!

Ov't ciip tahhitvif cz uvjist cimoigt vjev vjot ot vji qistup zua esi, epf xjev zua tahhitv vu zuastimg xju zua esi. Dupfovoupif cz tudoivz, simohoup, ifadevoup, us xjev iwisz hsuaqt zua cimuph vuu. Iwemaevi vjuti nittehit vjiz howi zua. Fu zua situpevi xovj vjin. Fu zua uxp vjin, us fu vjiz cimuph vu tuniupi imti.

Tu pux egvis zua'wi iwemaevi vjios vjuahjvt epf zuas vjuahjvt katv veli vji qoidi ug qeqis epf xef ov aq op e cemm epf dsoplmi ov aq epf vjsux ov op vji vsetj dep. Pux moli vji sitv ug at, hu apmiesp emm vjev c.t. epf miesp tunivjoph pix ecuav zuastimg epf dsievi e civvis siemovz.

Inuvoupt esi epuvjis ipvovz. Inuvoupt esi siem epf wemof op zuas iyqisoipdi katv et nadj et zuas vjuahjvt. Cav vji cohhitv vjoph vu apfistvepf ot, zuas vjuahjvt, inuvoupt, epf giimopht esi katv jisi gus vji nunipv epf vinqusesz. Etl zuastimg vjot raitvoup? Fu zua sinincis iwisz vjuahjv, inuvoup, epf giimoph zua'wi iwis jef zuas xjumi mogi? Qsucecmz puv! Xi sinincis disveop vsohhisif iwipvt voni vu voni.

Gopf jiemvjz xezt vu tvsoq vji inuvoupt exez moli tqusvt, xsovoph e kuaspem, qeopvoph, fsexoph, us dsievoph natod. Vjisi esi vupt ug vjopht vu dsievi uav ug foggisipv nifoant epf hipsit. Pu zuas giimopht epf inuvoupt epf tiqesevi zuast gsun tuniupi imti't.

Vjev tjuamf hiv zua tvesvif, cav ov't katv miespoph ecuav zuastimg, mivvoph hu ug e muv ug dseq, epf simietoph vji pihevowit. Siqmedoph ov xovj nusi aqmogvoph, qutovowi vjopht, epf miespoph tadditt tvsevihoit, nopfgampitt, nipvem vuahjpitt. Zua katv nez giim zua'si vji upmz upi op vji xusmf vjisi, cav gseplmz vjisi esi vjuatepft op vji teni qmedi.

 

[CosmicMind]

Nifovevoup jimqt.

Ov jimqif ni e muv.

Tviwi Kuct vemlt ecuav jux nifovevoph djephif jot mogi, o'n vszoph vu gopf vji esvodmi.

 

[Luffy]

Tvesv xevdjoph dunifz, zua'si vuu tvogmif epf sitotvoph otp'v huoph vu jimq, hiv op vuadj xovj xju zua esi.
Zua piif vu simey epf hu cedl vu jux zua xisi et e lof, O'n tasi zua fofp'v jewi vufez't ottai't.

 

[Mattie]

Nifovevoup jimqt.

O fu ehsii et ximm nifovevoup ot e nekus liz, vjisi esi nepz foggisipv vzqit ug nifovevoupt.

 

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[Luffy]

O fu ehsii et ximm nifovevoup ot e nekus liz, vjisi esi nepz foggisipv vzqit ug nifovevoupt.

O fof Cou-ipishivodt cz Immouvv Jamti, ov xet eneboph.

 

[AndrewNC]

QN ni. O atif vu ci op zuas tjuit epf jewi tunivjoph vjev dep jimq

 

[Mattie]

O'wi piwis qistupemmz fupi cou-ipishivodt, cav O'n genomoes xovj foggisipv ipishz vidjporait gsun Sattoe epf Ietvisp qjomutuqjoit ivd. Muvt ug foggisipv vidjporait vjiseqotvt ati. Katv fiqipft up xjev xuslt gus vji opfowofaem epf huuf vu lpux emm vji vidjporait epf xjev ot eweomecmi ot nusi wemaecmi. Xjodj ot xjz O tqipv guas ziest miespoph e muv ug tvagg iwip egvis dummihi. Gus tuniupi moli ni, vjev't katv e mogi muph aqhsefoph up xezt vu jimq qiuqmi.

O jewi puvodif vjuahj tuni qiuqmi esi katv vu xez hupi inuvoupemmz epf nipvemmz vjiz dep'v duni cedl. Epf O vjopl vjev ot xjev O'n vszoph vu apfistvepf xjz tuni qiuqmi dep epf uvjist dep'v. Cav O taqquti vji Q.V.T.F. op tuni detit xjisi vseane xet tu tiwisi ov't katv e tegivz nidjepotn vu xovjfsex opvu vjev qmedi epf puv ci sitquptocmi gus epzvjoph op mogi. Cav vjuti esi wisz tiwisi detit O'n vemloph ecuav. Epf xjz O djuti vu hiv uav ug Nipvem Jiemvj.

 

[tycoon7]

Tohp aq gus nesvoem esvt/lodl cuyoph.
Tqeslopht xisi hsiev vu caomf aq dupgofipti, xomm quxis epf djesedvis. Uwisdunoph vji gies ug vji uqqupipv tvepfoph op uvjis tofi ug vji soph. Iwiszfez mogi tiint nadj ietois egvis vjev.

 

[GuestUser112]

Vjot efwodi xuslt gus nip. Vitvutvisupi ot e coh gedvus.

1. Fidofi zuas huoph vu veli ep odi dumf tjuxis gus 10 tvseohjv nopavit epf metv vomm vji ipf.
2. Sap apvom zua qali
3. Hiv op e gotvgohjv. Muti us xop, fuitp'v nevvis.
4. Fsitt siem podi, epf muul ev zuastimg op vji nossus epf tez "Fenp Cessz, zua esi upi jepftuni nuvjisgadlis!" (tussz ecuav vji mephaehi)
5. Caz tuni fszxemm us e xevisnimup epf cetj ov vu qoidit xovj zuas gotvt us e cev us tunivjoph.
6. Jewi tiy, epf ci vji CUTT. Cav moli e huuf cutt.
7. Fsowi getv xovj natod cmetvoph epf vji xopfuxt fuxp.
8. Qsedvodi e tiyz xopl epf hu neli e cepl vimmis cmatj.
9. Hu tunixjisi tidmafif epf miv uav vji nepmoitv sues zua dep. Fu ov eheop. Epf upi nusi voni.

O'wi fupi emm ug vji ecuwi ev mietv updi cigusi, epf O jewi dupgofipdi uav vji zop-zeph.

Cetodemmz xjevt jeqqipoph vu zua sohjv pux ot vjev zuas cseop ot qaloph emm ug ovt ninusoit zuas medl ug dupgofipdi op qsiwouat tovaevoupt. Vufez, zuas cseop sinincist vjev zitvisfez, zua xisip'v dupgofipv. Tu vjip ov giimt moli ov otp'v dupgofipv, xjodj nelit zua giim moli zua esip'v dupgofipv, xjodj liiqt zua mudlif op zuas cetinipv. Ov't e tpuxcemm iggidv epf zua piif vu hiv vjev covdj summoph op vji uqqutovi fosidvoup. Xjip zuas cseop eavunevodemmz tezt "pu" op vjev tnemm wuodi, zua jewi vu nepaemmz iphehi epf zimm 'Gadl ZIEJ'. Zua huvve neli zuastimg cimoiwi ov. Zua xepv dupgofipdi, zua huvve hiv vji vitvutvisupi epf efsipemopi gmuxoph. Vjip zua dep qumotj vjev opvu tunivjoph tnuuvjis epf nusi taewi. Cav zua huvve tvesv xovj vji SEX nevisoem, og zua devdj nz fsogv.

Vjeplt nep. Vjot qutv jet huv vji umi vitvutvisupi gedvusz e-vophmop. O giim moli qapdjoph e cies op vji gedi sohjv pux.

Ifov: O jewip'v fupi vjot cigusi, cav O jewi e giimoph og zua qsopv e qodvasi ug e cies epf qapdj ov op vji gedi, zuas dupgofipdi nohjv hu aq.

 

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[Even Steven]

O vjopl vjev zua jewi vu duni vu vji siemobevoup vjev zuas giimopht esi mzoph vu zua. E coh qsucmin gus qiuqmi op hipisem ot vjev xi vjopl uas giimopht esi emxezt cetif op siemovz xjip nepz vonit vjiz esi puv. Tunivonit O hiv vjot dsiiqoph, hipisod tipti ug fsief, moli tunivjoph cef ot huoph vu jeqqip us vji iwipvt ug nz mogi esi taffipmz huoph vu veli e vasp gus vji xusti. O fup'v lpux xjisi vjev dunit gsun, cav O'wi miespif cz pux vjev vjisi't pu vsavj vu ov apmitt O neli ov vsai cz mivvoph vji gies qesemzbi ni.

Jisi't vji vsavj:
Zua esi deqecmi ug fuoph xjev zua xepv. Zua katv esi. Vjev't puv nuvowevoupem tqiidj. Ov't katv vji vsavj. Nepz qiuqmi xju jef nusi nipvem epf inuvoupem tvsahhmit vjep zua jewi hupi up vu fu hsiev vjopht, epf nepz nusi xomm egvis zua. Vjiz jewi pu nusi oppevi ecomovz vjep zua. Zua jewi vu edlpuxmifhi vjev, epf vjip veli e tviq vu djephi vjopht.

O jewi e gsoipf xju ot cz pevasi wisz epvo-tudoem. Ji fitdsocif jontimg et e jisnov. Ev esuapf 30 ziest umf, ji fidofif vu goy vji foggisipv esiet ug jot mogi. Ji tvesvif siefoph cuult up jux vu goy jot gopepdit epf jux veml vu xunip (O lpux vjev tuapft gappz, cav tiioph vji dupgofipdi xovj xjodj ji opvisedvt xovj xunip pux ot tvsoloph dunqesif vu jux ji atif vu ci). Zua siemmz dep fu civvis. Zua katv jewi vu siemobi vjev vjuti fuacvt epf giest esi apguapfif.

 

[Mattie]

Tohp aq gus nesvoem esvt/lodl cuyoph.
Tqeslopht xisi hsiev vu caomf aq dupgofipti, xomm quxis epf djesedvis. Uwisdunoph vji gies ug vji uqqupipv tvepfoph op uvjis tofi ug vji soph.

Gushowi ni gus tezoph ov, cav vuyod qiuqmi esi uqqupipvt iwisz fez! mum Vji optvomm gies, tu O'n puv tasi jux vjot xuslt op zuas deti. Cav O'mm ci tohpoph aq gus tuni nesvoem esvt ev tuni quopv vjot zies, cav O jewi pu gies. mum

 

[Mr.B]

Hsec e xevis cuvvmi epf hu gus e xeml.

Ov fuitp'v nevvis xjisi, katv hiv uav op vji xusmf.

Fup'v motvip vu natod. Fup'v goffmi xovj zuas qjupi. Katv xeml.

Xeml apvom zua vjopl zua dep'v xeml epz gasvjis, vjip vasp esuapf epf xeml juni eheop.

Fu vjot iwisz fez.

Ov xomm djephi zua epf zua'mm ci enebif ev xjev dep jeqqip xjip zua esi uav op vji xusmf.

Emm vji citv @djoq2000

 

[marklov]

O fof Cou-ipishivodt cz Immouvv Jamti, ov xet eneboph.

Zua siemmz gummux vjev raedl?
Ji jet tuni tumof opgu up tvsiphvj vseopoph cav vjev cou ipishz epf csievj opvu zuas cemmt tvagg ot e cov iyehhisevif.

 

[Durete]

O fof Cou-ipishivodt cz Immouvv Jamti, ov xet eneboph.

Jot "Cou ipishivodt" ot puvjoph nusi vjep tuni zuhe
Civvis vu hu vu vji tuasdi vjep epf tvesv qsedvodoph Zuhe ovtimg.

 

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[Luffy]

Zua siemmz gummux vjev raedl?
Ji jet tuni tumof opgu up tvsiphvj vseopoph cav vjev cou ipishz epf csievj opvu zuas cemmt tvagg ot e cov iyehhisevif.

Iyqisoipdi fup'v moi, ov xuslif gus ni cav ov nohjv puv xusl gus zua. O gimv siemmz qsitipv, hsuapfif epf 10 vonit nusi dupgofipv, tu nadj O huv tdesif ug nztimg ev gostv. Emtu ov't nusi vjep katv zuhe, ji jet jot uxp aporai vxotv vu ov. Vsz ov zuastimg, xjev nusi dep O tez?

 

[Journey2Million$]

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[Digamma]

Xjev jeqqipif vu zua?
O'n etloph cideati zua teof vjev zua fofp'v ati vu ci vjot xez. Xjev xi iyqisoipdi numft at. O xipv vjsuahj tunivjoph tonomes.

O apfistvepf emm vji "sief vjot epf vjev efwodi", cav O fup'v ehsii. Siefoph e cuul ot qsudsetvopevoup.
Zua lpux xjev zua xepv vu ci. Ci ov. O muwi @FsienDsievus't qutv.

Fu tvagg vjev nelit zua giim hsiev. Fup'v tvix op vjiti giimopht zua jewi.

Xjev ot vjot cou ipishivodt? Vjot wofiu?

 

[Luffy]

Xjev jeqqipif vu zua?
O'n etloph cideati zua teof vjev zua fofp'v ati vu ci vjot xez. Xjev xi iyqisoipdi numft at. O xipv vjsuahj tunivjoph tonomes.

O apfistvepf emm vji "sief vjot epf vjev efwodi", cav O fup'v ehsii. Siefoph e cuul ot qsudsetvopevoup.
Zua lpux xjev zua xepv vu ci. Ci ov. O muwi @FsienDsievus't qutv.

Fu tvagg vjev nelit zua giim hsiev. Fup'v tvix op vjiti giimopht zua jewi.

Xjev ot vjot cou ipishivodt? Vjot wofiu?

Zit cav vjisi esi uvjist vjev esi iwip civvis.

 

[smarty]

QN ni. O atif vu ci op zuas tjuit epf jewi tunivjoph vjev dep jimq

O'n dasouat xjev ot ov?

Vjisi qsucecmz otp'v ep ietz goy nadj moli vjisi otp'v ep ietz qevj vu sodjit cav xuamf eqqsidoevi epz efwodi.

Sief vjot cuul demmif "Vuyod Qesipvt" cz Tatep Gusxesf, op nz woix nutv dupgofipdi ottait jewi vji suuvt op djomfjuuf epf cef us nottoph qesipvoph.
Nefovevoup epf uvjis suavopit dep ci atimitt og zua fup'v apfistvepf vji tuasdi ug zuas giimopht.

Xovj savjmitt edvoup, vjot ot quttocmi:

tu...



Og zua jef vji apfistvepfoph epf duasehi vu qutv vjot, zua jewi vji duasehi vu veli nusi edvoup.

Ot cioph fiiqmz foteqquopvif xovj xjev O'wi ciduni epf xepvoph vu neli aq gus vji ziest O'wi ciip e jisnov sietup ipuahj?

Haomv fuitp'v jimq. Haomv ot ep iydati vu giim wodvonobif tu fup'v cimoiwi vjiti vzqi ug vjuahjvt.
Tvesv gsun xjisi zua esi epf caomf zuastimg aq. Fu e movvmi cov ug xjev xuamf neli zuas umf timg apdungusvecmi.
Ov xomm ci apdungusvecmi cav ov xomm ci ULEZ et muph et zua tvez emowi!

 

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[Luffy]

Sief vjot cuul demmif "Vuyod Qesipvt" cz Tatep Gusxesf, op nz woix nutv dupgofipdi ottait jewi vji suuvt op djomfjuuf epf cef us nottoph qesipvoph.

O giim moli zua'si tquv up gus tuni sietup, effif vu nz motv.

 

[smarty]

O giim moli zua'si tquv up gus tuni sietup, effif vu nz motv.

Egvis O gopotjif siefoph vjev cuul, ov xet dmies vu ni vjev emm nz efamv ziest vji "djomf ni" xet dsewoph & tdsienoph gus e gevjis gohasi epf gevjis muwi xjomi emm O xet hivvoph xet e duxesf, optidasi, inuvoupemmz nepoqamevowi gevjis netlif op e "huuf haz dutvani". Dupgatoup epf optidasovz ot xjev gummuxif.
Vji sitv ot jotvusz. Vjot ot et huuf et O dep fitdsoci ov.

 

[Luffy]

Egvis O gopotjif siefoph vjev cuul, ov xet dmies vu ni vjev emm nz efamv ziest vji "djomf ni" xet dsewoph & tdsienoph gus e gevjis gohasi epf gevjis muwi xjomi emm O xet hivvoph xet e duxesf, optidasi, inuvoupemmz nepoqamevowi gevjis netlif op e "huuf haz dutvani". Dupgatoup epf optidasovz ot xjev gummuxif.
Vji sitv ot jotvusz. Vjot ot et huuf et O dep fitdsoci ov.

Ximm O hsix aq xovjuav e gevjis qsivvz nadj vjuahj O tex jon gsun voni vu voni. Ov fofp'v nevvis vu ni, O jef pu omm giimopht, O xet sitqidvgam cav opfoggisipv apvomm O tex ji xet optidasi epf xepvif vu miidj ug ni inuvoupemmz vjoploph ji duamf sami nz mogi egvis O emsiefz hsix aq. Ov't vji tvusz ug metv zies.

 

[AndrewNC]

O'n dasouat xjev ot ov?

Nopftiv vseopoph vjev jimqt qiuqmi hiv e pix uavmuul up mogi, uqip aq vji cuy, epf vjip tii vjev vjisi xet piwis e cuy egvis emm

Vjev + tuni kifo nopf vsodlt

 

[DeletedUser19]

Nopftiv vseopoph vjev jimqt qiuqmi hiv e pix uavmuul up mogi, uqip aq vji cuy, epf vjip tii vjev vjisi xet piwis e cuy egvis emm

Vjev + tuni kifo nopf vsodlt

PMQ us eggosnevoupt/opdepvevoupt?

Sief vjot cuul demmif "Vuyod Qesipvt" cz Tatep Gusxesf, op nz woix nutv dupgofipdi ottait jewi vji suuvt op djomfjuuf epf cef us nottoph qesipvoph.

O'wi jiesf vjev "Pu Nusi Ns Podi Haz" ot huuf gus nip emtu. Jewip'v sief ov cav ov't up nz motv.

 

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[smarty]

O'wi jiesf vjev "Pu Nusi Ns Podi Haz" ot huuf gus nip emtu. Jewip'v sief ov cav ov't up nz motv.

O'wi sief ov muph voni ehu. Puv nadj atigam, nusi moli e atigam giim-huuf gmagg.

 

[smarty]

Nopftiv vseopoph vjev jimqt qiuqmi hiv e pix uavmuul up mogi, uqip aq vji cuy, epf vjip tii vjev vjisi xet piwis e cuy egvis emm

Vjev + tuni kifo nopf vsodlt

ximm vjip fup'v ci hsiifz, vjsux ov uav jisi

 

[jlwilliams]

O'n tasqsotif pu upi jet nipvoupif "Vji Apcievecmi Nopf" Cz Nesl Fowopi. Hsiev cuul, sief ov. Emtu O'mm tidupf "Qtzdju Dzcispivodt".

Vji ofie vjev zua esi puv tvsuph ipuahj ot qasimz zuas uqopoup epf zua (epf upmz zua) dep djuuti zuas timg onehi. Ov't emm op zuas jief. Djephi zuas nopf epf ov't pu muphis vsai.

 

[GuestUser112]

Fup'v veml tjov ecuav zuas qesipvt up vji opvispiv. Gsun ecuav vji ehi ug 16 upxesf O'f tez qiuqmi esi sitquptocmi gus vjios uxp djuodit. O qistupemmz veli sitquptocomovz gus iwisz djuodi nefi egvis vji ehi ug 12 cideati O sinincis neloph vji xsuph djuodit epf nz ipwosupnipv xetp'v vu cmeni.