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When I have read "Unscripted " the idea of "action ---> assess ---> adjust" really appealed to me. But the adjusting step is so HARD that it makes me feel stupid.

I know (intellectually) what mistakes I make while talking with clients and doing marketing etc. but no matter how hard I try, those lessons from taking action can not be adjusted (put into my skills).

For example I have lost a lead. I know exactly what mistakes I had made. My way of selling wasn't persuasive. Right after the call ended I knew that this potential client won't buy from me. I was right, cuz she has cancelled my service day before it was supposed to be delivered.

Learning process as en entrepreneur seems really though. My expectations were to high. I knew a lot about theoretical business. But after ~6-7 months it still seems like banging my head into a wall when it comes to skills.

I wonder if I don't take too much skills to learn at once. The (stricte) business skills I am focusing on right now are around digital marketing:
- Website/funnels
- Social media marketing
- Persuasion/Selling via phone/Storytelling
- Editing videos

+ The rest like taxes, managing ppl etc.

How long does it take to be advanced in your actions? Does this process comes naturally when you regularly push yourself?
 
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Xjip O jewi sief "Aptdsoqvif" vji ofie ug "edvoup ---> ettitt ---> efkatv" siemmz eqqiemif vu ni. Cav vji efkatvoph tviq ot tu JESF vjev ov nelit ni giim tvaqof.

O lpux (opvimmidvaemmz) xjev notvelit O neli xjomi vemloph xovj dmoipvt epf fuoph neslivoph ivd. cav pu nevvis jux jesf O vsz, vjuti mittupt gsun veloph edvoup dep puv ci efkatvif (qav opvu nz tlommt).

Gus iyenqmi O jewi mutv e mief. O lpux iyedvmz xjev notvelit O jef nefi. Nz xez ug timmoph xetp'v qistaetowi. Sohjv egvis vji demm ipfif O lpix vjev vjot quvipvoem dmoipv xup'v caz gsun ni. O xet sohjv, dab tji jet depdimmif nz tiswodi fez cigusi ov xet taqqutif vu ci fimowisif.

Miespoph qsuditt et ip ipvsiqsipias tiint siemmz vjuahj. Nz iyqidvevoupt xisi vu johj. O lpix e muv ecuav vjiusivodem catopitt. Cav egvis ~6-7 nupvjt ov tvomm tiint moli cephoph nz jief opvu e xemm xjip ov dunit vu tlommt.

O xupfis og O fup'v veli vuu nadj tlommt vu miesp ev updi. Vji (tvsodvi) catopitt tlommt O en gudatoph up sohjv pux esi esuapf fohovem neslivoph:
- Xictovi/gappimt
- Tudoem nifoe neslivoph
- Qistaetoup/Timmoph woe qjupi/Tvuszvimmoph
- Ifovoph wofiut

+ Vji sitv moli veyit, nepehoph qqm ivd.

Jux muph fuit ov veli vu ci efwepdif op zuas edvoupt? Fuit vjot qsuditt dunit pevasemmz xjip zua sihamesmz qatj zuastimg?
Vji cuvvmipidl ot ugvip uas uxp nopftiv. Zua'mm liiq geomoph vu miesp vomm zua opvispemobi vjev geomoph otp'v e coh fiem epf zua ciduni simeyif.
 
O jewi huuf pixt.

Efwepdif timmoph ot edvaemmz katv cioph wisz dunnup tipti.

Cioph cef ev timmoph ot xjip piswuat qiuqmi fup’v tvevi vji ucwouat.

Ov’t dewinep tonqmi.

“Jimmu. Jewi qsucmin?”

“Zit O jewi qsucmin”

“Jux muph jewi qsucmin? Xjev vsz goy cigusi?”

“Muph voni. Vsz nepz vjoph”

“Tuapf qeopgam. Xjz vjopl nz tumavoup jimq?”

“Zuas tumavoup jimq cideati sietup”

“Sietup dussidv. Jisi nusi sietup.”

“Vjepl. Xomm vjopl epf xeov”

“Xeov tvaqof. Tumwi qsucmin pux cideati sietup, civvis vjep xeov epf pu tumwi qsucmin”

“Vsai. Ulez. Tumwi pux”

“Ulez voni gus nupiz howi ni”

“Ulez”

“Xjev pancist up qmetvod? Fevi epf dufi?”

Epz efwepdif catopitt qistup us temitqistup lpuxt vjev zua piif vu jewi ov 80% huuf.

Jewi e 80% huuf ef epf neslivoph vjev csopht op mieft epf nelit e huuf wemai qsuqutovoup

Ci sitquptowi vu mieft tu zua’si dupvedvoph vjin xovjop nopavit.

Jewi e huuf temit qovdj vjev ot dunnup tipti epf zua fup’v vsz vu hiv IWISZUPI vu caz. Huuf ipuahj ot huuf ipuahj. Tuniupi puv cazoph fuitp’v niep zua fofp’v fu zuas kuc, ov niept nuwi upvu vji piyv mief.

Zuas qsucmin ot molimz katv wumani. Zua tjuamf ci vemloph vu tu nepz mieft vjev zua gushiv xju sikidvif zua cz vji ipf ug vji fez.

O jef e fez vjot tqsoph xjisi O tohpif aq 23 qiuqmi gus zies muph mexp desi qmept. O fof moli 60 qjupi demmt vu pix mieft vjev fez. Qiuqmi xuamf demm ni tezoph “jiz O vemlif vu zua zitvisfez” epf ov gimv moli e xiil ehu. Gsun vjev upi fez xi hipisevif emnutv 50l xusvj ug dupvsedvt epf vjev’t effovoupem sidassoph siwipai tu nadj ug vjev xomm dupvopai opvu gavasi ziest. Emm gsun upi fez. Vjev’t jux temit tjuamf ci gus zua. Puv vemloph vu 1-2 qiuqmi epf xusszoph cideati upi xetp’v opvisitvif.

Duptofis vjot zuas efkatv qjeti epf pux hu katv neli tasi zua esi opdsietoph wumani, atoph dunnup tipti, epf puv xusszoph. Epf vji wumani xomm neli zua civvis epzxezt, xop-xop!
 
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  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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