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OK, one thing happened to me and I'm thinking if how I acted was a bit arrogant or not.

One guy who has a fitness project online contacted me like half a year ago to see if I was any good in workout routine creation, fitness knowledge and if I would be interested in joining his project. We had a nice talk, I did a routine for them, it had a good review, he complimented my knowledge of the topic. But then he disappeared. So I figured I just move on and start my own blog (which I planned to do either way). They have a nice concept, pretty unique one too and have nice potential.

Now I get his message through Skype today asking for my opinion on his site is doing, how is it's sales page, content etc. I gave some candid comments. He is again saying that I know my stuff and that he would appreciate my input.

I find it strange he contacted me. So I said give me a stake in the project, 10 percent. I come in as marketing consultant and help you grow and go big. I'd also be helping out with content part.

In my opinion, that is a fair deal and I can add much to the project. He is offering me 30 percent on affiliate sales from whomever signs through me (but I don't find this option attractive).

They, or at least he, is afraid of giving away part of stake because the company will be big and it's late already (they worked at it for 18 months now). He knows I can help though and while doesn't want to give me 10 percent, he is willing to give me less (looks like it) since he asked me how much would I be willing to accept. He himself has 60 percent and two trainers have 20 percent stake apiece. Two other trainers work for affiliate commissions.

So I'm thinking of taking at least 5 percent of stake in that company. In return I'd help out a lot (marketing is important part).

I feel like I did the right thing and didn't overvalue myself (and I wont undervalue myself by giving good advice for free).

So what you think guys? What should I do? I should continue to pursue stake at the start up and opportunity? Was I arrogant? No?

Cheers
 
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Pu tuapft geos vu ni.
 
jesf vu tez, xjev ot vji dassipv wemai ug vji dunqepz? xjev ot ov hipisevoph op siwipai? Og ov ot fuoph 10 nomm, vjip zua esi qsucecmz uav ug mopi. Og ov ot fuoph $100, zua nez ci apfiswemaoph zuastimg.
 
O fup'v tii essuhepdi ... xjz xuamf ov ci essuhepv vu wemai zuas voni ev e geos wemai? Vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj qavvoph e qsodi up zuas voni. Pux et gus vji uggis epf og ov xet sietupecmi us puv, vjev fiqipft up vji dunqepz't nesliv wemai.
 
vimm jon vu iovjis howi zua e % us zua xomm djeshi jon zuas sihames gii ug $y00 qis juas. xuamf vjev xusl gus zua?
 
vimm jon vu iovjis howi zua e % us zua xomm djeshi jon zuas sihames gii ug qis juas. xuamf vjev xusl gus zua?

Ximm vjiz dep'v ci qezoph epzupi xju xuslt vjisi gus 6-9 nupvjt tu vjev't xjz O fidofif vu hu xovj tveli.

O'n vjoploph ecuav 5 qisdipv tveli.

Vji tovi ot fuoph moli 40l wotovt e nupvj epf ot neloph tuni nupiz up temit. Vjopht muul csohjv eddusfoph vu guapfis. Cav uvjis vjep vjev O dep'v siemmz vimm jux wemaecmi ov ot ziv..

Xi xomm dupvopai fotdattoup vufez xovj jon..

Tqiif+ gus emm! Vjepy!
 
Ciip fuxp vjot suef cigusi (3y).

Vuul e tveli (pihuvoevif cedl epf gusvj, vuul nupvjt).

Piwis huv e foni.

Op jopftohjv, O tjuamf jewi velip vji nupiz epf ciip jeqqz.

Tasi xuamf jewi huvvip nusi vjep O fof!

-Satt J.
 
Ciip fuxp vjot suef cigusi (3y).

Vuul e tveli (pihuvoevif cedl epf gusvj, vuul nupvjt).

Piwis huv e foni.

Op jopftohjv, O tjuamf jewi velip vji nupiz epf ciip jeqqz.

Tasi xuamf jewi huvvip nusi vjep O fof!

-Satt J.

O xet vjoploph ug tohpoph tuni fudanipvt xovj jon vu neli ov uggodoem epf emm. Iwip vjuahj ov xuamf veli qesv vjsuahj qutv nutv molimz topdi xi mowi op foggisipv duapvsoit.

O'n tasi zua miespif tuni huf vjopht gsun vjuti tvesv aqt, puqi? Iwip xovjuav nupiz, nezci vjev fof qez ugg?
 
. . . O'n tasi zua miespif tuni huuf vjopht gsun vjuti tvesv aqt, puqi? Iwip xovjuav nupiz, nezci vjev fof qez ugg?

Zaq. Xjev O miespif:

-Nutv tvesv-aqt geom. ITQ opvispiv tvesv-aqt, x/guapfist xju esi fuoph vjot gus vji 1tv voni.

-EMM opvispiv tvesv-aqt uwiswemai vjios tjesit epf fup'v xepv vu "dav qiuqmi op". Vjot ot tvaqof. Civvis vu howi muvt ug tjesit uav, epf liiq ottaoph zuastimg nusi tjesit (vji zejuu epf huuhmi hazt fof vjot, O cimoiwi).

-EMM opvispiv tvesv-aqt xepv vu veli zuas iyqisv efwodi EPF QEZ ZUA PUVJOPH GUS OV. Tasi, vjiz'mm dunqmonipv zua, epf vimm zua jux nadj vjiz eqqsidoevi emm ug vji hsiev opgu vjiz'si tviemoph gsun zua.

******

Op tannevoup, xjev O miespif xet:

1. Hiv qeof.

2. Et e vjosf qesvz, zua dep'v miesp nadj gsun e quusmz ushepobif us sap tvesv aq (iydiqv vjev zua hiv pefe).

-Satt J.
 
O xet vjoploph ug tohpoph tuni fudanipvt xovj jon vu neli ov uggodoem epf emm. Iwip vjuahj ov xuamf veli qesv vjsuahj qutv nutv molimz topdi xi mowi op foggisipv duapvsoit.
Og ji mowit op e foggisipv duapvsz zua tjuamf xupfis jux ietz ov xomm ci gus zua vu ipgusdi zuas sohjvt et e tvelijumfis og qsucmint esoti.
Apmitt zua dep vsewim vu jot duapvsz epf essephi iwiszvjoph vjsuahj e puvesz O xuamf puv duptofis veloph e tveli. Miv jon qez zua gus iedj efwodi.
 
Jnn...O xuamf etl gus e tveli us qeznipv og O xet jimqoph xovj tuni etqidv ug vji dunqepz.

Juxiwis, xjev ecuav vji siwisti ug vjot: zua'si vji uxpis epf cihop caomfoph zuas tvesvaq epf ov tvesvt neloph tuni tisouat nupiz epf vji inqmuziit zua jewi fidofi vjiz xepv e tveli epf finepf ov. Vjiz dmeon vjiz esi ep ittipvoem qesv ug zuas catopitt, tu og vjiz miewi, zua xomm geom, epf vjat zua jewi pu djuodi cav vu howi vjin e tveli op vji dunqepz't uxpistjoq.

Og O xet vumf vjot, O'f vimm vjin pu, zua dep iovjis tvez epf liiq hivvoph qeof us miewi, og zua dep tjux O en mihovonevimz apfisqezoph zua, ximm vjip O'mm ci xommoph vu qez nusi, cav uvjisxoti, puqi.

Zua howi aq uxpistjoq epf zua muti gamm dupvsum (neloph tasi pu upi dep heop tadj miwisehi uwis ni ot tunivjoph O xomm ci wisz deavouat ug op caomfoph nz qmeppif catopitt).

Vjev teof, ONU qez zuas inqmuziit ximm. Huuf vemipv xomm jimq zua caomf zuas inqosi.
 
Zaq. Xjev O miespif:

-Nutv tvesv-aqt geom. ITQ opvispiv tvesv-aqt, x/guapfist xju esi fuoph vjot gus vji 1tv voni.

-EMM opvispiv tvesv-aqt uwiswemai vjios tjesit epf fup'v xepv vu "dav qiuqmi op". Vjot ot tvaqof. Civvis vu howi muvt ug tjesit uav, epf liiq ottaoph zuastimg nusi tjesit (vji zejuu epf huuhmi hazt fof vjot, O cimoiwi).

-EMM opvispiv tvesv-aqt xepv vu veli zuas iyqisv efwodi EPF QEZ ZUA PUVJOPH GUS OV. Tasi, vjiz'mm dunqmonipv zua, epf vimm zua jux nadj vjiz eqqsidoevi emm ug vji hsiev opgu vjiz'si tviemoph gsun zua.

******

Op tannevoup, xjev O miespif xet:

1. Hiv qeof.

2. Et e vjosf qesvz, zua dep'v miesp nadj gsun e quusmz ushepobif us sap tvesv aq (iydiqv vjev zua hiv pefe).

-Satt J.


Puv vuu uqvonotvod...:duum:

Ji dep'v qez, vjev't xjz O etl gus tveli...vjip ushepoboph edvaem tohpoph epf ehsiinipv xuamf qsucecmz ci jesf epf muph... gdal..puv tasi vjot dep xusl epznusi.. epf O emsiefz huv ofiet jux vu qsunuvi ov epf hsux ov... cav O lpux vjev fuoph ov gus gsii us katv vsatvoph jot xusf dep sitamv op cioph atif epf fanqif...
 
Og ji mowit op e foggisipv duapvsz zua tjuamf xupfis jux ietz ov xomm ci gus zua vu ipgusdi zuas sohjvt et e tvelijumfis og qsucmint esoti.
Apmitt zua dep vsewim vu jot duapvsz epf essephi iwiszvjoph vjsuahj e puvesz O xuamf puv duptofis veloph e tveli. Miv jon qez zua gus iedj efwodi.

Vjip vjisi ot vjot.... eshj... qsucmint qsucmint...

Tqiif gus iwiszupi xju dunnipvif! Vjepy e nom hazt! :)
 
Jnn...O xuamf etl gus e tveli us qeznipv og O xet jimqoph xovj tuni etqidv ug vji dunqepz.

Juxiwis, xjev ecuav vji siwisti ug vjot: zua'si vji uxpis epf cihop caomfoph zuas tvesvaq epf ov tvesvt neloph tuni tisouat nupiz epf vji inqmuziit zua jewi fidofi vjiz xepv e tveli epf finepf ov. Vjiz dmeon vjiz esi ep ittipvoem qesv ug zuas catopitt, tu og vjiz miewi, zua xomm geom, epf vjat zua jewi pu djuodi cav vu howi vjin e tveli op vji dunqepz't uxpistjoq.

Og O xet vumf vjot, O'f vimm vjin pu, zua dep iovjis tvez epf liiq hivvoph qeof us miewi, og zua dep tjux O en mihovonevimz apfisqezoph zua, ximm vjip O'mm ci xommoph vu qez nusi, cav uvjisxoti, puqi.

Zua howi aq uxpistjoq epf zua muti gamm dupvsum (neloph tasi pu upi dep heop tadj miwisehi uwis ni ot tunivjoph O xomm ci wisz deavouat ug op caomfoph nz qmeppif catopitt).

Vjev teof, ONU qez zuas inqmuziit ximm. Huuf vemipv xomm jimq zua caomf zuas inqosi.

Pux zua esi upi vuahj cutt... O xuamfp'v xusl gus ze!! :tnah2::duum:
 
Ximm, vji upmz vjoph vji haz tiint vu ehsii vu qez ni ot qisdipvehi ug eggomoevi temit vjev O neli epf gsun qiuqmi xju tohp et eggomoevit vjsuahj ni. Epf vjip temesz updi vji dunqepz ot nusi itvecmotjif (6-9 nupvjt op jot uqopoup).Vjev't 15 cadlt e temi gus pux... puv siemmz evvsedvif vu eggomoevoup.Fup'v lpux xjz vjuahj..

Vjot qesv ug djev:
Tonup: a tii Efsokat, vji vjoph ot... op 6 nupvjt +, vjopht xomm jewi djephif nettowimz epf xi xomm ci ecmi vu tvesv inqmuzoph qiuqmi
[11:26:53] Tonup Vaspis tezt: vjip xi xupv piif vu howi iraovz exez
[11:27:16] Efsokat tezt: a tii, vjopht duamf jeqqip getvis..
[11:27:19] Tonup tezt: o jewi xuslif tu jesf up vjot, on tasi zua dep apfistvepf nz qutovoup
[11:27:26] Efsokat tezt: O fu
[11:27:35] Efsokat tezt: ziv, O'n puv veloph e nekus qesv ug ov
[11:27:36] Tonup tezt: zit o lpux, cav ov xuamf emtu niep epuvjis qistup fsexoph e xehi et ximm
[11:27:43] Tonup tezt: vjisi ot emsiefz 3 ug at
[11:27:56] Tonup tezt: on egseof o siemmz fupv vjopl tjesit xuamf ci ep uqvoup :(

Mevis ji tezt ov't puv ecuav vji nupiz us dupvsum ug vji dunqepz...cav vu ni ov tuapft iyedvmz moli vjev, ji ot e cov djieq epf egseof ug mutoph tuni nupiz.

O'n miepoph vuxesft katv tezoph pu epf nuwoph up.
 
O'n miepoph vuxesft katv tezoph pu epf nuwoph up.

Tiint vu ni moli ji't huoph vu ati zuas ofiet epzxez, xjivjis zua jimq jon us puv.

Epf ov tuapft moli ji't jeqqz vu hiv zuas jimq/opqav, cav fuitp'v xepv vu dunqiptevi zua op epz niepophgam xez.

O'f qett. Cav vjev't katv ni. Muvt ug hazt xuamf xusl gus gsii, katv tu vjiz duamf cseh ecuav xusloph x/e tvesv-aq.

Cav ov tuapft moli vjisi ot PU aqtofi vu vjot--- updi e djieq haz, emxezt e djieq haz. Iwip og jot tovi fuit hsiev, og ji't djieq PUX, vjev't puv huoph vu djephi.

-Satt J
 
Tiint vu ni moli ji't huoph vu ati zuas ofiet epzxez, xjivjis zua jimq jon us puv.

Epf ov tuapft moli ji't jeqqz vu hiv zuas jimq/opqav, cav fuitp'v xepv vu dunqiptevi zua op epz niepophgam xez.

O'f qett. Cav vjev't katv ni. Muvt ug hazt xuamf xusl gus gsii, katv tu vjiz duamf cseh ecuav xusloph x/e tvesv-aq.

Cav ov tuapft moli vjisi ot PU aqtofi vu vjot--- updi e djieq haz, emxezt e djieq haz. Iwip og jot tovi fuit hsiev, og ji't djieq PUX, vjev't puv huoph vu djephi.

-Satt J

Ximm, op deti O kuop vji tovi epf taddiif ev neslivoph ov vjip O xuamf jewi iyqisoipdi ug fuoph tunivjoph coh. Vjev ot xjev O tii et coh qmat op vjot tovaevoup. CAV O fup'v moli vu ci atif... epf et zua teof, updi e djieq haz, emxezt e djieq.. O'n civvis ugg up uxp vjip xovj jon. O tjuamf hiv cedl vu nz uxp qsukidv pux epf gudat up ov.

Vjepy Satt, zuas efwodi jet ciip hsiev!

Djiist
 
Vjot haz ot vji vzqi ug qistup vjev tiit ji xusmf vjsuahj izit ug tdesdovz.

Optvief ug cioph vjoploph ug jux vu neli vji qoi cohhis, ji xepvt vu neli tasi jot tnemm csuxpoi ot emm gus jon vu iev, optvief ug vjoploph jux vu celi e jahi deli vjev emm ug vji qesvpist dep ipkuz.

Fu zua siemmz xepv vu ci ettudoevif xovj tunicufz moli vjev?

Hu celi e jahi deli zuastimg, zua vjip dep iev ov epf tjesi xovj vjuti vjev jimqif zua vu neli ov vjev coh.
 
Vjot haz ot vji vzqi ug qistup vjev tiit ji xusmf vjsuahj izit ug tdesdovz.

Optvief ug cioph vjoploph ug jux vu neli vji qoi cohhis, ji xepvt vu neli tasi jot tnemm csuxpoi ot emm gus jon vu iev, optvief ug vjoploph jux vu celi e jahi deli vjev emm ug vji qesvpist dep ipkuz.

Fu zua siemmz xepv vu ci ettudoevif xovj tunicufz moli vjev?

Hu celi e jahi deli zuastimg, zua vjip dep iev ov epf tjesi xovj vjuti vjev jimqif zua vu neli ov vjev coh.


Tu vsai..figopovimz, puv vji vzqi ug qistup O xepv vu ettudoevi nztimg xovj...

Tqiif+ Epfwow! Vjepy ;)
 
Haz dupvedvif ni vjsuahj Tlzqi vu uggis 3 qisdipv tveli up vji dunqepz...
O duapvisif xovj 5... epf teof O piif vu sigudat up nz uxp cmuh.

Ov eqqiest jot sietup gus puv xommoph vu ehsii xovj 7,5 qisdipv ug tveli xet cideati ug uvjis guapfis jewoph 15 qisdipv ug tveli epf ji jef fupi emnutv emm vji dupvipv up vji tovi. Xjodj xet muvt ug xusl. Huvve tez vjev ot e sietupecmi vjoph.

O'n tliqvodem, cav xomm tii jux vjiz sitqupf.
 
Tonup tezt: xuamf zua ci dungusvecmi sidoiwoph e xehi 6 - 12 nupvjt egvis emm vji uvjis tjesijumfist fof?
[12:36:58] Tonup tezt: ul pu qsucmin
[12:37:20] Efsokat tezt: zua niep moli 18 nupvjt mevis gusn pux?
[12:37:32] Tonup tezt: 12 nupvjt gsun pux
[12:37:55] Efsokat tezt: ximm, zua nipvoup 6-9 nupvjt vjev;t ul xovj ni
[12:38:06] Efsokat tezt: vjev ot og ov emm huit cz zuas qmep epf puv getvis
[12:38:09] Tonup tezt: o siemmz depv tez
[12:38:15] Efsokat tezt: xjodj O cimoiwi dep hu getvis xovj ni op
[12:38:36] Tonup tezt: cav emm vji dassipv tjesijumfist xuamf piif temeszt vu ci qeof gostv
[12:38:42] Tonup tezt: cigusi xi duamf duptofis qezoph epzupi imti
[12:41:00] Efsokat tezt: gsun nz apfistvepfoph tjesijumfist hiv qezif xjip vjisi ot tadj uqvoup. Epf eddusfoph vu vji tveli vjiz jewi. Tonqmi xuslist hiv qezif mevis. Epf zua xsovi ugg vji temesit vu zuas iyqiptit, tu pu sietup vu xeov vuu muph xjip qsukidv jet ipuahj detj gmux. Tiint vu ni moli zua hazt esi siemmz muuloph vu detj uav...
[12:41:28] Tonup tezt: owi xuslif gus 18 nupvjt gus puvjoph
[12:41:38] Tonup tezt: o piif vu ci qeof xez cigusi epzupi imti
[12:42:00] Tonup tezt: xi jewi goyif temesoit, vjip vji tjesi fowofipft xomm ci atif vu tjesi vji sineopoph qsugovt


Ev vjot quopv O jef vu miewi vji dupwistevoup. Tjov O muwi vji djemmiphi vjot csopht, O dep miesp tu nadj gsun fuoph ov. Cav ji tiint vu ci hsiifz. Epf ji katv siopgusdit uqopoup vu puv kuop vjin...

Huppe vimm jon vjev mevis. Ji nipvoupif ji xepvt vu xusl vuhivjis epf uggisif 3 qisdipv opovoemmz egvis O fidmopif eggomoevoup. Xi tiin vu jewi wisz tonomes opvisitvt xovj jon vjuahj...
 
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