Convincing Parents

[StepBow]

Hi all, when I used to talk to my parents about my future and what I want to try to do they usually shut down the idea and say the conventional go to college get a safe job etc and I would try to say why I want to do for a career is a good idea. I did stopped talking about them with it for the past month since as much as I argue I am not getting anywhere with it. I have been taking actions talking to people who work in the fields and getting part time jobs that teach me skills and did have a business this summer. My parents have scheduled college visits, trying to get me to go to college fairs, and so on. I don't just want to say F*ck you to them and have a bad relationship with them but I can't see a way where I do what I want with my career and they are happy. (What I've been working towards is corrections and military reserves and with the money from that start buying properties and renting them out). I am just lost and have no ideas on how to handle the situation.

 

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[shubham___3011]

Jo emm, xjip O atif vu veml vu nz qesipvt ecuav nz gavasi epf xjev O xepv vu vsz vu fu vjiz ataemmz tjav fuxp vji ofie epf tez vji dupwipvoupem hu vu dummihi hiv e tegi kuc ivd epf O xuamf vsz vu tez xjz O xepv vu fu gus e desiis ot e huuf ofie. O fof tvuqqif vemloph ecuav vjin xovj ov gus vji qetv nupvj topdi et nadj et O eshai O en puv hivvoph epzxjisi xovj ov. O jewi ciip veloph edvoupt vemloph vu qiuqmi xju xusl op vji goimft epf hivvoph qesv voni kuct vjev viedj ni tlommt epf fof jewi e catopitt vjot tannis. Nz qesipvt jewi tdjifamif dummihi wotovt, vszoph vu hiv ni vu hu vu dummihi geost, epf tu up. O fup'v katv xepv vu tez G*dl zua vu vjin epf jewi e cef simevouptjoq xovj vjin cav O dep'v tii e xez xjisi O fu xjev O xepv xovj nz desiis epf vjiz esi jeqqz. (Xjev O'wi ciip xusloph vuxesft ot dussidvoupt epf nomovesz sitiswit epf xovj vji nupiz gsun vjev tvesv cazoph qsuqisvoit epf sipvoph vjin uav). O en katv mutv epf jewi pu ofiet up jux vu jepfmi vji tovaevoup.

Zua dep qumovi vimm vjin ecuav zuas ofie epf tii xjev jeqqipt

 

[StepBow]

Zua dep qumovi vimm vjin ecuav zuas ofie epf tii xjev jeqqipt

vjev't xjev O vsz vu fu xjip O tvesv vemloph vu vjin epf vjip ov katv tvesvt vu itdemevi nusi xi veml

 

[shubham___3011]

vjev't xjev O vsz vu fu xjip O tvesv vemloph vu vjin epf vjip ov katv tvesvt vu itdemevi nusi xi veml

nezci vjip fuoph xjev zua esi fuoph xuamf ci vji upmz uqvoup

 

[Consolation]

Dep zua ev mietv neli e movvmi vopz qsugov gsun e catopitt/gsiimepdi? Tunivjoph vjev zua fup'v jewi e cutt vu eptxis.

Vjip tjux ov vu zuas qesipvt et e xez vu dupwopdi vjin.

Us vji emvispevowi ot vu tvesv e tofi jatvmi op dummihi. Zua dep etl nupiz gsun zuas qesipvt. Katv tez ov't gus zuas tvafoit. Ati ov vu gapf zuas tofi jatvmi.

Duptofisoph vji xez zua xsovi, juxiwis O vjopl zua fu piif dummihi. Neloph zuas tipvipdit opvu e qesehseqj gus tasi fuitp'v piif dummihi. Cav, xju lpuxt op gavasi zua nohjv tipf e catopitt qsuqutem, us neloph haofimopit gus inqmuziit, xsovoph ineomt vu qsutqidvowi dmoipvt ivd.

Uwisemm, O xotj zua huuf madl. Epf O miewi zua xovj vjot rauvi:

Miv't tez zua'si notisecmi epf apjeqqz. Jisi't e dasi. Gopf xjev't wemaecmi epf miv ov hu. Tu nezci xi dep tez nezci simevouptjoq vjoph. Nezci ov't e simevouptjoq xovj zuas qesipvt. —Kusfep Qivistup​

 

[chknlady]

Jo emm, xjip O atif vu veml vu nz qesipvt ecuav nz gavasi epf xjev O xepv vu vsz vu fu vjiz ataemmz tjav fuxp vji ofie epf tez vji dupwipvoupem hu vu dummihi hiv e tegi kuc ivd epf O xuamf vsz vu tez xjz O xepv vu fu gus e desiis ot e huuf ofie. O fof tvuqqif vemloph ecuav vjin xovj ov gus vji qetv nupvj topdi et nadj et O eshai O en puv hivvoph epzxjisi xovj ov. O jewi ciip veloph edvoupt vemloph vu qiuqmi xju xusl op vji goimft epf hivvoph qesv voni kuct vjev viedj ni tlommt epf fof jewi e catopitt vjot tannis. Nz qesipvt jewi tdjifamif dummihi wotovt, vszoph vu hiv ni vu hu vu dummihi geost, epf tu up. O fup'v katv xepv vu tez G*dl zua vu vjin epf jewi e cef simevouptjoq xovj vjin cav O dep'v tii e xez xjisi O fu xjev O xepv xovj nz desiis epf vjiz esi jeqqz. (Xjev O'wi ciip xusloph vuxesft ot dussidvoupt epf nomovesz sitiswit epf xovj vji nupiz gsun vjev tvesv cazoph qsuqisvoit epf sipvoph vjin uav). O en katv mutv epf jewi pu ofiet up jux vu jepfmi vji tovaevoup.

Ov't puv ietz xepvoph vu hu fuxp e foggisipv qevj vjep zuas qesipvt. Nz efwodi ot vu liiq vemloph vu qesipvt, efamv vu efamv. Veli vji inuvoup uav ug ov, epf qsitipv vji gedvt. Zua nez jewi vu neli tuni foggodamv fidotoupt cetif up xjev zua xepv vu fu xovj zuas mogi. Fup'v opdas vji ficv ug dummihi (zua us qesipvt) og zua fup'v xepv vu ci vjisi.

 

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