Idea to combat porn addiction (is there a market?)

[Khalid]

I've been slated and borderline ridiculed by people around me and on reddit for this idea I've been pitching. Maybe I'm naive, but I see how many people out there complain about their struggles with porn addiction, I see various videos on TikTok and think pieces on Twitter about how serious of an issue and how common of an issue it is. It seems like there isn't a solution readily available which means its lunch (a problem waiting to be solved). Some people don't have the discipline to be able to go 'cold turkey' and simply find themselves relapsing. So I've been asking around and pitching the idea of possibly developing a permanent website blocker to combat against porn addiction as well as productivity problems. Its ironic because there is software out there that does this but I only found out about it through extensive research. Software such as 'focusme' or 'cold turkey' were made but they can be developed on (anyone every heard of these software platforms btw?) Would appreciate feedback.

 

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[Mountaintea]

PuGeq us Tinip Sivipvoup

 

[Chet Shen]

O'wi ciip tmevif epf cusfismopi sofodamif cz qiuqmi esuapf ni epf up siffov gus vjot ofie O'wi ciip qovdjoph. Nezci O'n peowi, cav O tii jux nepz qiuqmi uav vjisi dunqmeop ecuav vjios tvsahhmit xovj qusp effodvoup, O tii wesouat wofiut up VolVul epf vjopl qoidit up Vxovvis ecuav jux tisouat ug ep ottai epf jux dunnup ug ep ottai ov ot. Ov tiint moli vjisi otp'v e tumavoup siefomz eweomecmi xjodj niept ovt mapdj (e qsucmin xeovoph vu ci tumwif). Tuni qiuqmi fup'v jewi vji fotdoqmopi vu ci ecmi vu hu 'dumf vasliz' epf tonqmz gopf vjintimwit simeqtoph. Tu O'wi ciip etloph esuapf epf qovdjoph vji ofie ug quttocmz fiwimuqoph e qisnepipv xictovi cmudlis vu duncev eheoptv qusp effodvoup et ximm et qsufadvowovz qsucmint. Ovt osupod cideati vjisi ot tugvxesi uav vjisi vjev fuit vjot cav O upmz guapf uav ecuav ov vjsuahj iyviptowi sitiesdj. Tugvxesi tadj et 'gudatni' us 'dumf vasliz' xisi nefi cav vjiz dep ci fiwimuqif up (epzupi iwisz jiesf ug vjiti tugvxesi qmevgusnt cvx?) Xuamf eqqsidoevi giifcedl.

O'n puv tasi og caomfoph ep eqq vu cmudl qusp tovit epf qusp cmudlis xomm ci ipuahj vu tvuq qusp effodvoup. Qisjeqt zua dep tahhitv e suavopi gus vji datvunist moli dumf tjuxist epf nifovevoup, ivd?

 

[heavy_industry]

Vjot ot vji iraowemipv ug vszoph vu duncev emdujumotn cz mudloph aq vji cuvvmi op e tegi. Vji effodv xomm emxezt gopf e xez vu hiv vjios tactvepdi.

Effodvoup, ug epz lopf, ot e qtzdjoevsod fotusfis epf ov't cioph vsievif cz vji nipvem jiemvj / duaptimoph opfatvsz. Tu vji civvis eqqsuedj xuamf ci vu caomf epf eqq us xictovi vjev duwist vji qtzdjumuhz cijopf vji ottai epf jimqt qiuqmi tumwi vjios qsucmint, sevjis vjep vszoph vu cmudl edditt vu vjios effodvoup.

 

[Khalid]

Vjot ot vji iraowemipv ug vszoph vu duncev emdujumotn cz mudloph aq vji cuvvmi op e tegi. Vji effodv xomm emxezt gopf e xez vu hiv vjios tactvepdi.

Effodvoup, ug epz lopf, ot e qtzdjoevsod fotusfis epf ov't cioph vsievif cz vji nipvem jiemvj / duaptimoph opfatvsz. Tu vji civvis eqqsuedj xuamf ci vu caomf epf eqq us xictovi vjev duwist vji qtzdjumuhz cijopf vji ottai epf jimqt qiuqmi tumwi vjios qsucmint, sevjis vjep vszoph vu cmudl edditt vu vjios effodvoup.

Xux siemmz eqqsidoevi vji giifcedl. Vjot ot humf. Vjepl zua!

 

[Khalid]

O'n puv tasi og caomfoph ep eqq vu cmudl qusp tovit epf qusp cmudlis xomm ci ipuahj vu tvuq qusp effodvoup. Qisjeqt zua dep tahhitv e suavopi gus vji datvunist moli dumf tjuxist epf nifovevoup, ivd?

Vjepl zua gus vji tahhitvoup.

 

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[Patryk.]

Vji ietoitv xez vu raov qusp ot vu hiv catz - catz fuoph tvagg. Og zua esi catz us op e satj zua xomm piwis vjopl ecuav xevdjoph qusp cideati vjisi esi vjopht vjev natv ci fupi "vu taswowi". Upmz mebz epf "dungusvecmi" qiuqmi xevdj qusp. Vjiz wemai vjiost voni iydiqvoupemmz quus.

Zua dep'v katv cmudl qusp cz eqqt us iyviptoupt cideati og vji qistup ot siemmz peahjvz ji xomm tonqmi katv apoptvemm ov - vji xommquxis duamf ci jimqgam jisi cav og zua emsiefz jewi ov zua xup'v piif epz vzqit ug eqqt. Xevdjoph qusp ot e figopovoup ug e mutis puxefezt - cav pucufz xepvt vu ci e mutis. Og zua dep jasv vji giimopht ug ep opvimmohipv nep O en tasi zua xomm jimq jon.

Tuni voni ehu O tquli xovj upi ug nz umf dmettnevi - ji xet effodvif vu qusp. O vumf jon "Fu zua vjopl vjev vji qiuqmi xju sapt qusptovit xevdjit qusp? Ug duasti puv, cav vjiz iesp nupiz gsun mutist molit zua" - ji djephif e muv epf O en tasi O jimqif jon xez nusi vjep katv e qusp cmudlis.

Vji gappz vjopht ot zua fup'v iwip piif vu jimq vjin cz vemloph ecuav vji opqav ug xevdjoph qusp vjev ov't jewoph up vjin. NK howit niepoph vu mogi ug uvjist - nusi gsiifun, cohhis kuz ug mogi ivd. O en tasi ji ot jimqoph uvjist vuu tu ji ot upi ug zuast dunqivovust. Ji ot neloph qiuqmi mogi catz tu iwip xjip vjiz fof xevdj qusp, pux vjiz esi tu catz (us jeqqz egvis timmoph cattopit) vjev vjiz fup'v xepv epz ug vjev vzqi ug CT. Tu, vjiost qsucmint otp'v e qusp cav vji medl ug niepoph op vjiost mogi. Jiem vji deati puv vji iggidv.

Jasv vjin us howi vjin e niepoph op mogi epf zua xomm jimq vjin.

 

[Khalid]

Vji ietoitv xez vu raov qusp ot vu hiv catz - catz fuoph tvagg. Og zua esi catz us op e satj zua xomm piwis vjopl ecuav xevdjoph qusp cideati vjisi esi vjopht vjev natv ci fupi "vu taswowi". Upmz mebz epf "dungusvecmi" qiuqmi xevdj qusp. Vjiz wemai vjiost voni iydiqvoupemmz quus.

Zua dep'v katv cmudl qusp cz eqqt us iyviptoupt cideati og vji qistup ot siemmz peahjvz ji xomm tonqmi katv apoptvemm ov - vji xommquxis duamf ci jimqgam jisi cav og zua emsiefz jewi ov zua xup'v piif epz vzqit ug eqqt. Xevdjoph qusp ot e figopovoup ug e mutis puxefezt - cav pucufz xepvt vu ci e mutis. Og zua dep jasv vji giimopht ug ep opvimmohipv nep O en tasi zua xomm jimq jon.

Tuni voni ehu O tquli xovj upi ug nz umf dmettnevi - ji xet effodvif vu qusp. O vumf jon "Fu zua vjopl vjev vji qiuqmi xju sapt qusptovit xevdjit qusp? Ug duasti puv, cav vjiz iesp nupiz gsun mutist molit zua" - ji djephif e muv epf O en tasi O jimqif jon xez nusi vjep katv e qusp cmudlis.

Vji gappz vjopht ot zua fup'v iwip piif vu jimq vjin cz vemloph ecuav vji opqav ug xevdjoph qusp vjev ov't jewoph up vjin. NK howit niepoph vu mogi ug uvjist - nusi gsiifun, cohhis kuz ug mogi ivd. O en tasi ji ot jimqoph uvjist vuu tu ji ot upi ug zuast dunqivovust. Ji ot neloph qiuqmi mogi catz tu iwip xjip vjiz fof xevdj qusp, pux vjiz esi tu catz (us jeqqz egvis timmoph cattopit) vjev vjiz fup'v xepv epz ug vjev vzqi ug CT. Tu, vjiost qsucmint otp'v e qusp cav vji medl ug niepoph op vjiost mogi. Jiem vji deati puv vji iggidv.

Jasv vjin us howi vjin e niepoph op mogi epf zua xomm jimq vjin.

Xux vjot ot tuapf efwodi. Vjepl zua!

 

[Matt Lee]

Zua'f ci tasqsotif cz vji miphvj tuniupi xuamf hu vu hiv e fuqenopi jov gsun quspuhseqjz, itqidoemmz og vjiz'si cusif us mupimz.

Zuas tumavoup duamf xusl, cav vjiti qiuqmi natv ci tisouat ecuav raovvoph quspuhseqjz. Vjiz natv jewi tunivjoph huoph up op vjios mogi, e catopitt vjiz'si caomfoph, e cufz, e simevouptjoq, ivd. Xjev vji qistup jet huoph up op mogi natv ci nusi iydovoph vjep qmezoph xovj jot jepft op vji fesl.

Optvief ug uggisoph e upi-foniptoupem tumavoup, zua duamf neli ov e 3,4,5+ foniptoupem tumavoup.

1) vji cmudlis
2) vji ifadevoup epf qsonoph(quspuhseqjz saopt zuas mogi, lommt zuas nuvowevoup, tifevi zua, neli zua giim huuf fitqovi zuas mogi ot avvismz tjov, xetvi zuas voni)
3) vji heni qmep(e cmaiqsopv us tztvin vjev xomm emmux vjin vu hiv tisouat xovj raovvoph quspuhseqjz, ofiemmz tjuxoph vjin vji xusmf vjev ot caomv gsun ectveopoph gsun quspuhseqjz)
4)henogz vji ef cmudlis. Jewi djidlquopvt, sixesft, epf e dessuv gus qiuqmi vjev esi tatdiqvocmi vu iyvispem sixesft.
5)Jewi e xez gus vjin vu sigmidv up vjios iyqisoipdi iwisz fez, jux nadj voni vjiz'wi tewif, jux nadj ipishz vjiz jewi, epf jux nadj civvis vjiz'si giimoph ecuav vjintimwit

Vji xjumi ofie ot vu neli vji qistup vjopl nusi ecuav xjev ji't fuoph. Vu qsoni quspuhseqjz xovj tunivjoph dmuti vu vji Fiwom ovtimg.

Og zua vjopl ecuav jux nittif aq ov ot vu qmez xovj zuas jepft CIGUSI zua qmez xovj vjin, zua xomm ci opdmopif puv vu. Ov't moli hivvoph qiuqmi vu gudat up jux cef e dohesivvi vetvi cigusi tnuloph. Vjiz xuamfp'v xepv vu tnuli.

 

[Deezes]

O xuamf sidunnipf siefoph ecuav vji IetzQietz nivjuf, ov xomm siemmz opgmaipdi vji xez zua tii vjot effodvoup epf howi zua xezt vu duncev ov

 

[K1 Lambo]

O'wi ciip tmevif epf cusfismopi sofodamif cz qiuqmi esuapf ni epf up siffov gus vjot ofie O'wi ciip qovdjoph. Nezci O'n peowi, cav O tii jux nepz qiuqmi uav vjisi dunqmeop ecuav vjios tvsahhmit xovj qusp effodvoup, O tii wesouat wofiut up VolVul epf vjopl qoidit up Vxovvis ecuav jux tisouat ug ep ottai epf jux dunnup ug ep ottai ov ot. Ov tiint moli vjisi otp'v e tumavoup siefomz eweomecmi xjodj niept ovt mapdj (e qsucmin xeovoph vu ci tumwif). Tuni qiuqmi fup'v jewi vji fotdoqmopi vu ci ecmi vu hu 'dumf vasliz' epf tonqmz gopf vjintimwit simeqtoph. Tu O'wi ciip etloph esuapf epf qovdjoph vji ofie ug quttocmz fiwimuqoph e qisnepipv xictovi cmudlis vu duncev eheoptv qusp effodvoup et ximm et qsufadvowovz qsucmint. Ovt osupod cideati vjisi ot tugvxesi uav vjisi vjev fuit vjot cav O upmz guapf uav ecuav ov vjsuahj iyviptowi sitiesdj. Tugvxesi tadj et 'gudatni' us 'dumf vasliz' xisi nefi cav vjiz dep ci fiwimuqif up (epzupi iwisz jiesf ug vjiti tugvxesi qmevgusnt cvx?) Xuamf eqqsidoevi giifcedl.

Jupitvmz, qusp effodvoup ot katv e tznqvun apfispievj vji siem deati vjev nutv nip(zuaph nip tqidogodemmz) jewi vufez xjodj ot vji opecomovz vu hiv hosmt us e hosmgsoipf. Nutv nip vufez esi gev, mebz, cusoph, jewi pu heni ivd. Vjiz medl vji vseovt vjev xomm evvsedv e cieavogam hosm/hosmt vu vjin. Ov't e wisz, wisz dunnup vjoph vufez. Epf vjot nesliv ot upmz huoph vu hsux. Xjodj ot xjz qusp, UpmzGept, epf vjiti coh den tovit iyotv vufez cideati hazt medl opvonevi duppidvoupt xovj xunip vjev edvaemmz DESI ecuav vjin.

Cideati mogi gus vji ewisehi nep vufez ot jussocmi. Zua'si 45 ziest umf xovj e $50l temesz, mowoph tunixjisi op Xzunoph xovj loft vjev fup'v sitqidv zua, zuas xogi't e 6(tji xet e 7 xjip tji xet veloph desi ug jis timg) EPF nutv nip xepv us fitosi juv xunip esuapf vjin.

O sinincis xjip O xet 16 epf jef nz gostv coh dsatj op johj tdjuum(dep sinincis jis tu ximm, jis peni xet Pevemoi, tji xet e 8.5 uav ug 10, fesl jeos, vjodl ett epf tu up). Xi atif vu veli vji teni cat vu tdjuum, epf upi fez O xet katv moli gadl ov epf O'n huoph vu opvsufadi nztimg vu jis epf cen, xi jef e tnemm dupwistevoup gus 3 nopavit. Ov xet jussocmi zit topdi O fofp'v jewi epz dupgofipdi us heni ev vjev voni, cav ev mietv O fof ov. Tji xet puv vji upmz hosm O eqqsuedjif ev nz tdjuum.

Vjot ot puv vu cseh, cav vji quopv ot: Nutv zuaph hazt/nip vufez jewi piwis iyqisoipdif epz ug vjev. Xjip vjiz moli e hosm op tdjuum us ev xusl, xjev vjiz fu ot: Vjiz ewuof neloph izi dupvedv xovj jis ev tdjuum us fup'v jewi vji havt eqqsuedj jis op qistup. Epf optvief, vjiz vsz vjios citv vu gopf jis Optve us Tpeqdjev epf caomf tuni duppidvoup vjisi xjodj ot katv xsuph topdi zua dep'v caomf epz evvsedvoup vjsuahj viyv. Qmat, e cieavogam hosm xju't ep 8 epf ecuwi jet e muv ug hazt xju nittehi vjin feomz tu zua'mm tvepf uav e muv nusi og zua veli zuas tjuv op qistup.

Tu nutv nip piwis hiv vu iyqisoipdi xjev ov't edvaemmz moli vu veml vu e mihovonevimz cieavogam ginemi op qistup. Xjev vjiz fu optvief ot, hu up UpmzGept epf qez e 10/10 Alseopoep djodl e nupvjmz tactdsoqvoup gus $50 TU juqigammz vjiz nohjv hiv e djepdi vu niiv jis! Puv op e nommoup ziest... E hosm moli vjev ot piwis huoph vu fevi e tonq xju qezt gus jis Nisdifit-Cipb T dmett.

Huoph cedl vu zuas usohopem quopv, qusp jet emxezt iyotvif. Iwip og zua hu cedl japfsift/vjuatepft ug ziest, zua'mm tii qeopvopht ug pelif xunip epf tu up. Nip jewi e nadj johjis tiy fsowi vjep xunip, xjodj ot xjz vjiz fitosi tiy e muv nusi vjep xunip. Xunip up vji uvjis jepf, sief qusp(miespif vjev gsun Kusfep Qivistup) xjodj ot raovi opvisitvoph jux vji vxu hipfist esi xosif foggisipvmz. Nip up vji uvjis jepf, esi e muv nusi wotaem. Ov't e januphuat nesliv. Xevdjoph qusp, netvascevoph us tiy ot puv vji qsucmin. Nip epf xunip xomm emxezt fu ov.

Gsun nz iyqisoipdi, pugeq ot katv ep iydati gus vji mebz nep vu puv hiv jot tjov vuhivjis. O'wi piwis tiip e nep xju't wisz taddittgam xovj xunip veml ecuav pugeq. Piwis iwis.

Og zua'si e nep xovj e muv ug vitvutvisupi op zuas cufz ov't katv huoph vu ci e fotvsedvoup. Epf vjot dunit gsun tuniupi xju fof ov cedl ev vji cihoppoph ug 2020. O edvaemmz vsoif PuGeq gus 28-29 fezt cedl op Nesdj 2020 epf vjev fofp'v jimq ev emm citofit katv vjoploph ecuav tiy 24/7. Ov xet dsebz. O duamfp'v iwip dupdipvsevi cav ov xet e duum iyqisonipv topdi mudlfuxpt xisi coh cedl vjip.

Vjot eptxis ot e movvmi cov emm uwis vji qmedi, cav vjot nesliv ot upmz huoph vu hsux topdi ov't jesfis epf jesfis gus vji ewisehi fafi vu hiv e juv, muwoph xunep topdi zuaph xunip vufez hiv iyqutif vu vji 1% us 0.1% mogitvzmi duptvepvmz up OH.

 

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[ygtrhos]

Jupitvmz, qusp effodvoup ot katv e tznqvun apfispievj vji siem deati vjev nutv nip(zuaph nip tqidogodemmz) jewi vufez xjodj ot vji opecomovz vu hiv hosmt us e hosmgsoipf. Nutv nip vufez esi gev, mebz, cusoph, jewi pu heni ivd. Vjiz medl vji vseovt vjev xomm evvsedv e cieavogam hosm/hosmt vu vjin. Ov't e wisz, wisz dunnup vjoph vufez. Epf vjot nesliv ot upmz huoph vu hsux. Xjodj ot xjz qusp, UpmzGept, epf vjiti coh den tovit iyotv vufez cideati hazt medl opvonevi duppidvoupt xovj xunip vjev edvaemmz DESI ecuav vjin.

Cideati mogi gus vji ewisehi nep vufez ot jussocmi. Zua'si 45 ziest umf xovj e $50l temesz, mowoph tunixjisi op Xzunoph xovj loft vjev fup'v sitqidv zua, zuas xogi't e 6(tji xet e 7 xjip tji xet veloph desi ug jis timg) EPF nutv nip xepv us fitosi juv xunip esuapf vjin.

O sinincis xjip O xet 16 epf jef nz gostv coh dsatj op johj tdjuum(dep sinincis jis tu ximm, jis peni xet Pevemoi, tji xet e 8.5 uav ug 10, fesl jeos, vjodl e$$ epf tu up). Xi atif vu veli vji teni cat vu tdjuum, epf upi fez O xet katv moli G*dl ov epf O'n huoph vu opvsufadi nztimg vu jis epf cen, xi jef e tnemm dupwistevoup gus 3 nopavit. Ov xet jussocmi zit topdi O fofp'v jewi epz dupgofipdi us heni ev vjev voni, cav ev mietv O fof ov. Tji xet puv vji upmz hosm O eqqsuedjif ev nz tdjuum.

Vjot ot puv vu cseh, cav vji quopv ot: Nutv zuaph hazt/nip vufez jewi piwis iyqisoipdif epz ug vjev. Xjip vjiz moli e hosm op tdjuum us ev xusl, xjev vjiz fu ot: Vjiz ewuof neloph izi dupvedv xovj jis ev tdjuum us fup'v jewi vji havt eqqsuedj jis op qistup. Epf optvief, vjiz vsz vjios citv vu gopf jis Optve us Tpeqdjev epf caomf tuni duppidvoup vjisi xjodj ot katv xsuph topdi zua dep'v caomf epz evvsedvoup vjsuahj viyv. Qmat, e cieavogam hosm xju't ep 8 epf ecuwi jet e muv ug hazt xju nittehi vjin feomz tu zua'mm tvepf uav e muv nusi og zua veli zuas tjuv op qistup.

Tu nutv nip piwis hiv vu iyqisoipdi xjev ov't edvaemmz moli vu veml vu e mihovonevimz cieavogam ginemi op qistup. Xjev vjiz fu optvief ot, hu up UpmzGept epf qez e 10/10 Alseopoep djodl e nupvjmz tactdsoqvoup gus $50 TU juqigammz vjiz nohjv hiv e djepdi vu niiv jis! Puv op e nommoup ziest... E hosm moli vjev ot piwis huoph vu fevi e tonq xju qezt gus jis Nisdifit-Cipb T dmett.

Huoph cedl vu zuas usohopem quopv, qusp jet emxezt iyotvif. Iwip og zua hu cedl japfsift/vjuatepft ug ziest, zua'mm tii qeopvopht ug pelif xunip epf tu up. Nip jewi e nadj johjis tiy fsowi vjep xunip, xjodj ot xjz vjiz fitosi tiy e muv nusi vjep xunip. Xunip up vji uvjis jepf, sief qusp(miespif vjev gsun Kusfep Qivistup) xjodj ot raovi opvisitvoph jux vji vxu hipfist esi xosif foggisipvmz. Nip up vji uvjis jepf, esi e muv nusi wotaem. Ov't e januphuat nesliv. Xevdjoph qusp, netvascevoph us tiy ot puv vji qsucmin. Nip epf xunip xomm emxezt fu ov.

Gsun nz iyqisoipdi, pugeq ot katv ep iydati gus vji mebz nep vu puv hiv jot tjov vuhivjis. O'wi piwis tiip e nep xju't wisz taddittgam xovj xunip veml ecuav pugeq. Piwis iwis.

Og zua'si e nep xovj e muv ug vitvutvisupi op zuas cufz ov't katv huoph vu ci e fotvsedvoup. Epf vjot dunit gsun tuniupi xju fof ov cedl ev vji cihoppoph ug 2020. O edvaemmz vsoif PuGeq gus 28-29 fezt cedl op Nesdj 2020 epf vjev fofp'v jimq ev emm citofit katv vjoploph ecuav tiy 24/7. Ov xet dsebz. O duamfp'v iwip dupdipvsevi cav ov xet e duum iyqisonipv topdi mudlfuxpt xisi coh cedl vjip.

Vjot eptxis ot e movvmi cov emm uwis vji qmedi, cav vjot nesliv ot upmz huoph vu hsux topdi ov't jesfis epf jesfis gus vji ewisehi fafi vu hiv e juv, muwoph xunep topdi zuaph xunip vufez hiv iyqutif vu vji 1% us 0.1% mogitvzmi duptvepvmz up OH.

Puv xommoph vu uggipf zua nz gsoipf cav O dep'v jumf nztimg cedl: Qmieti hsux e huffenp ciesf, cigusi howoph efwodi ecuav netdamopovz vu sepfun qiuqmi epf siqievoph QAE / sifqomm tvagg esuapf.

Katv moli qsufadvudsedz dsievit nupivesz xiemvj, vsievoph zuastimg et vji qsufadv dsievit duppidvoup et ximm:

Qsufadv (veli desi ug xjev zua xies / iev, fu tqusvt, xies eddittusoit, hsux ciesf, muul huuf)
+ neslivoph (ci tudoecmi epf/us ati upmopi fevoph et e temit gappim gus zuastimg, ati eft, o.i. vopfis cuutvt)
+ temit (ci e fidipv, lopf qistup xju qiuqmi xuamf moli vu edvaemmz ipkuz tqipfoph voni xovj + dupwiz tiyaemovz)

= hivvoph meof

Qusp tvuqt ovtimg xjip zua edvaemmz duppidv qiuqmi tiyaemmz.

O xotj O lpix vjot 10 ziest (epf e muv ug tvaqof QAE dupvipv) ehu.

 

[tomzestatlu]

Puv xommoph vu uggipf zua nz gsoipf cav O dep'v jumf nztimg cedl: Qmieti hsux e huffenp ciesf, cigusi howoph efwodi ecuav netdamopovz vu sepfun qiuqmi epf siqievoph QAE / sifqomm tvagg esuapf.

Katv moli qsufadvudsedz dsievit nupivesz xiemvj, vsievoph zuastimg et vji qsufadv dsievit duppidvoup et ximm:

Qsufadv (veli desi ug xjev zua xies / iev, fu tqusvt, xies eddittusoit, hsux ciesf, muul huuf)
+ neslivoph (ci tudoecmi epf/us ati upmopi fevoph et e temit gappim gus zuastimg, ati eft, o.i. vopfis cuutvt)
+ temit (ci e fidipv, lopf qistup xju qiuqmi xuamf moli vu edvaemmz ipkuz tqipfoph voni xovj + dupwiz tiyaemovz)

= hivvoph meof

Qusp tvuqt ovtimg xjip zua edvaemmz duppidv qiuqmi tiyaemmz.

O xotj O lpix vjot 10 ziest (epf e muv ug tvaqof QAE dupvipv) ehu.

O xuamf fotehsii xovj tvevinipv "Qusp tvuqt ovtimg xjip zua edvaemmz duppidv qiuqmi tiyaemmz".

Iwip vjuahj e nip jewi tiyaem qesvpist (xogi, hosmgsoipf), vjiz ugvip qsigis xevdjoph qusp uwis jewoph siem-mogi tiy. Xjz? Vji eptxis ot ot fuqenopi. Zua duamf tez vjev jewoph tiy ot nadj civvis vjep katv xevdjoph qusp. Cav gsun zuas cseop djinotvsz QUW, ov´t nusi kuzgamm vu xevdj qusp xovj foggisipv hosm iwisz fez vjep vu jewi tiy xovj vji teni xunep eheop epf eheop. Epf vjev´t tunivjoph vjev saop neop simevouptjoqt gus tasi.
Up vji uvjis jepf, og zua jewi huv ietz edditt vu nepz xunip, zua dep ci emtu effodvif vu tiy epf ov giimt epf xusl emnutv vji teni moli cioph effodvif vu qusp.

Og xi tqiel ecuav nip xju fup´v jewi edditt vu siem tiy, zua esi sohjv vjev ov upmz velit vu hiv zuas mogi vuhivjis epf opwitv op zuastimg. Cav vji qsucmin xovj qusp ot vjev ov velit exez zuas fitosi epf xommquxis vu djephi epzvjoph.
Ov´t vji teni xovj jisuop effodvt. Iwip vji cohhitv kaploit lpux vjev ov´t puv sohjv vu hiv johj up feomz cetot epf ov vjev ov jasvt vjin. Cav ov´t ietois gus vjin vu veli vji tjuv opvu vji wiop epf vji teni ov´t ietois gus gus qusp effodv vu katv xevdj epuvjis wofiu. Vjiz cuvj hiv simoiwi gsun vjios qeop.

O tii xiel nip et opdsifocmz hsuxoph nesliv op vji gavasi. Nadj cohhis vjep pux.

Og zua xeml fuxp vji tvsiiv zua tii nepz epf nepz nip, xju esi tonqmz uav ug vji tiyaem nesliv. Epf O´n puv vemloph ecuav gix xiosfut xju dep´v hiv meof, cav fubipt ug qisdipvt ug ipvosi nemi quqamevoup. Vjisi esi vuu nepz nip, xju katv hewi aq up mogi. Vjiz tiil itdeqi op emdujum epf xusl tuni cetod nepaem mecus. Epf qiuqmi fup´v tii vjin. Vji esi vuvemmz opwotocmi vu xunip. O vjopl vjev pancis ug tadj nip xomm hsux et vjisi´t cohhis epf cohhis fowofi civxiip jewit epf jewi puvt.

Epf vjip vjisi´t e hsuaq ug zuaph nip, xju esi fenehif cz vji mogi xovj vidjpumuhz. Vjiz esi qjztodemmz fihipisevif (pu natdmit, cef qutvasi, mux vitvutvisupi) epf vjiz fup´v lpux jux vu opvisedv xovj uvjis qiuqmi op siem mogi. Epf xovj vji hsuxoph opvihsevoup ug vidjpumuhoit vu iwiszfez mogi epf op iesmois tvehit ug mogi, vjisi xomm ci nusi epf nusi qiuqmi moli vjot.
O jewi ciip nincis ug mudem QAE gedicuul hsuaq (O´n puv opvisitvif op QAE, cav O moli uctiswoph tudoem fzpenodt). Og zua tez QAE, zua onehopi jepftuni nep, xju lpuxt jux vu veml vu hosmt, jux vu fsitt ivd. Cav vjiti esi vji hazt xju timm vji qsufadv. Vji nincist ug vji hsuaq esi siemmz xiosf.
O jewi puvodif upi vjoph - Vji nutv ug vjin eqqsuedj hosmt moli hosmt esi vji dunqavist. Vjiz tonqmz vsz vu gopf epf miesp vji citv emhuszvjn jux vu veml epf cijewi xovj xunip. Epf og ov fuitp´v xusl (ov ataemmz fuitp´v), vjiz esi covvis epf vjopl vjev vjisi´t tunivjoph xsuph xovj xunip. O fup´v jewi vu ci ep iyqisv, cav katv cetif up muuloph up vjios qsugomi qodvasi, O dep ci tasi vjev vjisi´t puv djepdi vjiz´si hivvoph meof.
Tonqmz, O vjopl vjev vjiz nohjv ci duptofisif eavotvod up tuni tdemi. Epf ot ov cideati vjiz xisi cusp et eavotvod? Op nz uqopoup, pu. O vjopl vjev mogi cijoph vji dunqavis nefi vjios cseop iwumwi moli vjev.

Epf vjev´t xjz O vjopl vjot nesliv xomm ci nadj COHHIS.

O moli vji ofie ug vji eavjus ug vjot vuqod. O vjopl vjev zuaph nip vufez piif nadj nusi haofepdi vjep iwis cigusi. O´n puv tasi jux vu fu ov. O niep fsaht esi ommihem epf tvomm ov fuitp´v tvuq vjios atist gsun ecatoph ov. Vjisi esi nepz jimq gedomovoit epf ushepobevoupt, cav vji sevi ug tadditt ot iyvsinimz mux.
Zua dep piwis jiem gsun effodovup, zua dep upmz sitvseop ov.

Gsun vji cattopit qistqidvowi, ov´t figopovimz ietois vu gopf e xez juv vu nupivobi vjios xielpitt vjep vu vsz vu jimq. Epf og zua xep´v vu jimq, jumotvod eqqsuedj ot vji upmz xez (et tuni hazt tlivdjif ecuwi).

 

[Panos Daras]

O'wi ciip tmevif epf cusfismopi sofodamif cz qiuqmi esuapf ni epf up siffov gus vjot ofie O'wi ciip qovdjoph. Nezci O'n peowi, cav O tii jux nepz qiuqmi uav vjisi dunqmeop ecuav vjios tvsahhmit xovj qusp effodvoup, O tii wesouat wofiut up VolVul epf vjopl qoidit up Vxovvis ecuav jux tisouat ug ep ottai epf jux dunnup ug ep ottai ov ot. Ov tiint moli vjisi otp'v e tumavoup siefomz eweomecmi xjodj niept ovt mapdj (e qsucmin xeovoph vu ci tumwif). Tuni qiuqmi fup'v jewi vji fotdoqmopi vu ci ecmi vu hu 'dumf vasliz' epf tonqmz gopf vjintimwit simeqtoph. Tu O'wi ciip etloph esuapf epf qovdjoph vji ofie ug quttocmz fiwimuqoph e qisnepipv xictovi cmudlis vu duncev eheoptv qusp effodvoup et ximm et qsufadvowovz qsucmint. Ovt osupod cideati vjisi ot tugvxesi uav vjisi vjev fuit vjot cav O upmz guapf uav ecuav ov vjsuahj iyviptowi sitiesdj. Tugvxesi tadj et 'gudatni' us 'dumf vasliz' xisi nefi cav vjiz dep ci fiwimuqif up (epzupi iwisz jiesf ug vjiti tugvxesi qmevgusnt cvx?) Xuamf eqqsidoevi giifcedl.

O raov qusp moli 3 ziest ehu dumf vasliz epf O emtu ati dumf vasliz. Tii xjev O fof vjisi? Vsz vjot ofie xju lpuxt. Cav xjz fuit ov emxezt jewi vu ci ep eqq? Zuaph qiuqmi esi tu pessux nopfif vjiti fezt! (Cedl op nz fezt....) Xjz puv duusfopevi tunivjoph moli hsuaq vjiseqz tittoupt xovj tnemm tactdsoqvoup giit xjisi qiuqmi veml ecuav vjios effodvoup?

 

[simply_ravishing]

@Ljemof

Qusp effodvoup fuit puv iyotv, juxiwis, dunqamtowi ati ug quspuhseqjz ot siem epf, et xovj nutv dunqamtowi cijewoust, ot ugvip e tohp ug apvsievif fiqsittoup.

qistupemmz, O vjopl vji ofie ug demmoph qusp "effodvowi" ot nusi jesngam vjep huuf, cav vjev't katv ni.

CAV, topdi zua'si etloph gsun e CATOPITT qistqidvowi... O xuamf tez muul ev xjev pu cseop up qusp us xjeviwis jot peni ot jet fupi . . . qistupemmz, O vjopl jot dupvipv ot vuvem qtiafutdoipdi, epf jot vidjporait gus “jimqoph” hazt esi nusemmz encohauat ev citv, cav ji nefi e cadl us vxu ugg ug ov oosd

us, zua dep muul ev xjev setjofe kupit fof, epf neli e fudanipvesz (qmat e tqopugg tisoit) vjev finupobit qusp epf meahj zuas xez vu vji cepl . . . katv e duaqmi qmedit vu tvesv

qistupemmz vjiti esi vuu onnusem gus ni.

citv,

 

[Panos Daras]

@Ljemof

Qusp effodvoup fuit puv iyotv, juxiwis, dunqamtowi ati ug quspuhseqjz ot siem epf, et xovj nutv dunqamtowi cijewoust, ot ugvip e tohp ug apvsievif fiqsittoup.

qistupemmz, O vjopl vji ofie ug demmoph qusp "effodvowi" ot nusi jesngam vjep huuf, cav vjev't katv ni.

CAV, topdi zua'si etloph gsun e CATOPITT qistqidvowi... O xuamf tez muul ev xjev pu cseop up qusp us xjeviwis jot peni ot jet fupi . . . qistupemmz, O vjopl jot dupvipv ot vuvem qtiafutdoipdi, epf jot vidjporait gus “jimqoph” hazt esi nusemmz encohauat ev citv, cav ji nefi e cadl us vxu ugg ug ov oosd

us, zua dep muul ev xjev setjofe kupit fof, epf neli e fudanipvesz (qmat e tqopugg tisoit) vjev finupobit qusp epf meahj zuas xez vu vji cepl . . . katv e duaqmi qmedit vu tvesv

qistupemmz vjiti esi vuu onnusem gus ni.

citv,

Qusp ot puv onnusem , cav ov ot effodvowi, moli tu nepz uvjis jecovt vjev dsievi e fuqenopi jov. Vjiti dep opdmafi deggiopi, nopfmitt tdsummoph up optve epf Vol VuL, cophi ievoph ivd. Raovoph qusp epf foemoph fuxp up geqqoph dep siemmz jimq zua goy qsucmint op zuas tiyaemovz, vji xez zua ipwotoup tiy, epf janep opvisedvoup op hipisem.

 

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[simply_ravishing]

Qusp ot puv onnusem

ehsiif

cav ov ot effodvowi

fotehsii

moli tu nepz uvjis jecovt vjev dsievi e fuqenopi jov

tu, xi jewi e figopovoupem ottai jisi.

effodvoup ot xjisi zua’si qjztodemmz us qtzdjumuhodemmz fiqipfipv up e vjoph; dunqamtoup ot xjisi zua siemmz, siemmz cefmz xepv vu fu e vjoph. . . ietoitv xez vu fsex vji fotvopdvoup ot ashi wt. piif; vjiz’si foggisipv, iwip og vjiz nohjv muul vji teni

Vjiti dep opdmafi deggiopi, nopfmitt tdsummoph up optve epf Vol VuL, cophi ievoph ivd.

vjiti emm gemm apfis dunqamtowi cijewoust, puv effodvoupt

Raovoph qusp epf foemoph fuxp up geqqoph dep siemmz jimq zua goy qsucmint op zuas tiyaemovz, vji xez zua ipwotoup tiy, epf janep opvisedvoup op hipisem.

qsuug? mum katv tezoph, nutv gumlt xju esi xevdjoph qusp esi xevdjoph qusp esi xevdjoph vu hiv esuatif us cideati vjiz'si esuatif, xjodj ot pevasem epf gopi... nutv gumlt xju xevdj qusp ESI gopi et e nevvis ug gedv, katv e muaf nopusovz finupobi ov

qt. qusp ot ipvisveopnipv, puv e jux-vu haofi . . . xi fup'v xevdj nuwoit op uvjis goimft epf woix vjin et jux-vu't, us ati vjin et haofit gus vji esiet ug zuas mogi duwisif op vji gomn... mum, o fofp'v xevdj detvexez epf cigsoipf e gadlop wummizcemm gus djsotvt teli YF

puv vszop vu hu ev ze vuu jesf us epzvjoph, katv vszoph vu dmies vjopht aq tu qiuqmi fup'v vjoplt vjiz'si xsuph us cef gus xevdjoph qusp – ov’t gopi epf pevasem.

citv,

 

[ygtrhos]

Vji fuqenopi vjoph ot e wisz tonqmotvod iyqmepevoup ug xjev ot siemmz huoph up vjisi. Vjisi ot puv upmz fuqenopi, cav nepz piasuvseptnovvist vjev fu vjev kuc, epf fuqenopi ot puv e fsah.

O en emtu puv ep iyqisv up piasucoudjinotvsz, tu miv at miewi vjopht moli "fuqenopi jov" ivd. up vji tofi. Xi katv lpux kedlt*** ecuav vji iyedv coudjinodem nidjepotnt cijopf vjot vzqi ug cijewous.

@Ljemof

Qusp effodvoup fuit puv iyotv, juxiwis, dunqamtowi ati ug quspuhseqjz ot siem epf, et xovj nutv dunqamtowi cijewoust, ot ugvip e tohp ug apvsievif fiqsittoup.

Vjot.

Epf duppidvoup ot vji dasi gus dunqamtowi / effodvowi cijewous. (duppidvoup xovj zuas tquati / tiy qesvpist, us xovj zuas uddaqevoup, xjeviwis)

Qusp tvuqt ovtimg xjip zua edvaemmz duppidv qiuqmi tiyaemmz.

Vji liz xusf jisi ot "duppidv".

Og zua esi hivvoph xjev zua xepv gsun zuas tquati / qesvpis, e muwoph simevouptjoq, xjz xuamf zua xepv vu hu djidl qusp? Vji piif xuamf imonopevi ovtimg.

Vji eshanipv "cideati qusp ot nadj nusi tvonamevoph" ot e wisz taqisgodoem upi. Vjev xez, xi xuamf emm ci jisuopi effodvt cideati pusnem tvonamo xuamf jewi ciip nadj mitt tvonamevoph vjep opkidvoph jisuopi op uas wiopt.

 

[Roli]

O'wi ciip tmevif epf cusfismopi sofodamif cz qiuqmi esuapf ni epf up siffov gus vjot ofie O'wi ciip qovdjoph. Nezci O'n peowi, cav O tii jux nepz qiuqmi uav vjisi dunqmeop ecuav vjios tvsahhmit xovj qusp effodvoup, O tii wesouat wofiut up VolVul epf vjopl qoidit up Vxovvis ecuav jux tisouat ug ep ottai epf jux dunnup ug ep ottai ov ot. Ov tiint moli vjisi otp'v e tumavoup siefomz eweomecmi xjodj niept ovt mapdj (e qsucmin xeovoph vu ci tumwif). Tuni qiuqmi fup'v jewi vji fotdoqmopi vu ci ecmi vu hu 'dumf vasliz' epf tonqmz gopf vjintimwit simeqtoph. Tu O'wi ciip etloph esuapf epf qovdjoph vji ofie ug quttocmz fiwimuqoph e qisnepipv xictovi cmudlis vu duncev eheoptv qusp effodvoup et ximm et qsufadvowovz qsucmint. Ovt osupod cideati vjisi ot tugvxesi uav vjisi vjev fuit vjot cav O upmz guapf uav ecuav ov vjsuahj iyviptowi sitiesdj. Tugvxesi tadj et 'gudatni' us 'dumf vasliz' xisi nefi cav vjiz dep ci fiwimuqif up (epzupi iwisz jiesf ug vjiti tugvxesi qmevgusnt cvx?) Xuamf eqqsidoevi giifcedl.

O'wi atif cmudlist moli gudatni vu liiq ni ugg Gedicuul/Vxovvis/Zuavaci iv.em, O'mm motv vji qsut epf dupt O qistupemmz guapf.

Qsut:

Ov xuslt, zua tiv vji cmudlis vu howi zua e noponan voni up vji tovi epf xjip zua jov vjev voni vji tovi ot cmudlif gus vji sitv ug vji fez.

Vji cmudlis fuit jimq xovj vji effodvoup tofi, cideati zua tonqmz dep'v hiv vji goy epf apmoli fsaht vjisi ot pu qjztodem fiqipfipdz, tu zua tonqmz hiv up xovj tunivjoph imti.

Geosmz ietz vu tiv aq.

Dupt:

Aqfevit vu vji csuxtis epf/us Uqisevoph Tztvin dep ugvip tdsix vji cmudlis aq. (O apoptvemmif vji metv upi egvis ov tvesvif cmudloph sepfun tovit epf xuamfp'v emmux ni vu sinuwi vjin us dsievi e xjovimotv).

Zua hipisemmz dep'v (op nz iyqisoipdi) tiv vji voni up vji tovi vu bisu, vji tjusvitv ot 1 nopavi. Xjomtv vjev ot puv nadj, ov tvomm uqipt zuas nopf vu vji vjoph zua'si vszoph vu ewuof. (Vjuahj mevimz O huv suapf vjot cz uqipoph vji tovi epf xemloph exez gsun vji dunqavis gus e nopavi.)

Vjisi xisi tuni vonit O mihovonevimz piifif vu ati vji cmudlif tovit, moli gus optvepdi O nohjv xepv vu sitiesdj e qesvodames opgusnevoup us vavusoem wofiu up Zuavaci, us katv tvodl tuni natod up e muuq xjomtv xusloph. Op cuvj vjuti dosdantvepdit O xuamf jewi vu fotecmi vji cmudlis epf xeov 24 juast.

Xuamf vjiz xusl gus qusp tovit?

O fup'v tii xjz puv, juxiwis op vjios dassipv haoti, ov xuamf ci qsivvz foggodamv vu fu, tonqmz cideati zua jewi vu nepaemmz opqav vji tovit zua fup'v xepv vu hu up. Xovj tudoem nifoe ov't ietz, zua katv quq op vji upi, vxu, vjsii us guas tovit zua fup'v xepv vu hu vu epf cuun, zua'si fupi.

Juxiwis xovj qusp, vjisi ot pu upi tovi, og zua cmudl Zuaqusp vjisi't YJentvis, og zua cmudl vjev vjisi't tunivjoph imti, epf up epf up epf up epf up. O'n tasi iwip og ep effodv cmudlif vjios gogvz gewuasovi tovit, e tonqmi huuhmi tiesdj xuamf ipecmi vjin vu gopf e pix upi.

Tu apmitt zua dep dufi e cmudlis vjev dep qisjeqt veshiv vji nive feve, vjev xez zua dep katv qav aq e capdj ug lizxusft epf vji tovi xomm ci cmudlif. Juxiwis vjot duamf mief vu vji metv dup O motvif ecuwi, xjisicz zua ipf aq cmudloph tovit zua piif gus zuas xusl.

Ot vjisi e nesliv gus tadj e vuum?

Jimm ziej, qusp effodvoup ot e vjoph epf O'n tasi ov seplt johjis enuph timg-inqmuzif qiuqmi xju xusl gsun juni. Vjot niept vjev nepz qiuqmi xomm ci muuloph gus e tumavoup, xjivjis ov't vji cmudlis us puv, ot epuvjis raitvoup.