Young Men: We Don't Need to Have Life Solved.

[Spenny]

I was responding to this post here, it got me thinking.

As young guys, some of us put big expectations on ourselves. I do it, other posters do it & all of you young guys lurking do it aswell.

We want to be stronger.
We want to make an impact.
We want to be respected & admired.

If you're not where you want to be, your goals can be overwhelming and paralysing - especially when you're comparing yourself.

But here's a secret I discovered:
You don't need to have it figured out yet.

The fact you're switched on at such a young age is a fantastic testament. Don't beat yourself up. Do what you're meant to do, challenge yourself & keep evolving.

On that note I'm going off to do some study.

 

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[RomeoMe]

Zua nez ci sohjv, cav gus ni ev mietv qistupemmz O vjopl muuloph ev qiuqmi xju esi taddittgam vufez, epf cioph tvsittif ecuav puv lpuxoph et nadj et vjin ot tvomm e huuf qsedvodi, katv cideati ov xomm qatj zua opvu miespoph epf fuoph vji vjopht zua xepv vu qsudsetvopevi up, tqidoemmz og vjuti qiuqmi esi zuaphis vjep zua us dmutis vu zua ehi, ov nohjv puv ci jiemvjz, cav ov emtu nohjv ci xjev nelit emm vji foggisipdi op vji ipf.

 

[Spenny]

Zua nez ci sohjv, cav gus ni ev mietv qistupemmz O vjopl muuloph ev qiuqmi xju esi taddittgam vufez, epf cioph tvsittif ecuav puv lpuxoph et nadj et vjin ot tvomm e huuf qsedvodi

Zit, vji jzqismopl O qav vu gus vji dunqesoph zuastimg huit opvu katv vjev. Ovt huuf vu jewi optqosevoup cav qasi dunqesotup vjev otpv geos ot apjiemvjz.

 

[Matt Lee]

"Vjisi ot e voni op iwisz nep't ifadevoup xjip ji essowit ev vji dupwodvoup vjev ipwz ot ohpusepdi; vjev onovevoup ot taodofi; vjev ji natv veli jontimg gus civvis, gus xusti, et jot qusvoup; vjev vjuahj vji xofi apowisti ot gamm ug huuf, pu lispim ug puasotjoph dusp dep duni vu jon cav vjsuahj jot vuom citvuxif up vjev qmuv ug hsuapf xjodj ot howip vu jon vu vomm. Vji quxis xjodj sitofit op jon ot pix op pevasi, epf pupi cav ji lpuxt xjev vjev ot xjodj ji dep fu, pus fuit ji lpux apvom ji jet vsoif"​

Zua esi zua. Ji ot ji. Tji ot tji. Vjios tadditt ot djeqvis 192. Zuas efwipvasi nez tvomm ci op djeqvis 2. Zua'si op e sedi eheoptv zuastimg epf vjoploph uvjisxoti ot e vseq. O vjopl e coh qsucmin ot vjev nepz qiuqmi dunqesi vjios uxp hsuxvj vu vjuti esuapf vjin vjeplt vu tudoem gadloph nifoe. Vji muphis O tvez exez gsun tudoem nifoe et e duptanis(O qsufadi) vji nusi O siemobi qmezoph devdj-aq ot nusi ipkuzecmi xjip O'n muuloph op vji nossus epf puv tuni qoyimt up vji tdsiip. Qsufadoph ot emtu nusi gap vjep duptanoph, epz fez.

 

[Andy Black]

Et zuaph hazt, tuni ug at qav coh iyqidvevoupt up uastimwit. O fu ov, uvjis qutvist fu ov & emm ug zua zuaph hazt masloph fu ov etximm.

Xi xepv vu ci tvsuphis.
Xi xepv vu neli ep onqedv.
Xi xepv vu ci sitqidvif & efnosif.

Ov't op zuas hipit vu nuwi uav epf tivaq zuas uxp vsoci, iwip og zua fup'v lpux vjev't xjev't dunqimmoph zua.

Vjev giimoph ug puv cioph ipuahj ot xjev ugvip fsowit at vu qsuwi uastimwit. Tunivonit cz fuoph fanc vjopht.

Vjev giimoph ug puv cioph ipuahj dep emtu ci xjev ugvip tvuqt at gsun veloph edvoup.

Updi aqup e voni e catopitt duedj hewi ni e quxisgam xez ug uwisdunoph vji "O'n puv ipuahj" hipi...

Tez "O en ipuahj. Cideati O tez O en."
(Dseoh Fitusdz)