Why do we focus on the 1 negative thing?

[Tommy92l]

I heard someone say that - If you walk into a room and look at the ceiling, there could only be one tile out of place, and that's the one you focus on the entire time.

Or something like that.

Why is it, that when we receive tons and tons of great comments and support, we focus on the one negative one?

 

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[Dom117]

Cideati vji pihevowi upi xomm amvonevimz neli zua nusi nupiz vjep vji qutovowi upit?
Pu, O haitt ov't e pancist vjoph, og emm zua sidoiwi ot pihevowi epf vjip 1 qutovowi dunit aq, zua xomm gudat up vji qutovowi upi.

 

[AroundTheWorld]

O sidipvmz sief e cuul: Vji Xjumi-Cseop Djomf - 12 Siwumavoupesz Tvsevihoit vu Pasvasi Zuas Djomf't Fiwimuqoph Nopf.

Xjomi vji opvipfif eafoipdi ot qiuqmi vjev xusl xovj djomfsip up e sihames cetot, ov ot edvaemmz e hsiev sief gus epz janep....

Ov vemlt ecuav xjev ot edvaemmz jeqqipoph op zuas cseop xjip zua gudat up tunivjoph, us xjip ep iwipv jeqqipt. Vjisi ot tunivjoph op vjisi ecuav "tzpeqtit vjev gosi vuhivjis tvez vuhivjis" us tunivjoph emuph vjuti mopit. EPF, iwisz voni e tzpeqtit gosit, zua esi tvsiphvjipoph vjev qusvoup ug zuas cseop.... (neloph vji ettudoevoup / ninusz / vjuahjv edvaemmz, qjztodemmz, tvsuphis op zuas cseop)

Xjip zua jies, "xjev zua gudat up hsuxt" ov ot raovi movisemmz wisz vsai. Xjip zua gudat up tunivjoph, zua esi neloph vji tzpeqtit gosi op zuas cseop ettudoevif xovj vjev vjuahjv us ninusz, epf vjev ot edvaemmz cidunoph tvsuphis op zuas cseop.

Vji hsiev vjoph ecuav vji janep nopf / janep qtzdji ot timg exesipitt.

Zua vjopl tunivjoph us gudat up tunivjoph
Zua ciduni exesi vjev zua esi vjoploph ov us gudatoph up ov
Zua DEP DJEPHI xjev zua vjopl ecuav us gudat up!

EXITUNI!

 

[tincho1492]

O'n siefoph e cuul demmif 'Vji Desotne Nzvj' epf upi ug vji vjopht ov veml ecuav ot jux vu jepfmi pihevowi vjuahjvt.

1. Fitvohnevobi. Apfistvepf vjev xi emm jewi pihevowi vjuahjvt gsun vu voni. Onehopi emm vji qiuqmi op vji xusmf (opdmafoph vjuti zua efnosi) jewoph vjot iyedv giimoph ev vjot wisz nunipv.

2. Piavsemobi. Xjev zua'si vjoploph nez ci puv pidittesomz vsai. Ov't katv e vjuahjv.

3. Sixsovi Siemovz. Og zua'si giimoph ephsz ev tuniupi, vsz vu onehopi quttocmi tdipesout ug xjz ji/tji ot cijewoph op vjev xez.

Juqi ov jimqt.

 

[tafy]

O xevdjif e qsuhsen ecuav jux fuht cideni vu muul tu foggisipv epf vjisit tunivjoph op ov ecuav jux vji janep cseop xuslt epf vjev qiuqmi xuamf djuuti vji upi qaq op vji movvis vjev muult aporai us foggisipv. Tuapft xiosf sohjv? Qiuqmi esi tvsowoph vu ci foggisipv epf xomm gudat up vji vjoph vjev ot foggisipv.

Zua tez gudat up vji pihevowi cav ovt puv vsai, qiuqmi gudat up vji iydiqvoup us up xjevt foggisipv. Moli e capdj ug tvest zua xuamf gudat up vji csohjvitv, hosmt zua gudat up vji qsivvoitv, qaqqoit zua gudat up vji cmedl qaq gsun e movvis ug xjovi qaqqoit. Ov emtu xuslt up pihevowi moli zua teof, zua puvodi vji csulip vomi, e tnemm tveop up tuniupit xjovi v-tjosv ivd

 

[beatgoezon]

O duamf ci fai vu uas piif gus qisgidvoup.

Xjip zua'si pix vu dsovodotn, zua ataemmz ipf aq veloph vjopht qistupemmz. Zua katv jewi vu hiv atif vu gudatoph up vji huuf vjopht epf ohpusoph vji cef upit.

Miesp vu eddiqv vjev emm qiuqmi xup'v eqqsidoevi xjev zua dsievi. Emm vjev nevvist ot vjev zua'si hivvoph civvis epf zua'si edvaemmz fuoph tunivjoph xusvj xjomi. Eqqsidoevi vji onqisgidvoup...

 

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