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Just take this to heart:I will do BJJ first for at least 6 months to a year before beginning the other. Maybe I'll change my mind about boxing by then who knows. But definitely sticking with BJJ.
BJJ is a great sport to do, but that's all it is, a sport.Do not use any of this in self defense.
I've been around quite a bit of fights, due to my line of work, and everytime someone from MMA or BJJ enters a fight they end up in hospital unless being saved by bouncers or local authorities. no exceptions. This is simply since of the way they train, they focus too much on the 1 vs 1 and do not spend time practicing sparring vs multiple opponents. (Going to the floor means you lost a fight. as there are always friends of the person around that will kick you in the head while you're trying to grapple or tackle that person that you're fighitng. standing up and controlling your enviroment is the way to go in an actual fight. BJJ and MMA do a terrible job at stand up fighting.)
Now this might mean that the schools in my surroundings for MMA and BJJ are bad, but that's not the case, as I work globally. (I've been everywhere except for south-america and mainland asia) My main country, the netherlands, is known for it's fighting culture. pretty much everyone and their mum's know at least kickboxing, boxing, or muay thai.
p.s. as for fights, I do not know how many fights I've witnessed (Must be in the hundreds.) I've been in almost 70 street fights in a period of 1.5 years myself.
And learned one thing: Fights are dirty, cheap and involve 95 out of the 100 times multiple persons. and 7 out of the 10 times a weapon of some sort.
So if you do want to practice for self defense, practice an art that prepares you for such events.
That's why I'm such a big fan of traditional karate for self-defense. as it has the least amount of rules (Groin shots, throat strikes are allowed, no protection other than a mouth-guard so it's either learn how to defend yourself quickly as you will get punished every time you slack on your defense.) and pretty much every training has some sort of you vs multiple and defense against weapons/fighting with short weapons in it. - this is done gradually ofcourse, a newbie will not be put in with defending against an actual knife. or been kicked /punched in the throat. My first lesson was though to protect my *ahum* lower region. second to defend against attacks in the solar plexus, thirth in the throat, fourth on the ankles.
I was lucky enough to be trained by the world champion shotokan karate(Most technical sports karate form) that trained me in the traditional karate forms, and my class was filled with people that had 10+ years experience.
If you do want a good sport to roll around and learn some fair to decent ground fighting and takedowns, BJJ is a good choice.
In the end:as a sport do whatever feels best for you, and boxing and BJJ will definately get you fit.
but don't expect that you'll become a better fighter than the average college kid that gets into barfights in the weekends with either boxing or BJJ.
(I know that there are people out there that will disagree with me, but to those: before you respond let me ask you;...How much actual fighting experience do you have outside of the ring?)
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