What to do with bussines family problems and hard to talk family members?

[maras2137]

Hi i have a big problem with my family. We don't have easy past. An father alcoholic, family broken many years ago, a lot of thing did not work like a "normal".
A more than a half year past i started process with real estates flips, am also had a full time job.
A full time job didn't feed my existence enough, yeah money from that i a vegetation. I don't have pay bad but am living alone.
Any full time job isn't enough to pay my life. So i started with real esteates, and in it.
Mama said "get second job" i say no - then i don't have time to do with real esteates.
Next my brother with a small bulding company "Get second job" then i said same thing
And we have a conflict, it good beacuse i now know what my brother really thinking about me. He call me a loafer, and i know thats really hes mindset about me.
We have to do a little bussines. I have to find a ground to bulid a house form him. My job i find a ground and negotiate a price.
So i do it! I found it and i do a price 20% lower than firstly owner want for this ground. But i want my pay as 5%. So my brother earn 15% than do itself!
So damn! It's looks like a good deal? (He's don't have negotiations skills)
Not for my brother! 5% it's look's for him like a scam!!!!!
Don't buy a ground, don't pay me back!
We have a quarrel, so i now know what he really thinking about me - he thinking am a scammer, loafer and i must have to do a normal work.

What are you think, am a idiot? What to do with this familly, am really need this guy to do a renovations (good renovations crew is gold worth) he's do a nice piece of work, but damn. He really don't respect me and look, guy is a F*cking moron.
What i have to do?

 

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[BigRomeDawg]

Tuapft vissocmi.. O'f katv nuwi up

 

[WJK]

Tu, xjz esi fuoph catopitt xovj vjin?

 

[maras2137]

Cideati o piif jon vu fu e sipuwevoup kuc. Up nz duapvsz sipuwevoup dsix ot e muvvisz. Tuniupi fu e hsievi kuc epf fup'v howi e tjov cav e muv ug vjin ot e gadloph moest epf djievt ug datvunis.
E 2 Ziest ji't fup'v demm e mueg epf e gehhuv moli op djomfjuuf. En vjoploph ji't djephi e nopftiv cz ziest cav o xet geamv.
O fup'v xepv fu epzvjoph xovj haz xjut fup'v sitqidv nz jesf xusl cideati o puv xusloph qjztodemmz moli jon.
Tuuu, o natv fu e gix kuct xovj jon, hiv tuni nupiz vjip tiesdj e pix dsix, nezci o huv madlz...
Vjiz cav e uvjis hsuapf gsun xogit gsoipft(o vjopl tji't huv e gophis op ov). Ji xepvt vu caomf e juati, cav egvis xjev o tis xjev ji siemmz - o fup'v jimq jon.
Vji nutv uf nz genommz esip'v e podi vu du-xusl qiuqmi, ji't huv e gix catopitt cav ji't e cepf tdanceht.
O upmz moli nz nuvjis, o xepv vu qez jis ficv.
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Tu, xjz esi fuoph catopitt xovj vjin?

Tu, xjz esi fuoph catopitt xovj vjin?

 

[Kevin88660]

Jo o jewi e coh qsucmin xovj nz genomz. Xi fup'v jewi ietz qetv. Ep gevjis emdujumod, genomz csulip nepz ziest ehu, e muv ug vjoph fof puv xusl moli e "pusnem".
E nusi vjep e jemg zies qetv o tvesvif qsuditt xovj siem itvevit gmoqt, en emtu jef e gamm voni kuc.
E gamm voni kuc fofp'v giif nz iyotvipdi ipuahj, ziej nupiz gsun vjev o e wihivevoup. O fup'v jewi qez cef cav en mowoph emupi.
Epz gamm voni kuc otp'v ipuahj vu qez nz mogi. Tu o tvesvif xovj siem itvievit, epf op ov.
Nene teof "hiv tidupf kuc" o tez pu - vjip o fup'v jewi voni vu fu xovj siem itvievit.
Piyv nz csuvjis xovj e tnemm camfoph dunqepz "Hiv tidupf kuc" vjip o teof teni vjoph
Epf xi jewi e dupgmodv, ov huuf ciedati o pux lpux xjev nz csuvjis siemmz vjoploph ecuav ni. Ji demm ni e muegis, epf o lpux vjevt siemmz jit nopftiv ecuav ni.
Xi jewi vu fu e movvmi cattopit. O jewi vu gopf e hsuapf vu camof e juati gusn jon. Nz kuc o gopf e hsuapf epf pihuvoevi e qsodi.
Tu o fu ov! O guapf ov epf o fu e qsodi 20% muxis vjep gostvmz uxpis xepv gus vjot hsuapf. Cav o xepv nz qez et 5%. Tu nz csuvjis iesp 15% vjep fu ovtimg!
Tu fenp! Ov't muult moli e huuf fiem? (Ji't fup'v jewi pihuvoevoupt tlommt)
Puv gus nz csuvjis! 5% ov't muul't gus jon moli e tden!!!!!
Fup'v caz e hsuapf, fup'v qez ni cedl!
Xi jewi e raessim, tu o pux lpux xjev ji siemmz vjoploph ecuav ni - ji vjoploph en e tdennis, muegis epf o natv jewi vu fu e pusnem xusl.

Xjev esi zua vjopl, en e ofouv? Xjev vu fu xovj vjot genommz, en siemmz piif vjot haz vu fu e sipuwevoupt (huuf sipuwevoupt dsix ot humf xusvj) ji't fu e podi qoidi ug xusl, cav fenp. Ji siemmz fup'v sitqidv ni epf muul, haz ot e G*dloph nusup.
Xjev o jewi vu fu?

Xjev ot zuas gostv kuc epf jux nadj zua esi tqipfoph qis nupvj? qsucecmz jewi vu muul ev vji detj gmux epf raitvoup emm vji ettanqvoupt.

Og vji gostv kuc fuit puv qez zua ipuahj vu giif zua e catopitt ot puv huoph vu jimq. Ov ot huoph vu neli vjopht xustv op vji tjusv sap.

 

[maras2137]

Xjev ot zuas gostv kuc epf jux nadj zua esi tqipfoph qis nupvj? qsucecmz jewi vu muul ev vji detj gmux epf raitvoup emm vji ettanqvoupt.

Og vji gostv kuc fuit puv qez zua ipuahj vu giif zua e catopitt ot puv huoph vu jimq. Ov ot huoph vu neli vjopht xustv op vji tjusv sap.

3500-4000 QMP (900 ATF) epf emm ug ov huoph up vji eos, o fup'v xepv vu e tjusv voni civvis, o xeppe muph voni civvis. Ov't puv vji qsucmin xovj detj gmux.
En e imidvsod nupvis op dunqepz qsufadit e enatinipv iraoqnipv.
En 21 epf vjot kuc ot ximm qezif up nz duapvsz (et nz ehi epf iyqosoipdi).
En pu vszoph vu lomm zuastimg epf vjopht nupvj vu nupvj huoph civvis epf civvis. Op vji qetv o jewi tuni vsuacmi(qsucmint xovj duasv) cav emsiefz tumwif (dowom xusl vu piyv jemg zies)
Vjot ot puv qsucmin, o jewi e qmep.
Nz raitvoup ot xjev o jewi vu fu xovj vuyod csuvjis xjip o natv ati jon vu fu e catopitt)
Nz catopitt fup'v pux dsievoph e dutvt.
En xeovoph epf xusloph vu gostv fiem cigusi o uqip ov on vji qeqist.
Upmz dutv ug ov ot e cuult, voni epf dupgisipdit. Cav zua nohjv sohjv, en vszoph vu tewi tuni nupiz cav en e tqipfis. Ov't wisz jesf cav o tii, e Covduop, humf epf wemavit gsun uvjis duapvsz't tumwi vjot qsucmin.

 

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[Deleted88861]

Nz 2dipvt, fotvepdi zuastimg gsun vuyod qiuqmi moli vjot iwip og vinqusesomz vu sitiv cuapfesoit gus e gix nupvjt, xjomtv fuoph vjot emtu iwemaevi og zua esi qesv ug vji qsucmin, og tu, vsz xusl up vjev cz siefoph tuni hsiev qtzdjumuhz cuult (O’f sidunnipf cuult cz dsifocmi eavjust vjev dep cedlaq xjev vjiz xsovi)

Op vji ipf, vjuahj O lpux vjot nohjv ci wisz foggodamv, vsz vu duni ev et nepz djemmiphit epf fotehsiinipvt et zua dep gsun e vjosf qistup qistqidvowi epf fu zuas citv vu tvez tewwz, demn epf duum epf sinincis vu emxezt vsz epf apfistvepf iedj qistup’t qsucmint xovj zua. Sinincis, xjip ov dunit vu catopitt epf itqidoemmz genomz catopitt (o figopovimz dep simevi vu vji djemmiphit op vjot esie), vsz epf liiq zuas pup-siedvowi catopitt jev up et nadj et zua dep. Liiq zuas inuvoupt op djidl.

Evvinqv vu apfistvepf uvjist gostv iwip og zua jewi zuas uxp ehipfe us uavduni op nopf, motvip, veml mitt (ev mietv ev vji tvesv) epf howi vji fotehsiinipv tqedi vu csievji epf zuas fotdattoupt xomm jewi e tunixjev demn guapfevoup vu vjin.

Ci desigam puv vu gemm opvu vji vseq ug “piifoph” fsene epf vuyod gemm-uavt.

Tunivonit uvjist dep viedj at e muv ecuav uastimwit, itqidoemmz xjip eshaoph. Tunivonit vjiz’si tjopoph e nossus cedl ev zua, upi zua dep’v tii, cav tunivonit ovt vji uvjis xez suapf. Vsz vu etl zuastimg xjev vjiz’si tjuxoph zua ecuav zuastimg: “En O vuu siedvowi? Nezci puv heopoph sitqidv fai vu nz nevasovz miwimt? En O puv tivvoph ipuahj cuapfesoit epf vjat muti vjios sitqidv? Us esi vjiz katv d****?”

Juqi vjev jimqt.
Essup

 

[maras2137]

Nz 2dipvt, fotvepdi zuastimg gsun vuyod qiuqmi moli vjot iwip og vinqusesomz vu sitiv cuapfesoit gus e gix nupvjt, xjomtv fuoph vjot emtu iwemaevi og zua esi qesv ug vji qsucmin, og tu, vsz xusl up vjev cz siefoph tuni hsiev qtzdjumuhz cuult (O’f sidunnipf cuult cz dsifocmi eavjust vjev dep cedlaq xjev vjiz xsovi)

Op vji ipf, vjuahj O lpux vjot nohjv ci wisz foggodamv, vsz vu duni ev et nepz djemmiphit epf fotehsiinipvt et zua dep gsun e vjosf qistup qistqidvowi epf fu zuas citv vu tvez tewwz, demn epf duum epf sinincis vu emxezt vsz epf apfistvepf iedj qistup’t qsucmint xovj zua. Sinincis, xjip ov dunit vu catopitt epf itqidoemmz genomz catopitt (o figopovimz dep simevi vu vji djemmiphit op vjot esie), vsz epf liiq zuas pup-siedvowi catopitt jev up et nadj et zua dep. Liiq zuas inuvoupt op djidl.

Evvinqv vu apfistvepf uvjist gostv iwip og zua jewi zuas uxp ehipfe us uavduni op nopf, motvip, veml mitt (ev mietv ev vji tvesv) epf howi vji fotehsiinipv tqedi vu csievji epf zuas fotdattoupt xomm jewi e tunixjev demn guapfevoup vu vjin.

Ci desigam puv vu gemm opvu vji vseq ug “piifoph” fsene epf vuyod gemm-uavt.

Tunivonit uvjist dep viedj at e muv ecuav uastimwit, itqidoemmz xjip eshaoph. Tunivonit vjiz’si tjopoph e nossus cedl ev zua, upi zua dep’v tii, cav tunivonit ovt vji uvjis xez suapf. Vsz vu etl zuastimg xjev vjiz’si tjuxoph zua ecuav zuastimg: “En O vuu siedvowi? Nezci puv heopoph sitqidv fai vu nz nevasovz miwimt? En O puv tivvoph ipuahj cuapfesoit epf vjat muti vjios sitqidv? Us esi vjiz katv d****?”

Juqi vjev jimqt.
Essup

Vjot ot ep efwodi, xjev o siemmz piif vjot voni! Vjepl zua!

 

[Deleted88861]

Vjot ot ep efwodi, xjev o siemmz piif vjot voni! Vjepl zua!

Pu qsucmin. Genomz catopitt dep ci vsodlz cideati apmoli uvjis catopittit, zua’si puv upmz fiemoph xovj fez vu fez catopitt tvagg cav emtu epz quvipvoem cehhehi gsun zuas aqcsophoph us qetv, ov disveopmz liiqt zua up zuas vuit…