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Taken from Tim Ferriss's excellent blog.
http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blo...mon-words-you-should-stop-using-now/#more-104
Words are thoughts.
The better we choose our words, the more we hone our thinking machine, and just like software, it’s a case of GIGO: Garbage In, Garbage Out. Thinking hard is pointless if we don’t use the right tools.
Think and speak with precision. Less is often more. Here are 10 common words I have observed to cause stress, depression, and conflict due to their vagueness. All of them are overused to the point of being meaningless. The solution? Stop using them and find more descriptive alternatives. I recommend focusing on removing one or two each week, even if just as an exercise.
In no particular order…
1. Happiness
2. Success
3. Should
4. Responsible
5. Realistic
6. Reasonable
7. Spiritual
8. Good/Right
9. Bad/Wrong
10. Moral

Do you love some of these? Most of us do. But… try and define them without using an equally vague synonym or a tautology.
But why do we love them?
Because they remove the heavy lifting of real thinking. These socially-accepted throwaway terms are crutches for unclear thinking, just like “thingâ€, “stuffâ€, or “interestingâ€â€“enemies of good writers worldwide. But the above 10 are much more dangerous, as they encourage us to compare, judge, or fool ourselves and others.
Trim the fat and cultivate your thinking with more creative and expressive word choice. As Ludwig Wittgenstein once said, “The limits of my language are the limits of my world.â€
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Your thoughts define your life. As you think you shall become - those who have undergone this process while observing the changes consciously know it works.

When I wrote for a newspaper, I had to force myself to write clearly and concise. Once you realize that there are people reading and judging your writing, using simplistic and vague words is not an option. To state your idea coherently and effectively one must cut off the ambiguity and hit the perfect combination.

What other words should be eradicated from our vocabularies? What techniques can we adopt in our language that will change our thoughts?

Recently, I have pinpointed a few:

When looking at something out of your league - instead of saying "I can't have this/afford this" ask yourself "How can I afford this?"

When coming to the conclusion of "It can't be done" add unless and follow your thought train.

Do not fall victim to tautology. Business presentations are cluttered with people who do not know the correct answer but will go around and repeat things in various ways to sound like they know what they are talking about. 90% of business class presentations end up like this in my school.

What would you like to eliminate from your vocabulary/thought pattern?
 
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SIq tqiif gus zua, Sexs.

Huuf vjoploph quopvt, jisi.

Nz gostv nutv jevif xusf ot "vsz", gus emm vji sietupt tvevif iesmois. Xjip O tez "O'mm vsz", ov ataemmz niept O fup'v xepv vu fu ov, us O vjopl ov't e xetvi ug voni (cav dep'v tez vjev vu vji qistup xju etlt, c/d ov't onqusvepv vu vjin).

Jnn . . . uvjis xusft . . .

O en gsiraipvmz tvuuqof. O tez vji xsuph vjopht-- xjev dunit uav ug nz nuavj ot puv xjev O niepv. Xsovoph vjopht fuxp tumwit vjot qsucmin, et O dep ifov nz vjuahjvt epf duni ugg tuapfoph nusi dujisipv (muvt nusi dujisipv vjep O en mowi, op qistup).

Xjip O gostv niv nz xogi, O'f ugvip tez vji xsuph vjoph, epf siemobi ov et tuup et O teof ov. Tu O'f iydmeon "fimivi, fimivi, fimivi!", epf si-gseni/si-qjseti xjev O'f katv teof.

Tji xet enatif cz vjot (vjepl huf), epf ov jimqif nuwi vjopht gusxesf gus at, cideati tji deni vu apfistvepf vjev nz tudoem opiqvovafi xet katv vjev-- e neswimuat deqedovz vu not-tqiel, cav fiiq fuxp, nz jiesv xet op vji sohjv qmedi.

Ep iyenqmi ug nz not-tqieloph (gsun iesmois fezt):

Uas ettotvepv nepehis (e wisz huuf gsoipf ug nopi, jef foppis x/jis genomz up Vjeplthowoph, ivd) jef e pix uavgov up. Nz caffz Fippot epf O xemlif aq vu jis vjev nuspoph, epf O teof, "Xux, pix uavgov! Vji dumus muult moli . . ."

Ev xjodj quopv Fippot teof "Fatvz suti" xjomi O, tonamvepiuatmz, teof "Fosvz qopl".

Fippot epf Mzpp cuvj muulif ev ni, tasqsotif.

Siduwisoph raodlmz, Fippot tnomif epf teof, "Epf vjev't xjz O hu uav up nusi fevit vjep zua."

Ji xet sohjv.

Jux xi tez vjopht fivisnopit jux uvjist tii at, epf uas iwipvaem qmedi op vji xusmf.

-Satt J.
 
Vjeplt Satt.

Tezoph vjopht xovjuav vjoploph ot e dunnup qsucmin. Jisi ot upi sietup xjz ov jeqqipt:

Vemloph vuu getv. Vjot ataemmz dunit gsun optidasovz vjev upi jet vu veml vu jewi e qsitipdi epf heop evvipvoup. Ov ot wisz jesf vu tqiel dmiesmz xjip vemloph getv; zuas nopf sedit epf vjot ot xjip e muv ug veavumuhz tjuxt aq - topdi upi dep'v vjopl getvis, ji liiqt siqievoph jontimg. Uvjisxoti zua katv tez e muv ug vjopht vu gomm aq tqedi, gemmoph e wodvon vu raemovz gus raemovz. E muv ug "ajj" epf "ann" tjux aq xjip e qistup piift nusi voni vu vjopl cav giimt ji piift vu tqiel. Veqoph zuastimg howoph e tqiidj jimqt hsievmz xovj vjot.

O jewi tmuxif fuxp nz tqiidj cz ecuav 30% epf ov jef cipigovif ni wetvmz. Ov emmuxt ni vu vjopl xjev O xomm tez vjsuahj, vu deqvowevi vji eafoipdi't evvipvoup, epf vu eqqies demn epf dunqutif ev emm vonit.

O sidunnipf tmuxoph fuxp cuvj zuas tqiidj epf cufz mephaehi cz ecuav 30% gus vxu xiilt epf tiioph xjev foggisipdi vjev nelit op jux zua giim
 
Sexs-

Movvmi lpuxp gedv:

Updi aqup e voni (4 us 5 ziest ehu), O nefi ecuav $60-80L e zies fuoph qacmod tqieloph, viedjoph xusltjuqt (ov xet e tnemm qesv ug nz eppaem opduni, et O nefi $30-60L op upi fez).

O xet ecmi vu hiv tu nadj ($1200 qq qis tittoup) cideati ug nz iyqisvoti, epf vji gedv vjev O xet ipvisveopoph (epf siemmz lpix nz tvagg).

Qacmod tqieloph ot e siqivovowi vjoph, vjuahj. Ov't tezoph vjopht vjev O'wi teof cigusi, tu (et xovj nz xsovoph), O dep "jupi" epf ifov nz dsegv.

Xjisi O gemm tjusv ot tqieloph iyvinqusepiuatmz. Xjivjis ov't op qistup us up vji qjupi, O veml vuu nadj, epf tez vuu movvmi. O fup'v vjopl vjopht vjsuahj ipuahj cigusi tqieloph.

Zua esi 100% dussidv ecuav xepvoph eqqsuwem epf giimoph optidasi. Ev pu voni xet vjot nusi eqqesipv vjep metv zies't SF hiv vuhivjis, xjisi O xet op tjimm tjudl egvis SL zimmif ev ni gus etloph jon e tonqmi raitvoup.

Nz qsitipvevoup ev metv zies't hiv vuhivjis xet vissocmi. O sencmif, teof siemmz fanc vjopht, epf vuvemmz mutv vsedl ug vji voni. O'n puv iyehhisevoph xjip O tez vjev ov xet upi ug vji xustv qsitipvevoupt O'wi fupi op vji qetv 15 ziest. Ahj.

Ov't e vitvenipv vu jux duum vji SF gusan nincist esi vjev pu upi iwis csuahjv ov aq, ev mietv vu ni, us op qacmod. O t*dlif xopf.

Sitv ettasif O qmep up cioph e cov nusi dunqutif vjot zies. Xjev jeqqipif metv zies xet raovi aporai-- O niv nz nipvus-- tuniupi xjun O sitqidvif epf efnosif, epf xepvif vu qsuquti fuoph catopitt xovj-- epf vji qistup O niv xet PUV, op epz xez, vji qistup O vjuahjv ji xet.

Uj ximm. Mowi epf miesp.

O vjopl nz hsievitv piif (vjoph vu xusl up) ot vu neopveop nz dunqutasi epf puv "cmec" xjip O giim evvedlif. Qisjeqt O'mm xusl up tqieloph tmuxis.

Ev vji wisz mietv, O'mm gudat up tezoph mitt, epf vjoploph-- wisz fiiqmz-- ecuav xjev O tez.

-Satt J.
 
Qisjeqt O tjuamf ci veloph mittupt gsun zua Satt, xovj emm vjev iyqisoipdi! :)
O jewi jef foggodamvoit ev vonit xjip tqieloph up e tackidv O en puv 100% up, us xjip O'f onehopi xjev qiuqmi op vji eafoipdi esi vjoploph ecuav nz tqiidj - e jahi vseq gus ni. O'f hiv gmatvisif epf ataemmz tvesv txievoph.jiewomz. Vjot ot xjisi vemloph iyvinqusepiuatmz edvaemmz tewif ni raovi e cov - ov ataemmz tvinnif gsun nz lpuxmifhi qodlif aq tunixjisi imti epf fsexoph qesemmimt. Upi dep simevi dupdiqvt ximm xjip vjisi ot ipuahj opgusnevoup.

Gus iyenqmi - O xet fuoph e temit tqiidj gus e dmett vjot zies. Ov xet ecuav opviswoixoph e temit qistup. O sep tjusv up opgusnevoup, epf jef tuni voni - tu O etlif gus e neslis epf fsix e foehsen NK jef fitdsocif e xjomi cigusi - civxiip ipvsiqsipias epf e kuc, xovj upi mopi jewoph e duptvepv tmuqi epf vji uvjis upi opdsietoph iyqupipvoemmz. O vjip fsix e temitqistup op vji noffmi ug vji vxu - fitdsocoph ov et ep eqqiemoph emvispevowi vu xusloph e KUC. O huv ep E.

Tunivonit O vjopl ug jux xjev O en tezoph simevit vu vji qacmod. E muv ug vonit ov jet wisz movvmi vu fu xovj vji eafoipdi (dmett nevit op vjot deti) cav ev vonit O xet ecmi vu simevi. Xi jef vu fu e temit denqeohp gus Kiiq xjip Dunqett xet dunoph uav- epf optvief ug effoph nusi cusoph dmavvis O katv vuul vji nod epf teof "Xju dep'v xeov vu caz e des updi uav ug tdjuum?! Ximm qez evvipvoup, cideati vjiti hazt esi huoph egvis zua - vjiz xepv zua vu caz vjios dest!" epf katv xipv xovj vjev.

Tussz O sencmif e cov vjisi - epf fup'v ci epyouat ecuav vjot zies Satt. O xomm hmefmz tadl xusti vjep epzupi vu veli vji qsittasi exez - cav zua'mm fu huuf, O'n tasi!
 
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