The Power of your WORDS

[Artifex]

Many times when you communicate a piece of information, whether in discussion, argument or just the usual conversations at work, home with your wife/husband, boyfriend/girlfriend, family etc. You forget about the impact that your words make. Mixed with your tonality, mood and emotions contribute to how responsive you are either positively or negatively. Take this for example:

There was a phone call not to long ago. Pertaining to a charity for kids with cancer and other illnesses. I despise answering the phone. Especially when my mother answers it and starts saying, "You speak Spanish", over the line. It annoys me because I have been conditioned to acknowledge such situations with awkward, antagonizing experiences of communication. Anyways. SO she passes me the phone. To which I already know was going to happen and am practically steaming at her because she is interrupting me. I answer and say,"What do you want?". The lady on the line begins to ask me if I am Mr. [MyLastName]. I say yes and then she begins to explain to me what her cause was. Being in my mood I politely waited for her to finish and then declined, with a semi-rude goodbye.

I know this makes me seem like an bad person. But I'm sure it has happened to almost everybody. Your caught in a mood and don't appreciate the next thing which you consider to be unfortunate. One thing leads to another and then a couple minutes later you feel like shit.

I reflected this upon the way you could communicate with clients, or just people in general. Instead of absorbing what is going on at the moment. Just let it go and figure out the best way of forming your words to reflect a positive and warm version of yourself. It's better to have a meaningful conversation then to just talk about randomness or insult someone improperly even.

I don't know. I felt like sharing the experience. I'm definitely going to take away from it and make sure that I can treat everyone in the future with a better prepared version of myself. Someone with constructive words and ideas that can be explained and delivered in the most efficient manor.

TLDR; Use meaningful words to describe your ideas rather than meaningless words that only confuse people more. Hell, I think it improved my writing in this article.

WORDS MAKE ALL THE DIFFERENCE.

Thank for taking the time to read this!!

 

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