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Stop trying to convince people what your trying to accomplish in life, take your goal, ideal, or whatever it may be and treat it like a new born child.
I realized for myself sometimes trying to convince people of how good my idea is, and not getting the the response I'm looking for, and not in the sense of someone telling me its a bad idea, and explaining why, because those are good opinions to look at, because you can find flaws in your idea and fix them to be less wrong. But I'm talking about of someone just saying blandly "Oh yeah, cool dude." Somewhere on those lines, and even though its no hard feelings, because people will never care as much as you do about your own idea, it can become energy wasting and time wasting trying to convince people.
So how I decided to deal with this is simply stop trying to CONVINCE and just take your new born "child" (Your idea or plan) and nurture it, feed it the knowledge, and work with it everyday, making sure it's growing up nice and strong, always making sure your keeping the child (your idea or plan) out of trouble and guiding it on the right path and dealing with the problems on the way. Your child (Idea or plan) will have great days and it will have bad days, but your there to make sure it gets past those days. But once your Child (Idea or plan) Is ready to go out on there own, then they will tell there own story and you wont have to convince anyone of your Childs (Plan or idea) success, because it will just show and everyone will see on there own.
I realized for myself sometimes trying to convince people of how good my idea is, and not getting the the response I'm looking for, and not in the sense of someone telling me its a bad idea, and explaining why, because those are good opinions to look at, because you can find flaws in your idea and fix them to be less wrong. But I'm talking about of someone just saying blandly "Oh yeah, cool dude." Somewhere on those lines, and even though its no hard feelings, because people will never care as much as you do about your own idea, it can become energy wasting and time wasting trying to convince people.
So how I decided to deal with this is simply stop trying to CONVINCE and just take your new born "child" (Your idea or plan) and nurture it, feed it the knowledge, and work with it everyday, making sure it's growing up nice and strong, always making sure your keeping the child (your idea or plan) out of trouble and guiding it on the right path and dealing with the problems on the way. Your child (Idea or plan) will have great days and it will have bad days, but your there to make sure it gets past those days. But once your Child (Idea or plan) Is ready to go out on there own, then they will tell there own story and you wont have to convince anyone of your Childs (Plan or idea) success, because it will just show and everyone will see on there own.
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